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作者: juliet 時間: 10-4-15 19:17 標題: 請問有經驗的資優兒媽媽可唔可以幫到我?

我想問0下我個細仔今年3歲3個月,佢學0野好快,我教佢A-Z,佢可以認得晒,就算抽問都識答,1-50都識數及識認,屋企電話號碼及我同老公手提號碼都識背,又鍾意玩砌圖,宜家250塊都識砌,仲砌得好快添!我宜家已經開始教佢睇鐘,佢都開始識,佢學0野真係好快,咁算唔算係資優呀?請問有經驗的資優兒媽媽可唔可以幫到我呢?唔該晒~

[ 本帖最後由 juliet 於 10-4-15 20:09 編輯 ]

作者: blackbb 時間: 10-5-3 15:04

我個b 都係...
2歲已經識晒a-z, 1-40
英文認字讀字, 數數目
唱普通話歌
講晒全家人o既名, 住邊, 歲半大仲識「禁」大閘密碼~
有時見佢返n1, d 同學要學一個星期o既野, 佢一放學返屋企就識讀比我聽...
我驚佢會悶~

因為我以前都係小學就被要求跳級, 但以前d regulation 好以冇咁嚴, 而家就乜都要按好多程序...

唔知點好~

作者: 窮媽咪 時間: 10-6-23 22:19

資優又有何用......係現今香港根本就沒有支援幫助!! 最終呢班資優小朋友同父母都變成迷途小羊........跟住又係不了了之.........

[ 本帖最後由窮媽咪於 10-8-5 13:10 編輯 ]

作者: ChristieMing 時間: 10-8-15 22:23

我個仔都係一樣...佢2歲前已經識晒A-Z、認生果、動物圖、數字、數量, 完全難唔到佢, 佢學野好快、記性好好, 但我唔認為佢係資優, 佢只不過係較聰明、學野快、記性好而已~

我接觸過資優生o既家長, 佢地係無師自通的!! 唔洗教佢, 只要佢有興趣, 佢自自然然用佢o既方法去學識, 你真係估佢唔到的~

作者: peremum 時間: 10-8-18 12:38

Don't put too much pressure on your kids. They are definitely brilliant, but PLEASE don't over-burdenthem with high expectation. My daughter was also a quick learner when she is a baby. My husbanddecided to let her have a happy babyhood. We sent her to a kindergarten with all play & no work, but we let her read whatever & whenever she liked.She did not even know how to write when going to P1. All of our friends are worried for her.
However, she surprised eveyone to get 100% in both her 1st English & Chinese dictation. She went on to get good (but not top) results in school.
So, don't worry. Let the kids develop in their own pace, as long as a lot of love is poured on them by the parents.

作者: jefferyho 時間: 10-8-19 10:30

係唔係資優當然要做過 IQ TEST 先知啦!

但係好緊要既係唔好咁PUSH 你既孩子, 因為好多資優孩子就係咁樣俾家長LOAD 爆佢, 搞到有好多其他既心理問題出現,
所以即使IQ高, 都要佢同埋家長EQ 都夠高, 咁佢先可以健康成長既!!!

作者: peremum 時間: 10-8-19 12:00

Totally agree. IQ is not everything. It is not even the topmost quality. Good EQ & AQ contribute more to success in life.
Moreover, a happy & healthy (physical, emotional & mental) childhood carries him/her through a life time.

作者: suki1028 時間: 10-8-19 14:30

You may go to Insight Talent Club (I.T Club). They not only promote courses for the talented kids, but also focus on the psychological condition of the children. They have a psychologist who is responsible for doing assessment for the children, which I think it's good.

作者: chowqv 時間: 10-8-20 17:53

以我所知，如果你要check小朋友係唔係優資，有2個途徑。1.係先去睇普通科醫生，寫信俾你去政府（唔記得咩構構）做評估，排期都幾耐下；2.係自己俾$$去私人機構做評估。不過2個都要小朋友夠5歲先做得。如果小朋友真係資優，其實可以問下佢學校既老師。

作者: dolphinmama 時間: 10-10-10 16:00

現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人擔心的事!

作者: monkey05 時間: 10-10-13 11:00

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

講得好.

作者: kristinecheng 時間: 10-10-26 14:27

絕對同意~

原帖由 peremum 於 10-8-19 12:00 發表
Totally agree. IQ is not everything. It is not even the topmost quality. Good EQ & AQ contribute more to success in life.
Moreover, a happy & healthy (physical, emotional & mental) childhood carrie ...

作者: gatse 時間: 10-10-30 23:26

Totally agree!!!

原帖由 jefferyho 於 10-8-19 10:30 發表
係唔係資優當然要做過 IQ TEST 先知啦!
但係好緊要既係唔好咁PUSH 你既孩子, 因為好多資優孩子就係咁樣俾家長LOAD 爆佢, 搞到有好多其他既心理問題出現,
所以即使IQ高, 都要佢同埋家長EQ 都夠高, 咁佢先可 ...

作者: suiyiu922 時間: 11-2-20 22:08

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

作者: Irismammy 時間: 11-2-23 15:11

我個仔十三個月都已識晒A-Z，大約兩歲都已識晒A for ambulance, B for bear etc.
佢仲會自己轉生字，不會for死一個生字。

但我都不覺得自己仔仔是什麼資優，因為好多小朋友其實都識！

作者: Aerosol_Ma 時間: 11-2-23 15:28

In fact gifted kids have their own thinking. So if the kids just know a lot of words, they are
definitely smart kids but may not gifted. For one example, my son learnt +,-,x by himself so I felt quite amazed. So together with other features,I took him to do the WPPSI-R test when he was 4.2.

I read many articles there and noticed that nowadays many kids are very smart and know many words or puzzle. We are not professionals so they must be carefully assessed by the qualified professionals.

原帖由 Irismammy 於 11-2-23 15:11 發表
我個仔十三個月都已識晒A-Z，大約兩歲都已識晒A for ambulance, B for bear etc.
佢仲會自己轉生字，不會for死一個生字。

但我都不覺得自己仔仔是什麼資優，因為好多小朋友其實都識！ ...

作者: Master_Sam 時間: 11-3-7 14:11

I find that many parents make mis-understanding between talented children and gifted children.

作者: mio8390 時間: 11-3-7 20:15

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 16:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

十分有同感，我的孩子比現今孩子早了十多年出世，對比下他真是個低B生，現時我身邊的同事或朋友口中得知，大部份的子女都十分聰明，過目不忘，背千多個字，上網或玩遊戲機一玩就明，能回答大人都不會想到的問題，但好多都是皮氣暴燥和內向，現今個個都是資優生，還是資訊發達下和獨生兒的結果，當個個都是資優，就等待平凡，沒有分別。

[ 本帖最後由 mio8390 於 11-3-7 20:17 編輯 ]

作者: Master_Sam 時間: 11-3-8 09:22

Parts of "A comparing chart between bright child and gifted child" for your reference.
Quoted from Janice Sz abos, Challenge, 198 9, G ood Apple, Inc., I ssue 34

B.C. Knows the answers.
G.C. Asks the questions.
B.C. Works hard.
G.C. Plays around; still gets good test scores.
B.C. Answers questions.
G.C. Questions the answers.
B.C. Good at memorization.
G.C. Good at guessing.
B.C. Enjoys peers.
G.C. Beyond the group.

etc...

Hope these can help you to know more about your children.

作者: Pertra 時間: 11-4-29 21:16

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作者: yame 時間: 11-7-22 16:02

My boy is approaching 2, and he knows A-Z, a-z, 1-30 and all the English & Chinese names of family members.  He can talk in long chinese sentence.  He can sing many songs and do a pre-dinner prayer.

However, i think most smart kids can do that...  so he is just 聰明, but may not be the Talented (like Mozart or Einstein etc...)

But I totally agree that we should let them be kids, and enjoy a happy kid's life!  Happy learning!

作者: mrshoho 時間: 11-7-25 23:32

my case is different, my son is 3 years old, turning four soon, I knew my son is a talkative boy ever since he started talking... I never teach him ABC, or buy any DVD or CD, he is not interested in books or TV. So, I just play with him when he was little, he learnt everything from school... I tried to play puzzle with him since pre-nursary, but he shows no interests.. he would just walk away, so, I have never come across that he is special in anyway... All I noticed is that he talks a lot, and loves to talk to anyone, even people he doesn't know. Recently, his teacher suggested to me that he has some kind of emotional problem, especially when someone cannot answer his questions, so, I am starting to concern about his EQ. My father-in-law suggested to take my son to do an accessment, I thought I was taking my son to see a psychologist to check on his behaviour, but this psychologist ended up giving him an IQ test, and the result indicated that he is highly gifted, he was able to do many block designs and puzzels during the test, which I can hardly believe because he always refuse to do blocks and puzzles with me. Both my husband and I started to research on gifted child after the accessment. I am worried that he will get told off at school because of his questions, and I am now trying to find some other professional to train him how to handle his emotion. I will not pay too much attention on his IQ, I just hope that he can enjoy life and make friends and have fun at school.

作者: etkit 時間: 11-8-1 18:08

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作者: snoopyyip 時間: 11-11-2 00:46

原帖由 dolphinmama 於 10-10-10 08:00 發表
現今資訊發達,我只可以說,若孩子不會才是有問題,反而他/她會什麼什麼已經不直得驚訝,他們比做父母的一代人幸福,他們有好的營養,有好的教育,有好的環境,要是在如此"資"源"優"質的情況下都不能有出色的表現,那才是令人 ...

作者: himuimui 時間: 11-11-2 11:11

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作者: j-mum 時間: 11-11-8 00:29

So happy to know parent who is so open-minded like you!

原帖由 peremum 於 10-8-18 12:38 發表
Don't put too much pressure on your kids. They are definitely brilliant, but PLEASE don't over-burdenthem with high expectation. My daughter was also a quick learner when she is a baby. My husbandd ...

作者: 喜樂寶寶 時間: 11-11-12 17:48

最重要是讓孩子朝自己的興趣發展,避免小時了了大未必佳!!!

作者: beagoodmama 時間: 11-11-13 15:16

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