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作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 17:33 標題: Please help me!

我家住黄埔 (自己物業), 自行分配學位、選紅磡馬頭涌唔收Benjamin (my elder son).
禮賢小學收 Benjamin 並已交留位費.
但我太太想立即搬去41網抽 LA SA 小學. 因為如果大兒子抽到LA SA 小學, 小兒子都可以入到LA SA 小學.
租屋要20多萬一年. 買層舊樓又要100萬. 唔知值唔值得這做.
真頭痛, please help me, give me suggestion!

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 17:34

please !

作者: silvia_ng 時間: 08-12-1 17:51

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 17:33 發表
我家住黄埔 (自己物業), 自行分配學位、選紅磡馬頭涌唔收Benjamin (my elder son).
禮賢小學收 Benjamin 並已交留位費.
但我太太想立即搬去41網抽 LA SA 小學. 因為如果大兒子抽到LA SA 小學, 小兒子都可以入到L ...

你要唸....讀完LA SA之後, 係唔係個仔識飛?
用20萬OR 100萬去"博一舖", 不如用黎買六合彩, 分分鐘中個頭獎, 讀國際學校, 出國讀, 乜都得啦!
搬...要放棄幾多野? 鄰居, 環境.....仲要未必一定抽到....機會成本太高, 唔化算囉....
仲有第二次大抽獎, 到時馬頭涌唔一定唔收架, 或者你個仔夠LUCKY呢, 係咪?
如果有心讀LA SA, 第二年仔仔有本事就自己去考, 洗乜做咁多樣野去求一個機會呀?

作者: goodmama2003 時間: 08-12-1 18:20

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作者: kit2004 時間: 08-12-1 18:39

LA SA只係有錢人學校.如果講成績好大把學校好過佢啦!

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-12-1 19:55

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-12-1 18:20 發表
我2002年份工在xx車行做, 老闆當年用左30萬, 開左張支票給x 沙, 支票我開的, 因我是會計, 支票抬頭寫 " x 沙書院" (老闆的朋友識人在x沙入面做.) 真人真事, 在9月5日,就收到x沙來電, 個仔可以去上課lu.

以上是 ...

This is really bad to hear and there's the conflict of interest in it.

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-12-1 20:03

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 17:33 發表
我家住黄埔 (自己物業), 自行分配學位、選紅磡馬頭涌唔收Benjamin (my elder son).
禮賢小學收 Benjamin 並已交留位費.
但我太太想立即搬去41網抽 LA SA 小學. 因為如果大兒子抽到LA SA 小學, 小兒子都可以入到L ...

You have to think thoroughly whether it's worth to do so, in consideration of your financial situation. Entering LS doesn't mean everything, though my son is at present a student there. Every year, there're children quitting school, partially due to the pressure of studies that they can't afford.

My husband has a friend whose son quitted LS in Primary 3 as his son had frequently nightmares and hated to go to school.

However, we are all outsiders and it's only you who know yourselves and your sons best. If you really want a try, then, have faith and go for it.

作者: charwes 時間: 08-12-1 20:26

I doubt the credibility of her story. As far as I know, there is a lot of integrity in the LS organization and the LS Brothers won't allow anything like this happening in the school for sure. It's irresponsible to slander a person or an organization like this without showing solid evidence.

原帖由 LS+MCS 於 08-12-1 19:55 發表

This is really bad to hear and there's the conflict of interest in it.

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 20:32

Really? LA SA is a school for rich man? Why rich man like their children to study at there?

The workload of student is very high? Really?
Every year, some students quit?

Any sharing, please let me know!

Thank you!

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 20:36

Beside LA Sa, any good school suggested to me?

作者: charwes 時間: 08-12-1 20:40

As a government subsidized school, it is affordable by anyone but it cannot be denied that some of the students are from rich families coz many of them are living at net 41 (Kowloon Tong). However, if you compare LSPS with other DSS or private schools, such as DBSPD or SPCC, the percentage of rich kids is surely way smaller in LSPS.

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 20:32 發表
Really? LA SA is a school for rich man? Why rich man like their children to study at there?

The workload of student is very high? Really?
Every year, some students quit?

Any sharing, please let me k ...

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 20:53

Any good school suggest to me?

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 20:58

Any sharing please?

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 21:27

please help me!!

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 22:16

help

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-12-1 23:10

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 20:32 發表
Really? LA SA is a school for rich man? Why rich man like their children to study at there?

The workload of student is very high? Really?
Every year, some students quit?

Any sharing, please let me k ...

It's not a school solely for rich people. We have parents from different social classes. Lots of parents (not restricting to rich ones) want their kids to study in LSPS as it is good and famous.

As for workload of students, it is pretty high. However, it depends on the kids. Some manage well without any difficulty but some have to go for different tuturiol classes to catch up with their studies.

LS do have students quit every year, some for overseas studies, some think their kids don't fit in the school, some feel too much pressure on themselves, ... all kinds of personal reasons.

作者: authenticseelai 時間: 08-12-1 23:11

It's real difficult to give you very sound sugestion now as most private and DSS schools closed the applications now.

As the one you chose is a still a hot choice in your district, why not stick to your initial decision?

Prepare something for the 3rd round (door knocking)for just in case.

Of course you can try look for one not so popular private school as back up while you go for the 2nd round lucky draw. This may give 2 both some peace of mind.

LaSalle's workload is heavy, of course; children with excellent command of English may feel a bit relaxed, as my friend commented.

作者: CandyChing 時間: 08-12-1 23:26

原帖由 silvia_ng 於 08-12-1 17:51 發表

你要唸....讀完LA SA之後, 係唔係個仔識飛?
用20萬OR 100萬去"博一舖", 不如用黎買六合彩, 分分鐘中個頭獎, 讀國際學校, 出國讀, 乜都得啦!
搬...要放棄幾多野? 鄰居, 環境.....仲要未必一定抽到....機會成本太高, ...

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-1 23:35

禮賢小學 is good ma?

作者: nicolemummy 時間: 08-12-1 23:48

你現在才搬時間太急了. 但有志者是可以的.

我們K2都是特地搬去41網. (本身住得比41網還近心儀學校, 但奈何不是41網就不是41網). 我們搬去, 租出自己那物業, 因大搬細, 所以還節省了錢.

若果"真的"搬, 其實數不是這樣計算的. 不應說費了錢去賺抽獎機會. 因為租金你是真的住. 你租你黃埔物業出去, 去41網租屋住. 應該BREAK EVEN.

如果你"假"搬就無話可說.

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 17:33 發表
我家住黄埔 (自己物業), 自行分配學位、選紅磡馬頭涌唔收Benjamin (my elder son).
禮賢小學收 Benjamin 並已交留位費.
但我太太想立即搬去41網抽 LA SA 小學. 因為如果大兒子抽到LA SA 小學, 小兒子都可以入到L ...

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-2 09:17

Good suggestion please

作者: BBR 時間: 08-12-2 09:51

市道唔好,咁容易將自己間屋出租咩,成個黃埔咁大,咁多租盤,租得出都分分鍾要補貼,你層樓供緊定唔駛供?你唔介意一面供樓一面比租金米搬過去,出去都係租一年姐,抽唔到米搬返黃埔

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-2 11:04

1 月17日前要改地址, 唔知夠不夠時間?

作者: BBR 時間: 08-12-2 11:05

租屋好易出租難,第時收返屋自己又要汁過間屋

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-2 11:04 發表
1 月17日前要改地址, 唔知夠不夠時間?

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-2 11:17

我想個仔有良好的品德, LA Sa or 禮賢 is better?

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-2 11:28

有冇 LA SA or 禮賢的家長可以比D意見我?

作者: BBR 時間: 08-12-2 11:34

你不如去小學一覽到睇啦

作者: HIN2003 時間: 08-12-2 13:36

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-2 11:17 發表
我想個仔有良好的品德, LA Sa or 禮賢 is better?

禮賢!

作者: catcatmom 時間: 08-12-2 14:04

朋友2個仔, 一個九龍塘宣小, 一個讀喇小, 都讀好幾年, 佢話九龍塘宣小各方面,如老師教書方法, 等.... 好過喇小, 不過喇小有中學,又唔冼$,係好吸引.佢兩個仔成績很好.對兩間學校都有正面評價.如果要冼幾十萬,不如搵間優質d私小,宣小,九龍塘小學, 禮賢, sfa..........

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作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-2 14:15

OH
How good is LA SA?
How good is 禮賢?

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-12-2 16:06

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-2 11:17 發表
我想個仔有良好的品德, LA Sa or 禮賢 is better?

Other parents may give suggestions per their experience or knowledge but it's real hard to push for a definite answer. All schools target students to have good conducts.

作者: xdi 時間: 08-12-2 22:27

Dear eric1988,
So many parents give you suggestions. I see they are all very reasonable.
However, I feel that you have your own decision already, i.e. La Salle. Perhaps you are only waiting for somebody to support your plan to move to Kln Tong.
Think about what is best for your son instead of what satisfies you and your wife.

All the best.

原帖由 eric1988 於 08-12-1 17:33 發表
我家住黄埔 (自己物業), 自行分配學位、選紅磡馬頭涌唔收Benjamin (my elder son).
禮賢小學收 Benjamin 並已交留位費.
但我太太想立即搬去41網抽 LA SA 小學. 因為如果大兒子抽到LA SA 小學, 小兒子都可以入到L ...

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-4 09:36

Dear xdi
Actually, I prefer my son go into 禮賢. It is because, 禮賢 has less work load in studies. In addition, we are not rich family, we are just general mid-class family. I affraid that my son will compare with other schoolmates about material items.
My wife prefer LA SA, becasue if my elder son go into LA SA, my younger son can go into LA SA also. In my wife view, we don't know our sons are smart or not. She think that our sons may be smart enough and suitable to study in LA SA. My wife want to give our son opportunity to try.
So the views between my wife and I are different.
Eric1988

作者: mcat 時間: 08-12-4 10:47

"we don't know our sons are smart or not"

Both of you should be the best person who know your son till his birth. 'La Salle' is you wife's choice, not you son's, ask yourself if your son could worked very very hard or not.

May I confirm that 'La Salle' will ask the boys leave if they can't reach the school's standard, is it true?

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作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-4 10:55

Dear mcat

My wife and I should know my sons best. But who can predict the future accurately? How can I predict my sons potential?
What I already know is that they are phsically fit and at least mentally normal.

Eric1988

作者: baekdoosan 時間: 08-12-4 10:57

you wife is right. if i were you i would choose la salle. wait until the younger son gets in. then you can transfer the elder son to other private schools if you think la salle is too tough.

it is always easier to transfer out of la salle than to get in.

作者: Geni 時間: 08-12-4 11:26

如果你真係想問問其他人o既意見o既, 我提議你list out 兩間學校o既 pros and cons, by point form. 一來可以叫自己認真咁分析o下, 二來其他人先知你o既觀點~~

作者: BBR 時間: 08-12-4 12:03

其實由頭到尾個問題係值唔值得博law,兩間都好架啦，只係博同唔博咁簡單，你要問邊間好，咁最好就搵兩間都讀過的父母至話到比你聽，如果唔係個個都係覺得自己間學校係最好架啦，況且你問個兩間又真係唔係差喎，所以由頭到尾個問題都响你兩公婆到，博定唔博

作者: mike0carman 時間: 08-12-4 12:23

就算賣哂樓搬入41net, 唔等如一定抽到LS喎, 有無計埋如果抽唔到條路點行呀?

作者: xdi 時間: 08-12-4 12:54

Dear Eric,

Don't let these things get between you and your wife, it is not worth it.
Now your wife wants to put your sons into LS, it is understandable. Just make an plan to fall back on if things do not work out.
Most important, your son(s) should not be the victim. Whichever school he gets into, he should be given all the credits of trying.

Best of Luck !!

作者: silvia_ng 時間: 08-12-4 12:58

你老婆咁想個仔入la sa, 咁點解佢唔一早去la sa搵返工呀? 校工都做住先啦, 咁你個仔咪入硬囉

唔該叫佢醒啦! 唔好成日唸埋d不切實際既野!

作者: eric1988 時間: 08-12-4 19:37

作者: goodmama2003 時間: 08-12-5 00:05

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作者: monkeydad 時間: 08-12-5 09:35

Eric1988,

I have read through your chain of messages.  Here are my views -

1.  You and your wife should have known you son's strengths and weakness better than anyone else and you can assess whether La Salle would fit him.  You have a lot of info / feedback from parents of La Salle for reference.  Besides, please also take into consideration of resources, i.e. your available time for coaching / guiding if you want you sons to study in La Salle type of school.  My friend's son studies in La Salle (P4).  He is a very very smart kid since we knew him at 2 years of age.  His father rushes back home sharp at 6pm to guide his homework and do the revision until 10pm everyday.  I heard there is another boy in the same grade finds it far too hard to catch up and have been trying his very best for years.  The case has worsened and the whole family is now under pyschological consultation. DO YOUR OWN ASSESSMENT.

2.  If you find your son is fit for studying in La Salle and you and your wife are ready to take the life style required by La Salle, then go ahead with your plan - at least you do your best and NO REGRET.

作者: 阿西 時間: 08-12-5 10:15

原帖由 monkeydad 於 08-12-5 09:35 發表
If you find your son is fit for studying in La Salle and you and your wife are ready to take the life style required by La Salle, then go ahead with your plan - at least you do your best and NO REGRET.

同意...樓主，其實外人好難比意見，因為值唔值，係好睇

a) 你既財力 - 如果搬去41住對你黎講負擔係綽綽有餘既，你咪當比屋企人住好d lor。留意既係，影響唔單止樓價，其實車費，買餸錢，日用品，附近餐廳....所有開支都會唔同左。

b) 太太既情意結 - 佢點解鍾意LS，係咪非讀不可既程度，定佢有其它choice，如果有機會都唔試，佢會唔會個心有條刺，覺得自己對仔唔住先。

c) 兩個仔既實力 - 好似monkeydad 咁講，入一間學校唔係入到就等如可以光榮畢業，自己係咪果種人，願意果種生活，受唔受得黎，呢d都好重要。

如果以上三方面你都好有信心既話，去la，大不了只係搬左屋啫，就當搬左一次屋lor。如果1&3你有hesitation，你要好好諗清楚，opportunity cost有幾大。否則，好似其他人咁講，仲有好多好學校，比如已經等緊你既禮賢都唔錯，而且，可以p2插LS，插到先搬，會唔會實際d﹖祝你仔仔可以搵到一間好學校。

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