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標題: 呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 放低一切, 紓發心情. [打印本頁]

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 19:53 標題: 呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 放低一切, 紓發心情.

呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你地實會叫我放鬆, 不過你地都可以咩?

大家放低吓, 有咩都講吓吧.

作者: mimame 時間: 10-10-26 19:56

My daughter had 3 in a day! Followed by another one in the next early morning!

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:53 發表
呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你 ...

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 19:59

原帖由 mimame 於 10-10-26 19:56 發表
My daughter had 3 in a day! Followed by another one in the next early morning!

嘩, 你有無散晒, 聽倒都鄧你地辛苦.

而家望係有咩回報, 有咩心儀學校收.

有d家長, 仲要玩呢個遊戲一次以上, 因為唔只一個, 真係佩服得五體投地, 我真係唔會再生.

作者: evayanyan 時間: 10-10-26 20:04

原帖由 mimame 於 10-10-26 19:56 發表
My daughter had 3 in a day! Followed by another one in the next early morning!

I just talked with my friend to ventilate my feelings, my disappointment, my guilt.....It is really hard to pass throught this week, whenever I open the mail box, I have to prepare my "heart" to receive another "disappointed" result....Even worse I cannot concentrate on my work....Oh my god...

作者: goo_littlebb 時間: 10-10-26 20:10

Exactly the same feeling as mine.
My husband was even busy than me in 搵學校, 交form, doing research to collect information about different schools, one day he went to submit form under heavy rain and got wet from head to toes (except the form of course!).
Everyday just wait and wait, really felt frustrated when knowing someone have got offers, so eager and excited to receive phone call and check the mail-box but no good news, I started to ask myself "Are we that bad? My girl should be smart enough to fight for only one place. Why there's no offer and even a feedback from the schools?" We are not seeking for top schools but just some 2-tier DSS, but it was so hard to strike for a place.
We are not targetting on the Lucky draw as only got 15 marks and not living in district with well known schools.
I'm lucky and finally got an offer recently, can give up the lucky draw and take a rest.
I will have to play the game again after 3 years, as a little brother is coming, hope he can join the same schools with his sister.

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:59 發表

嘩, 你有無散晒, 聽倒都鄧你地辛苦.

而家望係有咩回報, 有咩心儀學校收.

有d家長, 仲要玩呢個遊戲一次以上, 因為唔只一個, 真係佩服得五體投地, 我真係唔會再生. ...

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 20:10

原帖由 evayanyan 於 10-10-26 20:04 發表

I just talked with my friend to ventilate my feelings, my disappointment, my guilt.....It is really hard to pass throught this week, whenever I open the mail box, I have to prepare my "heart" to rec ...

我咪又係, 某d學校話會打電話通知, 我一有電話響, 就個心都跳埋, 不過知道唔係, 又好失望, 上次音小, 我真係好遲先收信, 未收前真係神經緊張, 叫好彩最後都有offer.

有時夜晚連發夢都係發返interview, 收信.......呢吓先死, 瞓完好似無瞓咁...

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 20:17

原帖由 goo_littlebb 於 10-10-26 20:10 發表
Exactly the same feeling as mine.
My husband was even busy than me in 搵學校, 交form, doing research to collect information about different schools, one day he went to submit form under heavy rain and ...

唯有真係希望細佬能夠順利入家姐間學校一齊讀咋. 衷心希望你到時搵得舒舒服服, 其實呢個遊戲都好折磨.....

某d學校, 仲要規定一日交form, 我係要返工, 呢排請假請到我都唔好意思, 好在老闆體諒咋.

作者: YUWEI 時間: 10-10-26 20:21

都係一個經驗.....幾好

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:53 發表
呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 放低一切, 紓發心情.

呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你地實會叫我放鬆, 不過你地都可以咩?

大家放低吓, 有咩都講吓吧.

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 20:29

原帖由 YUWEI 於 10-10-26 20:21 發表
都係一個經驗.....幾好

係呀, 我知, 如果唔玩呢個遊戲, 可能又唔甘心呢, 我知架, 所以點都要講出黎呻吓.

作者: myrchan 時間: 10-10-26 20:41

我見到小朋友響呢段時間去不同學校interview, 不知不覺成熟左。比如佢最初好驚青架, 好怕佢唔肯跟老師入去, 去多幾次, 就唔再驚得咁緊要。最初, 同佢講去學校玩, 後來, 佢開始明白點解要去interview, 會認真一點了。直至最近, 我話帶佢返我母校探老師, 佢都問係咪要interview, 問到當日上緊母校門口既樓梯, 仲響度問係咪要interview

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 20:29 發表

係呀, 我知, 如果唔玩呢個遊戲, 可能又唔甘心呢, 我知架, 所以點都要講出黎呻吓.

作者: brian61950 時間: 10-10-26 22:01

講句老實話,小一入學(揀間心儀或好好既)可能比入大學仲要辛苦十倍 or much more,有乜計?
好既開始又點只成功了一半,可能去到七八成呀!

作者: littlemelody 時間: 10-10-26 22:08

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:53 發表
呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你 ...

我可以放開! 做了幾十年人很多事都有上天安排了, 緊張得來ma

條條大路通羅馬, 一間小學能决定孩子一生前途嗎?

[ 本帖最後由 littlemelody 於 10-10-26 22:10 編輯 ]

作者: ANNAFRIEND 時間: 10-10-26 22:25

我給兒子總共報了五間學校, 第一次面試見了兩間學校. 一間上午, 一間下午. 頭一間很早, 所以面試完畢我們全家在某商場閒逛了大半天才去下午的面試. 大家都巳經很累. 我們現在還剩一間沒到面試日期, 但我感到心頭大石巳放下一半, 可能巳習慣那個模式, 我們亦都沒給兒子任何壓力. 雖然暫時都沒有offer(全部都未出結果), 但無論怎樣也好我們也不會責怪兒子. 我們只想盡力找一間適合他的學校.

作者: milkonline2 時間: 10-10-26 22:26

講得好啱，以前等會考、A level、Jupas放榜、出黎搵工，都未試過好似今次咁氣餒咁辛苦，未試過咁長時間處於心情低落的狀態，唉，有得再揀我真係唔想生多個，喺今時今日嘅香港個好字一d都唔好，等於個煩字，舒發己見唔好鬧我!

原帖由 brian61950 於 10-10-26 10:01 PM 發表
講句老實話,小一入學(揀間心儀或好好既)可能比入大學仲要辛苦十倍 or much more,有乜計?
好既開始又點只成功了一半,可能去到七八成呀!

作者: 砵砵豬 時間: 10-10-26 22:35

原帖由 littlemelody 於 10-10-26 22:08 發表

我可以放開! 做了幾十年人很多事都有上天安排了, 緊張得來ma
條條大路通羅馬, 一間小學能决定孩子一生前途嗎?

經過呢幾個月既時間,我覺得我既小朋友成熟左好多,由喊住入第一間學校,到而家好自信咁行出來,仲可以話比我聽考過D咩?對我嚟講,已經好叻!

自問小女唔叻,自信心好低,不過今次既遊戲令佢進步左好多,要一個5歲小朋友呢幾個月朝朝早起身去面試,考呢樣考個樣,真係唔容易,作為父母既我真係好心痛....大人都覺得個個星期六係咁走嚟走去都頻撲,何況5歲既小孩呢?家長還知道點解要咁做,但小朋友只係知道,媽咪要我去就去啦....
所以淨係呢樣,已經值得我們加許

當我收到第一間學校REJECT既時候,我係架LIFT度好DOWN,我個囡問我咩事?我話收到一封REJECT LETTER
佢即時問我:

係唔係我唔乖?所以學校唔收我?

當時我個心好UP,差D想喊!!反問自己,點解要個女咁樣諗自己??其實只係一個遊戲,我好慚愧,覺得唔應該話比個女知,亦唔應該睇得太重,雖知係HK每個小朋友都要必經既遊戲,但如果令到一個5歲既小朋友也看得失都看得太重,相信佢日後既路仲好難行

之後我即刻解釋返比阿女知,只係學校唔太適合佢,不過我相信天父一定會安排一所合適既比佢

到現在我還沒有一間取錄,不過經過這一次,我學習了怎樣用平常心去面對,而且作為母親既我,我已經so proud of her啦!

作者: Uncle-DOS 時間: 10-10-26 22:39

這是一個難得的親子過程, 大家會珍惜及回味.

作者: Uncle-DOS 時間: 10-10-26 22:40

另外, 我想說: 「選校不難, 教兒最難.」

作者: leejoannelee 時間: 10-10-26 22:42

好感動, 大家一齊加油!!

原帖由 砵砵豬 於 10-10-26 22:35 發表

經過呢幾個月既時間,我覺得我既小朋友成熟左好多,由喊住入第一間學校,到而家好自信咁行出來,仲可以話比我聽考過D咩?對我嚟講,已經好叻!

自問小女唔叻,自信心好低,不過今次既遊戲令佢進步左好多,要一個5歲小朋友 ...

作者: d2343130 時間: 10-10-26 22:49

其實入到"以為"好....到最後都未必"真係"好. 因一改校長....一切都唔同.

都係好做父母職位....小朋友最受用的不只學識,仲有父母的身教.

作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-10-26 22:55

原帖由 brian61950 於 10-10-26 22:01 發表
講句老實話,小一入學(揀間心儀或好好既)可能比入大學仲要辛苦十倍 or much more,有乜計?
好既開始又點只成功了一半,可能去到七八成呀!

Agree

其實我已經好攰, 唔想再攪, 大抽獎算, 但渣住得15分, 自己又唔係住心儀學校嗰區. 所以又要堅持繼續, 唔通真係求其比間佢讀? 又過唔倒自己嗰關. 仲要比我覺得, 呢D嘢搵唔倒人幫, 無人幫倒我架......

作者: doublei 時間: 10-10-26 23:04

完全同意

原帖由 d2343130 於 10-10-26 22:49 發表
其實入到"以為"好....到最後都未必"真係"好. 因一改校長....一切都唔同.

都係好做父母職位....小朋友最受用的不只學識,仲有父母的身教.

作者: WinkyLee 時間: 10-10-26 23:26

呢個games唔止呢1-2年, 係由佢報k1開始或更早, 只係呢大半年好密集式, 我做全職mama2年, 我同老公都認為當係一個大project咁做, 我仔仔性格較樂天, 所以我俾佢做exercise/上堂又好, 佢都好like. 雖然, 阿仔都好勤力, 但一山還有一山高. 近日都收到一些學校reject, 但都平常心面對. 因為, 我地都明白, 阿仔出左力, 父母我地也出左力.

漫長歲月, 現在才剛佢地人生既起步點, 小學生涯更加辛苦, 聽一些朋友剛上小一的, 不論名或不名既學校, 功課量都好多, 小朋友及大人更要適應.

放鬆d啦!~

作者: crystalwsm 時間: 10-10-26 23:27

今日報埋培正，都已報得八八九九，仲有一間未報，但都已覺得釋放了不少，我報咗好多間，in咗5間，暫時乜都無結果，我預咗全軍覆歿，因為阿女英文差，無特別train過，幼稚園內容又淺，又無上過面試班，我剩係覺得盡咗力無悔就算，唔想第2日埋怨自己點解試都唔試，阿女思想幼稚，知道去面試，但無乜感覺，唔會有創傷後遺症，之後亦唔會再追問考唔考到，每次面試完我問佢考乜? 佢每次都話唔記得，之後我問都費事問，考完算數，雖然到而家都未收reject letter，但心情尚算興鬆，試過便算，不會抱太大希望，希望越大、失望越大

作者: WinkyLee 時間: 10-10-26 23:31

十分認同, 由報名小一學校, 我老公一路都講唔係我地選學校, 係學校選我地, 所以我幫阿仔都報左唔少間. 幸好, 佢一間都無say no, 因為, 我地同佢都當去學校玩. 當然, 壓力重有d, 希望阿仔表現好d...., 不過都係個句放鬆d啦!

uncle_dos 所講教兒真的重難, 仍要多多學習.

原帖由 Uncle-DOS 於 10-10-26 22:40 發表
另外, 我想說: 「選校不難, 教兒最難.」

作者: ohmama 時間: 10-10-26 23:35

原帖由 crystalwsm 於 10-10-26 23:27 發表
今日報埋培正，都已報得八八九九，仲有一間未報，但都已覺得釋放了不少，我報咗好多間，in咗5間，暫時乜都無結果，我預咗全軍覆歿，因為阿女英文差，無特別train過，幼稚園內容又淺，又無上過面試班，我剩係覺得盡咗力無悔就算，唔想第2日埋怨 ...

Exactly the same!

作者: crystalwsm 時間: 10-10-27 00:07

哈哈，所以我都唔算太緊張，不過都希望奇蹟出現，共勉之

原帖由 ohmama 於 10-10-26 23:35 發表

Exactly the same!

作者: Annngan 時間: 10-10-27 00:19

Totally agree..........

作者: prettygirls 時間: 10-10-27 00:32

我都好倦。人仲開始有點down. 日子愈接近11月22日，我就心情愈緊長。因為，我覺得我囡應該考小學好大機會全軍覆沒。我只可希望天主保佑我囡囡。

作者: wasabi-cat 時間: 10-10-27 10:11

其實我覺得要比個 BIG CLAP 我地 d 小朋友...

5 歲人仔，要佢地去 interview, 既要受我地父母既壓力，又要陪"我地"去完成"我地"設定既 target (去 join d 咩 class 咩 class, 去考幾多間學校)，有時我自己都好內疚，但無奈地又要去參與呢個遊戲...

好彩係呢度大家互相支持，如果唔係係漫長既過程當中都唔知點算.

係整個過程當中，不論阿女同我，都學左好多野，大家都有成長，關係又更加親密，我覺得已經係得多過失。

希望大家可以繼續係度分享，個個都為自己既小朋友搵到合適既學校。

作者: 愚人 時間: 10-10-27 11:17

其實我都係依一年準備, 因為k1尾至比佢出去學下野. 目的係比佢見下世面.

其實真係得多過失, 因為係比小朋友學興趣班, 比賽, 真係發掘左好多興趣同潛能. 一次又一次令小朋友超越自己, 唔再怕羞, 學識嬴, 更加學識輸. 小朋友真係成熟左好多.
而且, 我地跟小朋友去考學校, 好似一齊去打仗, team spirit 強左好多. 同小朋友好有默契.
好多學校依2個星期就快有2nd 消息, 我雖然有晒心理準備, 但係都好緊張, 希望大家都好運, 入到心儀o既學校.

作者: bblui 時間: 10-10-27 11:23

初時都唔緊張, 但當接到 reject letter 後, 現在就開始緊張起來... 祝大家好運!!!

作者: BBTWIN 時間: 10-10-27 11:25

原帖由 crystalwsm 於 10-10-26 23:27 發表
今日報埋培正，都已報得八八九九，仲有一間未報，但都已覺得釋放了不少，我報咗好多間，in咗5間，暫時乜都無結果，我預咗全軍覆歿，因為阿女英文差，無特別train過，幼稚園內容又淺，又無上過面試班，我剩係覺得盡咗力無悔就算，唔想第2日埋怨 ...

你個囡囡性格都好似我對女喎, 佢地又係思想唔成熟. 加上英文又係麻麻, 因為幼稚園實在太淺. 我地又冇谷佢地. 又唔會為面試而特別上面試班. 不過我地報學校冇你報得ｏ甘多，只報一兩間。因為真係只鐘意其中一間, 所以暫時都冇咩壞消息. 其實我真係唔敢抱任何希望, 只希望對女面試時突然充滿小宇宙＋好運

, 入到理想學校

作者: steve666 時間: 10-10-27 11:31

唉..我個仔已經有2間收左reject 信，而家真係乜信心都冇，睇黎好似會軍覆沒。

作者: meia 時間: 10-10-27 11:42

Really tired. My girl tried her best to do what she has been asked. She is a "small" girl and we know that we cannot expect too much yet the reject letter still hurts.

Anyway, we still have the lucky draw.

Let's pray that all our children will be able to get into a school that fits them well.

作者: juliancy 時間: 10-10-27 11:46

I helped myself to this song. Let's share it here. There are lyrics.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANk_Fn0mEyY

作者: KimB 時間: 10-10-27 11:58

我都認同其他家長既意見, 呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 兼且令人筋疲力盡。

作者: syabb2 時間: 10-10-27 12:11

呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 因自己唔能夠做到咁豁達去等大抽獎, 但當開始玩呢個遊戲後, 又真的好累, 好多面試和好多日期要記住, 又要等結果, 不過, 當最近收到2間小學的reject letter後, 已預知將會全軍覆沒, 心情反而無咁緊張, 安心去等派位

作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-10-27 12:13

係呀, 家下晚晚都瞓得唔好

希望能夠開開心心咁過新年啦

作者: steve666 時間: 10-10-27 12:19

我都係咁諗,但自已過唔到自已。

原帖由 syabb2 於 10-10-27 12:11 發表
呢個遊戲真係唔易玩, 因自己唔能夠做到咁豁達去等大抽獎, 但當開始玩呢個遊戲後, 又真的好累, 好多面試和好多日期要記住, 又要等結果, 不過, 當最近收到2間小學的reject letter後, 已預知將會全軍覆沒, 心情反而無咁 ...

作者: hov95 時間: 10-10-27 12:22

各位媽媽要努力呀, 為左小朋友千萬不要放棄, 因為如果到時會後悔自己當初為什麼無盡力, 如果有心儀學校便要開始寫信去表示誠意.
去年我都好像你們的心情一樣咁唔開心非常緊張, 覺得好對唔住小朋友無好好培育她. 好大壓力, 晚晚睡唔著偷偷地喊,

但好好彩最后都入到好學校, 大家一起加油呀

作者: kc_01k 時間: 10-10-27 12:31

係呀, 一間學校, 大大話話都最少要去3次, 真係身心疲憊.

我都有試過自己靜靜喊.

盡力而為啦~

作者: 蘇樂B 時間: 10-10-27 13:07

我都由k1開始比佢上興趣班, 學術果d, 到宜家k3已經學緊5樣野, 不過真係冇同佢參加比賽囉, 一來我唔識o係邊度報名二來我一路都係諗住佢可以愉快學習o既心態所以一次比賽都冇比佢參加過. 學咁多野都係為選小鋪路.

呢兩個月interview果陣發覺平時眼中自己仔女有幾聰明幾叻都好, 好多小朋友比自己o既更勝一籌我個心就打定輸數, 所以叫個囡interview果陣放鬆d, 老師同你傾下計咋~暫時我個囡一間2nd in都未有(報5間, 2間派左result), 我都覺得好失落呀! 起初會覺得自己小朋友唔夠人地叻, 所以冇offer, 當然我唔會同個囡講呢d野啦! 但諗心一層佢地讀書條路咁長, 5歲人仔就要面對咁多interview, 雖然唔比佢地知o者但o係家長眼中都係小朋友同小朋友之間o既競賽我就覺得好心痛. 所以開始用平常心去面對一切o既結果, 到最後一定會有個小學學位, 只不過係咪自己心儀學校o者, 如果比佢入讀名校但係成績係全班尾幾, 同入一間普通學校成績係中上o既, 我會選後者囉, 因為o係名校真係會比人標籤的, 個囡都唔會讀得開心, 相反普通學校考取中上成續, 對小朋友o黎講心理上真係會好d~

我宜家都係抱住一句去等私小/津小結果, 平常心啦!

作者: DebuPegg 時間: 10-10-27 13:19

我都係.... 好唔開心

幫個仔報左5間 (其實淨係target 一間)

target 個間, 個仔講識答問題, 佢又好鐘意間學校, 校長同老師... 個日佢又心情又唔錯... 以為有機可以 2nd interview..

點知, 上星期六收到信.... 無得 2nd interview.
我話俾個仔知 "封信寫我地無得再去 interview勒, 無得去呢間學校讀小學tim, 點算呢?" (同佢商量緊既語氣)

佢話 "可唔可以再試多次?"(佢以為去試堂)
.....
又話 "咁就遲d先入啦" (意思唔讀呢間小學, 讀呢間中學都得)
.....
再講 "我識答問題架" "我有講早晨, 唔該同拜拜架"
....

唉... 我聽到佢講"我識答架, 我有講架", 我真係眼濕濕

作者: PoPofamily 時間: 10-10-27 13:25 標題: 回覆 42# 蘇樂B 的文章

Absolutely correct. My daughter was a samll girl(born in Dec.), she had very good results in K1 to 3 but I just let her studied in an ordinary primary school allocated by Government. So she got excellent results in P.1 and 2 with lots of chances to represent school in many activities. We then applied a Band 1 through-train primary school for her in P.3, she was accepted right-away.
Don't lose heart, there are lots of chances, why my daughter got the place because someone fought so hard to squeeze in but eventually dropped out. P.2 and 3 are good time to change school, no need to worry. Help your kids to develope themselves and you will know them more in these 2 years, thereafter find a school really suits your kids. Remember no schools can fit all no matter how renounce and good they are. Good luck and relax.

作者: goo_littlebb 時間: 10-10-27 13:26

ai....the child can feel the pressure. I told my girl, doesn't matter, let's try other school to find one most suit her, and hopefully her attitude is positive.

We just registered a school this morning, though not our first choice but maybe this is the most suitable one for us, really feel relieved. She only study in a kinder with voucher and without NET, didn't join any academic ECA but only drawing and piano lesson, no interview class.

Just let your kid show him/herself. Hope you all will get good result soon!! Good Luck!! :loveliness:

原帖由 DebuPegg 於 10-10-27 13:19 發表
我都係.... 好唔開心

幫個仔報左5間 (其實淨係target 一間)

target 個間, 個仔講識答問題, 佢又好鐘意間學校, 校長同老師... 個日佢又心情又唔錯... 以為有機可以 2nd interview..

點知, 上星期六收到信.... 無 ...

[ 本帖最後由 goo_littlebb 於 10-10-27 13:31 編輯 ]

作者: DebuPegg 時間: 10-10-27 13:34

呢幾日
我就不停同老公傾呢件事

我地 / 大仔今次差d乜呢?....
莫非真係因為無俾佢學音樂(我知有得 2nd interview既三個同學仔, 都有讀音樂, 有學琴)...  莫非係我地無幫佢報多d興趣班, 學術班, 公開比賽.... ??

我係度不停諗...
仲有乜可以做, 寫封信俾校長死"螺"俾次 interview機會??

又諗, 咁我仲有邊間揀呀??  我知, 香港咁多間小學, 實有一間有得讀..

作者: DebuPegg 時間: 10-10-27 13:42

原帖由 goo_littlebb 於 10-10-27 13:26 發表
ai....the child can feel the pressure. I told my girl, doesn't matter, let's try other school to find one most suit her, and hopefully her attitude is positive.

We just registered a school this morni ...

我地真係無諗過俾壓力佢
每次interview後, 都淨係間佢開唔開心, 有無遊戲玩, 鍾唔鍾意呢間學校呀咁!!
興趣班/活動, 都會問佢想唔想玩先幫佢報...

不過, 既然今次衰左, 梗係要同佢檢討吓, 發生過乜事, 有乜可以改進... etc

唔開心, 有壓力個個, 似係我!!

[ 本帖最後由 DebuPegg 於 10-10-27 13:43 編輯 ]

作者: WinkyLee 時間: 10-10-27 14:52

絕對認同.

我阿仔重係早幾日先5歲生日咋.

原帖由 wasabi-cat 於 10-10-27 10:11 發表
其實我覺得要比個 BIG CLAP 我地 d 小朋友...

5 歲人仔，要佢地去 interview, 既要受我地父母既壓力，又要陪"我地"去完成"我地"設定既 target (去 join d 咩 class 咩 class, 去考幾多間 ...

作者: nicolelouie 時間: 10-10-27 15:06

我都報左5間, 一間做後備, 上星期六夜晚11點幾, 在bk 見人地話收到信了, 即刻走落街收, 結果rejected, 星期日同亞仔講, 失敗了, 佢話: 下, 點解唔揀我呀 ? 聽起有d心酸, 亞仔講完都無乜野, 佢針未到肉未知有咩問題, 我都唔講咁多, 這兩晚自己祈禱, 希望星期六有好消息.
雖然話預左機會低, 但總是盼望有奇蹟出現....

作者: suewong 時間: 10-10-27 15:17

in 左 n 咁多間, 現有1間已2nd in, 3間reject左. 女女最愛果間已reject左佢, 我地心儀果間未知result. 心裏甜酸苦剌, 七上八落咁......

作者: suewong 時間: 10-10-27 15:19

不過一切交托比神.....reject 的學校一定不適合我女女的......神會choose a right school for her ^^

作者: babiesmother 時間: 10-10-27 16:01

I have already tried my very best over the past 2 yrs.

We've let him study in a private kindergarten, attending parent-child music class, learn violin, english, swimming, drawing, and also interview classes. I am a working mom, but I still tried my best to provide as much family education and parent-child time.

I can see my son maturing over one after another interviews. He is
cooperative and well-behaved all along.

Receiving the rejection letters let me feel so down...I am asking myself,'have I done something wrong?' Anyway, we have to head on! May be something better is waiting for us!

作者: ICbaby 時間: 10-10-27 16:42

原帖由 nicolelouie 於 10-10-27 15:06 發表
我都報左5間, 一間做後備, 上星期六夜晚11點幾, 在bk 見人地話收到信了, 即刻走落街收, 結果rejected, 星期日同亞仔講, 失敗了, 佢話: 下, 點解唔揀我呀 ? 聽起有d心酸, 亞仔講完都無乜野, 佢針未到肉未知有咩問題, ...

我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

作者: artroboy 時間: 10-10-27 16:51

簡直折磨

作者: meia 時間: 10-10-27 18:20

Agreed. If she doesn't ask, no need to tell her.

If asked, I am prepared to say 間學校話冇位lu, 我哋不如再睇下邊間仲有位先. Guess she is too small (less than 5 yrs old) to ask follow up questions.

原帖由 ICbaby 於 10-10-27 16:42 發表

我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

作者: judy 時間: 10-10-27 18:42

原帖由 眼超超 於 10-10-26 19:53 發表
呢一世我諗我都會記得呢兩年.

去簡介會, 攞表, 填form, 做profolio, 遞form, interview, 有d學校仲要2nd in.

個遊戲仲未完.

每次interview前都好緊張, in完後散晒, 有時仲一日兩間, 身心疲累.

我知我咁講, 你 ...

講開interview, 我一個比一個差，阿大未interview己識緊張，阿二見完識緊張，阿子都唔知有interview呢回事。

阿子見第一间，問佢有咩做。佢話玩，"除咗玩之外呢？"我問。佢答："先生問我5,10,15之後幾多？" "幾多呢"我問，"16"。佢答。全家人笑死。

阿子去過男拔開放日，好仲意男拔，話有好多嘢玩。我問:"如果xx学校都有咁多嘢玩，你選邊間？"，佢想了一會，好為難地說:咁两間都讀。

我同阿仔報5間，看來冇咩機了。但我又唔覺得好失望，大不了就找間就近学校讀。覺得不好，再敲門吧。

作者: dk486 時間: 10-10-27 20:47

Lee 個遊戲，都幾折磨。

依家社會，好像越來越覆雜咁。以前，亞媽只比我地到樓下間小學讀書，越近越好，唔好花錢坐車去，下晝又唔駛返學，通山跑，不知幾開心。

依家d 小朋友為左入名校，小小年紀，又要公開比賽，羅cert考國際試，揠苗助長。香港地實在光怪陸離。外國D學校5歲先入讀。

我無特別train up 亞仔，亦不想佢入D最top 果d 直資學校。當然，當中有些學校收左，有被reject.

過程中，最大得著是看到小朋友的長處短處，亦有自已做得不足的地方。。。這些都是要在k3這一年內要進步的，因為上了小一之後，課餘時間又少了，更加沒時間。

我地lee個禮拜考完最後一間，下週會同亞仔請假 (雖然唔係咁好)，飛去東南亞玩一轉。

作者: dk486 時間: 10-10-27 21:01

我 in 6間，已有D收左，有D reject, 有D仲等緊公佈，但我全部無話佢聽.

佢有時都會問起第一間考的小學，點解仲未派翻張表比佢 (佢以為係有自行派位表咁)...我只係話無呀，邊有咁快呀？！佢就話:唔知係咪要等到2011年。我話係呀！！你出年先讀之嗎！！！我話唔緊要啦，一定有一間讀的，仲會讀得好開心的。

原帖由 ICbaby 於 10-10-27 16:42 發表

我諗我唔會同個女講rejected既事, 反正佢都唔記得IN 過邊間學校架喇, 我都預左全軍覆沒, 那又如何?
最多咪留係同區讀之MA, take it easy la

作者: kochiman2004 時間: 10-10-27 21:06

原帖由 dk486 於 10-10-27 20:47 發表
Lee 個遊戲，都幾折磨。

依家社會，好像越來越覆雜咁。以前，亞媽只比我地到樓下間小學讀書，越近越好，唔好花錢坐車去，下晝又唔駛返學，通山跑，不知幾開心。

依家d 小朋友為左入名校，小小年紀，又要公開比賽，羅cert考國際試，揠苗助長 ...

... live and educate in HK, must follow the game rule ... therefore ... shopping is very very important to relieve pressure ... shopping ... shopping ... shopping ...

作者: misstaisen 時間: 10-10-27 21:32

我都想放低，但係收到object信那時，真的好down,唉，重要一日收2封信添，自情想死。
這個遊戲真殘酷，大大的打擊我同女的信心。唉

作者: ICbaby 時間: 10-10-27 22:02

原帖由 dk486 於 10-10-27 21:01 發表
我 in 6間，已有D收左，有D reject, 有D仲等緊公佈，但我全部無話佢聽.

佢有時都會問起第一間考的小學，點解仲未派翻張表比佢 (佢以為係有自行派位表咁)...我只係話無呀，邊有咁快呀？！佢就話:唔知係咪要等到2011年。我話係呀！！ ...

我今天上網check 番陳守仁既result, 佢見我打佢d info 入電腦, 女女好緊張走過黎問我咩事呀媽咪 ? 上網check 咩野? 我見女女個樣有d緊張, 我就話冇野呀, 老師report 比我聽你上次去學校玩左d咩野姐, 跟住女女就行開左喇,

我覺得d小朋友好識睇面色, 好多時佢地既壓力係黎自家長.

作者: may6b 時間: 10-10-27 23:53

真係幾down, 一封又封reject 信, 雖然不是間間你都想讀, 但係又真係佢揀你! 好似你唔鍾意的都想佢鍾意你家嘛!特別你知道呀女都知發生咩事, 雖然理性些會想不取錄只代表不適合而不是不及格, 但感性上又仍'銀住銀住'!

不過no matter what, we love our kids! 對嗎?

作者: Clarawsf 時間: 10-10-27 23:57

The feeling of being in the selection does really hurt.... Just wonder why we have to force our kids to play such a cruel game....IT's really killing and exhausting....

作者: thomasha 時間: 10-10-28 01:13

Whether the game is cruel to the child depends on how we communicate with our child. In fact, my son enjoyed all the learning processes before the interviews and the interviews themselves (except one of them), and we turned the subsequent reviews to interesting "memory games".

The real cruelty is towards parents.

原帖由 Clarawsf 於 10-10-27 23:57 發表
The feeling of being in the selection does really hurt.... Just wonder why we have to force our kids to play such a cruel game....IT's really killing and exhausting....

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