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標題: 小朋友對陌生人產生恐懼應該怎麼辦??? [打印本頁]

作者: vcookie 時間: 09-10-16 00:30 標題: 小朋友對陌生人產生恐懼應該怎麼辦???

我的小朋友現在十個月大. 我每週帶她去三個playgroup.
她一路都玩得很開心直到兩週前開始變得越來越怕羞及膽小. 要成堂抱住不肯放開.

我平日基本上是自己照顧小朋友(有家傭協助但主要由我照顧).這幾週沒有發生什麼不尋常的事.

我唯一想到的是小朋友在九個月大的時候連續在兩週內因病看了三次醫生另她對陌生人產生恐懼, 第一次是到醫生那裡做一般檢查順便打流感針, 她跟平時打針一樣發大脾氣及大哭. 過了兩天她因為鼻敏感及鼻塞再去看醫生. 這次醫生用了一個小儀器替她“洗鼻”,
她表現得非常非常恐懼因為醫生需要把她按在床上才能進行“清洗”.
當時我想過停止清洗但醫生說不清洗的話她無法呼吸所以只有繼續進行.
一週後的一個晚上我發現她背部有些小紅疹, 隔天我向醫生查詢時醫生建議替她做“食物致敏原測試”. 醫生說這個測試不會引致疼楚. 這次她一看到醫生已經開始大哭. 進行測試時無需要打針而是給“印仔”,相信沒有引致疼楚但整個過程一路在大哭中進行.

我現在回想應該是因為看了三次醫生(而且對她來說都是不愉快的經驗)另她對陌生人產生恐懼. 請問我現在應該怎麼辦? 應該暫時停止所有playgroup讓她待在家中等她忘記恐懼嗎? 還是應該多些接觸陌生人???

我現在真的不知道該怎麼辦.

謝謝!

作者: gigi1020 時間: 09-10-22 16:29

十個月大對陌生人產生恐懼好正常姐, 我囝兩歲都仲好怕人, 但依家返n1就完全無事lu....

作者: Kellyto 時間: 09-10-22 17:01

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作者: vcookie 時間: 09-10-25 00:07

gigi1020 & Kellyto,

Thank very very much for your reply. She still feels very scared when she goes out (she will grab my clothes real tight)but I think she's getting a little better thqn before. I will give her more time and take her out more often.

= )

作者: iloveorange 時間: 09-10-27 09:28

My daughters (2yrs) were sent to hospital for one whole week at the begining of Sept, while her N class just started. After discharging from hosiptal they had nightmare every night. At daytime they were so afraid to be alone (even i go toilet) they dont let me to close the door.

The situation is worsened as their school life just started, new environment. teachers,kids..etc. I can feel they were losing the confidence, however i cant do anything except staying with them when they cried. It was definately a tough time,for both adults and babies.
Finally it takes about 3 weeks to return to normal.They are now going to the class happily everyday ,taking school bus alone, sing and play as usual.

Dont worry, your babies will become normal soon!

作者: Kellyto 時間: 09-10-28 09:57

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