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作者: anak 時間: 08-12-23 03:43 標題: 入 DGJS 路程

My daughter is accepted by DGS and since I have learnt tremendously from the generous sharing here.....I would like to share my experience briefly here.
It is tough, for the girl and for you.  So be prepared.
First of all, you will feel the need to equip her with as many skills and 'awards' as you can.  So she would be attending many courses.
Secondly, at home, you would need to spend a lot of time with her, nurturing her.  This means minimum time for yourself.
Thirdly, it costs $$, unless you are able to teach her everything!  (this is why many parents here have the impression that DGS girls must come from rich families.  This I do not think is true but it's must be true that most are from mid-class who are able to support the kids.  If not, I guess they are willing to spend 90% of the income on the girl or that the girl is a genius herself!).
From my experience, I observed that many kids now as so confident and smart.  Parents are so willing to spend and educate the kids.  So why some get in and some not?
I guess the common abilities DGS looks for are:
- good language skills (at least in English and Cantonese)
- confident girls
- all-round development (academics, sports, social awareness)
And from my experience with Mrs Dai, she comes across very discreet and nice.  She is not proud  (as written by a few BKs) and she seemed quite caring of the girls (held the girls' shoulders when they came out).  But this is based on a very short observation of a few seconds though.
For those BKs whose girls were not accepted, I completely understand your disappointment.  But if you are aiming for DGS, you must have put in tremendous effort.  In that case, your daughters would be good, whereever they are.

作者: cy664 時間: 08-12-23 12:50

May I know more details for our preparation in next year ?
What kind of course and award you have ?
How much you spend per month in the course ?

作者: E.D. 時間: 08-12-23 14:40

原帖由 cy664 於 08-12-23 12:50 發表
May I know more details for our preparation in next year ?
What kind of course and award you have ?
How much you spend per month in the course ?

My daughter is accepted by DGJS too.....Frankly, it is too late if you are going to prepare for next year. I started to plan it once my kid was 6 months!!!! I think you need to prepare at 3 year old at least. Because the skills and awards are not possible to acheive in one or 2 years.

作者: twobigeyes 時間: 08-12-23 14:46

I agree with E.D. The plan should start asap.

原帖由 E.D. 於 08-12-23 14:40 發表

My daughter is accepted by DGJS too.....Frankly, it is too late if you are going to prepare for next year. I started to plan it once my kid was 6 months!!!! I think you need to prepare at 3 year old ...

作者: E.D. 時間: 08-12-23 15:02

原帖由 anak 於 08-12-23 03:43 發表
My daughter is accepted by DGS and since I have learnt tremendously from the generous sharing here.....I would like to share my experience briefly here.
It is tough, for the girl and for you. So be p ...

110% agree......same road I walked through and most likely it is the basic requirement you should do if your target is DGJS.

作者: andykwan 時間: 08-12-23 17:31

can DGJS parents provide the example of some awards or certs which are important in application?

作者: anak 時間: 08-12-23 21:00 標題: What awards?

I totally agree with E.D about preparing well ahead.  Even I was slightly late compared to other parents.

As for what awards, I must say I still wonder how Mrs Dai base her selection on.  Because successful candidates (whom I personally know) includes those with lots of certificates & awards and those without any!

The common factor, as I observe, is that their parents are 200% committed.  They are parents who could research, plan and execute the plan to nurture their kids.

To answer your questions about awards and certificates, some e.g. are:
- Trinity
- Speech and Drama
- Swimming
- Choir
- Piano
- Kumon

These are just some examples.

作者: jonahlee 時間: 08-12-23 21:19

anak,

Thanks for your sharing.

Are you a full time mum?

作者: E.D. 時間: 08-12-24 09:44

原帖由 anak 於 08-12-23 21:00 發表
I totally agree with E.D about preparing well ahead. Even I was slightly late compared to other parents.

As for what awards, I must say I still wonder how Mrs Dai base her selection on. Because suc ...

Additional: Fencing....it is HOT in DGJS now!!!!

作者: bird-bird 時間: 08-12-24 09:56

原帖由 E.D. 於 08-12-24 09:44 發表

Additional: Fencing....it is HOT in DGJS now!!!!

Fencing???? for a 3 years old or even 5 years old????

No wonder my daughter failed the interview.

She is learning figure skating, two musical instruments, belongs to Choir, competitive swimming team and has done Cambridge Starter and SAT Maths test with full marks!!!!!!

Anyway, I think what all of you have said are very true, if you are not 200 or even 300% committed, not even for now, but also for the coming 12 years, both yourself and your daughter will have a very hard time coping with the competitivness of the school atmosphere.

Good luck all girls and moms, and no matter if you are accepted or not, you have all done sooooooo well.... be proud of yourselves.

作者: mom1118 時間: 08-12-24 10:17

Hi all,

Many thanks for your generous sharing here !! Merry Christmas and all the best for the coming year !!!

原帖由 bird-bird 於 08-12-24 09:56 發表

Fencing???? for a 3 years old or even 5 years old????

No wonder my daughter failed the interview.

She is learning figure skating, two musical instruments, belongs to ...

作者: cy664 時間: 08-12-24 13:40

We always heard some noise referred to the application of DGS.
May I request all mums with DGS offer can provide some hints and indications for us :
1. Most of parents also advised me that it needs both of parents to submit the application form to DGS. This is one of the point of DGS would be considered ?
2. Also both of the parent also need to attend the interview.
3. Most of parents also said that the headmaster scan the parents in the interview process
4. What kind of dressing code we need in the interview ? Formal office look or 名牌 look or 太太斯文 look is Ok
5. May I know you are working mum or housewife
6. What kind of certificate and awards you may have
7. Any reference letter, profile or knock door letter should be provided to DGS

作者: 四隻貓 時間: 08-12-24 14:48

真的很感謝每一位願意分享經驗的家長. 你們的分享令我更清楚條路應該點行, 令我更堅定自己的理念.

我同意教育和培育一個小朋友最好是由細開始. 0-6歲係一個最重要既時間. 唔係只因為要考好學校, 而係為著小朋友打好學習既基礎.

無論成功與否, 大家和子女們都投下大量心血和努力, 這是肯定的.
謝謝!!!

作者: Coletteli 時間: 08-12-24 17:15

Under this recession economic environment, I must more prefer gov't subsidy schools , such as Maryknoll or St. Marys etc. If those school has offer, I will give up DGJS (personal opinion).:D

作者: anak 時間: 08-12-24 17:54 標題: Cost

You are definitely very wise. If you think of the cost of educating a child (up to university, not forgetting the possibility of sending them abroad), it's indeed a good thing to take up free education in a good school.
On the other hand, (and this is my personal opinion), I think schools like DGJS is very unique in Hong Kong, given the environment of the school which, I believe, can build a very good foundation for my child. Hence, I would still choose to spend that school fees for my girl.

作者: anak 時間: 08-12-24 17:58 標題: The queries

Regarding the many queries,
- my husband was not able to submit the form with me.
- yes, both of us did accompany our daughter to the interview
- yes, I think the principle did look at us, very briefly and politely.
- no, we did not wear 'brand' names. We were dressed smart though, like going to work.
- I'm a working mum.

作者: janfion 時間: 08-12-24 19:27

找到一篇文章，覺得頗有意思。

http://l_y_yeung.mysinablog.com/index.php?op=ViewArticle&articleId=1245772

「家長可能很理所當然的，看到社會上的青年才俊都是名大學名中學名小學這樣的「名校系列」出來，所以以為自己的孩子能走這條路就是成功。他們卻忘了能看到的都是由大學開始倒數的幸運兒，我們看不到在中間掉下來的那些，也看不到在名大學名學系畢業後普通地生活的人。如果要比喻的話，進了名中學只是「遊戲剛剛開始」，小學已經催谷得這麼厲害，中學時還能繼續嗎?

我們那沒怎麼受過教育的上一代對我們的期望是「不要做壞人，能養活家庭已經很好」，而我們這些算是受過點教育的對我們下一代的期望是「你要做人上之人，簡單來說，你要發達!」，這一代的家長(以年齡計，我也算是家長那一輩了...)並不看重孩子的品德，因為這算不了錢，也是他們自己沒有的東西。」

[ 本帖最後由 janfion 於 08-12-24 19:30 編輯 ]

作者: anak 時間: 08-12-25 03:53 標題: Your values

Again, I regard this as the tendency to make assumptions.  About this and that.  Such as that about DGS kids, famous schools' principals and movie stars' kids etc.

As parents, I think we should not allow such prejudice to cloud our judgement about what we should do for our kids.  We must be very clear about what we want for our kids, what is the temperament/ personality of our kids etc.....and work from there.

I believe that not all parents of 名校 kids aims for their kids to發達.  It really depends on the individual parent, their value system, and this, I feel varies amongst all parents, in all schools; as you can see from the behaviour of your children's peers, I'm sure.
Yes, waking up at 4am really do sound too much.  But do we know what time this child sleeps?  Perhaps the parents have arranged a good time schedule for this kid?
Having said that, I too had to catch an early bus to go to school before and it did not worry me.  I did not feel it was hardship.
Really, it depends on the kid and parents must be very clear about that.  It is so important for parents to observe and review the ability of the kids throughout and to make changes, if neccessary.
I also belong to the group that believes that hardship when you're young will build resilience.  Kids now are so pampered already, to study hard, try hard in what they do, should not be considered hardship, it should be their responsibility.

作者: junior_pam 時間: 08-12-25 22:08

It could be sure that most of parents will take MCS and SMC as if you know you can take place from them. In fact, it is a game of "Luck" in this education system of Hong Kong.
But as I know, many parents still admire the DGS.
Anyway, everyone has choice and take what you want.
regards

原帖由 Coletteli 於 08-12-24 17:15 發表
Under this recession economic environment, I must more prefer gov't subsidy schools , such as Maryknoll or St. Marys etc. If those school has offer, I will give up DGJS (personal opinion).:D

作者: starmami 時間: 08-12-29 12:14

So agree with you and E.D about good preparation. I am also planning to do so. Re Speech and Drama, Swimming, Choir, Piano, and fencing, can you suggest which schools (ie name)you enrolled? I only know one in Kln Tong - Kids' Gallary. Can you advise?

BTW, which kindergarten your girl was. I will enrol K1 for my girl next year. See which kindergarten is good for sending her to good primiary school. Thanks

原帖由 anak 於 08-12-23 21:00 發表
I totally agree with E.D about preparing well ahead. Even I was slightly late compared to other parents.

As for what awards, I must say I still wonder how Mrs Dai base her selection on. Because suc ...

作者: twokidsmum 時間: 08-12-29 14:57 標題: DGJS

我個人認為戴校長很留意小朋友的幼稚園成績表，以及學校老師們的comments．她應該喜歡醒目、淡定、表達能力強，以及愛看書的小朋友．不要少看這些特質，家長需要付出相當的時間和心血，是真正的“家長栽培”．事實上，有很多入讀DGJS的小女孩都沒有拿到很多獎項的．

然而，DGJS的老師卻很有辦法訓練學生．以朗誦比賽為例，只要被學校選上，老師會給予學生充足訓練．即使家長沒有再額外找校外老師，她們仍有很大機會在公開比賽中勝出．

加上學校功課少，閱讀氣氛濃厚．學生在互相感染之下，自然地愛上閱讀，學業成績自然好．

作者: weiwei 時間: 08-12-29 18:48

Not definitely needed, can also study in DGJS, that's true. Fencing in DGS or DGJS??

原帖由 anak 於 08-12-23 21:00 發表
I totally agree with E.D about preparing well ahead. Even I was slightly late compared to other parents.

As for what awards, I must say I still wonder how Mrs Dai base her selection on. Because suc ...

作者: caremom 時間: 08-12-31 14:02

twokidsmum,

我很認同你的分析．我相信我的女兒依靠她的幼稚園成績表、表達能力、愛看書的特質(沒有拿到很多獎項) 成功獲DGJS取錄．我希望家長明白 “很多獎項”並非必須的．請問寶貴的意見:
DGJS是否適合活躍、多言、較坐不定的女孩(仍愛學習)? DGJS有沒有罰則? 謝謝!

原帖由 twokidsmum 於 08-12-29 14:57 發表
我個人認為戴校長很留意小朋友的幼稚園成績表，以及學校老師們的comments．她應該喜歡醒目、淡定、表達能力強，以及愛看書的小朋友．不要少看這些特質，家長需要付出相當的時間和心血，是真正的“家長栽培”．事實上，有很多入讀DGJS ...

作者: vhunghk 時間: 08-12-31 17:07 標題: 有冇現在係DGJS的家長講下...

有冇現在係DGJS的家長講下學校的生活係點樣?

課程深淺程度? 競爭大嗎? 同學之間會唔會因競爭大而相處不好? 先生友善嗎? 其他種種...

另, 對於09年會入讀小一的DG家長有冇一些地方是可在這8個月的時間中可預備的?

caremom,

我女都唔係一個坐唔定的人,又多口.不過我識得一個讀緊小二的學生都係好active,應該學校知點handle.

No worry!

[ 本帖最後由 vhunghk 於 08-12-31 17:11 編輯 ]

作者: twokidsmum 時間: 08-12-31 22:59 標題: DGJS生活

DGJS不算很傳統，有不少女孩表達能力很強，很活躍，卻又很愛看書．

學校很愛用獎勵方式鼓勵學生，我女兒經常收到老師的小禮物．對她來說，因忘記帶課本而被寫手冊，已算是懲罰了．老師基本上很友善．

中文和數學程度跟其他學校相若，英文可能深一點點．她們大部份自小一已看英文小說，所以英文科成績分數較高．

老師不愛學生互相比較測驗考試分數，亦不會在成績表排名次，只會將中英數三科的中間成績列出，家長便會知道自己的女兒成績屬中上，還是中下．我們只會知誰是Student of the Year，以及誰取得學科獎．至於家長之間的競爭，這只是家長本身的心態問題而己．

在開學前，建議家長多讓孩子看中、英文書，尤其多認中文字．在開學後，學生還有很多細節要適應，家長要有心理準備，不要過份緊張，否則會令小朋友有不必要的壓力．

還有，請家長盡量低調．

作者: caremom 時間: 09-1-1 00:08

twokidsmum,
It is comforting for me to know all these. Thanks a lot.
Is it possible for students to study independently without reliance on parents or private tutors?
What are the school's expectations on the parents as regards exams, tests, homeworks, preparation? I heard that some parents have a lot of pressure from these and need to spend even Sat and Sun.

[ 本帖最後由 caremom 於 09-1-2 18:08 編輯 ]

作者: mark2006 時間: 09-1-1 00:13

原帖由 twokidsmum 於 08-12-29 14:57 發表
我個人認為戴校長很留意小朋友的幼稚園成績表，以及學校老師們的comments．她應該喜歡醒目、淡定、表達能力強，以及愛看書的小朋友．不要少看這些特質，家長需要付出相當的時間和心血，是真正的“家長栽培”．事實上，有很多入讀DGJS ...

That's the incredible task done by the Principal's judgement based on her expertise!

[ 本帖最後由 mark2006 於 09-1-1 00:15 編輯 ]

作者: ma90a31 時間: 09-1-1 22:01

想問版主～妳的女兒是ＣＣＫＧ的嗎

很多人都這麼講過～ＣＣＫＧ的～多半進ＤＧＳ　或ＤＢＳ

那麼～如果不是這兩間的學生～要考進去的機會又有多少

我相信一定有～
但～也不多

作者: starmami 時間: 09-1-1 22:32

Dear twokidsmum,
May I know if you have enrolled any extra-curricular activities for your girl, say drama, speech, so that I can have a good preparation before enrolling primary for my girl? If yes, can you suggest which school? In my mind, I only know "Kids Gallary".
Thanks

原帖由 twokidsmum 於 08-12-31 22:59 發表
DGJS不算很傳統，有不少女孩表達能力很強，很活躍，卻又很愛看書．

學校很愛用獎勵方式鼓勵學生，我女兒經常收到老師的小禮物．對她來說，因忘記帶課本而被寫手冊，已算是懲罰了．老師基本上很友善．

中文和數學程度跟其他學校相若， ...

作者: 毛妹 時間: 09-1-2 08:36

我前年有一朋友囡入DGJS，她是聖公會幼稚園的，2年前已經入聖公會教會。一早有朋友問佢有咩心得，佢總係一句起、半句止。佢話自己囡囡只係考d劍橋試，並無公開獎；仲話見到有d人無名幼稚園，又無宗教都入到，其實主要係睇臨場面試表現。

我根據大家討論，加上d無子女嘅朋友分享，如果無好好準備，根本唔可以單憑面試表現入DGJS。大家認為點呢？

我朋友係唔係想自己個囡獨領風騷而唔肯公開心得呢？好彩討論區有d家長分享，否則比朋友騙都唔知！

作者: SmallTungmama 時間: 09-1-2 09:22

原帖由毛妹於 09-1-2 08:36 發表
我前年有一朋友囡入DGJS，她是聖公會幼稚園的，2年前已經入聖公會教會。一早有朋友問佢有咩心得，佢總係一句起、半句止。佢話自己囡囡只係考d劍橋試，並無公開獎；仲話見到有d人無名幼稚園，又無宗教都入到，其實主要係睇臨場面試 ...

確實系有一些小朋友是從一些不太出名的幼稚園考入的, 當然比例不多, 比例上應該CCKG比較多, 其實都不是個個考入去都曾獲公開獎, 一個四, 五歲的小女孩, 都唔知可以攞什麼公開獎, 戴校長很會選適合DGJS的學生, 被選中的小女孩, 我相信有或無獎結果都會一樣(只是我個人的意見), 但作為父母, 當然希望自己囡囡本錢比人多, 所以很多家長不斷為囡囡參加公開比賽, 這也不算是休麼壞事, 只要家長有時間及囡囡可以Handle就得, 很多被選入讀的, 真的沒有什麼獎, 但唔代表父母沒有下過功夫, 可能父母培養囡囡在閱讀, 思考方面下了很大的努力.

作者: E.D. 時間: 09-1-2 09:41

原帖由 twokidsmum 於 08-12-31 22:59 發表
DGJS不算很傳統，有不少女孩表達能力很強，很活躍，卻又很愛看書．

學校很愛用獎勵方式鼓勵學生，我女兒經常收到老師的小禮物．對她來說，因忘記帶課本而被寫手冊，已算是懲罰了．老師基本上很友善．

中文和數學程度跟其他學校相若， ...

Thank you for the advice.....one more question, what about the loading of home work? How many testes and exam. in every year?

作者: 毛妹 時間: 09-1-2 12:38

Small Tungmama,

多謝你的分享。但我的朋友就是連如何培養囡囡都很保密。其他朋友及我都天真地以為她只是靠臨場表現而被選的。她只是說：「囡囡平時好怕羞，所以無參加d咩比賽。不過佢去面試時表現都OK呀！所以有學校收囉！」根住就唔再出聲…

作者: SmallTungmama 時間: 09-1-2 14:10

其實培養小朋友實在沒有什麼捷徑或秘密, 時間同耐性是先要的條件, 父母的付出與回報亦未必是相等(甚至沒有任何回報, 但這又確是父母的職責), 每個小朋友也很獨特, 就算是兄妹姊弟, 用同樣的方法, 結果亦不一樣, 父母是最了解自己孩子, 別人給的意見只可作參考, 面試這樣遊戲, 有時又要有一點運氣, 好的學校多的是, 選擇亦很多.

作者: vhunghk 時間: 09-1-2 18:44

Thank you very much for your sharing!

原帖由 twokidsmum 於 08-12-31 22:59 發表
DGJS不算很傳統，有不少女孩表達能力很強，很活躍，卻又很愛看書．

學校很愛用獎勵方式鼓勵學生，我女兒經常收到老師的小禮物．對她來說，因忘記帶課本而被寫手冊，已算是懲罰了．老師基本上很友善．

中文和數學程度跟其他學校相若， ...

作者: twokidsmum 時間: 09-1-2 22:14

學校每年有兩次考試，另有些科目測驗二次，有些三次．

至於課外活動的多寡，跟學生能力和家長期望有關．學校收了很多水平很高的學生，但當中總有參差．有部份家長需多花時間幫女兒追上其他同學，所以有壓力．另有些家長對女兒有相當期望，這是來自家長的壓力．

證書和公開賽的獎項是家長唯一可以掌握到的，家長的苦心實在無可厚非。我只是相信，校長不會只以證書／獎狀、家庭背景作為選擇學生的準則。我當年實在沒有妳們叻，我一直只打算讓女兒升讀直屬小學，所以不曾在證書和獎項上下苦功，但我確實在她的語言能力和學習態度上花了不少心機，這些都在學校成績表的評語上反映了出來．

作者: ma90a31 時間: 09-1-2 23:51

其實~我個人也是這麼認為~
語言能力和學習態度~孩子的自信心禮貌等....更為重要

證書~及獎項~不是真的太重要
我孩子的學校也是有人拿過學校獎~
但是卻一間學校都沒有收

我的兒子  他沒上什麼課外活動
但他有拿過學校的獎
很幸運的今年他進co ed 了(而且是屬於毫無關的的B group )
(孩子的當日表現固然重要  這點我很肯定
因為他們考我兒子的東西真的很難)
不過我覺得運氣  也很重要)
所以我相信不一定是真的一定要上很多課外活動
拿很多外面的證書才是真的有用

相反我倒覺從k1開始就必須要培養孩子獨立有自信
才是最重要  很多東西不是一兩個月就可以培養好的
從小開始就必須要計劃
(如果要在面試突出的話孩子一定不能怕醜要敢講話)

還有
面試始終是一件很主觀的事
樣子討喜看來一附精靈的樣子總是較優勢些
(不可否認)

其實
我主要是想知道 DGS 她要的學生多半是哪一類形的女生???

證書和公開賽的獎項是家長唯一可以掌握到的，家長的苦心實在無可厚非。我只是相信，校長不會只以證書／獎狀、家庭背景作為選擇學生的準則。我當年實在沒有妳們叻，我一直只打算讓女兒升讀直屬小學，所以不曾在證書和獎項上下苦功，但我確實在她的語言能力和學習態度上花了不少心機，這些都在學校成績表的評語上反映了出來．

[ 本帖最後由 ma90a31 於 09-1-2 23:55 編輯 ]

作者: anak 時間: 09-1-3 00:06 標題: Thank you twokidsmum!!

Dear 2kidsmum,
Thanks for your generous sharing and your wise thoughts, observations.  I'm comforted to hear what you have to say about DGJS, which is consistent with what I've heard so far.  This makes me more certain that I'm making the right choice for my daughter.

For the other concerned mums/dads......it seems clear that what DGJS goes for are girls:
- who are good in English and Chinese
- loves reading
- confident
- has the potential to be a DGJS girls
And these girls have parents who are:
-committed to developing them (in reading, languages, activities etc)

As for going for awards, it's not all bad.  The courses you put your child in can enable your child to be stronger in whatever area you want to dev her in.  As long as you do in carefully, with the utmost focus on your child's well being, very clear of your child's ability to handle stress/ new situations/ learning......not forcing and pressuring your child, you can develop your child.
Going for awards is bad only if you go for it Blindly, like going for more and more Chanel / LV....
My child has progressed from a shy girl to one who loves going on stage, this is an example.

As for which centres, you really have to do the research yourself.  I have found parents with different views about different centres.
Besides, a well-known centre may not neccesarily have excellent, and even harder, committed teachers.
From my experience, apart from the classes, what you do at home AFTER the class is also important.  No one will give as much energy to develop your child as yourself.

To 2 mumskids, I look forward to hearing more from you.  Thanks.

作者: janfion 時間: 09-1-5 11:54

原帖由毛妹於 09-1-2 12:38 發表
Small Tungmama,

多謝你的分享。但我的朋友就是連如何培養囡囡都很保密。其他朋友及我都天真地以為她只是靠臨場表現而被選的。她只是說：「囡囡平時好怕羞，所以無參加d咩比賽。不過佢去面試時表現都OK呀！所以有學校收囉 ...

其實您又無需要怪您的朋友咁「口密」，可能她們都想在人前低調地生活。

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方法講給您知又如何？總不是人人可以做到，做媽咪的即使可以花盡心思，但都要個小朋友，無論在心智和體能上都要配合到至得，再加上另一半，有沒有一個和自己同一步伐和方向的伴侶都很重要。如husband都唔支持的話，又加把口間中唱下反調，做媽咪的會很辛苦。

入到又讀到當然好，否則，輕嘆一句：何苦呢！

入唔到又不用愁，我識有個女孩，讀幼稚園時已經是叻女一名，但女拔唔收（唔知點解！），小學讀MCS，中學再考，入了女拔。證明真的是一個叻女，只是走了一個圈。我反而諗，為何非入女拔不可？

[ 本帖最後由 janfion 於 09-1-5 22:38 編輯 ]

作者: ysnmama 時間: 09-1-5 12:05

兩間那麼好的學校也收. 難怪會忘形.

但我認同就是跟著人家的舖排去做. 自己的也不一定能成事. 相反, 做沒那麼多的卻也可能有同樣的結果. 有些時候1+1原來不一定是2. 當中有很多不能掌握的因素. 只要盡能力吧.

原帖由 janfion 於 09-1-5 11:54 發表

其實您又無需要怪您的朋友咁「口密」，可能她們都想在人前低調地生活。

反而我有個朋友剛好和您朋友相反，她囡囡今年考到SPCC，之後又考到DGJS。她算是「高調」那種，可能是她開心得濟，忘了型。我對這個媽咪，基本上，我都對她 ...

作者: BBR 時間: 09-1-5 12:06

做咁多野抵佢入

,我基本上咩都無做,個女上興趣班學野係佢自己想學而比佢學,一路無諗過為入名校而要佢做咩(雖然好想佢入DGS),所以見到有D媽咪真係操到個小朋友......就真係抵佢地入. 我相信如果小朋友真係叻最多米等中學再黎. 有時真係比你知道個方法你都未必會做,小朋友同家長都必須花好多時間加金錢,所以就算比你知用咩方法入名校你都未必一定做到,好似我咁,我就真係唔想日日湊住個女周圍去上堂

,跟住迫佢去參加比賽.

原帖由 janfion 於 09-1-5 11:54 發表

其實您又無需要怪您的朋友咁「口密」，可能她們都想在人前低調地生活。

反而我有個朋友剛好和您朋友相反，她囡囡今年考到SPCC，之後又考到DGJS。她算是「高調」那種，可能是她開心得濟，忘了型。我對這個媽咪，基本上，我都對她 ...

作者: joyjoyma 時間: 09-1-5 15:21

原帖由 ma90a31 於 09-1-2 23:51 發表
很幸運的今年他進co ed 了(而且是屬於毫無關的的B group )
(孩子的當日表現固然重要這點我很肯定
因為他們考我兒子的東西真的很難)
不過我覺得運氣也很重要)
所以我相信不一定是真的一定要上很多課外活動
拿很多外面的證書才是真的有用

ma90a31 ,
能否說說當天考什麼呢?

thx!

作者: misspingu 時間: 09-1-5 16:37

i was from DGS and i hope my daughter can get into DGS too...

from my experience, DGS provides lots of opportunities to develop your potentials in various areas, including academic, sports, music etc....

my daughter in in DGJS now.. she always believe she can do better... that's a good ... so she took a course outside to take one grade advence in english.. therefore she's doing better among other classmates... i hope she can keep it up... not just in language, but in all areas

作者: janfion 時間: 09-1-5 22:26

我今回真的是「衰多口」，之前有人說她的朋友口密，不知朋友囡囡如何考到女拔，咁我之後諗到個case，便quote了那個case上來，純粹「吹下水」，quote她的case都只是想說：「有時別人行了一條什麼的路，都不是逢人可以做到。」想不到當事人卻很激動的call我叫我放過她，她真的言重了。

首先，我只能承認說別人的事是有點不當，我理虧了。在此我真心的要對她說句：「對不起」，但我又沒有指名道姓，也沒有惡言中傷，文字中都是讚她囡囡本事，也對這個媽咪寫個服字而已，真的只是講者無心，聽者有意之失！至於說到講了當中細節，個個都是很多課外活動，又安排攞很多獎之類....又如何？然而，既然當事人介意，我基於尊重她，我已deleted了之前我所寫的，曾經看過的人，當沒看過，忘記吧！

「問題在那裡發生，便在那裡終結。」

所以我在此處再提此事，雖然她說不要再提她的事，但我有必要在此澄清事件。

首先，若說到我在BK提起她（暫作「Ａ太」），只有兩處說過她。

一、之前有人說，一直未見有人post上BK說有女拔收的個案，問是否早收到信的多是reject letter。咁，剛剛我看完那篇說話，而事實我又真的遇上A太，她說女拔收佢個女，係咁姐。不過，之後我打趣地加多了一句，當我又衰多口，平日真的不會在那個時候，那個地點遇到她，所以真的講笑咁講：「我估不會是專登過來話我知掛！」

二、我是在BK說過，很憎那些假教徒，但我說的時候，想的人並不是A太，請不要對號入座，我指的是那些不是教徒但不知從何取得洗禮紙（可能是菲律賓洗禮紙）那類人。

一個月前，我有個朋友，她說叫我不要憎那些假教徒，她說之前都曾有人教她取洗禮紙的途徑，但她基於良心問題沒有做到，後來在考直資私校面對困難的時候，又很後悔，因多了5分真的條路「感覺」會好行很多。

或者有人會說，現在我又在quote別人的case上來BK，不怕又給人駡嗎？我估我這個朋友不會了，她可能只會說：「作死呀！講我D o野！」之後大家哈哈作罷。現在她的小朋友都已經考到一間很好的學校了，算是大團圓結局。

三、A太有提過鋼琴老師的問題，其實我真的一頭霧水！PPEA是有不足之處，我不會怪A太評論PPEA，PPEA是抵話的。至於A太的老師，我沒有說她不好，事實好不好也不關我事，太多朋友用的老師，我反而不會用，就是如此。

四、在我反覆思量之間，問心真的沒有心懷惡意要說A太壞話，所以我要反過來說：您放過我吧！（說笑而已）

Sorry啦！

[ 本帖最後由 janfion 於 09-1-6 16:19 編輯 ]

作者: Happymichelle 時間: 09-1-5 22:44

Dear all

謝謝你們的分享！我獲益良多！

我覺得無論是考那一間學校，建立良好的學習態度、有自信，能與陌生人交談，也一生受用的！但真的很困難！

我雖經常提醒小女放膽與人溝通，似乎仍差一些自信。
我知雖不是三言兩語能說出，但我也想知道你們前人的經驗。謝謝！

作者: wootaitai 時間: 09-1-5 23:40

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作者: BBR 時間: 09-1-6 08:30

講者無心，聽者有意

,我又唔覺得有咩問題,我諗好多人都唔知你講邊個

,所以都係當一個case咁睇,而且正如你咁講,比你知道用咩方法又點?未必個個做到,亦未必個個會咁做

,而且你講果D咩課外活動呀,參加比賽........有邊個唔知咁做對考學校有好處,只係唔係個個咁有恆心同耐力去做. 有時响BK睇完D post又唔駛咁上心,大家嘻嘻哈哈米算law

原帖由 janfion 於 09-1-5 22:26 發表
我今回真的是「衰多口」，之前有人說她的朋友口密，不知朋友囡囡如何考到女拔，咁我之後諗到個case，便quote了那個case上來，純粹「吹下水」，quote她的case都只是想說：「有時別人行了一條什麼的路，都不是逢人可以做到。」想不到當 ...

作者: easybring 時間: 09-1-6 14:15

BBR,

還記得我嗎? 我真係同你諗既野好似呢. 我都係順住女女興趣去報班, 沒有特別參加考試/比賽. 我眼中既女女已經好叻啦<個個媽媽可能都係咁諗>, 至少比我叻. 哈哈. 好快到我地去考啦, d學校真係好忙呢!

原帖由 BBR 於 09-1-5 12:06 發表
做咁多野抵佢入 ,我基本上咩都無做,個女上興趣班學野係佢自己想學而比佢學,一路無諗過為入名校而要佢做咩(雖然好想佢入DGS),所以見到有D媽咪真係操到個小朋友......就真係抵佢地入. 我相信如果小朋友真係叻 ...

作者: caremom 時間: 09-1-10 00:47

twokidsmum,
Just to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for your KINDNESS and WISE ANALYSIS!

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