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作者: kamchai 時間: 09-9-10 16:45 標題: 今天囡囡於校車內遇襲,好慘呀!

今日接囡放學時, 跟車老師已即時告知, 於車上突然聽到小囡大叫, 過去一望, 坐囡囡側邊的同班同學才縮開隻手, 但大脾上清晰地有"5條手指甲痕, 但老師即時問囡囡發生咩事?佢又唔識講...

咁老師便分開他們坐.
而落車時交待事情始末及告知會通知我囡班主任.

返回家後再仔細檢查, 囡囡面上, 及手腕都被抓傷, 真十分心痛!問囡囡她只懂講出該同學仔名字, 但發生事始末就未識告知.有彩轉頭班主任已來電慰問並會跟進事件!

作者: 幸福怏樂 時間: 09-9-10 16:56

你都好呀, 你囡囡有大叫, 老師知道發生什麼事. 我囡囡上星期每天回來都話有人推佢, 今個星期一仲比人夾瘀左隻手, 但都無老師知道呀, 心痛死人啦.

作者: kamchai 時間: 09-9-10 17:06

你有無同老師反映下?我覺得校車上比較難控制,因架車行駛中. 但如果於課室內發生又好過份喎!

作者: siuhuen 時間: 09-9-10 17:06

what class is ur child? I thought school bus is better than the outsourced mini-bus.

作者: kamchai 時間: 09-9-10 17:12

我囡是K1生, 坐學校的校車, 我相信是個別事件, 同校車或街車應該無關既.

作者: 幸福怏樂 時間: 09-9-10 17:41

原帖由 kamchai 於 09-9-10 17:06 發表
你有無同老師反映下?我覺得校車上比較難控制,因架車行駛中. 但如果於課室內發生又好過份喎!

係響課室裡面發生的, 囡囡話食茶點的時候發生的. 本來都打算打電話比老師, 但老公話禁小事, 比小朋友自己處理喎.

作者: kamchai 時間: 09-9-10 17:53

咁你老公都講得都有道理, 如果一般推撞(因為好多小朋友都係心急型)我都覺得接受, 但夾親手就可大可小噃!

作者: papamama888 時間: 09-9-10 18:01

my past experience is if it is significant, you should definitely speak with the class teacher, so that at least they will identify who is the problematic kid in side the classroom and follow up

作者: dandau 時間: 09-9-10 19:18

One hour before, my son told me his penis is painful when he is "vv".  Then I asked him did anyone touch his penis.  He said, the girl sitted next to him, hurt his penis in the snack time.  She was not just touching him outside the pants, she put her hands inside his pants. It's unbelivable....

My son said the class teachers purnished her to stand outsides the classroom.  But I  don't know is that true and I didn't received any call from the teacher.  My son emphasised he didn't told lies and keep crying.  But I will check with the teacher tomorrow.

For you all, teach your children, this is very serious.  Don't hurt the other and protect themselves.

Actually, my husband and me had already taught my son many many times.  Don't let the other to touch or see the important areas.  He knows it very well.  I don't know why it still happened.  I feel very hurt and want to cry.  I feel sad stronger than I heard he gets hurt in the school before.... I don't know how to tell how's my feeling now...just want to cry...

作者: kamchai 時間: 09-9-10 19:38

有無搞錯呀?你仔仔是否PM班?咁嚴重既問題班主任無理由不立即致電給你囉. 相比我囡囡班主任反應就快好多,就算未知事情始末起碼都要比家長感覺到關注吧!

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 19:18 發表
One hour before, my son told me his penis is painful when he is "vv". Then I asked him did anyone touch his penis. He said, the girl sitted next to him, hurt his penis in the snack time. She was no ...

作者: dandau 時間: 09-9-10 20:30

He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I just keep asking myself to calm down. So that I didn't called the teacher immediately, I'm afraid I will say some bad words to her. As I don't want the teacher to give my son hard time in the future....

原帖由 kamchai 於 09-9-10 19:38 發表
有無搞錯呀?你仔仔是否PM班?咁嚴重既問題班主任無理由不立即致電給你囉. 相比我囡囡班主任反應就快好多,就算未知事情始末起碼都要比家長感覺到關注吧! ...

作者: candypoon 時間: 09-9-11 10:55

Hi dandau,
咁真係大件事 wor, 老師點可能唔通知你!
你仔仔讀k2邊班 ga?

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...

作者: easybring 時間: 09-9-11 11:04

Dandau,

I think you did right. You may teach your child how to protect himself and be strong and say "NO" before it happens again.

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...

[ 本帖最後由 easybring 於 09-9-11 12:27 編輯 ]

作者: Felicia726 時間: 09-9-11 12:43

Hi dandau,
I am sorry to hear what'd happened to your son.
The class teacher has already punished the girl, I think she will keep an eye on them in future. If you are still worried, you may call the teacher or write her a letter as a follow up. I trust that the teacher will take this matter seriously if you show your concern.

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...

作者: jjhh 時間: 09-9-11 13:27

Hi dandau,
So sorry to hear about that. My son is also studying in K2. I would suggest you to communication (letter and in person) with class teacher to let her know you, parents aware and concern these kind of matter very much.
I think it is very serious
And, also let yr son know you aware and care about his feeling. You have followed up for him. Most important thing is yr son "feeling" first.

作者: Suchoy 時間: 09-9-11 14:34

Hi dandau

What is the class of your son. My daughter is also in K2. I recommond you should communicate to his head teacher of the class. Your son with hard feeling??

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...

作者: dandau 時間: 09-9-11 16:02

Thanks for you all.

I just talked with the head teacher.  She said she didn't knew what's happened in tea time yesterday, as she was in the meeting. But the other teacher was in the class, but didn't reported any special was happened yesterday.

The head teacher talked with my son and the girl in person immediately once I went out the classroom.  She told me that: the girl said no at first, but my son insisted to say she did hurt his penis, then she said yes at last.  The head teacher changed the girl's seat immediately and she said she will call the girl's parent today.

To my son, I have already talked with him again and again how to protect himself and treat sexual issue.  I hope he is really understand.

Really, I don't understand why the girl chose to hurt the boy's penis, but not the face, hand or leg.  The teacher explained that's because of curiosity.

I found that's not easy to be mother...

作者: TszWun 時間: 09-9-11 16:36

Hi dandau,

So sorry to hear that!!
But I would suggest to pay attention to your son's emotion to see if there's any infavorable impact to him for this incident.

And as a mother, totally understood your bad feelings and anger....

but don't make yrself too stress...

作者: jjhh 時間: 09-9-12 00:55

It's good the head teacher has followed up and handled immediately.
But, the asst. teacher has not reported/reacted on this issue to the head teacher even she knew... need to pay attention...
anyway, yr son e-motion and impact (if any) is the first priority no matter.
Today as a parent not easy, especially be a mother. Let cheer up! We all add oil together and let our child have a happy life in KV!

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-11 16:02 發表
Thanks for you all.

I just talked with the head teacher. She said she didn't knew what's happened in tea time yesterday, as she was in the meeting. But the other teacher was in the class, but didn ...

作者: HelloDicDic 時間: 09-9-12 08:48

dandau,

希望你囝囝快d忘記件事，唔好比件事影響到佢!!
你都要加油!!

作者: easybring 時間: 09-9-17 09:50

Dandau,

You are very good mami. Hope your son enjoys the school life.

原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-11 16:02 發表
Thanks for you all.

I just talked with the head teacher. She said she didn't knew what's happened in tea time yesterday, as she was in the meeting. But the other teacher was in the class, but didn ...

作者: dandau 時間: 09-9-17 15:32

Thanks again to your all.

My son got a sorry card from the girl yesterday. I think that was taugh by the teacher to do so.

My son's thinking is still very baby and not mature as the same age boy. He wasn't upset and didn't kept thinking of or talking about the case.

原帖由 easybring 於 09-9-17 09:50 發表
Dandau,

You are very good mami. Hope your son enjoys the school life.

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