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標題: 有冇小朋友係資優加亞士保加既媽媽? [打印本頁]
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-3-10 14:11 標題: 有冇小朋友係資優加亞士保加既媽媽?
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作者: ha! 時間: 10-3-28 03:51
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作者: 07mami 時間: 10-5-25 22:35
hi cchmama請問什麼叫亞士保加,象徵係點.原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-3-10 14:11 發表 
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作者: wawa 時間: 10-5-26 10:33
如果有aspergar 只有行為治療沒有藥食的, 但aspergar 一定有一樣明顯叻的.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-3-10 14:11 發表
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作者: 07mami 時間: 10-5-26 11:11
請賜教,有什麼course或其他可以治療.thk原帖由 wawa 於 10-5-26 10:33 發表
如果有aspergar 只有行為治療沒有藥食的, 但aspergar 一定有一樣明顯叻的.
作者: 甜芋 時間: 10-5-26 11:17
原帖由 07mami 於 10-5-26 11:11 發表
請賜教,有什麼course或其他可以治療.thk
耀能,明愛,都有課程提供.或者找私人的治療師.
作者: wawa 時間: 10-5-26 11:28
小童群益會和教育學院http://www.ied.edu.hk/aspire/
都有.
原帖由 07mami 於 10-5-26 11:11 發表
請賜教,有什麼course或其他可以治療.thk
[ 本帖最後由 wawa 於 10-5-26 11:31 編輯 ]
作者: 07mami 時間: 10-5-26 11:56
Thk 甜芋&wawa 我e幫囝囝做左5個月物理治療,幫助不大囝囝d行為依然令我哋非常禁介.不知點好.
作者: wawa 時間: 10-5-26 12:06
努力啦, 有時個小朋友係唔想的, 不過旁人好多時覺得家長無教導, 這真的無耐. 只係家長有心無力.
原帖由 07mami 於 10-5-26 11:56 發表
Thk 甜芋&wawa 我e幫囝囝做左5個月物理治療,幫助不大囝囝d行為依然令我哋非常禁介.不知點好.
作者: 07mami 時間: 10-5-26 13:43
wawa thk for you好才你明白,我依經嘛木左比其他媽媽説我點教囝,依家祗會笑笑口説對不起,他唔係有心,自己都覺得EQ高左好多,不過講真呢2年幾真係心力交瘁心,我同老公都會加油.原帖由 wawa 於 10-5-26 12:06 發表
努力啦, 有時個小朋友係唔想的, 不過旁人好多時覺得家長無教導, 這真的無耐. 只係家長有心無力.
作者: bbJP 時間: 10-5-26 16:31
原帖由 ha! 於 10-3-28 03:51 發表
i haven't tested IQ for my son as my son is 3yrs9mons only...but doctor suspect he is ASPERBER half years before when i brought him to govt CAC... he has all the "characterists" of both "GIFTED" and " ...
睇下e條link有冇用:http://hkage.org.hk/b5/pz_te.html
我阿仔細個時d特徵同你個仔幾似,程度上可能唔同.我地以為佢有d自閉.後來發佢只係資優,仲係高度資優果隻, 大大下d怪野就慢慢淡化,即係唔鍾意見人....,固執d野淨係响佢comfort zone(即係屋企)先間中發出黎.係學校好合羣, e d都係由K3開始慢慢好轉,入左小學就ok哂.
你要明白佢係有特別的需要,多d包容,有好的親子關係,佢自然可以健康成長.
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作者: talent2000 時間: 10-5-26 22:38
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作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-5 17:12
行為古怪固執，堅持特定既原則，難以合群，喜歡自己玩，冇言語障礙，冇智力障礙，有動作不協調，不靈活，食野好慢，遇到不喜歡的食物，可以即場嘔出來，令人懢介，常受身邊不了解的師長同學不滿．我個仔今年７歲，做左評估，證實左係，不過佢係特優智能十分聰明，可惜十分抗拒寫字，所以影響成積，就讀主流學校，小一小二不斷接到老師投訴，話佢不合作，情緒失控．知道左個評估之後先知唔係自己教得唔好，係佢有發展障礙，即係Asperger syndrome（亞氏保加症／亞斯伯格症），在yahoo可以搵到好多資料．
作者: patsm 時間: 10-6-7 06:29
CCHmama,我個仔d情況同你小朋友一樣，小兒差2個月就6歲，k2時發現行為古怪、固執，極度自我，不合群，後來到了兒童評估中心見医生，話亞氏保加，後到耀能做訓練一年，情況好像有少少改善，k3給學校投訴了兩三次(行為方面)，真的尷尬，最近因要準備升小一所以中心姑娘suggest做智能評估，發現語言140，智商151，医生話算是很高分，但我同老公都是担心行為方面多d，耀能幼兒中心只跟到6歲，之後無得跟進，好怕上了小學後又被投訴呀！
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-7 08:09
我個仔今年７歲，佢ｎ１－ｋ３既時候都ok,最多話佢食野慢，寫字慢，大小肌肉唔好，要做好ｄ運動，今年１月才帶佢去做評估，因為受唔住各方既投訴（補習社，學校），睇下佢有咩問題，先知道原來係亞氏保加症＋資優＋ADHD. 學校在資優方面沒有支援，但收到亞仔既報告，對佢既投訴小左，我想同佢轉校，但亞仔有情緒問題，佢有時會覺得學校好噪，便會生氣，冇咩學校會包容佢．而家升小三，條路好難行，我只好對佢既要求降低．
作者: wawa 時間: 10-6-7 09:50
Cchmama
其實有無同學商量他的對策.
Check 下學校有無融合教育. 因教育局有資源可申請請教育助理陪小朋友上堂, 同時你仔仔可能有讀寫障礙的問題. 如有可和學校商量加時考試. 如同時有ADHA的問題唯有吃藥處理. 可令小朋友專注, 如果他有情緒問題, 試和學校了解你仔仔上課情況, 看看問題是否嚴重.
你的學校有沒有教育心理學家幫忙, 或輔導主任可跟進, (因班主任年年都會轉的) 可與學校做一個行為表, 寫下他發生事的原固, 這樣容易跟進, 其實學校如能配合是不用轉校的. 轉校反而令你小朋友不安.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-5 17:12 發表
行為古怪固執，堅持特定既原則，難以合群，喜歡自己玩，冇言語障礙，冇智力障礙，有動作不協調，不靈活，食野好慢，遇到不喜歡的食物，可以即場嘔出來，令人懢介，常受身邊不了解的師長同學不滿．我個仔今年７歲，做左評估，證實左係，不過佢係特優智能 ...
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-7 22:10
有同學校開過會,見過教育心理學家(由學校提供),我覺得冇咩用,佢地除了常常送d小禮物鼓勵佢,少d批評佢,都冇咩幫到手,佢冇讀寫障礙,因為佢己經能閱讀中學生既小說,而且很愛看書,又快又多字又專心,佢可以完全讀晒d字比我聽,不過寫唔出.完美主義同過份執著,字體十分整潔,常常擦過再寫,人地寫一次,佢可能寫三次,係亞氏保加其中一個特徵.抄生字,做功課,及上課,做佢唔想做既悶事,佢就好似迷失左,我唔知點樣可以幫佢.
原帖由 wawa 於 10-6-7 09:50 發表
Cchmama
其實有無同學商量他的對策.
Check 下學校有無融合教育. 因教育局有資源可申請請教育助理陪小朋友上堂, 同時你仔仔可能有讀寫障礙的問題. 如有可和學校商量加時考試. 如同時有ADHA的問題唯有吃藥處理. 可令 ...
作者: wawa 時間: 10-6-8 11:39
咁樣學校已經幫到他了, 為何佢認到字,但寫唔出呢, 咁打字得唔得呢, 其實寫唔到都算讀障的. 可要求學校考試時有特別安排的.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-7 22:10 發表
有同學校開過會,見過教育心理學家(由學校提供),我覺得冇咩用,佢地除了常常送d小禮物鼓勵佢,少d批評佢,都冇咩幫到手,佢冇讀寫障礙,因為佢己經能閱讀中學生既小說,而且很愛看書,又快又多字又專心,佢可以完全讀晒d字比 ...
作者: 07mami 時間: 10-6-8 12:20
CCHmama你可以試下做髗骶骨治療,小兒2歲行為比你囝囝還嚴重,遇到不滿一發不可收拾,不喜歡的食物唔係嘔出來,依係到處噴,番n1一個月要轉校,番二間唔夠三個月,跟住帶佢見心理治療,心理治療師都說不可思議,好在小兒還細又發現得早見議做髗骶骨最有效,做左一年有好轉依家做緊物理治療及行為治療.(做髗骶骨的小朋友情況好多跟你囝囝一樣).原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-7 22:10 發表
有同學校開過會見過教育心理學家(由學校提供),我覺得冇咩用,佢地除了常常送d小禮物鼓勵佢,少d批評佢,都冇咩幫到手,佢冇讀寫障礙,因為佢己經能閱讀中學生既小說,而且很愛看書,又快又多字又專心,佢可以完全讀晒d字比 ...
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-8 14:18
佢寫唔出字,唔係因為有讀障,而係佢逃避.讀障既小朋友係會將d字倒轉位置及方向,無法背誦及閱讀有困難,會跳字跳行難以集中.
佢可以背書,閱讀順利,只係不愛寫字,因為隻手仔小肌肉發展不協調,好似用交剪,寫字,扣衫鈕都比正常人困難,所以做事會比較慢,影響寫字既動機,學校冇同佢做調適,因為覺得佢得,評估中心亦冇話佢有讀障, 只係Asperger.
所以我都唔知有咩可以做.....佢係資優,但係有咩用....
原帖由 wawa 於 10-6-8 11:39 發表
咁樣學校已經幫到他了, 為何佢認到字,但寫唔出呢, 咁打字得唔得呢, 其實寫唔到都算讀障的. 可要求學校考試時有特別安排的.
作者: wawa 時間: 10-6-8 15:46
要去職業治療,做感覺統合運動, 同埋要練番佢o的手指的力, 可以做一些手指運動, 泥膠, 撕紙, 砌lego, 拋接球, 大概需時半年至一年, 襯暑假做有多些時間.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-8 14:18 發表
佢寫唔出字,唔係因為有讀障,而係佢逃避.讀障既小朋友係會將d字倒轉位置及方向,無法背誦及閱讀有困難,會跳字跳行難以集中.
佢可以背書,閱讀順利,只係不愛寫字,因為隻手仔小肌肉發展不協調,好似用交剪,寫字,扣衫鈕都比 ...
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-8 22:54
評估中心己轉介去職業治療,不過要等好耐.學校也幫我轉介去扶輪,又係唔知等幾耐...我好心急,搵私家又貴,又怕比人詭.
我太遲發現亞仔既障礙,感覺統合運動最好係0-6歲前做,真係沒想過佢很早便會說話,有交流,有良好邏輯思維,以為佢好聰明,竟然係自閉.雖然自閉都有好多種,佢係可以同人溝過個種,但係有時會好執著,好堅持己見,唔係個個頂得佢順,結果會自己同自己玩.佢思維冇問題,但係動行協調有障礙,比人好慢既感覺,我以為比佢做多d運動便得,原有唔係,障礙就係你幾努力都解決唔到既缺憾.
原帖由 wawa 於 10-6-8 15:46 發表
要去職業治療,做感覺統合運動, 同埋要練番佢o的手指的力, 可以做一些手指運動, 泥膠, 撕紙, 砌lego, 拋接球, 大概需時半年至一年, 襯暑假做有多些時間.
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作者: wawa 時間: 10-6-9 09:19
我仔仔入小一時同佢評估都係話你同樣的問題, 之後去了私家做了60 個鐘感覺統合, 手眼協調好咗, 平衡好咗, 政府都會同時去, 但真係慢好多. 我仔仔都係寫字慢, 正常6歲可1 min.寫~20 個字, 佢都係5個字. 做完物理治療好咗, 但而家就寫快咗但好撩草, 同倦. 佢英文都OK, 係中文字比較慢.
亞氏保加係自閉一種, 但佢地既IQ係會同平常人無分別, 總好過自閉而IQ低.
你真係試下係暑假同佢做多些運動等佢係小三時書寫會有進步.
但係你又話佢有ADHD, 咁你會如何處理呀.
資優係學校成績唔一定好的,尢其小一,二通常都係默寫多, 所以我相信你仔仔到高年級的時候係理解同邏輯性一定比其他小朋友好. 好多學生係小一, 二默寫好記性好, 到了高小就唔掂,就因為邏輯思維唔掂, 只係填鴨式方式先啱佢地. 香港資優教育好多都要在小三,四先開始有活動,所以你仲有時間的, 不要灰心.
攪好他弱點先.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-8 22:54 發表
評估中心己轉介去職業治療,不過要等好耐.學校也幫我轉介去扶輪,又係唔知等幾耐...我好心急,搵私家又貴,又怕比人詭.
我太遲發現亞仔既障礙,感覺統合運動最好係0-6歲前做,真係沒想過佢很早便會說話,有交流,有良好邏輯 ...
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-9 10:50 標題: 回覆 23# wawa 的文章
好多謝你既意見,冇錯,"攪好他弱點先."
評估報告話佢有ADHD問題,佢係坐唔定,冇興趣既野,很多時會無法完成,如果我陪佢做功課,幫佢計時間,佢會好快完成,當然我仍要不時提佢要幾多分鐘完成一個字,我會以一秒一個英文字母/十秒一個中文字為標準,共幾多個字須要幾多時間完成,要佢在指定時間完成,但係如果我唔在佢身邊,佢就無法專心,可以做好耐,我係在職媽媽,平時佢放學會去補習社,當然常常都比人投訴,都冇辦法,只有自己繼續努力.
但係好奇怪,佢可以好專心地看完一本冇圖畫全文字成串厚既書,你要佢分心就好難.佢班主任都很驚訝.
佢默書可以成日一百分(老師會等一等佢),同佢溫書好快就記得,不過默完書之後,又會忘記,Asperger既人想像力係好差,我都好担心.
佢小一成績都ok好,小二考試就差,做唔晒,老師冇提佢要專心,所以專注力不足對佢都有一定影響.
佢唯一比老師讚就係數學,補習社同科任老師都有讚佢.
我同自己話人總有長有短....包容包容包容
作者: wawa 時間: 10-6-9 11:25
一個專注力不足, 在佢喜歡做的事係會可以好專注, 無興趣的係無耐性, 我仔仔係唔鍾意抄寫, 佢覺得無意義, 抄來抄去, 作完文又要謄文, 抄一篇唔係自己作既野, 有時作文好主觀的,真係好睇老師文學修養, 所以跟到良師就好, 唔好會改咗小朋友的意思. 香港教育唔好處係跟model answer. 所以真係求學不是求分數好了.
你仔仔如果無過動, 我唸只係ADD 唔可講係ADHD.
如果只係ADD試下係食物方面著手, 食些含OMEGA 3的食物. 亞痳子都不錯的. 不可吃朱古吃及太甜食物. 如果你去睇醫生通常都會叫你試藥, 其實吃藥真係可以改善到專注力的. 真係無改善都可試.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-9 10:50 發表
好多謝你既意見,冇錯,"攪好他弱點先."
評估報告話佢有ADHD問題,佢係坐唔定,冇興趣既野,很多時會無法完成,如果我陪佢做功課,幫佢計時間,佢會好快完成,當然我仍要不時提佢要幾多分鐘完成一個字,我會以一秒一個英文字 ...
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-9 11:41 標題: 回覆 25# wawa 的文章
評估報告兩樣都有,我冇太留意過動個part,因為影響冇咁大,冇去搵資料.
作者: ElasticMum 時間: 10-6-15 00:34
CCHmama,
I share the same experience with you! My boy is 8, gifted and is highly standing on the area of imaginative logics. He is at the edge of ADD and now suspected of Asperger. Tests were done for 2 rounds, 1st round was marginal and this recent round is more confirmed. I'm taking him to kid's psychilogists as advised by school psychologist to get a second opinion or medical treatment if appropriate.
My boy always day-dreams and demonstrate very implusive reaction sometimes. He creates a lot of stories, monsters, transportation routes, terms etc. He knows tons of Chinese words but will not rememeber how to write them, or just scrible the shape of the words. Thus his Chinese subject got deterioating, as the teachers cannot recognise his handwritings. Can do math but feel bored and refused to write steps, he jumps directly to the answer.
Doing homework is nightmare, he hates it and writing as well. He cannot understand why he need to do homework and why students need to study for exam. He can complete only 1-2 homeworks in 4-7 hours. Playing games with him can help, like counting and timing his writing, marking award charts etc, but every new way can only last for 2 weeks at most. I did most of what you've mentioned in your earlier messages to get him do the homework. He was fine in K3 as he can finish those little homework and can have his own free time to play, watch Disney channel and take a nap.
He is now P.2 and famous of late coming and not submitting homeworks. He got a lot of such negative records with school already. Since he cannot complete the homework EVERYDAY, he has not studied for all the assessments and dictations. For exam, he does not want to study. He is lucky to have very good memories and can still stand at first half of the grade, but I'm worrying how he can proceed after P.3.
He is very rigid on some of the rules that he accepts or he creates. He can be really irritated if the planned schedules or his routines are disturbed. As he is extremely slow in doing anything, he is somehow labelled that way. On the other hand, he sets very high expectations to himself, so he always wants to "wind the clock back" so that he can stick with his expected schedules, which is impossible. He bursts into high emotion and temper most of the time when he fails to complete the works, meaning almost every day......
Keep it up great Mummy(s)!! I believe we can melt them with our persistance to guide them through. I think the most important is to understand their shortcomings and deficiencies. We keep helping them to understand and be more open to the world around them. No matter what comments or critics we heard from others on our way to bring up the kids, just keep focused in helping them to develop well.
I'm glad to see you all here, cheers! This is our chanlledge and a test we need to treasure. We can overcome it!
作者: CCHmama 時間: 10-6-16 11:21 標題: 回覆 27# ElasticMum 的文章
yes thanks for your sharing:)
作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-19 22:43
ha!
我仔仔同妳仔仔好似, but 我仔仔而家5歲半啦.
原帖由 ha! 於 10-3-28 03:51 發表
i haven't tested IQ for my son as my son is 3yrs9mons only...but doctor suspect he is ASPERBER half years before when i brought him to govt CAC... he has all the "characterists" of both "GIFTED" and " ...
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作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-24 09:30
ha!
sorry, 唔係呀, 我囝囝only confirmed 亞氏保加, but佢既行為同興趣同妳囝囝好似, 我估妳囝囝快我仔仔半年至一年瓜, 因為我囝囝又係4歲左右好叻噤. 我地冇同佢check IQ or 評估時醫生講佢智力正常炸 (個評估冇資優果欄既), so我估係政府唔會check or 佢跟本唔係囉.
佢4歲開始, 好似好勁噤, 睇英文書eg oxford reading tree level 7-9 自己識睇, 自己學中文切字, 4歲多d enopi 數學level 7, 我有d驚, 因為佢EQ好低, 成日都仲係BB噤, BUT 學野就快 同 好鐘意學, 唔停得噤! 彈琴同普通話又係學得好快...運動就
.. dry講唔做!!! d同學仔or朋友mami成日問我佢係米資優, but 我同爸爸都覺得佢豬"dou"多d, so 佢叻果d我地放慢佢, 適可而止, 多d train番佢既弱點.
到而家評估左, 好彩既係, 我地既方向正確, but 都遲左少少架啦~ 唉~~~
作者: lamtsuiyee 時間: 10-6-24 10:30
原帖由 hkcindy 於 10-6-24 09:30 發表
ha!
sorry, 唔係呀, 我囝囝only confirmed 亞氏保加, but佢既行為同興趣同妳囝囝好似, 我估妳囝囝快我仔仔半年至一年瓜, 因為我囝囝又係4歲左右好叻噤. 我地冇同佢check IQ or 評估時醫生講佢智力正常炸 (個評估冇 ...
HKCindy >> 我個仔情況跟你個小朋友差唔多...睇書,認字好勁, 數學亦好好, 超強記性.. 但佢思想仲好似BB咁..我覺得佢思想好單純...社交勁差...成日自己玩為樂...唔識表達自己, 我都係打算幫佢提升最差既先....
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作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-25 09:17
ha!
閃咭我都有玩, but 我唔勤力, 因為玩一陣阿仔又拎去排咭, 1歲多d, 見到有位就排滿晒, 排得好整齊, 成屋都排, 執完又排, 好似返工廠噤.
亞氏保加唔會係人為架啦, 米自責, 天生架!
妳都好, 噤細個就知道, 可以多d training同教佢社交. 妳住邊區架?
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作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-25 14:15
ha!
我地6月頭先知, 報左skw社交小組, 灣仔就排緊, 要排一年. 感統係北角做, 因為佢好"論盡"成日整親, 我地舊年12月開始同佢做感統, 做下停下, but 而家知道左, 就會keep住做, 做番密d. 妳住tw, 噤去九龍同灣仔應該都差不多, 我都想要努力d自己學多d黎教佢.
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作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-25 16:18
ha!
cac? 咩黎既? 唔明添. 我係新手. skw=筲基灣小童群益會炸, 幼小就係筲基灣有社交班, 灣仔都有d社交班but時間夾唔到, 噤我就only排左社交情緒訓練, 姑娘講要排成一年. 黎黎去去都係小童群益會, 我睇左明愛同救世軍, 唔係時間難就, 就係遠同貴, so 冇報. 青蔥要等佢summer之後先知有咩可以報. 仲有邊間可以睇呢?
至於感統, 之前試過單對單6百幾蚊一個鐘, 係學or做完返去要自己同佢做, 返到home佢又唔聽我講, 唔願做, so作用唔大. 我報group果d, 8-12個人一齊分組做, 佢做左3個幾月左右, 已經進步好多, 百幾蚊一堂. 至於洗唔洗做, 我地覺得佢好"論盡", 同埋佢唔like做運動, 所以我地當佢去做運動, 強壯身體又好, 點都好, 好過佢成日dry講唔郁! 等佢大d 先train佢其他運動. 因為佢呢項好弱, 我唔想男仔係噤.
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作者: roychi 時間: 10-6-27 23:38
原帖由 ha! 於 10-6-24 08:51 發表
hkcindy,
都confirm了是資優異asperger？是否到5歲可以check IQ的了？
Hi HkCindy,
我小朋友（下個月五歲）同你小朋友都有些共同之處，佢又係好鍾意睇書，直頭有書連玩具都放底哂，坐定定依家又係睇ORT books up to Stage 8，我專登放慢唔買最後一個stage比佢，Enopi Maths都係Level 7, 佢自細可以從睇書自學grammar and tenses，就算教佢教一次佢就記得，又係超好記性，記得哂不同火車，巴士和汽車各種型號及特徴，但係佢講嘢好老積成個大人咁，固執和成日自己玩, 如一班同學仔gathering,佢好少同其他同學仔玩好耐，最多玩一陣又自己玩，我好擔心佢社交能力，上年去協康會Check就話佢唔係資優不過就偏高但又冇其他問題喎，所以我都唔知仲可以做咩Check？Any good idea? Thanks.
作者: homemick 時間: 10-6-28 01:10 標題: 身同感受
hihi, 真的身同感受!! 我小朋友已十歲, 在六歲是已做了 IQ test 亦評為資優.... 可惜在過去 四年 我們不段去見心理醫生, 精神科醫生, (做完 test 之後, 心理學家覺得我小朋友有 ADHA, 所以轉介去醫院....)不停安排見醫生, 輔導, 大小手肌肉訓練,食藥 通通試過.... 又如何...
最終我們發現...學業是好重要.. 完來無形中我們比了很大壓力她們, 又其是當我們一開始幫她檢查功課或見她寫字 就大件事, 不是誇張... 心力交碎...
打鬧少不免, 佢又唔開心我們就更加唔開心, 關係也變非常惡劣... 直至最近我們嘗試放開了... 考第幾又如何... 站在她立場, 她都好辛苦... 佢覺得d大人都唔明佢...
anyway, 3個字 "平常心" , 資優又如何, 都是小朋友, 我們不是只要讓她健康快樂成長, 那不是我們生她出來時向上天禱告的嗎? 為何越大越想她進步, 想她怎樣怎樣,,,,
現在我們只知道, 她非常非常須要我們的時間, 普通家長付出一倍時間, 我相信我們是她們的3倍... 她須要伴讀書僮...她須要無時無刻妳們能走進她的世界.....
最後...她進步了...當然尚未違錶...但已很足夠...
作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-28 09:59
Roychi...
if 妳唔想再估估下, 就帶仔仔去健康院做評估, 要堅持妳擔心既野, 佢地自會安排到的, 不要信初初見妳的姑娘同健康院醫生, 堅持堅持要去做評估為止.....
http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2199471&extra=page%3D1&page=1
亞氏保加媽媽.. 我地返番去特殊教育果邊慢慢再傾~~
作者: roychi 時間: 10-6-28 13:35 標題: 回覆 1# hkcindy 的文章
Thanks hkcindy. 我會再次同健康院姑娘講吓, 因為她在四歲check eyes時話我個仔一d都唔似係亞士保加喎!?!
作者: hkcindy 時間: 10-6-28 14:09
Roychi...
當然, 妳囝囝唔一定係亞氏保加. but 我可以深信健康院姑娘同醫生都一定唔識睇, 佢地都只係認為我有問題, 太緊張而已!
我囝囝5歲前一個月, 我都book左 Dr. T 果間診所做評估, 因為都成幾千蚊, 我當然打去問多d資料先去, 點知, 佢地好好人, 直接比我同個將會做評估既兒童心理學家同我傾電話, 比我問佢問題, 噤我又係將我擔心既野同阿仔既行為講出黎, 果個"兒童心理學家"答我, 因為我囝囝雖然冇去同人地玩, but佢有"望"人地玩, 都 "一定" 唔係亞氏保加. 結果, 我囝囝米被評為典型既亞氏保加, cac 醫生仲問我點解噤明顯都唔早d發現!!! 噤係唔係好無奈先? 好彩, 我慶幸既係我冇放棄我既懷疑, 出發點都係為個小朋友傘.
原帖由 roychi 於 10-6-28 13:35 發表
Thanks hkcindy. 我會再次同健康院姑娘講吓, 因為她在四歲check eyes時話我個仔一d都唔似係亞士保加喎!?!
作者: ElasticMum 時間: 10-7-2 04:05
CCHmama,
It's the first day I visited BK again. I'm upset today and need to get more support with mummys with similar situations.
My kid has visited hychilogists for 2 times already and trying medicine for ADHD, as the doctor felt him has obvious difficulties in sitting properly and concentrate. After the medicine, he was better in doing homework the first 3 days, and began to drag on again in the rest of the week.
In the 2nd week, the doctor thought he is more stable and a bit polite -> progress, but during their conversations, the doctor discovered his weakness in expressing himself, especially in emotion, even though he can seen him possessing very good language skills, so this reinforced the syptoms of Asperger.
The doctor increased the ADHD medicine dosage for the 2nd week, yet seemed that there was not much effect, rather he began to have feeling of vomitting which is one of the side effect.
Good thing is, I've learnt from the doctor that, for Aspergers, parents cannot expect daily or weekly progress, we need to focus on the OVERALL behaviour in months! There will definitely be sudden bad days, which we should not pay too much attention to or worry about.
Overall, my kid has been better over the last 2 weeks, but he still have some problem behaviour that he's aggressive towards me.
This has been a problem for a year, I was complained by my family that his bad behaviour is solely due to my technique in handling him. It was very difficult as I have pressure from family too. In recent 2 month, my family had become more understanding as they come to my place very often and can see or feel the difficulties in dealing with the boy.
However, in past 2 weeks the boy has some overall improvement, but be aggressive only to me. My family started to suspect again the boy is only playing trickd on me but not really have any problem etc.
I'm upset and confused. Yes that verytime to boy get very aggressive behaviour are mostly with me, like hit me, force to hold me, bite me, etc, although he has records beating and biting other in tutor centre which were without my presence, those were just a few occasions as compared to very frequent toward me.
CCHmama, based on your experience with your kid, do you think Aspergers can control their temper better in front of selective group of people?
This is annoyed. I'm confused, as the boy seems have better temper without me. And likes to do all behaviour to get me angry and fight with him, not the others.
I strongly feel the importance of supports from family. Without that, days are very difficult and the helpless feeling is very strong.
Thanks for reading. Hope I can be tuned up again in the morning.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-16 11:21 發表
yes thanks for your sharing:)
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