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作者: aa120520 時間: 09-12-6 12:09 標題: Very touching & must see before we choosing school to our kid.

Refer from Ming Pao by DJ Tang Hoi Lam

鄧藹霖學懂放手子成大器

http://happypama.mingpao.com/cfm/webn ... 06%2Fja%2Fok%2Foka1%2Etxt

作者: lpcjoe 時間: 09-12-6 13:35

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作者: Queenie_0012 時間: 09-12-6 14:24

傳統名牌教學唔掂,

轉去國際學校, 又幾好喎.

不過~ 我無錢~~~~

作者: 肥媽咪 時間: 09-12-6 14:43

Thanks for sharing!

作者: EDEL 時間: 09-12-6 15:16

Totally agree!!

However, we must understand - different kids need different methods to "handle". A certain level of stress may help them grow & work harder as well.

Hopefully we can find the best way that fits our kids!

原帖由 aa120520 於 09-12-6 12:09 發表
Refer from Ming Pao by DJ Tang Hoi Lam

鄧藹霖學懂放手子成大器

http://happypama.mingpao.com/cfm/webn ... 06%2Fja%2Fok%2Foka1%2Etxt

作者: aa120520 時間: 09-12-6 15:17

原帖由 Queenie_0012 於 09-12-6 14:24 發表
傳統名牌教學唔掂,

轉去國際學校, 又幾好喎.

不過~ 我無錢~~~~

I think the point is not about international school or money. The point is how to handle the relationship between parent & their kid. Also the sucessful not related to school.

作者: norakyng 時間: 09-12-6 15:29

原帖由 aa120520 於 09-12-6 12:09 發表
Refer from Ming Pao by DJ Tang Hoi Lam

鄧藹霖學懂放手子成大器

http://happypama.mingpao.com/cfm/webn ... 06%2Fja%2Fok%2Foka1%2Etxt

Thanks for sharing, agreed..

作者: tracytang 時間: 09-12-6 18:45

Thanks for sharing!!!

原帖由 aa120520 於 09-12-6 12:09 發表
Refer from Ming Pao by DJ Tang Hoi Lam

鄧藹霖學懂放手子成大器

http://happypama.mingpao.com/cfm/webn ... 06%2Fja%2Fok%2Foka1%2Etxt

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-12-6 19:09

thanks for sharing! :)

「我從此決定不打、不怒、不恐嚇、不黑面。」

作者: cmchang0927 時間: 09-12-6 22:54

the traditional school that she is talking abt is LS. I have read her book, 會笑的媽媽. It's a good book.

作者: beckylui 時間: 09-12-6 23:02

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-12-6 19:09 發表
thanks for sharing! :)

「我從此決定不打、不怒、不恐嚇、不黑面。」

Yeah yeah ... gotta learn how to do all the above!!!

作者: smartmatt 時間: 09-12-6 23:23

Very interesting, thanks for sharing.

Its dilemma we all share...which school is best for the kid and not for us the parents...

作者: catcatmom 時間: 09-12-6 23:51

我覺得要搵個适合自己小朋友讀既小學, 國際學校入番本地大學既學位好少, 讀了就預備筆$去外國.

又唔可以甘睇 D 傳統學校, 88幾分就考第尾. 如果這個家長唔係甘緊張, 比個小朋友一直甘讀下去, 可能1樣讀到上去, 不過故事裡家長有財力, 可以立刻轉去國際學校.

我識一個家長讀國際G3, 成日問住我個女間傳統小學, 想轉走個女, 問佢點解, 佢話個女愈讀愈 " PAIR " 喎! 英文講就好好, 寫, 文法, 寸字, 樣樣都唔得, 佢話要到中學情況會好轉, 日日無MUD功課, 令佢好擔心, 等唔到去中學.

[ 本帖最後由 catcatmom 於 09-12-6 23:54 編輯 ]

作者: Arthas 時間: 09-12-6 23:58

I think the key thing we should learn from this article is "Let go".

作者: ccycsy 時間: 09-12-8 11:00

看完了感慨良多, 眼淚不由自主地流下來.  現今的父母真的好辛苦, 好像永遠有擔不完的懮, 身心每一天都好累.  孩子由幼稚園開始已經要不停學習, 不停補習, 不停上興趣班, 想起都累......

   名牌小學一定是不停鞭策學生及家長, 不然成績怎會那麼好, 但這種壓力不是所有學生及家長所能承受的. 其實有時進入名牌學校一部份是家長的面子問題, 另一部份則是希望小孩在好的學校能有更大的發展, 但作為家長, 我覺得首先要衡量小孩的資質及自己的受壓程度才去作出選擇, 不然到時中途要退出又礙於面子而造成兩難的局面.

      我的小孩資質不錯, 但我祗為他選擇了一間適合他而不錯的直資學校, 我從不將他推到頂峰, 因為我認為這樣他才有較大的自由發展空間, 而不是一味催谷他向上.

作者: HappyEE 時間: 09-12-8 11:52

Thanks for sharing!

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