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標題: 有冇家長會比小朋友同時讀2間唔同幼稚園 [打印本頁]

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-16 14:48 標題: 有冇家長會比小朋友同時讀2間唔同幼稚園

我個囝囝(細仔)今年9月會讀K1上午班, 係一間普通的幼稚園, 在家乘小巴只需１５min.
而家心大心細唸緊會唔會比佢讀埋樓下新開(在其他區口啤唔錯)的國際學校下午班.

其實考慮原因係：想囝囝將來讀本地小一，而又想佢可以讀吓國際班學語言（英語＋普通話）

如果會的話, 個流程會係 :

7:45am-8:30am	起床, 洗臉,早餐
8:30am 9:00am-1200pm	乘小巴返學+等車上課
12:00pm-12:30pm	乖小巴返家＋等車
12:30pm	返到家
12:30pm-1:15pm	Lunch+換校服
1:30pm	返學
4:25pm	放學
4:30pm	沖涼＋飲奶
5:00pm-6:30pm	sleeping
6:30pm-7:30pm	做功課＋玩
7:30pm-8:00pm	Dinner
9:00pm - 7:45am	睡覺

以上的安排，唔知會唔會令到小朋友太趕頭趕命呢?

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-16 14:49

有冇想似經驗的媽咪可分享一下呢？

作者: monkey05 時間: 10-4-16 14:56

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 14:49 發表
有冇想似經驗的媽咪可分享一下呢？

本人覺得會趕, 小朋友7點幾起床, 一路就不停好似工作咁, 直至 5:00 才可以小睡, k1小朋友仲細未必可以咁捱法. 就算捱到, 都搞到身子唔好. 何必 ?

作者: rubyrubylau 時間: 10-4-16 15:11

我唔會, 因下午星期一至五都要佢上學會好辛苦, 因k1都係好細, 上午上完堂都好想訓覺, 我令願比佢返一天下午英文班, k2才學多一天下午普通話.因我都想少班人學英文同普通好d

我個下年都返k1, 佢現在上午有上學, 下午有一天去上英文playgroup, 一天下午去學音樂, 星期日去學婦女中心的兒童跆拳3yrs班(未上課), 都好忙, 晚上我下班7:00後要同佢溫書, 講故仔, 自制兒童功課給他做, 又要溫音樂, 我都覺得佢同我都好忙.

作者: brima 時間: 10-4-16 15:28

就如大人返2份part time工, 又要適應唔同環境. 都好辛苦

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 14:48 發表
我個囝囝(細仔)今年9月會讀K1上午班, 係一間普通的幼稚園, 在家乘小巴只需１５min.
而家心大心細唸緊會唔會比佢讀埋樓下新開(在其他區口啤唔錯)的國際學校下午班.

其實考慮原因係：想囝囝將來讀本地小一，而又想佢可以讀吓 ...

作者: sheffield 時間: 10-4-16 15:41

諗都唔好諗囉！

點解要3歲小朋友咁辛苦？比如之前一晚瞓得唔，第二日小朋有想早點午睡都唔得。又或者午睡瞓多左10分鐘，仲可能因瞓多左10分鐘，咁就玩少左。如果要出街街食飯要早d出去，咁就連玩嘅少少時間都而冇左！！其實就算冇差遲，成日都係得1個鐘玩，係咪太少呢？！

很多國家要小朋友滿6歲什至更大才可上學呢！當中一定有原因。香港已提早讓小朋友上學，爸媽還覺得小朋友輸蝕嗎？

唔好以為小朋友返學都係玩，所有野都係要attention架！attention係需要精神和用腦分析，兩都都會令小朋友好攰。
唔好意思我都要話句，我好討厭d人要小朋友返兩間學校…

作者: traeh 時間: 10-4-16 15:46

學語文唔係一年半載的事，即係你要小朋友直到K3都係返兩間幼稚園，K1可能無乜嘢要放學後做，但到K2／K3就要每日做兩套功課，又各有各的學校旅行同家長日，你點安排？

而且三歲後會有好多課外活動可以選擇，我估你都最少都會安排佢學一樣樂器，仲有游水、畫畫、語文等等，唔通唔比佢瞓？

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 14:48 發表
我個囝囝(細仔)今年9月會讀K1上午班, 係一間普通的幼稚園, 在家乘小巴只需１５min.
而家心大心細唸緊會唔會比佢讀埋樓下新開(在其他區口啤唔錯)的國際學校下午班.

其實考慮原因係：想囝囝將來讀本地小一，而又想佢可以讀吓 ...

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-16 16:50

多謝各位媽咪的意見!

其實小朋友個時間表內係有2hrs.玩既
(6:30pm-7:30pm & 8:00pm-9:00pm), 而此段時間就係我放工返來可以同佢的一齊時間, 我絕對唔會犧牲親子時段.

至於學其他野, 我唸响幼稚園階段, 只會比佢學彈琴(自己星期六上午教佢), 其餘時間(星期六-日)都係玩.

不過我唸過, 要佢同時適應2間學校唔係易事, 可能會安排佢下學期先插班入國際班下午班.

期間就上午放學後, 試吓繼續比佢返英文playgroup,　但時間就會係3:00pm-4:00pm, 睇睇佢完咗playgroup先瞓ok唔ok, 咁如果ok的話, 下學校返埋下午班都係放4:25pm, 我唸會好d.

同埋我只打算比佢返半年-2年, 事關係地要搬屋了, 所以功課方面唔駛太擔心應付唔到.

作者: 已刪除用戶 時間: 10-4-16 17:01

絕大部分3,4歲小朋友, 仲係需要午睡的, 你不如返左K1, 睇下佢時間表點樣再決定吧!
K3返2間, 我真係識人做過, K1返2間真係太辛苦了, 唔好以為小朋友返學唔駛用腦得架, 好攰架

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 04:50 PM 發表
多謝各位媽咪的意見!

其實小朋友個時間表內係有2hrs.玩既
(6:30pm-7:30pm & 8:00pm-9:00pm), 而此段時間就係我放工返來可以同佢的一齊時間, 我絕對唔會犧牲親子時段.

至於學其他野, 我唸响幼稚園階段, 只會比佢學 ...

作者: traeh 時間: 10-4-16 17:44

我見你寫6:30pm-7:30pm係做功課同玩，如果返兩間，做兩邊功課，可能無乜時間玩，係做少少，抖一陣，又做少少，可能咁就一個鐘．而全日都無乜比佢天馬行空咁自由活動嘅時間．

無論如何，自己小朋友情況，自己最清楚，其他小朋友頂唔住，唔等於所有小朋友都頂唔住，同埋我諗你都心裏有數．希望你會搵到最適合佢嘅學習模式．

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 16:50 發表
多謝各位媽咪的意見!

其實小朋友個時間表內係有2hrs.玩既
(6:30pm-7:30pm & 8:00pm-9:00pm), 而此段時間就係我放工返來可以同佢的一齊時間, 我絕對唔會犧牲親子時段.

至於學其他野, 我唸响幼稚園階段, 只會比佢學 ...

作者: fc926 時間: 10-4-16 18:21

你個小朋友現在有無返開N1?下午果間學校hair唔hair架?如果係"谷"果種就好難頂.
我鄰居個仔之前就讀兩間K1(其中一間仲係KV),我見他都有熊貓眼,現在他已經唔讀.

作者: 112200 時間: 10-4-16 18:21

Hi, I have some different view on this topic. First I think we should not assume going to school is " 辛苦", it is fun & more meaningful for kids when compare to just sit there / play usual toys or watching TV at home. Be frank I personally think that if just go to playgroup in the afternoon once or twice a week, this will even make the kid more 辛苦 as they can not have a fix timetable everyday. For example we let them take afternoon playgroup on Mon and Wed afternoon, then kid need to take nap time late on Mon, then nap time early on Tue, then latre on Wed... isn't that make them more hard to adopt? And at the end in order to make them have a fixed timetable, you may eventually let them take nap late everyday.... if mom can accompany kids in the afternnoon and take them to outdoor activity then this is great ! But if you are a working mom , will you just plan to stay them inside the home in the whole afternnoon instead of learnng somthing in pm school ? But on the other side I agree that 2 school cannot be sustained throughout the 3 years kindergarden as kids may not able to handle homeworks from 2 school. So maybe just until the first semaster of k2 , or depending the homeworkload of the 2 schools you choose.

作者: mrnosey 時間: 10-4-16 19:43

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作者: conniechan125 時間: 10-4-16 20:14

洗唔洗呀

作者: tonton2450 時間: 10-4-16 20:37

嘩~番2間~
我諗都未諗過~
我啊女依家k1番下午班~
我都覺得佢辛苦~

作者: hyto 時間: 10-4-16 20:48

有呀!藝人曹永廉同老婆就比個仔(只有2歲)返2間學校，所以傳媒都成日提到。
問到會吾會太幸苦?
梗係話"吾會..."
當然啦!"吾係自己，叫個仔去之嘛"

作者: posagg 時間: 10-4-16 20:53

there are some kindergartens also organize some 2 hours or 1.5 hours activities for children (e.g. arts work, english ).

You may consider them.
i think that if you are not a full time mom and no one (or just bun bun) to look after the baby, 1.5 to 2 hours activites is also a good idea provided that it is near by

[ 本帖最後由 posagg 於 10-4-16 20:54 編輯 ]

作者: renren 時間: 10-4-16 21:03

無得揀,我會離家出走

作者: gracelam 時間: 10-4-16 21:04

好殘忍! 可能有童年陰影, 且對學習產生抗拒, 又可苦!

作者: posagg 時間: 10-4-16 21:06

i also agree not taking 2 K1 at the same times But if the another time slot (not too long) is just some play group and fun activities (e.g. in another languages, english/japanese) with other child, that may be a good idea

作者: sheffield 時間: 10-4-16 23:28

其實我們所說的辛苦不是真的体力勞動或大壓力的那種辛苦。
小朋友跟大人唔一樣，我話比你知，著一對鞋鞋對大人來說是pc of cake，穿落去，頂多打個結就搞掂。但對小朋有來說，那是一個要特別集中精神嘅動作，因為眼和手的協調還未是成熟！我不否認小朋友上學係"fun"，因為有唱遊，有學習又有運動等等，但這全部都要精神的！
不上覺不等如要睇電視！
我個女一星期都睇唔夠1個鐘電視，就算睇都係我地揀嘅碟。但佢就可以自己睇下書，玩下玩具，最鍾意同我地玩role play。所有這些遊戲都能順練她思考，學習常識什至獨處等等。最緊要就係係屋企，攰攰或開始悶時就可以無目的在家遊蕩一下，飲啖水等等。再加上小朋友會開好有其他課外活動…
請打算比小朋友返兩間學樣的爸媽三思！！

作者: fc926 時間: 10-4-16 23:41

其實小朋友在家仲有一個好重要既活動,就係自創遊戲,用D日日都玩既玩具,靠創意自己想像不同既玩意,唔好下下被安排,被動式.

我兩個女成日lake住舊積木,一時擋電話甘講,一時話影相,一時擋cake分來食,睇來可以買少D玩具.哈哈!

作者: cherylyau_b 時間: 10-4-16 23:45

我都覺得咁對小朋友唔好囉~~
我係一個working mother,我而家深造緊,我一星期要返一日學,朝9晚5,我都已經覺得好辛苦,仲有時會做左fishing mother,因為上堂有時都會頂唔住fishing下,我唸小朋友仲難忍,可能會有情緒,影響上課添!!下午學唔學野唔重要,咁細個,都比佢休息下喇~~
如果你想佢學多D英文,一係剩係讀你樓下既學校囉~~
小小意見,希望你唔會唔中意.

[ 本帖最後由 cherylyau_b 於 10-4-16 23:47 編輯 ]

作者: Christi 時間: 10-4-17 00:02

對小朋友嚟講,玩,即係學習;學習,即係玩.所以,學習同玩其實都會好攰架.我成日同囡囡玩,要好集中精神,唔係真係玩咁輕鬆.因此,午睡係好好好緊要...況且,人生有成20幾年既讀書生涯丫,唔駛初期去到咁儘啦...好明白[贏在起跑線]呢句話對好多家長好有吸引力,但人生係長跑,小心贏在起跑線,輸在終點丫!我代各位小朋友,請求各位家長畀佢地一個快樂童年啦...

作者: crystal媽咪 時間: 10-4-17 00:14

我都識有個小朋友返兩間k1,
之前返n1就一間, 係屋邨學校, 佢返得好開心,
佢媽咪想佢考好d的小學, 之後k1時就上午返九龍塘k1,下午繼續原有的k1 屋邨學校,
返左2個月, 小朋友自己表示太疲倦,
話鐘意屋邨那間幼稚園, 話開心好多.
無咁多功課, 最後無再返兩間.

作者: my77 時間: 10-4-17 07:07

my kid is currently studying in two schools (K 1) at the same time. She adapted quite well with a joyful school life. but one thing u can consider is she can take a taxi to and from the am class so that she can take a nap after lunch ( my wife drove her to school and my maid will feed her in the car).

作者: my77 時間: 10-4-17 07:16

i do think that every child (or family) is a specific entity. one successful (or failure) case might not applied to all. i know some of the children MUST attend two schools of specific reasons and they can cope with the problems. (u can see similar cases in the forum of special education, many autistic children need to attend ordinary school and receive special training every day).
in my opinion you might observe the progress and makes relevant tuning.

作者: happycandy 時間: 10-4-17 11:31

我c6反問我:[有人返兩間k1的出發點,係咪想用埋學劵,至少有一間可以用學劵(esp for 中產的人士可以安慰自己的方法),扣除後只需俾幾佰元一個月,試問那兒有更平的Playgroup...],....

我突然啞口無言.....不過我識了一些人,返兩間,都是一間本地用學劵,一間國際冇學劵,而小朋友的確比較唔長肉...

作者: Parisienne 時間: 10-4-17 11:48

欲速則不達

小朋友會好辛苦。況且5:00先瞓晏教，夜晚9:30實瞓唔着啦！個schedule 幾perfect都只不過係schedule，你估佢係robot 咩，一到9:30就瞓得著。現實情況一定有出入。到時攪到幾歲人仔睡眠不足，兩頭唔到岸就慘。個囝無理由因為父母攞唔定主意而受苦啫！

放鬆Ｄ啦香港人！
佢都只不過係讀K1啫。

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-16 14:48 發表
我個囝囝(細仔)今年9月會讀K1上午班, 係一間普通的幼稚園, 在家乘小巴只需１５min.
而家心大心細唸緊會唔會比佢讀埋樓下新開(在其他區口啤唔錯)的國際學校下午班.

其實考慮原因係：想囝囝將來讀本地小一，而又想佢可以讀吓 ...

作者: rubyrubylau 時間: 10-4-17 13:36

就算小朋友返2間幼稚園, 真係好好成續, 都唔代表佢可以入到好的私小, or直小, 都要看小朋友表現.

都係要看你的出發點, 如你想小朋友有野做, 有野學, 都係比佢學興趣班好d, 起碼看一下去有什麼興趣, 又無學校一班咁多人, 又專門d, 病毒都少d, k1的小朋友都會成日病.

作者: monkey05 時間: 10-4-17 16:10

好鄧呢d 要被安排番兩間幼稚園的小朋友辛苦, 食餐飯要趕到在車到餵, 3幾歲人仔就搞到好似d 大人番工趕去開會咁既款, 人生漫長, 唔知到佢懂事既時候, 仲鐘唔鐘意番學呢 ?

有樣幾唔明既野, 既然呢類父母咁想小朋友上英普幼稚園,為何你地唔好好找一間有良好語言環境訓練的學校比小朋友去讀呢, 而要東一間, 西一間咁煩 ?

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-17 19:31

聽咗好多媽咪既意見, 我都係覺得對小朋友會太趕.....所以多數會只係比佢讀樓下的國際班, 下年先讀本地k1.
多謝你地的意見, 我覺得你地都係出於好心, 感激感激!!

作者: Yorkie 時間: 10-4-17 23:30

原帖由 monkey05 於 10-4-17 16:10 發表
好鄧呢d 要被安排番兩間幼稚園的小朋友辛苦, 食餐飯要趕到在車到餵, 3幾歲人仔就搞到好似d 大人番工趕去開會咁既款, 人生漫長, 唔知到佢懂事既時候, 仲鐘唔鐘意番學呢 ?

有樣幾唔明既野, 既然呢類父母咁想小朋友上 ...

300% agree!!!! My sympathy to those child who have to attend 2 schools aday!!!! (not offensive)

[ 本帖最後由 Yorkie 於 10-4-21 12:18 編輯 ]

作者: easybring 時間: 10-4-19 10:23

唔好呀! 最多比佢去附近的外籍老師英文班一小時/堂, 一星期一至兩堂都好疲倦了. k2/3有功課仲慘.

我仲想講, interview小學時, 老師問: 小朋友係上午放之後有咩做...要返另一間幼稚園, 我估小學老師都會唔認同呢個家長做法, 得不償失. 請返緊兩間幼稚園的家長考慮清楚, 自己兒女健康比任何野更重要.

[ 本帖最後由 easybring 於 10-4-19 10:28 編輯 ]

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-19 16:55

原帖由 Yorkie 於 10-4-17 23:30 發表

300% agree!!!! My sympathy to those child who have to attend 2 schools aday!!!!

駛唔駛咁激動呢？人地都只係初步唸吓姐，並且聽咗各位媽咪意見後，已經打消計劃．．．．．我個人都係鍾意ｄ比較ｄ友善的意見．

作者: easybring 時間: 10-4-19 19:33

好彩你打消了呢個想法. good.

原帖由 LHLMother 於 10-4-19 16:55 發表

駛唔駛咁激動呢？人地都只係初步唸吓姐，並且聽咗各位媽咪意見後，已經打消計劃．．．．．我個人都係鍾意ｄ比較ｄ友善的意見．

作者: LHLMother 時間: 10-4-19 20:28

謝謝!

作者: InitialD 時間: 10-4-20 21:16

I agreed with 112200 "I have some different view on this topic. First I think we should not assume going to school is " 辛苦", it is fun & more meaningful for kids when compare to just sit there / play usual toys or watching TV at home."

My son go to 2 schools and he told describe both school as "happy school" and "interesting chinese school" as I sent him to some less demanding chinese school which only 2 pages of homework everyday. He attends classes on Saturday and Sunday is family day.

My advise is " selection of school is important".

原帖由 posagg 於 10-4-16 20:53 發表
there are some kindergartens also organize some 2 hours or 1.5 hours activities for children (e.g. arts work, english ).

You may consider them.
i think that if you are not a full time mom and no one ...

作者: twinsstar 時間: 10-4-20 23:10

going to 2 schools might not be harsh esp if sch life is fun.. but having only 45 mins every day for lunch (including getting change) / eat on the car is really v harsh for a kid

原帖由 InitialD 於 10-4-20 21:16 發表
I agreed with 112200 "I have some different view on this topic. First I think we should not assume going to school is " 辛苦", it is fun & more meaningful for kids when compare to just sit there / pla ...

作者: wootaitai 時間: 10-4-24 23:10

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作者: kfy 時間: 10-4-25 08:16

原帖由 wootaitai 於 10-4-24 23:10 發表
what do you think about my case:

個女乃0801B，已經插班讀緊PN，因表現不錯而學校又有位，學校比9月越齡升K1，是街坊幼稚園但口裨好自己亦很滿意

另外維記已收PN班（5日但可試改二，四）

打算同時返K1 ＋ PN （2days），因可 ...

wootaitai

我諗你可以考慮一下 Tue Thur 時Ｋ１早半個鐘放學，返屋企食飯梳洗 hea 下先返下午 Victoria。咁就舒服Ｄ。其實都可行的。

作者: wootaitai 時間: 10-4-26 09:47

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作者: queen_sze 時間: 10-4-26 11:06

我識有個同事個女就係日日都咁做! 我同事話佢個女都無用, 佢個女中午接完放學, 駕車到第二間返, 午餐在車上食, 我覺得個小朋友好慘! 咁趕法, 遲到皮黃骨瘦! 有時小朋友食飯, 唔係話快就快, 有時都會慢嫁, 萬一食得慢果日點算呢? 咁早起身, 上完堂, 正常都累啦!仲要再返學~?!
我個仔上午放學返黎食完飯我要瞓完覺先帶佢去興趣班嫁, 如果D班上堂兩點開始我都唔會比佢去, 等佢瞓完再去好過! 瞓個半鐘都好! 不過你做媽媽你自己決定囉! 你可以試吓, 頂唔順咪QUIT一間囉!

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