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作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-25 23:26 標題: 仲未有好消息, 心情好沉重, 好難過
囡囡已好叻, 她每次面試, 她都表現好好, 她說知點答所有問題. 但唔知點解, 仲係冇消息, 唔知有冇2nd interview, 心情好沉重, 好難過, 不知點算.
[ 本帖最後由 angeljojo 於 11-10-25 23:32 編輯 ]
作者: 無氣同你講 時間: 11-10-25 23:31
加油!
一日未落實, 又或者心儀既未有消息都係心緒不寧, 但無論點都要繼續行條路，或者試睇場電影。
作者: wcyin3887 時間: 11-10-25 23:35
可以做嘅野已經做晒！現在唯有叫自己放鬆D ,身子緊要ma !
作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-25 23:38
最慘阿囡覺得自己幾ok, 叫我唔好擔心, 唔知是否她見到我唔開心, 問我仲有冇學校Interview可以去, so sad!!
作者: 無氣同你講 時間: 11-10-25 23:44
原帖由 angeljojo 於 11-10-25 15:38 發表 
最慘阿囡覺得自己幾ok, 叫我唔好擔心, 唔知是否她見到我唔開心, 問我仲有冇學校Interview可以去, so sad!!
作者: Kate.Tong 時間: 11-10-25 23:48
I think Kids will discuss such at school. We should give confidence to kids that she/he is no worse than others.
I never tell my kid the results either success or fail, in case he ask me any results yet, I will just tell him that school will call the kid for 2nd interview by batch, so still have chances until next September. Always try the best is fine.
Add Oil.
作者: Cookietk 時間: 11-10-25 23:49
唔好灰心,你同囡囡都已經盡左力, 問心無愧. 而家可以做既就係放鬆心情等結果. 你囡囡既性格好似好有自信,咁已經係好難得. 佢將來無論入邊間學校都一定有方法發放自己既光彩.唔好擔心. 況且一日未知結果,一日都仲有機會!
作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-25 23:53
But I can't sleep. I hope to have a good news from DGJS la. She showed confidence after completion of 1st interview. I am so worry to get a bad news.
作者: Cookietk 時間: 11-10-26 00:03
唔好訓唔著覺啦,咁樣實在太折磨自己. I'm in the same boat, waiting for DGJS, but I tried to think of other things to relax myself. How many more schools are you waiting for results from?
作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-26 00:10
Besides DGJS, 4 間都係熱門, 機會唔知大唔大? 囡囡講到Interview questons 都好似好易, 我估大多數人都會識, 都唔知學校點揀人?
[ 本帖最後由 angeljojo 於 11-10-26 00:12 編輯 ]
作者: 莎莎莉莉 時間: 11-10-26 00:21
每個家長都會覺得自己仔女好呀.
去得呢D學校面試, 每個都係有備而來的.
你以為自己仔女叻, 但可能一山還有一山高.
現在只係入小學, 都俾自己咁大壓力,
幾時湊到個細路大?
作者: musickwong 時間: 11-10-26 00:35
我都覺得自己好就嚟go crazy.
本身工作壓力大, 小一備預工夫自己搞晒.c6, 冇幫手. 好大壓力, 揹重飛。好多嘢諗,冇offer又要煩, 到有offer又要諗要唔要放棄自行。
最近晚晚發惡夢。仲要等成個月先出自行。好累。
作者: bluefriend 時間: 11-10-26 00:58 標題: 回復 12# musickwong 的帖子
非常認同!
作者: PrincessCat 時間: 11-10-26 01:03
作者: Angelakibb 時間: 11-10-26 01:05
其實我都好少失眠的... 但呢次真係瞓唔着 .. 怕完遇期又怕冇得2ND IN ..
作者: musickwong 時間: 11-10-26 01:13
最慘就係仲要扮鬆容，唔好比亞仔同其他人壓力。好煩。
作者: LittleRoxie 時間: 11-10-26 01:34
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作者: X'mas2002 時間: 11-10-26 09:17
我都係一個"新鮮"過來人 (我個女今年小一) 我都好明白你心情, 不過, 而家先係遊戲既剛開始, 你已經搞到自己咁大壓力, 仲要俾個女知道你點樣緊張/失望添...唔好咁啦! 上天一定會安排最好既俾你!
我剛過去既暑假都好似你咁, 處於好緊張, 大壓力, 唔開心咁渡過, 因為一路都係等叩門學校消息, 結果等到開左學啦, 都係無. 都要接受現實架啦~ 而家開左學2個月, 其實而家果間又未至於我想像中咁唔好 / 叩到果間又可能未必真係咁好?! 我知道女女盡左力去考叩門試, 咁都夠啦.
而家只係小學階段既起步, 仲有漫長6年時間你大把野諗呀~ 加油! 亦希望你收到好消息啦~
作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-26 09:18 標題: 回復 1# LittleRoxie 的帖子
上帝早已預備, I know but I can't let me not thinking about my daughter's P1 issue. I am so crazy and anxious everyday. Pray and cry with no hope feeling.
作者: myac 時間: 11-10-26 09:24 標題: Put your focus right
原帖由 angeljojo 於 11-10-26 09:18 發表
上帝早已預備, I know but I can't let me not thinking about my daughter's P1 issue. I am so crazy and anxious everyday. Pray and cry with no hope feeling.
Can understand how u feel. Let's look at it from a broader perspective - good academic results do not mean sure success in life. God will take care if we trust in Him. It is really true..... our worries do not change outcome ... so do not worry but pass all our cares onto Jesus' shoulders. Accept whatever outcome and change what u can change.
I now focus on putting efforts to upgrade my daughter's music, English [eg Kumon, Read Write Inc.], Putonghua and presentation/communication skills. These efforts will benefit her directly for years to come.
Please take my words.
作者: 莎莎莉莉 時間: 11-10-26 09:28
原帖由 X'mas2002 於 11-10-26 09:17 發表
我都係一個"新鮮"過來人 (我個女今年小一) 我都好明白你心情, 不過, 而家先係遊戲既剛開始, 你已經搞到自己咁大壓力, 仲要俾個女知道你點樣緊張/失望添...唔好咁啦! 上天一定會安排最好既俾你!
我剛過去既暑假都好似 ...
唔明點解香港人太過深信一間學校好無會完全決定子女的成敗
搞到社會開始愈來愈病態
到有offers係手, 又左諗右諗, hold起晒, 等到last min才做決定....全因為無安全感, 怕做決定.....
放開點手吧~
當初我都諗住入唔到直資, 咪讀津校囉
地區津校一定差嗎? 當然不是!
有時間精力, 等子女讀到全級TOP 10, 你怕無好中學?
對我來講, 學術成就真係其次
最重要係性格eq, 加埋熱愛學習和積極生活的心
佢有呢D特質, 那怕英文普通話都唔係話叻過人, 樂器又唔精, 但懂得開心生活, 我就放心!
[ 本帖最後由 莎莎莉莉 於 11-10-26 09:30 編輯 ]
作者: gifthoney 時間: 11-10-26 09:33
Dear angeljojo,
I understand your feeling. Maybe you feel so much pressure because you have high expectation on your daughter. Try to think broader. P1 is only a very little part of life. If your daughter is smart, there will be many chances for her to excel ...... There will surely be a good school for her, and even though she is not lucky this time, she can insert to your dream school next year. There are many many chances. Don't worry. Add oil.
作者: angeljojo 時間: 11-10-26 09:38 標題: 回復 1# 莎莎莉莉 的帖子
Many thanks for everyone.
作者: c1234 時間: 11-10-26 09:57 標題: 回覆 1# angeljojo 的文章
Hi Angeljojo,
我都已經有3間失敗了！最初都百感交習，覺得自己lazy，無別人那麼谷，無cert，無比賽，無Cambridge英…這樣那樣的，但由我交自行那份表開始，就決定信神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使！記住兒女是耶和華的產業！兒女是神給我們在世的小天使！共勉！
作者: c1234 時間: 11-10-26 10:00 標題: 回復 5# myac 的帖子
Hi, myac: 好同意妳的講法！請問妳的女兒在那裡上read write inc呢？這課程好嗎？可否pm資料給我？
謝謝！
作者: 已刪除用戶 時間: 11-10-26 10:09
幾年前, 我仔考小一, 有班家長都一齊傾下
其中一個家長, 有日打電話俾我, 喊晒話好驚佢個仔一個offer都無, 好擔心好擔心
結果佢仔同我考既同一間學校, 佢有offer, 我top waitlist, 佢唔敢話我知我
(傻豬), 直到之後佢知我ok佢至敢講
佢放晒心, 但估唔到之後又有另一間都幾好既男校收, 我話, 係咪呢, 俾d credit自己個仔啦! 唔好咁早白白擔心呀, 打油
作者: jonahlee 時間: 11-10-26 10:13
Angeljojo,
I am exactly the same feeling and situation as you.
My daughter is great and she tried very best on every task.
I always felt she did very good on the interview but so far no response for 2nd interview.
I was very desparate yesterday when I kept seeing parent happily told us that their angels received the 2nd interview letter. I started to question if she is really so smart as I thought? Do I put too much pressure on her and myslef? After praying to GOD HE gave me a wisdom: you just need to love her, to nuture her with confidence and happiness rather than measured her by academic performance.
I am a bit relief today and I liked some parents said below: if she is smart and brillant she can perform very well though in common school. Now we need to build her English skill, presentation, PTH..... These are very inspiring.
Keep it up. Again, your situation is very resemble to me.
Once you have any good news pls share and I will be very happy with you. I will do it also.
Keep up all great parents. GOD will lead our way.
作者: jojoplanet 時間: 11-10-26 10:44
你地無需咁自責..我個仔都無OFFER但我一D壓力都無..因為遊戲規則唔只係睇小朋友表現..仲其他因素既...例如佢年紀屋企背景...隨緣吧..
作者: jimling502 時間: 11-10-26 11:34
Angeljojo,
我的case同你一樣,你有乖女,我有乖仔,每日心情都好差,好矛盾,仲要收埋憂慮表情,唔好被仔睇出,佢始終信心暴膨,間間都表現好好,但已3間失敗,我每日都系度唸,萬一...萬一....我要怎樣同仔講又唔會佢打擊到佢的自信心?對我來講真是內憂外患,我唔知依家我仲可以做乜?除了暗自落淚
作者: cutebear123 時間: 11-10-26 12:18
Hope "神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使". Very good.
原帖由 c1234 於 11-10-26 09:57 發表
Hi Angeljojo,
我都已經有3間失敗了！最初都百感交習，覺得自己lazy，無別人那麼谷，無cert，無比賽，無Cambridge英…這樣那樣的，但由我交自行那份表開始，就決定信神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使！記住兒女是耶和華的產業！兒女是神給我 ...
作者: jonahlee 時間: 11-10-26 13:15
I got a small good news: I received our first 2nd interview call just now.
Keep it up. GOD will lead our way.
作者: Chansautung 時間: 11-10-28 23:22
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作者: anthony010103 時間: 11-10-28 23:37
原帖由 Chansautung 於 11-10-28 23:22 發表
Please accept what your child is, even he/she is clever, smart or not, they are our kids. Do not put pressure on them, they are just 5 years old. They should deserve to have a happy childhood. Do as m ...
whenever you see their happiness or exitement from their new toys, you always wish the scene remain forever.....
作者: myac 時間: 11-10-29 00:30
原帖由 jonahlee 於 11-10-26 10:13 發表
Angeljojo,
I am exactly the same feeling and situation as you.
My daughter is great and she tried very best on every task.
I always felt she did very good on the interview but so far no response ...
My girl got an offer from EC. Finally some good news!
作者: twobirds 時間: 11-10-29 01:27
Can't sleep till now, but nothing to do except waiting, keep telling myself "平常心＂，I decide not to speak with my son anything about result of interview, as he is so confidence with his performance every interview...ha ha
作者: hialice 時間: 11-10-29 06:37
這是個理性和感性的交戰...頭腦上我知道女兒一定會有書讀, 上帝也一定有祂的祝福; 但心裡總不免擔心... 不過人生就是這樣, 見步行步, 繼續禱告~
作者: roccolamar 時間: 11-10-29 08:26
其實read write inc 是 phonics + reading，我以前個仔都有讀過類似，叫 Alphie's Lagoon Phonics and reading program。read write inc 好似係英國的，而 alphie's lagoon phonics and reading program 是美加的，4-5年前浸會都有course。其實是以 phonics 為主，reading 書的編排是加強作用，內容比較多是當下所教的發音。
我覺得如果你己讀緊phonics 又幾好就唔好轉，然後再加d類似 cambridge english 加強英文字彙或其他英文grammar或oral 會好d。因那些reading 主要是偏向在phonics加強方面，對字彙認識幫助不大。
原帖由 c1234 於 11-10-26 10:00 發表
Hi, myac: 好同意妳的講法！請問妳的女兒在那裡上read write inc呢？這課程好嗎？可否pm資料給我？ 謝謝！
作者: GIPW 時間: 11-10-29 12:53
My child took RWI. I think the course is okay as he could read a lot of words without difficulty. I am not so sure if the write part will help in the unseen as he is still in K3
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