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作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-10-29 14:20 標題: 好Down，好似跌左落深淵 ...
呢兩個星期不斷接到reject letters (細仔+大仔), 心情好似跌左落深淵咁, 自以為佢地雖然唔係top tier, 但係現在無一間收 or 2nd int, 究竟出現左 'mud' 野問題?
自已成日叫自已振作, 要以身作則, 永不放棄, 但都好難避免情緒有低落既時候 ....
作者: 媽媽仔仔 時間: 10-10-29 14:43
Don't be sad.我同你都一樣,平時個個都話我個仔好叻,佢每次面試都可以答哂啲問題,但到而家都未有學校收,早幾日我眼見咁多BK家長都收到offer letter,我一樣係好失落,所以我好明你嘅心情,但要快啲振作啦,因為我唔開心個小朋友已經感覺到,我唔想佢以為係自己做得唔好,畢竟呢個遊戲唔係我地所能控制,千萬唔好質疑自己小朋友嘅能力.
作者: YimhYimh 時間: 10-10-29 14:54
Wait. How many schools have you applied. If you apply more than 5, don't expect other person apply only 1. So, basically your sons are competing with all student. In order to get a seat, they must be at least top 20%.
Again wait. People received several offers can only accept one in final. So, there will be a lot of seats available after Feb 2011.
So, don't upset. Use your time to improve your sons for the next round.
作者: Charlotte_mom 時間: 10-10-29 14:57
前排, 有一日受左d刺激 (有個所謂專家講左d好難聽既說話), 覺得好絕望, 一路同個女做功課一路喊, 覺得佢點解咁蠢, 係咪我生d仔女都係sub-stardard, 喊住上fb o係個wall打左2句
跟住幾日, 好多人關心我, 問我咩事, 叫我無論點, 唔好咁易俾人"大"到, 要相信自己小朋友, 自己一定最清楚仔女有咩長處短處, 自己俾左幾多心機, 問心無愧就夠啦!
加油!!
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-10-29 02:20 PM 發表 
呢兩個星期不斷接到reject letters (細仔+大仔), 心情好似跌左落深淵咁, 自以為佢地雖然唔係top tier, 但係現在無一間收 or 2nd int, 究竟出現左 'mud' 野問題?
自已成日叫自已振作, 要以身作則, 永不放棄, 但都好 ...
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-10-29 15:01
樓主, 其實仲有好幾間都未出RESULT 亦未開始INTERVIEW, 唔好氣餒喎.
上個GAME, 去到開學都仲有人放位出來, 唔好咁快定輸數.
我都預左個心要併到最後. 大家努力吧.
作者: artroboy 時間: 10-10-29 15:06
千祈唔好咁...有時 smart 既小朋友都會臨場衰咗, 平時好一般 or 坐唔定既小朋友忽然臨場會變得好定 & 好...
無人知, 自問曾 in 人唔少既我....都會係睇眼緣 & 睇佢地臨場表現, even d 問答題都無一定既答案...
要一個 5 - 6 歲人仔去 interview, 佢地敢於面對個試場己經要比叻架 la. 大不少咪去大抽獎 low. 記住唔好令佢地失去信心.....我絕對唔鼓勵 d 家長同小朋友 discuss 個 result, 失望一定有, 最多咪上黎 BK 一齊呻吓.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-10-29 14:20 發表
呢兩個星期不斷接到reject letters (細仔+大仔), 心情好似跌左落深淵咁, 自以為佢地雖然唔係top tier, 但係現在無一間收 or 2nd int, 究竟出現左 'mud' 野問題?
自已成日叫自已振作, 要以身作則, 永不放棄, 但都好 ...
作者: KaHeiBaBa 時間: 10-10-29 15:07
原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-10-29 14:57 發表
前排, 有一日受左d刺激 (有個所謂專家講左d好難聽既說話), 覺得好絕望, 一路同個女做功課一路喊, 覺得佢點解咁蠢, 係咪我生d仔女都係sub-stardard, 喊住上fb o係個wall打左2句
跟住幾日, 好多人關心我, 問我咩事, ...
Charlotte_Mom，妳不嬲俾到好多 BK 家長嘅印象都好硬淨，千祈唔好俾一 D 小事影響情緒 (尤其是教緊仔女) !! 
得罪 D 講句，有時 D 所謂專家，唔識就俾佢哋嚇死，知多 D 就會俾佢哋笑死，加油呀 !! 
作者: KaHeiBaBa 時間: 10-10-29 15:08
原帖由 artroboy 於 10-10-29 15:06 發表
千祈唔好咁...有時 smart 既小朋友都會臨場衰咗, 平時好一般 or 坐唔定既小朋友忽然臨場會變得好定 & 好...
無人知, 自問曾 in 人唔少既我....都會係睇眼緣 & 睇佢地臨場表現, even d 問答題都無一定既答案...
要 ...
態度正確 !! 
作者: artroboy 時間: 10-10-29 15:13
100% agree, 越黎越覺得 d 所謂專家 make 咗 d noise 之後就算, 極不負責任....一日到黑係 d 報紙度專黎專去....有 d 所謂既 report 我無讀過果飯都講到了......好無料到
原帖由 KaHeiBaBa 於 10-10-29 15:07 發表
Charlotte_Mom，妳不嬲俾到好多 BK 家長嘅印象都好硬淨，千祈唔好俾一 D 小事影響情緒 (尤其是教緊仔女) !!
得罪 D 講句，有時 D 所謂專家，唔識就俾佢哋嚇死，知多 D 就會俾佢哋笑死，加油 ...
作者: cutekiddy 時間: 10-10-29 15:23
charlotte_mom, 知道你唔開心都有心up,因為一直以來你都幫咗大家好多.
我都好懷疑阿女有讀障,但係一路都的唔起心肝去check.有時望見佢,心想係就係蠢啲,academic有關嘅全部都唔得,但係阿女係藝術例如畫畫跳舞方面(仲有吃喝玩樂)都好好.
每個人都有自己長短處,發唔發掘到就要我地家長幫吓.我家姐成日話我個女講嘢有吳君如feel,講唔定佢第時入演藝界呢!
我睇過本書,有個幾歲小朋友比啲專家評定為輕度智障加自閉,建議佢入特殊學校.但係父母無放棄,一路用唔同方法去教小朋友,一兩年之後,小朋友終於都要入特殊學校,但係係比資優同天才讀嘅.所以你話,如果當日聽哂專家講嘅,嗰個小朋友就一世啦!
原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-10-29 14:57 發表
前排, 有一日受左d刺激 (有個所謂專家講左d好難聽既說話), 覺得好絕望, 一路同個女做功課一路喊, 覺得佢點解咁蠢, 係咪我生d仔女都係sub-stardard, 喊住上fb o係個wall打左2句
跟住幾日, 好多人關心我, 問我咩事, ...
[ 本帖最後由 cutekiddy 於 10-10-29 15:26 編輯 ]
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-10-29 15:40
I have applied more than 10 DSS/private schools (crazy, right??) for my elder son. Together with my younger son's applications, I have applied more than 20 primary schools or kindergartens.
I think this is my fault ... not much time spend on them. My elder son is quiet 'hea' ... he cannot concentrate on his homework/books, not willing to dress up by himself. If I were the interviewer, I will not give him an offer also.
I am planning to quit my job, then I can spend more time on my child. I don't expect that he can get a seat from any DSS/private school. I just hope that I can improve his attitude/personality in some way ....
原帖由 YimhYimh 於 10-10-29 14:54 發表
Wait. How many schools have you applied. If you apply more than 5, don't expect other person apply only 1. So, basically your sons are competing with all student. In order to get a seat, they must be ...
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-10-29 15:47
同你相反, 我大細B加埋都AROUND 14 間. 但係我係忽略了個細......
ADD OIL FOR THEM!!!
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 29-10-2010 03:40 PM 發表
I have applied more than 10 DSS/private schools (crazy, right??) for my elder son. Together with my younger son's applications, I have applied more than 20 primary schools or kindergartens.
I think t ...
作者: YimhYimh 時間: 10-10-29 16:05
點都好。做到問心無愧便算。
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-10-29 16:21
Charlotte_mom, 你好好呀! 成日上o黎 BK 鼓勵我o地, 但原來你都有失意既時候, 但係你總比我好, 起碼你可以慢慢觀察 or improve 你小朋友, 而我, 我要花更多時間落我個 hea 仔度 ...
其實因由今年9月開始, 我已經準時返工, 準時放工 (我估我老細唔多 like), 爭取多D時間放係佢度, 但係都係發覺唔夠時間 ...
Amyways, 好開心你而家想通左, 大家齊齊加油!!!
原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-10-29 14:57 發表
前排, 有一日受左d刺激 (有個所謂專家講左d好難聽既說話), 覺得好絕望, 一路同個女做功課一路喊, 覺得佢點解咁蠢, 係咪我生d仔女都係sub-stardard, 喊住上fb o係個wall打左2句
跟住幾日, 好多人關心我, 問我咩事, ...
作者: Ipy 時間: 10-10-29 16:22
Yes, I agree. Don't think yours kids ability is low, they could say and enjoy the process of interview is enough. Never give up! Everything will be coming better.
作者: Charlotte_mom 時間: 10-10-29 16:22
多謝各位 (我都話好多人關心我架啦
)
係呀, 事實上我自問係幾硬淨架, 所以果日俾個"專家"攪到我幾乎攬住個仔去跳橋, 你話佢D說話幾難哽
痛定思過, 我做左應做既事: 去搵支援, 仲有, 投訴果個女人:;pppp: (無人想自己個小朋友有事, 唔SUPPORT唔單止仲踩多幾腳, 好睇唔起呢D"專家"踩低人地台高自己LOR, 我唔希望下次有其他家長受傷害)
希望各位家長都係, 唔開心還唔開心, 過左就算, 積極向前望啦
原帖由 cutekiddy 於 10-10-29 03:23 PM 發表
charlotte_mom, 知道你唔開心都有心up,因為一直以來你都幫咗大家好多.
我都好懷疑阿女有讀障,但係一路都的唔起心肝去check.有時望見佢,心想係就係蠢啲,academic有關嘅全部都唔得,但係阿女係藝術例如畫畫跳舞方面(仲 ...
作者: cozymom 時間: 10-10-29 20:29 標題: 回覆 14# 2LittleMonkey 的文章
好開心見到大家係到互相支持,無論結果如何,我相信我地都盡左力,係仔女最好的爸媽...
見到全職媽媽的難處,真要講聲"全職媽媽萬歲"
作者: cpcog 時間: 10-10-29 21:57
how about applying some DSS that aren't too famous?
作者: Pessuma 時間: 10-10-29 22:32
Very, very down.... already rejected by St Paul, TSL, WKF (no answer), Ying Wah .........
作者: dk486 時間: 10-10-29 22:37
我最down 係亞仔 interview 完TSL, 佢認唔到D英文字，當然唔識造句。 我係悔無train 好個仔認字....
TSL application 當然唔成功啦！！ 我唔係好心儀 lee 間，因為佢唔係一條龍，所以佢reject我，我一D都無唔開心。
反而，亞仔唔識造句，提醒我要多D比佢認多D字。
希望，大家好快都有著落啦！
作者: ssskwan 時間: 10-10-29 23:38
你是指雙職媽媽吧? 2LittleMonkey準備由雙職媽媽轉做全職媽媽喎...我都係雙職媽媽, 死頂緊...
原帖由 cozymom 於 10-10-29 20:29 發表
好開心見到大家係到互相支持,無論結果如何,我相信我地都盡左力,係仔女最好的爸媽...
見到全職媽媽的難處,真要講聲"全職媽媽萬歲" ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-10-30 00:15
Even though DSS that are not that famous, we also failed ... today, one more failed (Ying Wa) ...
原帖由 cpcog 於 10-10-29 21:57 發表
how about applying some DSS that aren't too famous?
作者: silvia_ng 時間: 10-10-30 00:20
大家唔好失望, 唔好灰心, 邊度跌底就邊度起返身, 為小朋友積極準備。音樂椅將會於明年6月開始, 大家都要準備好呀! 加油!
作者: EstellaWong 時間: 10-10-30 10:39
我都係好 down 我無諗過原來承受唔到嘅係我.
但, 都係嗰句 我唔會因為噤樣已遷怒自己個仔.
我已經自我調節, 用另一個態度去面對.
入唔到心儀嘅學校 , 就大抽獎.
留返 , d 錢俾佢學其他嘢 或者 帶佢去多d旅行,睇多一d.
我唔會放棄 , 因為 我仲有好長 好長 嘅路同佢一齊行.
( 永遠記得 , 我每一日 拖住你隻小手 行嗰條火車路. 同你一齊等車 , 係伯伯附近食早餐 嘅情景. 仔: 媽媽 會永遠支持你 , 我哋一齊努力吧!)
作者: littlemelody 時間: 10-10-30 12:07
原帖由 EstellaWong 於 10-10-30 10:39 發表
我都係好 down 我無諗過原來承受唔到嘅係我.
但, 都係嗰句 我唔會因為噤樣已遷怒自己個仔.
我已經自我調節, 用另一個態度去面對.
入唔到心儀嘅學校 , 就大抽獎.
留返 , d 錢俾佢學其他嘢 或者 帶佢去多d旅行,睇 ...
Good attitude
作者: miffy 時間: 10-10-30 12:40
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作者: moon11395 時間: 10-10-30 13:26
剛聽完一個講座, 講者話:"乖孩子唔代表叻孩子", 我也很認同, 以前我會常要求我個女坐定定, 做老師心目中的乖孩子, 但自從我去睇過阿女一次上堂次後, 發現雖然我個女有時都會坐唔定, 有時又會反駁老師一些問題, 畫畫又冇心機.....總次之就唔係操行會攞A 那種, 但其實呢種孩子有很多點子, 思考的事物可能比只坐著吸收的多!
回望依家身邊的舊同學, 事業有成的都不是以前拿品學兼優的學生, 反而係常常上堂比老師罰企話佢上堂多咀那幾個(當然反斗唔代表懶散唔讀書)。
所以唔洗唔開心, 也唔好懷疑自己小朋友, 我朋友上年 IN 了10 間, 都只得1 間收, 你有好多同路人的!!
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-10-30 14:51
你是一個好媽媽, 睇到我眼濕濕.
我算是一個嚴母, 如果我仔仔做出來係under 佢average, 我真係鬧. 你比我有耐心.
原帖由 EstellaWong 於 10-10-30 10:39 發表
我都係好 down 我無諗過原來承受唔到嘅係我.
但, 都係嗰句 我唔會因為噤樣已遷怒自己個仔.
我已經自我調節, 用另一個態度去面對.
入唔到心儀嘅學校 , 就大抽獎.
留返 , d 錢俾佢學其他嘢 或者 帶佢去多d旅行,睇 ...
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-10-30 16:15
Sometimes I wonder, does condemnation or blaming help? My wife often stops me from yelling at my son, saying that it can't help him build up his self-confidence or good habits.
Try to identify the underlying reasons for the under-average performance and work with him on how to improve. I think your son wants a "partner" who can help him with difficulties, rather than a supervisor who only cares about results and not the process.原帖由 愚人 於 10-10-30 14:51 發表
你是一個好媽媽, 睇到我眼濕濕.
我算是一個嚴母, 如果我仔仔做出來係under 佢average, 我真係鬧. 你比我有耐心.
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-10-30 16:35
其實唔係每個小朋友有用.
我小朋友係比較鬥心強, 我鬧住教佢, 佢可以沉住氣, 唔出聲, 到學到識, 佢竟然同我講: 媽媽多謝你教識我 (依句當然我無教佢講過)
當然我好多時都讚佢, 佢輸左比賽, 佢盡左力我都會讚佢. 佢就問我幾時會再比賽. 佢好enjoy.
個個小朋友教法唔同, 我就有彈有讚. 彈就係激勵佢, 讚就係令佢有滿足. 我覺得我小朋友係比較明白事理至可以用依種方式, 所以唔係個個小朋友適用.
原帖由 thomasha 於 10-10-30 16:15 發表
Sometimes I wonder, does condemnation or blaming help? My wife often stops me from yelling at my son, saying that it can't help him build up his self-confidence or good habits.
Try to identify the u ...
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-10-30 16:45
Agreed. My son needs lots of encouragement and sometimes he criticises himself for not doing well enough.原帖由 愚人 於 10-10-30 16:35 發表
其實唔係每個小朋友有用.
我小朋友係比較鬥心強, 我鬧住教佢, 佢可以沉住氣, 唔出聲, 到學到識, 佢竟然同我講: 媽媽多謝你教識我 (依句當然我無教佢講過)
當然我好多時都讚佢, 佢輸左比賽, 佢盡左力我都會讚佢. 佢 ...
作者: bobo_ling 時間: 10-10-30 16:47
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-10-29 14:20 發表
呢兩個星期不斷接到reject letters (細仔+大仔), 心情好似跌左落深淵咁, 自以為佢地雖然唔係top tier, 但係現在無一間收 or 2nd int, 究竟出現左 'mud' 野問題?
自已成日叫自已振作, 要以身作則, 永不放棄, 但都好 ...
唉!!!!
天ar@@@@
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-10-30 17:12
Please be positive and focus on what's next rather than past events, and let me "steal" the lines of one of the great moms on BK as a reminder to all the disappointed parents here (see below).
原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-10-29 16:22 發表
希望各位家長...唔開心還唔開心, 過左就算, 積極向前望啦
作者: d2343130 時間: 10-10-30 17:55
考到邊間小學只是起步, 與其同步到升中及他/她一生人的自信自理同衛生的心態和價值觀...學校唔一定可以"全面"教到小朋友. 只可能因應"校風"去"同化"小朋友.
小朋友考唔考到DSS或私校,有時都好睇間學校要D咩人....當然家長一開始在小孩一歲起便要為他/她作準備, 否則, 點可以"以最佳姿態"去令老師/校長"刮目相看"...
小孩的童年時期是好珍貴,與其為他/她的生命小小的一刻而"費剎心思"不如和他/她一起以開心愉快的心態去經歷每個"人生陷阱"啦.
我同個仔去玩多D, 大家開心又學到生活中的"知識"....YES.
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-1 14:39
今日終於遞左封辭職信, send email (resign letter) o個一刻D眼淚係咁流出o黎 ...
而家都好! 可以專心教仔, 無論最後o個結果係點, 我都叫盡左力, 問心無愧!!!
條路漫長崎嶇, 大家好好振作, 再跟孩子踏上征途!!!
作者: i_am_winnie 時間: 10-11-1 15:03
ME TOO..................
作者: pchoi 時間: 10-11-1 15:09
x 2 寄望大抽獎!
[ 本帖最後由 pchoi 於 10-11-1 15:18 編輯 ]
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-11-1 15:22 標題: 回覆 3# 2LittleMonkey 的文章
2LittleMonkey,
如果有能力, 全職mama 可能更了解自己小朋友需要. 你2個小朋友都只係5yrs, 有大把時間可以因才施教. 唔好唔開心, 加油!
因為我上年頭生了細仔, 被迫做全職mami, 才發覺mami 親身教會深入小朋友世界, 有時覺得好辛苦, 但我都多謝小朋友帶給我的快樂.
所以, 你要開心迎接全職mami的喜悅, 繼續努力! 祝找到心儀的學校!
作者: Zhaiba 時間: 10-11-1 15:42 標題: 回覆 28# 2LittleMonkey 的文章
Your are a great parent if you sacrifice your job and I am sure things will get better immediately.
作者: olima 時間: 10-11-1 15:52
我一路喊一路睇呢個topic，原因之一是收到第四封reject letter，真係好傷。
小朋友條路真係好長，家長要做的，暫時已經做晒......
2LittleMonkey, 努力呀，要決定放棄工作做全職媽媽並唔容易，加油﹗
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 14:39 發表
今日終於遞左封辭職信, send email (resign letter) o個一刻D眼淚係咁流出o黎 ...
而家都好! 可以專心教仔, 無論最後o個結果係點, 我都叫盡左力, 問心無愧!!!
條路漫長崎嶇, 大家好好振作, 再跟孩子踏上征途!!! ...
作者: cubixluk 時間: 10-11-1 16:00
唉... 我咪一樣勁DOWN, 本來我有20 分, 點知我APPLY 間SCHOOL 轉咗校長, 改咗制, 唔 ACCEPT 我個5 分宗教分, 咁我咪仲 DOWN, 而家聽天由命, 希望有恩典, 可憐下我隻STUPID 豬仔.... 唉
作者: 2lovelykids 時間: 10-11-1 16:04
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不合作, 我感覺很無助, 沮喪, 生氣..., 多次發女兒皮氣, 試過在街上或學校前面鬧她和打她, (但我們一向關係十分好, 什少打鬧), 做咗好多唔理智嘅嘢, 令我好後悔. 我這麼愛我的孩子, 希望他們有好的教育, 為什麼我會這樣不理智, 傷害了她呢? 她只是一個5歲的小孩哦!
很明白你們現在的感受, 特別是等待的心情, 一日未知最後結果, 每一日都是難挨的. 但我們這裡每個家長都是這麼緊張孩子的教育, 相信無論他們最後入了什麼學校都不重要, 因為我們都不會放棄他們, 給他們最好的. 現在只是遊戲的開始呢, 還有11月的自行和6月的大抽獎, 暑期的叩門大執位都未開始.
我的女兒最後幸運地在6月的大抽獎入到了一間心儀的學校, 現在讀得很開心, 成績也算是中上. 相比我認識的同班同學, 兩年前曾經考到6,7間私小和直資, 現在卻讀得很吃力. 再一次証明面試表現得好的小朋友, 唔代表以後成績一定好. 面試表現唔好, 也唔等於他們的能力比人低. 他們現在年紀還少, 還有大把機會, 最緊要係大家不要放棄. 明年的今日, 你們會對下一屆的家長說著同一番說話.
作者: pianocalvin 時間: 10-11-1 16:14
多謝你嘅分享
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: maynjune 時間: 10-11-1 16:17
這個遊戲真令人沮喪
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-1 16:20
很佩服全職 mama 的耐性和愛心, 我想我而家要好好開始學習, 做個有耐性既mami, tune o下自己D心理先得 !!
p.s. 我有兩個小朋友, 一個5歲, 一個2歲, 同你D小朋友差唔多!
原帖由 愚人 於 10-11-1 15:22 發表
2LittleMonkey,
如果有能力, 全職mama 可能更了解自己小朋友需要. 你2個小朋友都只係5yrs, 有大把時間可以因才施教. 唔好唔開心, 加油!
因為我上年頭生了細仔, 被迫做全職mami, 才發覺mami 親身教會深入小朋友世界, ...
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-11-1 16:21
真係很安慰我心. TKS FOR SHARING
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 1-11-2010 04:04 PM 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: loklik451 時間: 10-11-1 16:23
2lovelykids, 多謝妳分享,確實是"肺腑之言".thanks.
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: 2boysmami 時間: 10-11-1 16:27
我都係2個小朋友, 同你一樣大小... 好有同感... 好羨慕你可以做全職媽咪, 我都好想好想... 但我無資格放棄工作.... 祝福您和你的小朋友!!!
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 16:20 發表
很佩服全職 mama 的耐性和愛心, 我想我而家要好好開始學習, 做個有耐性既mami, tune o下自己D心理先得 !!
p.s. 我有兩個小朋友, 一個5歲, 一個2歲, 同你D小朋友差唔多!
...
作者: ssdiana 時間: 10-11-1 16:31
great encouragement, we need counter examples !! do you mind to share which school your daugher is now in??
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-1 16:36
唔好喊啦! 我已經收到第6封reject letters (4封大仔細, 2封細仔) ，應該呢幾晚會收多兩封。
振作!!!! 共勉之!!!
原帖由 olima 於 10-11-1 15:52 發表
我一路喊一路睇呢個topic，原因之一是收到第四封reject letter，真係好傷。
小朋友條路真係好長，家長要做的，暫時已經做晒......
2LittleMonkey, 努力呀，要決定放棄工作做全職媽媽並唔容易，加油﹗
...
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-11-1 16:43
我又係一個5歲, 一個2歲鬆.
細既又係開始INTERVIEW K1....
我收左2封REJECT. 但打後既都冇乜信心了. 沉晒....
大家共勉. ^^
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 1-11-2010 04:36 PM 發表
唔好喊啦! 我已經收到第6封reject letters (4封大仔細, 2封細仔) ，應該呢幾晚會收多兩封。
振作!!!! 共勉之!!!
作者: 2boysmami 時間: 10-11-1 16:47
點解細佬唔讀番哥哥的幼稚園? 多數收番bor... 所以我細仔跟哥哥幼稚園, 收左la, 咁可以煩少一個ma....
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 16:36 發表
唔好喊啦! 我已經收到第6封reject letters (4封大仔細, 2封細仔) ，應該呢幾晚會收多兩封。
振作!!!! 共勉之!!!
作者: d2343130 時間: 10-11-1 16:47
問題在於dss/私校的學位供不應求.....2xxx個申請間間都只有150左右位.
如本身同學校無咩特別關聯...相信非要由0歲開始培育方有機進身300多強.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-10-29 14:20 發表
呢兩個星期不斷接到reject letters (細仔+大仔), 心情好似跌左落深淵咁, 自以為佢地雖然唔係top tier, 但係現在無一間收 or 2nd int, 究竟出現左 'mud' 野問題?
自已成日叫自已振作, 要以身作則, 永不放棄, 但都好 ...
作者: meow~meow 時間: 10-11-1 16:53
thanks for sharing...
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-11-1 16:58
今年APPLY K1 都好難呀, 因為超多人報.
我大仔讀KV, 細女我估100%冇望. 因為我細女唔係特別標青. 幸好我都交左佢本身幼兒園的K1留位費. 唔算係名校, 但係地區內都唔算太差. 都係煩小樣.
原帖由 2boysmami 於 1-11-2010 04:47 PM 發表
點解細佬唔讀番哥哥的幼稚園? 多數收番bor... 所以我細仔跟哥哥幼稚園, 收左la, 咁可以煩少一個ma....
作者: 2boysmami 時間: 10-11-1 17:05
其實黎緊8月, 我小B先入PN, 但入到PN就會直升K1... 今年無論我大細仔, 競爭都非常激烈, 真係好彩有哥哥照住, 入到哥哥的幼稚園, 否則, 就真係唔知點算... 一定煩C
AIYA, 你試下先LA, 妹妹有妹妹自己既優點, 哥哥得, 妹妹都唔差得去邊... 等你好消息!!!!
原帖由 dlmcdlcl 於 10-11-1 16:58 發表
今年APPLY K1 都好難呀, 因為超多人報.
我大仔讀KV, 細女我估100%冇望. 因為我細女唔係特別標青. 幸好我都交左佢本身幼兒園的K1留位費. 唔算係名校, 但係地區內都唔算太差. 都係煩小樣.
...
作者: DebuPegg 時間: 10-11-1 17:17
我都心情唔好... 多謝你地俾個位我發洩吓.
由生小朋友個刻, 我淨係希望佢身體健康, 開心快樂. 唔使話精英出人頭地(因為我覺得個批人, 好辛苦, 無自己生活), 做個普通人咪得囉.
所以, 我地無特別要佢學音樂班, 數學班, 面試班, 外語班... 淨係俾佢學 soccer, golf, swimming (全部都係運動)... 其餘時間, 就親子活動, 玩吓傾吓計, 食吓週圍玩
都唔知係咪因為咁, 所以... 最想佢入既心儀學校, 就連2nd interview既機會都無
跟住, 我就開始自責, 懷疑緊係咪我同爸爸既方向錯左呢 ?
好矛盾
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-1 17:17
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!
加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....
原帖由 2boysmami 於 10-11-1 16:47 發表
點解細佬唔讀番哥哥的幼稚園? 多數收番bor... 所以我細仔跟哥哥幼稚園, 收左la, 咁可以煩少一個ma....
作者: artroboy 時間: 10-11-1 17:24
唉~!!
我都 down..down...地
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-11-1 17:26
好有同感. 個心彈出一句"又如何".......
到個女, 都會盡下力幫佢報下所謂熱門既幼稚園, 得就得, 唔得都唔可惜.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 1-11-2010 05:17 PM 發表
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!
加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....
...
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-11-1 17:29
2littlemonkey,
攪錯tim.
我都係忙大仔小一interview, 細仔PN interview.
大細仔都係向讀新界英文kg, 無kv 咁大競爭.
只係覺得仔大可以出去讀小一, 就apply 市區dss.
得閒交流下啦, 做個開心的全職mama.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 16:20 發表
很佩服全職 mama 的耐性和愛心, 我想我而家要好好開始學習, 做個有耐性既mami, tune o下自己D心理先得 !!
p.s. 我有兩個小朋友, 一個5歲, 一個2歲, 同你D小朋友差唔多!
...
作者: steve666 時間: 10-11-1 17:36
感同身受，阿仔又係所謂名幼稚園。
已經收左3封 reject信，第4封今晚放工返去收
1封 2nd in 都冇.........
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 17:17 發表
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!
加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....
...
作者: Mandy2005 時間: 10-11-1 18:28
今晚我已經收第5間學校REJECT LETTER, 好沮喪...........
作者: olima 時間: 10-11-1 19:18
2LittleMonkey,
我個囝早產，大小肌弱過人，又有外斜視(已做了兩次手術，將做第三次)，手眼協調差，佢已經有training跟緊，但佢英數好，劍橋考到15個盾，但就體能差，佢曾經同我講某間直資英小要行平衡木，佢行唔晒，跌左落黎......而家考小學不單是考狀元，要全能。
我都是去年才轉全職媽媽，還有個細既，好彩只是幾個月大，可以全力搞掂阿哥先。
你懷疑小朋友專注力有問題，快d去check.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 17:17 發表
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!
加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....
...
作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-11-1 21:39
我都係呀, 其實我好想問睇唔睇家底&家庭狀況&父母職業架???
我已經衰左三間啦, 個心好灰呀......
作者: ahkeunggor 時間: 10-11-1 23:20 標題: down
i am quite down too. I am thinking if I have done something wrong during the interview time, like filling in wrong questionnaires, wearing in wrong dress codes, answering badly, so that I could not receive 2nd in letters from my ideal schools...
作者: 天MO豬媽咪 時間: 10-11-1 23:53 標題: 回覆 42# 2lovelykids 的文章
thanks for your sharing
作者: ohmama 時間: 10-11-1 23:54
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
多謝你的分享. 我也十分同意, 為迫使子女"學習"而傷害母子/女感情, 一萬個不值.
作者: 天MO豬媽咪 時間: 10-11-1 23:56
thanks for your sharing
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: VKwan 時間: 10-11-2 02:18
做父母既都唔撐住，仲有邊個會撐你地既仔女呀？！頂住呀老友
作者: motherotk 時間: 10-11-2 03:10
Add Oil!! Don't give up!!
原帖由 VKwan 於 10-11-2 02:18 發表
做父母既都唔撐住，仲有邊個會撐你地既仔女呀？！頂住呀老友
作者: motherotk 時間: 10-11-2 03:29
Your "guess only".... the reality is not that, there are lots of factors affecting the interview process. The system itself at the begining already exclude some "groups" of kids..
So do not blame yourself to create these negative energy.... keep going and there are other opportunities that are waiting for you and your kids...
Finding new perspectives on your child's education in addition to the playing of this "game"...
原帖由 ahkeunggor 於 10-11-1 23:20 發表
i am quite down too. I am thinking if I have done something wrong during the interview time, like filling in wrong questionnaires, wearing in wrong dress codes, answering badly, so that I could not re ...
作者: hov95 時間: 10-11-2 10:28
支持你們
作者: rc_ac 時間: 10-11-2 10:58
I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the painful process of applying PN and finally she was admitted to her brother's school only. Now I am busy at K1 application but I remind myself not to put too much pressure on her and myself. I will try my best but prepare for the worst. The most important thing is not to hurt the relationship with your children.
作者: beauty10 時間: 10-11-2 11:08
聽到妳以過來人身份的肺腑之言，真是令自己放鬆了很多，謝謝妳！
剛剛兒子病了一個星期，發燒了數晚，自己也患了感冒，那幾天真是身心疲乏，一方面要照顧孩子，另一面又等待著面試的結果。然而，那刻才真正發現，身體健康至為重要。希望各位媽咪要保重身子！加油呀！
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
作者: CHP 時間: 10-11-2 11:10
唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected. 真係唔知小學想收咩學生, 可能佢地睇得出小朋友性格合唔合自己學校. "夾"係最重要. 所以, 大家隨緣. interview之後, 耐心等result. 又可能抽到個大獎, 安慰獎也不錯了.
加油加油!!!
原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-11-1 21:39 發表
我都係呀, 其實我好想問睇唔睇家底&家庭狀況&父母職業架???
我已經衰左三間啦, 個心好灰呀......
作者: CHP 時間: 10-11-2 11:13
你過早擔憂了. 一步一步來. 多d同小朋友講故事, 有時反過來, 要小朋友講故事比你聽. 說話能力是首要的.
原帖由 rc_ac 於 10-11-2 10:58 發表
I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the p ...
作者: YimhYimh 時間: 10-11-2 11:18
When my child was born, I made a wish that she could be happy forever. I did not eager to apply Nursery. Thus, I did not feel the pressure. While in K1 application, I started to feel the competition and started to "correct" the path. Now, she has a few medals and a few certs. P1 application is even more cut-throat. Up to now, we had not received any firm offer from any of our targeted schools. We are nervous. We couldn't sleep either. We pray and we think again. The Lord said: I have fulfilled your wish already. She could be happy but you parent chose the other way.
Our act should be the same as our wish.
原帖由 rc_ac 於 10-11-2 10:58 發表
I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the p ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-2 11:23
olima, 唔好灰心, 每個小朋友都有自己既長處 & 短處, 你個仔 acedemic 叻, 你應該好安慰至真, 好多醫生律師都唔會係叻既運動員啦!
而家考小學, 面試時要目不斜視, 講野有信心而唔造作, 又要考體能、畫畫、處境問題、計算、英文, 對於一個5歲既小朋友, 真係唔簡單.
我地做 MAMI 既一定要為D仔女努力, 好好栽培佢, 問心無愧已足夠.
Add oil!!!
原帖由 olima 於 10-11-1 19:18 發表
2LittleMonkey,
我個囝早產，大小肌弱過人，又有外斜視(已做了兩次手術，將做第三次)，手眼協調差，佢已經有training跟緊，但佢英數好，劍橋考到15個盾，但就體能差，佢曾經同我講某間直資英小要行平衡木，佢行唔晒，跌左落黎......而家考 ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-2 11:37
"唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected." ..... 贊同
"說話能力是首要的" ... 絕對贊同
原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-2 11:10 發表
唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected. 真係唔知小學想收咩學生, 可能佢地睇得出小朋友性格合唔合自己學校. "夾"係最重要. 所以, 大家隨緣. ...
作者: CHP 時間: 10-11-2 11:52
我是過來人. 好幸運, 最後都有位伯樂收左我個囡. 幸運是突如其來, 本來打算去普通津校了.
仲有, 家長們不要以為上"說話技巧班"就可以解決, 親自教是最理想的. 親子時間是十分寶貴的.
希望幸運會突如其來探望你地! 有了間好學校, 也要讀得來, 合得來, 希望我囡囡也可以合得來啦! 讀書真係好長遠.
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-2 11:37 發表
"唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected." ..... 贊同
"說話能力是首要的" ... 絕對贊同
...
作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-11-2 12:11
原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-2 11:10 發表
唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected. 真係唔知小學想收咩學生, 可能佢地睇得出小朋友性格合唔合自己學校. "夾"係最重要. 所以, 大家隨緣. ...
thx!!! 希望在明天!!
大家加油!!! good luck!!!
作者: Charlotte_mom 時間: 10-11-2 12:25
我仔都係"問題兒童", 細個GLOBAL DELAY, 大遠視, 扁平足, 口肌弱, K3發展專注力差, 懷疑ADHD, 細個收社署信叫"弱能兒童"而家要排精神科, 聽埋D專家難聽既說話.....我地既打擊比一般家長仲要多, 未試過好難明白
我仔其實係聰明仔, 不過心散起黎, 老師的確要花多左時間o係佢身上, 我都好抱歉, 興幸佢入到間好學校有老師關顧, 做媽媽既都係想咁姐, 有人錫, 學到野, 我心足了
希望你小朋友都有愉快既校園生活, 加油!
原帖由 olima 於 10-11-1 07:18 PM 發表
2LittleMonkey,
我個囝早產，大小肌弱過人，又有外斜視(已做了兩次手術，將做第三次)，手眼協調差，佢已經有training跟緊，但佢英數好，劍橋考到15個盾，但就體能差，佢曾經同我講某間直資英小要行平衡木，佢行唔晒，跌左落黎......而家考 ...
作者: CHP 時間: 10-11-2 12:32
我囡上了小學, 以為唔洗再訓練說話技巧, 放鬆之際, 原來小學有中文說話能力評估, 你地話讀書的路是否漫長? 考小學只是一件事, 時間過了便有結果, 只是呢段時間唔知"得唔得"的心情真考起父母EQ. 家長當上了人生一課啦!
原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-2 11:37 發表
"唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected." ..... 贊同
"說話能力是首要的" ... 絕對贊同
...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-3 11:16
Charlotte_mom, 你好堅強, 我可以想像到你當時所承受既壓力, 因為我個仔K2時佢先生都講左D好難聽既說話 ....
你同 olima 都係偉大既母親, 唔怪之得歌唱仔都有得唱 ... "世上只有媽媽好, 有媽的孩子像個寶 ..."
原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-11-2 12:25 發表
我仔都係"問題兒童", 細個GLOBAL DELAY, 大遠視, 扁平足, 口肌弱, K3發展專注力差, 懷疑ADHD, 細個收社署信叫"弱能兒童"而家要排精神科, 聽埋D專家難聽既說話.....我地既打擊比一般家長仲要多, 未試過好難明白
我仔 ...
作者: 2LittleMonkey 時間: 10-11-3 11:58
謝謝您!! 你比左好多過來人既經驗比我!! 希望幸運會突如其來探望我啦!!
祝福您同你囡囡有個愉快既小學生活!!!
原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-2 11:52 發表
我是過來人. 好幸運, 最後都有位伯樂收左我個囡. 幸運是突如其來, 本來打算去普通津校了.
仲有, 家長們不要以為上"說話技巧班"就可以解決, 親自教是最理想的. 親子時間是十分寶貴的.
希望幸運會突如其來探望你 ...
作者: wasabi-cat 時間: 10-11-3 12:09
after reading the posts here, i really want to share my thoughts as well...
just like some moms, i plan for my girl from day 1 since schooling. lucky enough, she was admitted to one of the famous kinder even she was a very small girl (born in nearly end of Dec 05). she was doing well at school, and she also loves to learn. so i have also prepared a lot of activities for her after school. before joining the "P1 admission game", i am totally satisfied with our lives...
however, it is really a nightmare after the start of P1 admission process. my girl is really a shy girl who takes long time to warm up before interacting with others. so i'm always worry if she can express herself in full during the interviews. we even let her join some lessons (not P1 interview class) to train her up to express herself before strangers. however, our efforts are useless. The rejected letters from different primary schools (i received 4 already) hurt me much. i never have doubts on my girl's ability (no matter on languages or logistics, even some teachers asked me to bring her to test if she is a gifted child or not). however, i'm really surprised that none of the schools grants a 2nd round interview to her. being a mom, i'm really hurt as i've put so much effort to raise my child. finally, i did cry in front of my hubby and blame myself of giving insufficient time and effort to my girl.
btw, i'm so down that i didn't go to work in these 2 days. i dare not tell my daughter that no DSS or private schools accept her. i'm still waiting for another private school and 2 more interviews. but i do not have much hope in the coming interviews...
so far, my feeling towards the P1 admission is that
1) famous kinder is nice to have, but it's not a definite key to a famous/good primary school
2) even the child is bright in academic, the personality is also an important factor that affects the result
3) the age of the child may also be another factor which affect the chance of admission (so far, i learnt from my fds and the posts here that most of the small children did not have many offers.)
thank you for the moms here gives me some positive energy. although i cannot 100% resume my spirit at this moment, i will try my best to learn from u all to do more and better for my children during this difficult period.
i'm so happy that there are quite some moms here having 2 children at the age around 5 and 2. hope that we can continue to share the philosophy of taking care our little ones.
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作者: caa 時間: 10-11-3 12:43
Actually you should be glad that your daughter was born in Dec, as you have 1 more chance next year if you don't mind letting your daughter repeat P1. Plus you learn the experience this year and you will have 1 year for your daughter to practise talking with strangers. Some kg actually do not accept children born after Aug.
原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 10-11-3 12:15 發表
after reading the posts here, i really want to share my thoughts as well...
just like some moms, i plan for my girl from day 1 since schooling. lucky enough, she was admitted to one of the famous kin ...
作者: CHP 時間: 10-11-3 12:50
Hi all, read the news and think how lucky you are!!!! It's enough!
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作者: thomasha 時間: 10-11-3 13:05
I can't help wondering, are the schools projecting what society wants, i.e. outspoken, smart, quick-witted, bright, etc.?
Schools have their own considerations in deciding who to accept. I hate to admit this (as my child is a bit shy and reserved), but more outspoken and polite children definitely get more attention - just imagine if you face other children, you will be impressed more by these children than the quieter, shyer ones.
I am sympathetic to you. My son did not have a chance for 2nd interview of our favourite school, after which he claimed to have tried his best and was very happy about it. I am grateful that a good private school has given him an offer and 2nd interviews of 2 other schools are on the way.
Please don't blame yourself in this painful P1 admission process. Every child is unique and failure to have an offer from one of the prestigious schools only means she will have better development elsewhere. Prestigious schools may sound good to study in, but they can be a burden too from another perspective.
Maybe your daughter is destined for a happy learning process rather than the competitive and breath-taking schools. The kindergarten and P1 admission process constitute just a fraction of your daughter's life experience. Try not to over-emphasise its significance.原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 10-11-3 12:15 發表
after reading the posts here, i really want to share my thoughts as well...
just like some moms, i plan for my girl from day 1 since schooling. lucky enough, she was admitted to one of the famous kin ...
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作者: ssdiana 時間: 10-11-3 17:12
agree!!
Add Oil!!
原帖由 thomasha 於 10-11-3 13:05 發表
I can't help wondering, are the schools projecting what society wants, i.e. outspoken, smart, quick-witted, bright, etc.?
Schools have their own considerations in deciding who to accept. I hate to ...
作者: Zata 時間: 10-11-3 21:55
請各位家長不要灰心，可能有更適合的學校在後面等著你的小朋友。這是一條很漫長的道路，有人起步快，有人慢…但一步一步會走到終點。快的人不敢沾沾自喜，慢的也不要氣餒，不要懷疑自己當初的信念，小孩是很敏感的，不要嚇怕他們。
作者: BBTWIN 時間: 10-11-3 23:13
原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...
很好的分享, 非常感謝!
作者: hohowong 時間: 10-11-4 00:33 標題: 回覆 2# Zata 的文章
Hi,
Thanks for all mum's sharing and encouragement.
My son was rejected last week by a first choice school. I felt very dissapointed and depressed a few days as my husband and I paid a lot of effort. I have doubted the ability of my son. Is there anything wrong?
After read all mum's sharing and encouragement, it makes me feel much better.
Anyway, I won't give up. I will pay more attention/ time to my son. I even consider to quit my job to take care of him since I go back home at least 9:30pm daily. One day just spent one hour with him or even less.
It is my luck to read these message and hope all mum be positive to face the challenge. Hope all of you can enter your favourite schools.
Try our best!
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-11-4 00:35
I'm not a mum but I still try to brighten up the air a little bit here. :)原帖由 hohowong 於 10-11-4 00:33 發表
Hi,
Thanks for all mum's sharing and encouragement.
My son was rejected last week by a first choice school. I felt very dissapointed and depressed a few days as my husband and I paid a lot of effort ...
作者: JTLAU 時間: 10-11-4 00:43
THANKS for the sharing... sometimes during these days my focus has been placed in the wrong spot, and forget what matters most to me.
Our kids have been also going through a lot lately, let's give them big hug!
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