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作者: kaifu 時間: 08-10-11 10:12 標題: 給各位失落於面試的03年家長

I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results.  I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the Ying Wa application.
But I want to bring you all back to the collective memory which is unique to all of us.  Five years ago, when the whole city was under the attack of SARS, a disease not even understood by the doctors, no one was more scared and concerned than those who were expecting their babies throughout that year.  Did you wear an N95 mask to the clinic for checkup?  How did you feel when you were about to deliver your baby at the hospitals, places where all SARS cases orginated.  No hosptial visits were allowed and your husbands were not allowed to go to the labor room with you.  No friends or relatives dared to visit the baby after he/she returned home, and no 1-month celebrations for most of us.  Thinking about the scares and worries at those times, what we experience right now is really nothing.  In fact we should be very thankful that our kids are growing up happily and now this is only a small milestone in their lives, although it seems like a huge challenge for the parents.
After watching our son going to all those interviews, we noticed that he has grown up a lot.  This is perhaps the biggest prize we'd ever had so far!
Cheer up, all parents of "SARS" babies.  Let's move on and help our kids go through the remaining interviews happily!

[ 本帖最後由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:15 編輯 ]

作者: youma 時間: 08-10-11 10:23

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results. I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the ...

Thank you. Really encouraging.

作者: BBMHM 時間: 08-10-11 10:36

真係好鼓舞! 多謝! 近期個心都幾失落, 睇完後, 突然幾滴眼淚流出來! 同佢哋齊成長中的苦與樂, 自己個心,個腦不段变!現唯有時間怏D 過, 令心情快快平伏便好了!

作者: AgnesHimMa 時間: 08-10-11 11:17

你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.

Thank you.

作者: MENDELMON 時間: 08-10-11 11:31

多謝 ! 其實一早都預左結果落空, 但知道 result 後難免都有點失落, 因為每個父母都認為自己的小朋友是得的, 其實佢地係 interview 已經做得好好 ... 大家要努力加油不要放棄 !!

作者: BabyLincoln 時間: 08-10-11 11:40

Dear All,

Don't worry, be happy!

作者: bblaw 時間: 08-10-11 11:57

03 Sars ma ma, Your kids are proud of u . Don't be dissappointed. I believed God will lead kids toward light and will choose the best way for them

作者: rtam 時間: 08-10-11 12:35

我不是一定要讀DSS學校, 但自己的孩子被拒絕時真的會好難受, 他這樣差嗎？不會吧!!! 在任何情況下, 即使他真的包尾, 媽媽也是一樣欣賞他的,媽媽是孩子們最大的精神支柱, 相信他們最害怕是媽媽不再欣賞他愛他, 大家不要忘記讚讚孩子順利完成了面試已很了不起。

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results. I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the ...

作者: chrwan 時間: 08-10-11 15:32

Very touching. Me also, if not 開刀
I might be 1 of the SARS in the Baptist hospital. After we go home for a week, 1st SARS in Baptist hospital!

原帖由 AgnesHimMa 於 08-10-11 11:17 發表
你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.

Thank you.

作者: chitheipama 時間: 08-10-11 15:37

Thanks for your sharing with heart. Yes, those memories are treasured and unique. Cheer up for all parents.

作者: Ben2003 時間: 08-10-11 16:06

努力！加油！

作者: Vinyny 時間: 08-10-11 16:46

03' kids and parents are best of the best!!

作者: Carmen2004 時間: 08-10-11 17:58

Even though I am not 03 mama, it is a very good sharing!!

Wish you all the bests for all the03 mama.

作者: hannah616 時間: 08-10-11 19:14

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results. I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the ...

好感動!我差點流淚了!
回想起sars 當時返工好似同死神博鬥咁,
後來政府下令某些機構不需大肚婆返工
天天留在家中都好驚!!,
我好慶幸囝囝出世那天是sars零感染,
大家都開心到痺!!

其實只要我們好好培養子女,
讀那一間學校都有出色!
我們要相信他們的能力及尊重他們的獨特性,
不要在他們身上加上我們的...期望,
這樣他們才能愉快地學習,健康地成長!

希望各位03父母及子女,
個個都人健康開心!
小一選校呢個遊戲大家玩得太大,太投入了,
我們的子女會受不起的,
大家都是輕鬆去面對好些!!

作者: 喧嘩 時間: 08-10-11 19:21

係喎, 俾你提返我tim, sara有bb係一個好大的考驗, 而我就冇去政府醫院做產檢, 不過日日就去醫院返工, 我同囡囡原來都好叻

作者: 502 時間: 08-10-11 22:18

一時間也勾起當時的情景-----細仔因為要留院照燈, 我想念大仔之下先行出院, 就在晚上跟丈夫回院送奶時, 在車上聽到浸會爆發SARS的新聞報導!

當時車子儘管已停在醫院門口, 我們也不敢上去看小B, 萬一中途中招點算? 記得當晚一面眼淚的開車離開醫院, 馬上通知醫生安排翌日接小B出院! 夫妻倆皆一夜無眠!
因此我們給小B起的名字中有一個仁字, 好讓他將來記得自己出生時各位謹守崗位的醫護人員的無私精神, 他們的仁心仁術!

這樣一想, 今天我們父母僅僅在面試過程中的一點挫敗又算什麼? 對比起在眼前的金融危機/經濟困難, 我們的失落好比星際間的一粒沙塵, 殊不足道!

願以此與各位SARS時期的爸爸媽媽互勉, 大家繼續努力!

原帖由 AgnesHimMa 於 08-10-11 11:17 發表
你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.

Thank you.

作者: small_cc 時間: 08-10-11 23:06

題外話，
為什麼很多人喜歡說03年是因為sars而出生率下降，所以考試一定容易很多，其實03年出生的bb大多數是媽咪在02年有口左bb的

(懷孕不是要9個月又7天嗎?)

誰能預料03年會爆發sars?如果早知的話，也沒有人會選在此年冒險去生bb的

作者: 樹熊 時間: 08-10-12 03:06

雖然失落但不等於失敗我們要相信我們小朋友係得架終會等到好消息

作者: gracechung 時間: 08-10-12 10:08

你唔咁講啦，小朋友只不過唔適應面試這種遊戲規則，並唔代表被拒絕。唔代表佢差。人生流流長，每個人都會經歷失意，加油！

小朋友仍然係有佢自已既價值，唔單只父母眼中是珍貴的，係天父眼中都係寶貴既。

原帖由 rtam 於 08-10-11 12:35 發表
我不是一定要讀DSS學校, 但自己的孩子被拒絕時真的會好難受, 他這樣差嗎？不會吧!!! 在任何情況下, 即使他真的包尾, 媽媽也是一樣欣賞他的,媽媽是孩子們最大的精神支柱, 相信他們最害怕是媽媽不再欣賞他愛他, 大家不要 ...

作者: gracechung 時間: 08-10-12 10:13

各位家長，
加油！

若于年回頭，小學面試只係人生小插曲。當然，我明白此刻心情比自已考大學更緊張，因為你地都十分愛你地既小朋友，比愛自已更甚！

記得要微笑。加油，從容面對挑戰！

作者: 臣媽 時間: 08-10-12 18:18

1844-300=1544 個失望的家長, 面試失望並非失敗, 小朋友都己經好叻

祝各位sars bb 揾到適合佢地的學校

作者: itbaby 時間: 08-10-12 21:38

十分好的提點呀!我忽然諗起2003年,每日除咗瞓覺,沖涼,食飯之外,就全天候帶口罩,真的多謝你!

作者: amanda030209 時間: 08-10-12 23:18

原帖由喧嘩於 08-10-11 19:21 發表
係喎, 俾你提返我tim, sara有bb係一個好大的考驗, 而我就冇去政府醫院做產檢, 不過日日就去醫院返工, 我同囡囡原來都好叻

me too,and I was working in paediatric unit and had admitted the SARS patient,very high risk!!
Everything will be decided by GOD,take it easy,physically and psychological health are the most important as I saw many abnormal behaviour children in our hospital ,e.g. eating disorder, school refusal, self harm...those are suffering from stress and pressure,mostly caused by parents and unhappiness school life.

作者: mattmummy 時間: 08-10-13 10:38

That's really touching and remind us how God loves us. Thankful our kids are healthy enough even growing up after the SARS. The outcome is really very very hurt since my kid being "deselected" is the most difficult to face (much more than own failure). But knowing he is "SELECTED" by our God. All our kids are growing out of SARS, out of the economic tsunami, out of all the tough times. Wish all of our kids are blessed by God.

作者: Vinyny 時間: 08-10-13 11:27

无需觉得失落，塞失马，焉知非福。。。

你（学校）选我们时，我们也在选你 jie 。。。

我相信只要所有03年的家长团结一致，万事都能够解决的。

原帖由 MENDELMON 於 08-10-11 11:31 發表
多謝 ! 其實一早都預左結果落空, 但知道 result 後難免都有點失落, 因為每個父母都認為自己的小朋友是得的, 其實佢地係 interview 已經做得好好 ... 大家要努力加油不要放棄 !! ...

作者: mymelody2003 時間: 08-10-15 17:05

睇完呢篇文章真係

, 因為我都係03媽咪, 諗番當年的恐慌, 人心惶惶, 出街都唔敢, 街上及朋友每個冇帶口罩既人都要避得就避, 諗起都好笑

5年後既今天, 見到囝囝在interview過程中勇敢去做, 真係很開心

因為囝囝不經不覺地長大了, 雖然我只安排囝囝in 了2間學校, 我只當作給他的人生經險, 收錄與否真係唔可以控制得到, 因為小學面試根本沒有準則的, 老師用哪方法取錄真係冇人知, 囝囝考得到我會很開心, 但2間都失落的話我唔會怪他沒有努力, 因為囝囝巳經盡力做到最好

希望各位小朋友可以考到大家理想小學

作者: Babyu 時間: 08-10-15 18:39

Million thanks ! your words are very enlightening. Let's bring back up our spirit and move on !!

作者: RitaWW 時間: 08-10-15 23:21

睇完我都喊咗出嚟, 回想當時大住個肚好擔心, 現在面試真的是一件不值得過份憂慮的事, 祝各位03bb及媽咪都可以順利過呢一關, 保持心情愉快!

作者: Yinwan 時間: 08-10-16 02:20

thank you very much for sharing, really touching, can't help shed tears...

remembering those difficult days during SARS attack, the loss in the recent interviews are no big deal.

God Blessed us, the mothers, and the children in those days, and surely will Bless all our children to a suitable school.

Hope all 03 boys & girls enjoy their coming primary school life!

作者: 焯媽媽 時間: 08-10-16 07:35

原帖由 small_cc 於 08-10-11 23:06 發表
題外話，
為什麼很多人喜歡說03年是因為sars而出生率下降，所以考試一定容易很多，其實03年出生的bb大多數是媽咪在02年有口左bb的 (懷孕不是要9個月又7天嗎?)

誰能預料03年會爆發sars?如果早知的話，也沒有人會選在 ...

因為每年的下半年為出生高峰期, sars 於3月爆發, 我便是當年聽到新聞話威院有肺炎, (當時未知是sars) 我連qe也不敢去做產檢...我的bb在11月出世, 所以經歷了整個sars 的折磨....

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-10-16 08:17

Fully understands the worries and feelings of all parents as I went through the same sickening allocation process last year. It lasted really for more than a year ! My daughter didn't get any back up schools but finally managed to get to the one that we wanted in the very last round of lucky draw. So, you can never tell. Just keep on moving and wish you all the best !

作者: ChapmanMa 時間: 08-10-16 09:33

Thanks LS+MCS's encouragement. I don't have good luck in applying the DSS school and I need to wait for the lottery. Hope the luck will come back to me finally.

原帖由 LS+MCS 於 08-10-16 08:17 發表
Fully understands the worries and feelings of all parents as I went through the same sickening allocation process last year. It lasted really for more than a year ! My daughter didn't get any back up ...

作者: 妙mill 時間: 08-11-2 01:00

因為正值"沙士". 健康和開心,是我生下孩子後,對他的第一個祝願.
給他"健康"--我選了以母乳餵他.
讓他"開心"--我揀一間適合他的愉快校園,多於揀一間眾人所追捧的名校.

作者: skygame 時間: 08-11-2 18:50

SARs is a terrible experience for our 03 babies and parents. It is the eariest and special challenge to us from god.
But we must remember that it is a long competition to us as "The Tortoise and the Hare" story. Never give up!

作者: Kitkit01 時間: 08-11-7 13:00

無論成功與否,所有小朋友都係妈妈心中第一,神一定為我們的小朋友安排一間最合适的学校

作者: Juho 時間: 08-11-7 13:26

神一定為我們的小朋友安排一間最合适的学校,因為孩子是衪的產業!

原帖由 Kitkit01 於 08-11-7 13:00 發表
無論成功與否,所有小朋友都係妈妈心中第一,神一定為我們的小朋友安排一間最合适的学校

作者: Chunyan 時間: 08-11-10 13:42

好感動!

作者: Daphnetang 時間: 08-11-10 13:50

我的小朋友是03年3月.......最高峰!

作者: VivianKeung 時間: 08-11-13 00:28

My girl is unsuccessful in TSL & GT & I think because of she is "small girl". Anyway, I will take it easy. Nothing can be worser than SARS. SARS year baby & parent will be strong enough to face any difficulty.

作者: hellorachel 時間: 08-11-13 01:47

你寫得好好呀!令我諗番起03年咁嘅事都能夠過去,而家intview衰咗都唔係d乜嘢事,不過我開頭都好唔開心有幾晚瞓唔着,係度諗我個仔都唔係咁差! 點解唔收我個仔呀!而家睇完你哋寫d嘢,我好好多啦!

作者: mattmummy 時間: 08-11-13 10:16

Yes, no matter which school our kid studies, mom & dad are still the most impt for his growing up. And knowing God is blessing him, He must prepare the best for him, even though knowing there may be ups & downs, perhaps that's the challenge & drill for our kid & us to face together, such that a better future is awaiting us. I still believe entering a good school is just a good start, haven't entering such famous school is another start only. Family is still impt as we can nurture him under God's supervision, even another start can lead to a fruitful ending. May God bless our kids.

作者: winho 時間: 08-11-13 14:15

Thanks for all your sharings.
I strongly believe that every child is a gift from God. He/ She is unique and with his own talent in different areas. Interview is just a tool for school to select the type (ie. presentable, lovely appearance, outgoing etc) they want. Thus, since my kid is very shy and sensitive to strangers, I am not surprise that she cannot fit such game. God must arrange the best way for my kid I believe.
So let's cheer up!

作者: yanyan-fish 時間: 08-11-15 11:34

Thanks a lot for all your sharings.

I delivered at the end of Mar 03 in QE. I did not know what was SARS at that moment. On my son's birthday, "To Tai Garden" (sorry I don't know exact name) Block E was blocked.... I even did not know how serous it was but I do felt the terrribly atmosphere when we came back home on the second day of my son. We even did not go out in the first 3 months except to health centre.

You all are right. GOD let us overcome the very hard period 5 years ago. We must be strong enough from him to handle all the difficulties. Trust him and he will do the rest for us.

God bless you all and me.

原帖由 winho 於 08-11-13 14:15 發表
Thanks for all your sharings.
I strongly believe that every child is a gift from God. He/ She is unique and with his own talent in different areas. Interview is just a tool for school to select the ty ...

作者: kcjcmama 時間: 08-11-16 20:21

原帖由 VivianKeung 於 08-11-13 00:28 發表
My girl is unsuccessful in TSL & GT & I think because of she is "small girl". Anyway, I will take it easy. Nothing can be worser than SARS. SARS year baby & parent will be strong enough to face any ...

never give up! my gal bornt on dec. 31, 03. small small gal. she gets in our lady's. i went to 2 interviews for her. once i got our lady, i stopped to do the others. don't want to put too much pressure on her. god already give us the best! for all 2003 moms!

Give thanks with a grateful heart .
Give thanks to the Holy One .
Give thanks because He's given Jesus Christ, His son.

Give thanks with a grateful heart .
Give thanks to the Holy One .
Give thanks because He's given Jesus Christ, His son.

And now . Let the weak say “ I am strong”,
let the poor say “ I am rich”,
because of what the Lord has done for us.
And now . Let the weak say “ I am strong”,
let the poor say “ I am rich”,
because of what the Lord has done for us.
Give thanks .

作者: chfong 時間: 08-11-16 20:46

yes, never give up, may be our children are luckly in the lucky draw.

作者: VivianKeung 時間: 08-11-17 23:52

Hi kcjcmama,
Thanks very much ! I will not give up.
Your gal is really small gal!
We are waiting for the last one, if fail again, will go to central allocation. No matter which school she will study, we will support her. She is an valuable gift from God.

原帖由 kcjcmama 於 08-11-16 20:21 發表

never give up! my gal bornt on dec. 31, 03. small small gal. she gets in our lady's. i went to 2 interviews for her. once i got our lady, i stopped to do the others. don't want to put too much ...

作者: LS+MCS 時間: 08-11-18 00:26

原帖由 winho 於 08-11-13 14:15 發表
Thanks for all your sharings.
I strongly believe that every child is a gift from God. He/ She is unique and with his own talent in different areas. Interview is just a tool for school to select the ty ...

Exactly, same like what my daughter experienced last year. Yet, God has arranged the best for us.

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