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作者: coco12081 時間: 09-11-9 17:09 標題: 小一

考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

作者: luiluimama 時間: 09-11-9 17:10

搏大抽獎算啦, 可能抽到間好學校呢

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

作者: smartmatt 時間: 09-11-9 17:54

Have you tried second tier schools such as Dak Ngar?

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

作者: LaLa 時間: 09-11-9 18:04

<重要比老公話我無心機教仔！> 我有d朋友嘅老公都係唔係幾知"訂", 教仔並不是全是阿媽嘅責任, 大部分在小一面試比較成功的個案, 他們的爸爸大都功不可沒!

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck in the lucky draw.

作者: smallegg 時間: 09-11-9 18:11

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

coco12081,

唔好灰心，我有個朋友嘅囡囡舊年考咗好多間，又係一間都唔收，點知大抽獎派到.....天神嘉諾撒，一天都光哂。

作者: coco12081 時間: 09-11-9 18:32

唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: Virginialum 時間: 09-11-9 18:39

coco12081
Take it easy. He's only a 5-yr-old boy. Facing strangers by himself for an interview is already not an easy task for him. You should give him more encouragement instead. Let's convey the message to our children: 'Getting no place at this moment is not the end of the world.' Hope they won't have the feeling that getting no place now will mean losing parents' love. NO!

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: littlefaith 時間: 09-11-9 18:53

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

咁你老公一定好俾心機教仔喇…

Anyway，祝你好運﹗

作者: Funling 時間: 09-11-9 19:20

唔該啦! 你呢副面口好影响小朋友自信心架, 幾歲人条路仲好長, 你想他以后抬不起頭嗎?

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: cecichan 時間: 09-11-9 20:00

唔好唔開心, 舊年我有個朋友又係出去考間間都唔收, 但就派左名校比佢 , 唔駛再煩~神自有安排,

作者: Chincco 時間: 09-11-9 22:25

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

你小朋友係大仔定細仔呀 ?

作者: ymama 時間: 09-11-9 22:37

唔駛太灰心.
我知道的兩個CASE, 小朋友都係考唔到學校, 最後.....
一個派去MCS
一個派去CKS(陳瑞祺)...
所有話未到下年九月都未定,何況還有插班一路,加油呀!

原帖由 smallegg 於 09-11-9 18:11 發表

coco12081,

唔好灰心，我有個朋友嘅囡囡舊年考咗好多間，又係一間都唔收，點知大抽獎派到.....天神嘉諾撒，一天都光哂。

作者: twinsstar 時間: 09-11-9 23:45

Don't be like that la ...Your child can feel your disappointment too .. if u feel bad about him, he will see himself as a failure too and he will be very stressed as well. This will obviously affect his interview performance in future(if any)!

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: whywhywhywhy 時間: 09-11-9 23:54

唔好咁啦！小朋友要讚多d先會叻，而家只係考唔到學校你就咁，如果升上小學默書測驗唔合格你咪重炆。佢考唔到未必係佢差，可能係你選十間學校都係同類型，唔啱你個小朋友，咁咪十間都唔收囉。對個小朋友笑多d啦，佢大個左想佢睇你笑都難呀！！！

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: makmak615 時間: 09-11-10 00:33

The sucess rate only reflects the extent to which your boy/girl match the school's requirements.

We, as parents, are played by this cruel game and bounded by the crazy rule established by the "sought after school". Given the circumstances, the schools will of course take the low hanging fruit to choose those (they believe) are easier to teach.

作者: makmak615 時間: 09-11-10 00:48

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

You should be proud of the effort you put in for your kids.

I guess your husband did not participate in the school application and his thought is not uncommon as he just cannot appreciate the competitiveness of this game and the effort needed.

I will pray for you.

作者: beautiful_mama 時間: 09-11-10 00:50

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 17:09 發表
考咗10間一間都唔收，點算？重要比老公話我無心機教仔！

My husband have spend 90% of his time (after work) to teach my 2 daughters.
Next time when your husband say something like that, ask him how much of his time he had spend with his baby!!!

:;pppp:

作者: ipod1 時間: 09-11-10 09:31

我祝樓主個小朋友好運.

作者: wingwing2009 時間: 09-11-10 10:15

個小朋友真係可憐!!..."連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！" 咁都講得出...!!!

叻就是兒, 唔叻就....甚麼也不是..!!!

枉為父母..!!!!

原帖由 coco12081 於 09-11-9 18:32 發表
唉，諗住佢好掂，點知佢咁差！連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！

作者: ShinTeresa 時間: 09-11-10 10:42

對住自己個細老都可以講d甘既說話

原帖由 wingwing2009 於 09-11-10 10:15 發表
個小朋友真係可憐!!..."連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！" 咁都講得出...!!! 叻就是兒, 唔叻就....甚麼也不是..!!! 枉為父母..!!!!

...

作者: surewin 時間: 09-11-10 10:47

原帖由 wingwing2009 於 09-11-10 10:15 發表
個小朋友真係可憐!!..."連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！" 咁都講得出...!!! 叻就是兒, 唔叻就....甚麼也不是..!!! 枉為父母..!!!!

...

AGREED!!! 小朋友考不到學校, 他也不想的, 也未必是小朋友不夠叻! 最後換來一句"爸爸說媽媽不懂教仔", "媽媽就說不想見到他", 請不要給小朋友知道他有這對父母

作者: charlottechan 時間: 09-11-10 10:51

樓主在這裡發洩完, 見番阿仔時要讚賞他, in 10間一d都唔容易.

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-11-10 10:55

"老公話我無心機教仔！"
"連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！"

你o地兩公婆都好唔掂喎...
應該反省,反省....

作者: surewin 時間: 09-11-10 10:58

原帖由 charlottechan 於 09-11-10 10:51 發表
樓主在這裡發洩完, 見番阿仔時要讚賞他, in 10間一d都唔容易.

其實"大包圍"式面試也不是好事, 反而對小朋友也有反效果的表現!

作者: surewin 時間: 09-11-10 11:01

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-11-10 10:55 發表
"老公話我無心機教仔！"
"連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！"

mouth:" /> 你o地兩公婆都好唔掂喎...
應該反省,反省....

你個仔好靚仔呀

可惜我個係仔啦

作者: ziyi 時間: 09-11-10 11:03

Agreed

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-11-10 10:55 發表
"老公話我無心機教仔！"
"連我都唔想見到佢，一見到佢就見到自己嘅失敗之作！"

mouth:" /> 你o地兩公婆都好唔掂喎...
應該反省,反省....

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-11-10 11:08

謝謝!!
第二時, 如果係同學仔, 做朋友仔一齊玩o既機會重多!!

原帖由 surewin 於 10/11/2009 11:01 發表

你個仔好靚仔呀可惜我個係仔啦

作者: chubby2688 時間: 09-11-10 11:16

我好鐘意同靚仔做同學

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-11-10 11:08 發表
謝謝!!
第二時, 如果係同學仔, 做朋友仔一齊玩o既機會重多!!

作者: ziyi 時間: 09-11-10 11:23

我都係,而且我那個是囡囡

,但可惜的是我目標的學校與他不同.沒有機會.

原帖由 chubby2688 於 09-11-10 11:16 發表
我好鐘意同靚仔做同學

作者: coco12081 時間: 09-11-10 11:52

我都知唔應該去咁樣對佢，但係每次當我同自己講要放鬆Ｄ，不停有朋友打嚟話英華又收，ＤＢＳ又收，我都好想恭喜佢，但係我真係心理唔平衡呀！
我無比個仔知佢間間都唔掂，只係比平時嚴咗Ｄ啫，佢依然好天真快活咁去玩，點都係自己個仔，係諗到做咗咁多嘢無用，好唔開心啫！

作者: wunma 時間: 09-11-10 11:53

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作者: ipod1 時間: 09-11-10 12:11

So you think the interviewers know more about your son's qualities better than you do by these 15 minutes interviews/group interviews? Come on, let's face it. Your kid is only 5 yrs old and how can you expect him to do what he was required perfectly at the perfect place and the perfect time? Maybe he wasn't in the mood or maybe he was hungry or perhaps he was not familiar with the place and got nervous.

From the interviewers' point of view, it is always better to be able to choose because it is the only chance they can screen and pick those kids who happen to perform well during the interviews but I am sure no one and I mean NO ONE can claim that those "admitted" ones are all round better than those who failed to impress.

Furthermore, there are other factors determining whether your kid is the one that the school wants. All these other factors are beyond your kid's control. How can he/she be responsible for something like that?

作者: bobee 時間: 09-11-10 12:19 標題: 回覆 32# ipod1 的文章

same as me, i have applied many schools for my son and only got 2 waiting spots. so what! I still think my son has done his best and if he didn't fit the school requirements, it's all about the matching issues. nothing wrong with your kid. i was able to go to one interview with my son and when the teacher asked him 10 questions, he got all of them correct with absolutely no errors. But what, still not accepted. so don't blame your kid as you won't know what criteria the school is looking for. Go for the gov't lottery and maybe you will get the best of the bests. DSS and private schools might not be the best schools and stop blaming your kid. Poor kid.

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-11-10 12:45

你都重有讀書?!?!

原帖由 chubby2688 於 10/11/2009 11:16 發表
我好鐘意同靚仔做同學

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-11-10 13:00

每個小朋友has their own potential and advantage.
for necessary only DBS, or 英華 can well discover it or development it.
you should select the right school at the 1st place, not follow the other parents thinking it's the best for your child!
did you study all these 10 schools? their vision, their curriculum, what's the education system they using? do you agree with their teaching method?
i'm always surprise that there are so many schools alike at hong kong?!?!?! 10 schools completely fit to a child.... how come?
did you do your home work well?
if they are not fit.... why did you waste time and energy to apply at the 1st place?!
and i also find that, it's impossible for the school to select a child during a 15 mins interview...
as i have noticed, if the school didn't take our son... it's most likely we, the parents didn't perform perfectly! the fault is ours....
did you ask your kid forgiveness?

原帖由 coco12081 於 10/11/2009 11:52 發表
我都知唔應該去咁樣對佢，但係每次當我同自己講要放鬆Ｄ，不停有朋友打嚟話英華又收，ＤＢＳ又收，我都好想恭喜佢，但係我真係心理唔平衡呀！
我無比個仔知佢間間都唔掂，只係比平時嚴咗Ｄ啫，佢依然好天真快活咁去玩，點都係自己個仔，係諗到做咗 ...

[ 本帖最後由 flostangraphy 於 09-11-10 13:02 編輯 ]

作者: chubby2688 時間: 09-11-10 13:05

烹飪班都有靚仔同學...

原帖由 flostangraphy 於 09-11-10 12:45 發表
你都重有讀書?!?!

作者: flostangraphy 時間: 09-11-10 15:44

嘩!! 又靚仔!! 又識煮o野食....

投降...

原帖由 chubby2688 於 10/11/2009 13:05 發表
烹飪班都有靚仔同學...

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