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作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-15 19:15 標題: Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙.....
Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙....
I originally target to apply for not more than 10 DSS/private schools, however, after the 2 interviews, I am really worried that my child will get no offer..... should I apply more? Really frustrated !
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-9-15 19:31
Don't worry too much as yet. Your child probably needs some time to "warm up" and be familiar with the interview environment.
Sometimes children perform in interviews better than you think. If you worry too much, it will give your child a lot of pressure and it will affect his/her performance in interviews. The most important thing is to let the child feel relaxed when he/she goes into the interview room.
Just relax and try to find out what you think can be improved, and try to practise more of those things.
原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-15 19:15 發表 
Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙....
I originally target to apply for not more than 10 DSS/private schools, however, after the 2 interviews, I am really worried that my child will get no offer..... shou ...
作者: steve666 時間: 10-9-15 19:31
我都有同感，好擔心，怕冇學校收。
作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-9-15 19:57
我仲驚過你, 我阿仔in左2間, 佢話有問題唔識答, 淨係粒聲唔出咁望住個老師.......
佢講返比我知o個陣好唔開心, 我安慰佢話下次再努力啦, 總之唔好驚就得架啦~~
作者: steve666 時間: 10-9-15 20:08
攪到我都神經緊張，每日睇住月曆做人。久唔久到呢到睇下；久唔久又諗下，自己咩野做得唔好。整到個人好殘。
作者: panbaby 時間: 10-9-15 20:20
各位媽咪請留意, 小一入學是一個很漫很艱辛的遊戲. 要自行, 統一, 扣門, 考直資私校通盤考慮. 事實上, 考直資私校真的會全軍覆歿. 辛苦啲都要考多幾間.
作者: dlmcdlcl 時間: 10-9-15 21:19
same same~ 間間的 submit date 都唔同. 真係好怕會miss左.....
我老公同我講, 盡左力就算,入唔到top school, 就聽天由命 (大抽獎) 點都有書讀~!! 入到一間唔係太差的小學, 加以栽培, p.2 再try
原帖由 steve666 於 15-9-2010 08:08 PM 發表
攪到我都神經緊張，每日睇住月曆做人。久唔久到呢到睇下；久唔久又諗下，自己咩野做得唔好。整到個人好殘。
作者: cpcog 時間: 10-9-15 22:16
Exactly my feeling!! ><
So, I might apply for more than planned as well.
原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-15 19:15 發表
Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙....
I originally target to apply for not more than 10 DSS/private schools, however, after the 2 interviews, I am really worried that my child will get no offer..... shou ...
作者: suewong 時間: 10-9-15 23:24
你地d形容詞真係好.....衣家d心情七上八落, 返工滿腦都係小學. 真係好大壓力.
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-15 23:33
其實why 覺得小朋友考唔到呢? 因為我地都唔知佢地係入面做過d 咩, 而且小朋友其實都好細, 肯入去已好大膽, 而且間間學校收生標準都好唔同, 可能答晒都唔收, 又可能曳樣都好多名校收. 驚唔到太多, 家長同小朋友盡左力就算.
我都好努力說服自己唔好驚太多. 天總有安排.
作者: Clever_BB 時間: 10-9-16 00:09
God will have his plan!
I went through the whole process a year ago. All the DSS and private schools my daughter apply were either unsuccessful or on waiting list only except my alma mater. (i.e. connection with the school is very important).
Now, my daughter is studying happily in the school I applied during the 1st round of the allocation.
Some private school call me for a second interview in June after the 2nd allocation results announced. Don't be frustrated if your child don't get a place now. May be you will get a good school in the public allocation.
作者: nicolemummy 時間: 10-9-16 01:05
請問邊兩間? 咁快IN左?
原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-15 19:15 發表
Interview 咗2間, 情况好似不妙....
I originally target to apply for not more than 10 DSS/private schools, however, after the 2 interviews, I am really worried that my child will get no offer..... shou ...
作者: kaiming8964 時間: 10-9-16 04:07
1)過來人經驗，這是一漫長戰鬥，不要灰心。
2)小朋友沒有面試觀念，參加面試班真的有用，小朋友唔會突然識得面試，經驗之談。
作者: yhk329 時間: 10-9-16 06:13
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作者: thomasha 時間: 10-9-16 07:33
我也贊成多考幾家直資/私校，不過真的要適可而止，亦要有策略，因為如果考得太多：
1 面試會撞期，大部份學校不會讓你改時間或日期。
2 小朋友是否可以應付--就算面試沒有撞期，也可能連續幾天甚至同一天上下午均要面試，對小朋友來說是很吃力的。
我也會擔心小兒沒有學位，不過亦不忍他為面試要每天奔波。
原帖由 yhk329 於 10-9-16 06:13 發表
就算報直資私校都係有策略的
全部只攻個d幾千人申請的
如果唔係好smart,真係會全軍覆末
舊年我自知小朋友唔係讀最top學校的材料
只係報左幾間一線尾的直資私校
結果報四間都有三間得
大家最緊要係量力而為
大人同 ...
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-16 10:42
原帖由 愚人 於 10-9-15 23:33 發表
其實why 覺得小朋友考唔到呢? 因為我地都唔知佢地係入面做過d 咩, 而且小朋友其實都好細, 肯入去已好大膽, 而且間間學校收生標準都好唔同, 可能答晒都唔收, 又可能曳樣都好多名校收. 驚唔到太多, 家長同小朋友盡左力 ...
I believe my child is smart but just in front of us (may be the same case for many other childred), when he is facing teachers or other parents (or strangers), he is so shy and tends not to answer questions. He is improving and we are glad about his progress, but his responsiveness is still slow, which seems to be not as smart as others.
Understand we should not compare our child with others, but the fact is he is "competing" with other children to get a place. We are not pushing but just worried he couldn't get a good offer.
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-16 10:54
我個仔都係同你個仔一樣, 答問題好慢, 本身都係怕羞. 因為我比佢apply 過mock interview, 有vcd 比過我睇返佢o既表現. 我就知佢o既問題, 就係少左d 笑容, 答得慢左dd, 之後我就同佢講要笑多d 同答快少少, 我知佢都有進步, 但有時入去面試有d 問題大人都要諗多陣, 何況咁細o既小朋友, 最緊要佢地有嘗試答, 有條理, 啖定就可以.
我地已經盡左好大o既努力, 真係要睇佢地o既表現喇. 我地都控制唔到. 唯有諗多幾個策略去應付突發性o既意外. 盡力去減低我地o既失望, 有心理準備去調低我地o既底線去接受命運, 先可以應付漫長o既心理戰.
原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-16 10:42 發表
I believe my child is smart but just in front of us (may be the same case for many other childred), when he is facing teachers or other parents (or strangers), he is so shy and tends not to answer q ...
作者: manmak88 時間: 10-9-16 11:04
大家加油, 其實我覺得
大家來得這裡, 有心為小朋友前途著想, 已經贏了
就算到最後入唔好心目中的學校, 不用灰心, 你一定是比其他人會教自己的小朋友
人始終有高底, 做好自己過到自己就應該開心一些
作者: cornelius 時間: 10-9-16 11:28
Dear peipeiwong and parents,
Pls take it easy! It may not be as worse as you have thought.
And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known. A friend of mine told me that her daughter did not want to attend a school interview after she learned of the result of the previous school interview ("on waiting list"). Even for my son who has been offered a place by a DSS, I have not told him about that because there is just no need for him to know it at this stage. Actually, upon receipt of the offer letter last month, he kept asking what the letter was about (b'cos he recognised the school name on the envelope which was addressed to him). We did not show him the letter and just told him that the school principal appraised him of his good performance at the school interview, but it would take some time to process the application. Then my son did not ask about it any more. So my advice is: keep it to yourselves and don't tell your kid the results of school interviews at this stage, and in the meantime, keep on boosting his/her confidence to attend the coming interviews.
Remember, your pressure, worries and anxiety of any sort will be felt by your kids. So pls sit back and relax. God will make a way where there seems to be no way.
cornelius
作者: 米之連媽媽 時間: 10-9-16 11:40
Very agree, what I have done in this moment. My kid always asked me which school she will go in P1, but my answer is "I Don't know yet, so please do better in the future interview"
原帖由 cornelius 於 10-9-16 11:28 發表
Dear peipeiwong and parents,
Pls take it easy! It may not be as worse as you have thought.
And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known. ...
作者: panbaby 時間: 10-9-16 11:50
係呀, 我嗰陣考之前只跟佢說去玩, 和老師 talk 吓, 話老師想見吓你, 吹吓水, 見完問佢點, 見佢冇反應便扮輕鬆算唔再提. 所以衰咗佢唔知我騰雞.
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-9-16 11:51
Agreed. I plan to open my mailbox without my son's presence, and be careful with letters received so that I can control what he should read and what he shouldn't.
Even the calmest child will be disappointed when he/she knows he/she does not succeed in an interview (parents do too!), and it will affect their performance in other interviews.
My child is very conscious about patterns and sequence of events, so I believe sooner or later he will ask why he has 2nd interviews in some schools (IF he has any, that is) and not others. I would probably tell him that every school has different schedules, so we just have to be patient to wait for responses. :)
原帖由 cornelius 於 10-9-16 11:28 發表
Dear peipeiwong and parents,
Pls take it easy! It may not be as worse as you have thought.
And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known. ...
作者: rosewong 時間: 10-9-16 12:07
小兒絕不是smart的那一群，故就算報考直資全軍覆沒也不足為奇，但我不太擔心“無書讀”，因政府一定會有offer的（除非您放棄自行派位和中央派位）。
另方面，自己亦考慮到學費的問題，所以現在除了報考三兩間直資和私校外，就是思量著填寫政府派位表格的策略。
（可能我真係預咗亞仔會無間收啦！）
原帖由 dlmcdlcl 於 10-9-15 21:19 發表
same same~ 間間的 submit date 都唔同. 真係好怕會miss左.....
我老公同我講, 盡左力就算,入唔到top school, 就聽天由命 (大抽獎) 點都有書讀~!! 入到一間唔係太差的小學, 加以栽培, p.2 再try
...
作者: 眼超超 時間: 10-9-16 12:11
我都就黎精神衰弱. 
作者: panbaby 時間: 10-9-16 12:18
其實報私校直資多數都想讀政府的, 個問題是政府可能派間豬頭骨給你...
原帖由 rosewong 於 10-9-16 12:07 發表
小兒絕不是smart的那一群，故就算報考直資全軍覆沒也不足為奇，但我不太擔心“無書讀”，因政府一定會有offer的（除非您放棄自行派位和中央派位）。
另方面，自己亦考慮到學費的問題，所以現在除了報考三兩間直資和私校外，就是思量 ...
作者: cornelius 時間: 10-9-16 12:22
原帖由 眼超超 於 10-9-16 12:11 發表
我都就黎精神衰弱.
Cheer up and relax!!!
There's a long way to go in the coming 17 years (1 year prior to primary education + 6 + 334) or more.
作者: steve666 時間: 10-9-16 12:35
好中呀，我眼淚水都出埋。
原帖由 manmak88 於 10-9-16 11:04 發表
大家加油, 其實我覺得
大家來得這裡, 有心為小朋友前途著想, 已經贏了
就算到最後入唔好心目中的學校, 不用灰心, 你一定是比其他人會教自己的小朋友
人始終有高底, 做好自己過到自己就應該開心一些 ...
作者: rosewong 時間: 10-9-16 12:42
所以我宜家諗緊好唔好第一輪就填間勝算大但唔係自己首選嘅學校，攞個保險，但就嘥左個機會，然後博最心儀
作者: d2343130 時間: 10-9-16 12:46
如果心儀果間唔係多人爭,不如全力"自行"同"統一"都填佢, 中間時間寫定信比校長, 到最後都派唔到, 再寫信叩門, 起碼"誠意"有到出哂面, 機會都多d.
原帖由 rosewong 於 10-9-16 12:42 發表
所以我宜家諗緊好唔好第一輪就填間勝算大但唔係自己首選嘅學校，攞個保險，但就嘥左個機會，然後博最心儀
作者: d2343130 時間: 10-9-16 12:49
我估唔識唔重要.
最大問題係, 對人無反應, 無禮, 失控, 要搵家長.....
原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-9-15 19:57 發表
我仲驚過你, 我阿仔in左2間, 佢話有問題唔識答, 淨係粒聲唔出咁望住個老師.......mouth:" />
佢講返比我知o個陣好唔開心, 我安慰佢話下次再努力啦, 總之唔好驚就得架啦~~ ...
作者: d2343130 時間: 10-9-16 12:53
考到心儀小學一定"當時"好高興, 但亦有機會入學之後對學校亦會"好興"都唔定. 因為每個小朋友都有特質, 如學校唔好理佢呢d特質, 可能令小朋友同家長都好"難過".....
anyway, 人生中學習只是之初, 仲有好多好多事要同小朋友共同拆解......
有一個正向的思維, 萬事可解!
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-16 15:11
原帖由 panbaby 於 10-9-16 11:50 發表
係呀, 我嗰陣考之前只跟佢說去玩, 和老師 talk 吓, 話老師想見吓你, 吹吓水, 見完問佢點, 見佢冇反應便扮輕鬆算唔再提. 所以衰咗佢唔知我騰雞.
I said the same to my son, but he is mature enough to know it is an interview during which he will be asked questions or asked to do somethings. He is nervous because he knows he is slow and is afraid he doesn't understand the teacher's instructions.
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-16 15:14
原帖由 cornelius 於 10-9-16 11:28 發表
Dear peipeiwong and parents,
Pls take it easy! It may not be as worse as you have thought.
And more importantly, pls do NOT tell the interview result to your little one immediately it is known. ...
Thanks for your warm sharing. We won't tell my son the results until we have confirmed the final decision (well, in case we have the luck to "select"), we don't let me feel we are changing mind frequently.
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-16 15:18
Thanks all parents for your kind advices and encouragement. I am a bit frustrated and worried, but am positive to manage this and see what we can do more to help providing a better path to my son. That's why I am struggling whether we should apply more DSS/private schools....... I think I will add 2 - 3 more on my list.
作者: thomasha 時間: 10-9-16 15:20
Politeness and manners will also be a factor to be considered. If your child can ask the teacher politely when he does not understand, it may in fact be an advantage. The process of the interview itself is just as important (or even more important) than getting the correct answers.
原帖由 peipeiwong 於 10-9-16 15:11 發表
I said the same to my son, but he is mature enough to know it is an interview during which he will be asked questions or asked to do somethings. He is nervous because he knows he is slow and is afr ...
作者: cpcog 時間: 10-9-16 22:14
Would you tell me what is 一線尾的直資私校?
原帖由 yhk329 於 10-9-16 06:13 發表
就算報直資私校都係有策略的
全部只攻個d幾千人申請的
如果唔係好smart,真係會全軍覆末
舊年我自知小朋友唔係讀最top學校的材料
只係報左幾間一線尾的直資私校
結果報四間都有三間得
大家最緊要係量力而為
大人同 ...
作者: ANChan59 時間: 10-9-17 00:39 標題: 回覆 16# peipeiwong 的文章
A quick suggestion that seems to be useful for my friends' kids.
1. Find some friends who are teachers as interviewer to drill on their skills;
2. Record the process and review with the kids. (When you said they are moving their body during interview, they may agrue with you, review the video, they will know the problem and correct that before the actual interview).
[ 本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 10-9-17 13:09 編輯 ]
作者: KLeemama 時間: 10-9-17 14:17
After each interview i would take my girl to somewhere nice, just to make sure she would not afraid of "interview". 各位加油啊！
作者: cat_house 時間: 10-9-17 14:45
過來人經驗...同意
小朋友面試出來乜都講唔到比你聽﹐你重驚。
原帖由 d2343130 於 10-9-16 12:49 發表
我估唔識唔重要.
最大問題係, 對人無反應, 無禮, 失控, 要搵家長.....
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-17 17:26
我個仔2次去interview, 之前1.2 日都問點解要去. 唔想去. 當日一穿起d 靚仔衫, 當堂醒晒, 一定要準時, 老師叫名自己走出去排隊.
去完之後就話好好玩, 聽日可唔可以再來.
比佢激死.
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-17 18:04
原帖由 cat_house 於 10-9-17 14:45 發表
過來人經驗...同意
小朋友面試出來乜都講唔到比你聽﹐你重驚。
This happened to my son....sigh
作者: winchoy16888 時間: 10-9-17 18:16
考到心儀小學一定"當時"好高興, 但亦有機會入學之後對學校亦會"好興"都唔定. 因為每個小朋友都有特質, 如學校唔好理佢呢d特質, 可能令小朋友同家長都好"難過".....
anyway, 人生中學習只是之初, 仲有好多好多事要同小朋友共同拆解......
有一個正向的思維, 萬事可解!
好好的分釋
作者: cpcog 時間: 10-9-17 22:30
I am just worried that my girl's life would be totally changed if she can't go to a better school. :( Under pressure.
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-18 21:20
今日IN 左英華, 攰死人.
因為下午重踩埋培僑簡介會.
其實撞口撞面都係個班小朋友家長, 來來去去都係個班小朋友INTERVIEW.
作者: phoebecyl 時間: 10-9-18 21:36
hi
想問你仔仔有無同你講面試情況
我都係今去下午in左YW,照小兒所講係等多過IN
原帖由 愚人 於 10-9-18 21:20 發表
今日IN 左英華, 攰死人.
因為下午重踩埋培僑簡介會.
其實撞口撞面都係個班小朋友家長, 來來去去都係個班小朋友INTERVIEW.
[ 本帖最後由 phoebecyl 於 10-9-18 21:37 編輯 ]
作者: Whitepine 時間: 10-9-18 21:43
其實報YW的家長選擇都差不多的，所以撞口撞面都係個班小朋友家長，唔出奇呀!!!
原帖由 愚人 於 10-9-18 21:20 發表
今日IN 左英華, 攰死人.
因為下午重踩埋培僑簡介會.
其實撞口撞面都係個班小朋友家長, 來來去去都係個班小朋友INTERVIEW.
作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-9-18 21:47
原帖由 phoebecyl 於 10-9-18 21:36 發表
hi
想問你仔仔有無同你講面試情況
我都係今去下午in左YW,照小兒所講係等多過IN
hihi~~
我阿仔都有in英華, 佢話坐係到睇圖書睇左好耐, 同埋好悶喎~~
作者: phoebecyl 時間: 10-9-18 21:53
甘你仔仔重有無講考左咩
原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-9-18 21:47 發表
hihi~~
我阿仔都有in英華, 佢話坐係到睇圖書睇左好耐, 同埋好悶喎~~
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-18 22:19
我仔仔話好好玩, 但我都聽過之前2日in o既小朋友話好悶.
因為我個仔係好定o既小朋友, 佢唔怕悶o家. 所以話好好玩. 
有d 人話就係咁考男仔o既定力.
我個仔話有睇圖書, 佢揀左winnie the pooh, 之後又叫佢地畫畫, 題目係3揀1. 佢畫左球場. 之後就輪住問問題, 有英文老師問, 有本地老師問, 有推理題, 有看圖講故事.....等等
我之前已經考左王錦輝及smc. 我估都係凶多吉少
作者: phoebecyl 時間: 10-9-18 23:05
你仔仔好醒目哦...可以講到甘多你知,再問返阿仔太約又係你哋講那幾樣,不過聽他講回答老師的答案就兇多吉少架啦
原帖由 愚人 於 10-9-18 22:19 發表
我仔仔話好好玩, 但我都聽過之前2日in o既小朋友話好悶.
因為我個仔係好定o既小朋友, 佢唔怕悶o家. 所以話好好玩.
有d 人話就係咁考男仔o既定力.
我個仔話有睇圖書, 佢揀左winnie the pooh, 之後又叫佢 ...
作者: 愚人 時間: 10-9-18 23:22
我用握握氹氹, 強刑迫供, 
引導佢至答到咁多野出來, 因為我知道, 如果有幸入到3rd in, 會問返1st in, 2nd in 校長o既野, so, 今日要佢重有記憶時講返出來. 我記好過佢記. 因為之後重要in 好多學校, 怕佢有混亂.
我個仔有d 野都答得麻麻地, 但好多人話, 英華比較揀有禮貌同乖o既小朋友. 唔好咁灰心, 見校長時醒目d 就得. 大家加油!
作者: 戀仔狂 時間: 10-9-18 23:25
原帖由 phoebecyl 於 10-9-18 21:53 發表
甘你仔仔重有無講考左咩
佢唔係咁願講, 要氹先講, 但聽佢講完就覺得危危地啦...
佢話老師比工作紙佢做, 又叫佢畫英華小學出黎, 跟住英文唔識答喎.....
作者: 面包仔 時間: 10-9-18 23:49
ME TOO
原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-9-18 23:25 發表
佢唔係咁願講, 要氹先講, 但聽佢講完就覺得危危地啦...
佢話老師比工作紙佢做, 又叫佢畫英華小學出黎, 跟住英文唔識答喎.....
作者: babiesmother 時間: 10-9-19 21:51
We've also applied for more schools than we initially planned...the sense of insecurity really stressed me out.
My son is not bad but his performance is unsteady.
He understands my stress and try to cooperate. I hope my nervousness would not affect him.
作者: newmommy 時間: 10-9-19 22:48
pls never think that way. 將眼光放遠D﹐ 對大家到好. Education is a "long run" thing, not a 100-metre-race. Even if anyone go to the best primary school, without the proper support from school/ parents, the child won't develop well enough to go to good university / get a good job / be successful in what she does. So, 條路好漫長, don't be discouraged by the immediate "failure" of going into a school that you don't target into.
原帖由 cpcog 於 10-9-17 22:30 發表
I am just worried that my girl's life would be totally changed if she can't go to a better school. :( Under pressure.
作者: cpcog 時間: 10-9-19 22:59
but, teachers and the education environment is really important in my mind. Once you are with some students without the motivation in learning, you would be one of them too.
原帖由 newmommy 於 10-9-19 22:48 發表
pls never think that way. 將眼光放遠D﹐ 對大家到好. Education is a "long run" thing, not a 100-metre-race. Even if anyone go to the best primary school, without the proper support from school/ parents, ...
作者: peipeiwong 時間: 10-9-20 23:04 標題: 回復 1# cpcog 的帖子
Agreed, and hope to provide a good environment to him.
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