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標題: 子女第一天哭著上學怎麼辦？ [打印本頁]

作者: bkeditor 時間: 08-9-5 10:17 標題: 子女第一天哭著上學怎麼辦？

王國顧問團~盧劉膺華女士(輔導心理學家、家庭治療顧問)教您安撫孩子情緒的好方法……

http://www.baby-kingdom.com/editorial/1191.php?storyid=1191

作者: MandyBee 時間: 08-9-11 11:17

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作者: loveyammie 時間: 08-9-20 03:19

亞女第一日番學我都好驚佢會喊架
好彩最後都冇

作者: cindymama 時間: 08-9-20 07:28

我係過來人, 回想起第一天我囝囝返幼稚園時都有喊, 但我同佢講媽咪會在放學時係門口接你, 比定個定心丸佢; 再加上當時老師好好, 好細心咁解釋話佢知你信媽咪一定會夠鐘就接番佢, 況且學校有好多玩具及遊戲玩, 咁一邊講就一邊拖佢入課室, 佢就無喊了。
但記得要準時在學校門口等佢, 唔好遲到, 否則小朋友會以為你唔要佢。

作者: mamatwy 時間: 08-9-23 21:06

有mama旁住增加安全感，有同事為左旁住第一次返學，特別請假陪住開學的適應性週。

[ 本帖最後由 mamatwy 於 08-9-23 21:11 編輯 ]

作者: winchoy16888 時間: 08-10-8 18:55

係屋企講多Ｄ同學名、話同學仔好鍾意同你玩喎‧講多Ｄ就得架啦

作者: 天娜888 時間: 08-10-10 11:51

thanks

作者: vic6 時間: 08-10-13 19:31

you may help her/him to enroll a N1 class in summer time, b/4 he / she go to kinder in sept. it's helpful for her/him to learn to communicate with others in school bus. you may take bb to the playgroup, or try to find some k1 schoolmates to go to picnic together in summer (Aug), so all moms & kids know each other, they will find easy to play with others.

作者: yanyanbee 時間: 08-10-17 11:46

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作者: 大頭蝦 時間: 08-10-23 01:58

I am worrying about this as well !

作者: mmyleung 時間: 08-10-24 10:29

Talk to him more about funny and interesting things happened in the school

作者: ericby 時間: 08-11-4 10:52

if she cry, bring her back home and try again tomorrow

作者: sammam 時間: 08-11-6 21:58

現在ok la!

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作者: winchoy16888 時間: 08-11-13 22:39

而家習慣佐未

作者: muichaima 時間: 09-1-4 21:55

see one step, walk one step.

作者: UncleWill 時間: 09-1-19 16:14

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作者: littlecowbb 時間: 09-4-23 22:03

u need to say to yr child how lovely and exciting when go to school......especially said there are lots of same age ppls........u can play with them.....my son first time go to school cried whole morning......but right now he loves go to school la...

作者: mel-j 時間: 09-6-2 11:04

原帖由 littlecowbb 於 09-4-23 22:03 發表
u need to say to yr child how lovely and exciting when go to school......especially said there are lots of same age ppls........u can play with them.....my son first time go to school cried whole morn ...

most kids cry at the first 2 weeks, just let it go, will be better soon.

作者: bikkibikki512 時間: 09-6-12 23:40

我囝囝舊年開始返學, 喊到好西利, 完全無計。

最終可以用既方法就係自然療法 -- 船到橋頭自然直 -- 大概十日左右就唔喊, 有時做人阿媽係要狠心d

作者: csnkennis 時間: 09-6-22 14:36

我細囡返幼兒班,一啲都冇喊,反而重安慰啲同學仔叫佢唔好喊添,可能我個囡係大囡(1月出生)嚟啦,所以淡定啲。不過之前未返學都要都啲野嫁,例如:不停同佢講會有好多小朋友同佢一齊玩,一齊返學,同埋有好多老師會好錫佢地。當佢第一日返學,我都唔駛同佢一齊上堂添,我見有啲家長要陪埋佢地啲子女一齊上堂,你可以試吓O唔OK。

作者: babylaam 時間: 09-7-10 23:53

唔...唔理她哦...

作者: happyvalley 時間: 09-7-25 21:13

路過，以前幼稚園有位同學，k1 哭左半年，k2 & k3哭左一個月，最慘返小一都一樣哭。

作者: Nathn 時間: 09-7-30 14:17

好common的事情, 一般老師可以處理好好, 唔需要擔心.

作者: primrose_bb 時間: 09-8-16 00:09

其實真係要看老師,我個女本來喊到好慘,但係老師不知同她說了什麼,之後就停咗啦!

作者: pangpangkar 時間: 09-9-7 10:36

個囡連校服都唔肯換...返到課室門口走番出學校大門口...>.< (開頭一星期係無問題架，呢兩日先開始)，都唔知點算....

作者: vic6 時間: 09-9-7 15:08

don't be too worry...my daughter only cried on the 1st day when she get on the school bus for the n.1 class. she likes to go to school through the 1st day of her experience in school, and she did not cry on the 2nd day of n.1. so no problem in k1, k2 & k3, even p.1 & p.2.

原帖由 pangpangkar 於 09-9-7 10:36 發表
個囡連校服都唔肯換...返到課室門口走番出學校大門口...>.< (開頭一星期係無問題架，呢兩日先開始)，都唔知點算....

作者: EstellaWong 時間: 09-9-9 11:30

我都有問題想尋求一吓解決方法....

我個仔 K1 唔喊但今年升咗 K2 就日日喊.
今日 , 返到學校門口仲轉身走.

我有問過佢 , 佢答我唔想返學原因係 :
1) 唔鍾意今年嘅老師
2) d 小朋友唔同佢玩
3) 掛住去街 ( 因為 , 暑期爺爺 , 痳痳日日都帶佢去街)
4) 掛住我哋

我都唔明點解會係噤 ?
我擔心佢日日噤喊 , 個班住任會討厭佢.
到時 , 佢更加唔想返學.

原帖由 vic6 於 09-9-7 15:08 發表
don't be too worry...my daughter only cried on the 1st day when she get on the school bus for the n.1 class. she likes to go to school through the 1st day of her experience in school, and she did not ...

作者: chuwaiwai 時間: 09-9-9 14:21

我個女第一個星期無哭,但到第二個星期放學搭校巴放學就開始哭又唔肯自己搭車,所以呢兩日我都要陪佢搭校車.呢個星期放假就話可以之後都唔知點?

作者: pangpangkar 時間: 09-9-10 11:45 標題: 回覆 4# pangpangkar 的文章

我個囡開始OK啦 ^^，琴日重喊緊，今日就無喊LU...
人人都教我千其唔好心軟，唔換校服就帶校服返學校先換，比佢知道就算喊+唔著校服都要返學...當然放學之後要解釋番比佢聽，同最重要係讚佢叻+叻+叻...

作者: vanmak 時間: 09-9-14 11:09

作者: vanmak 時間: 09-9-14 11:12

初初返學實會有少少喊,因為吾習慣要同父母分離既感覺,我第一日湊小朋友返學,我都想喊呢!

作者: Bubble09 時間: 09-9-15 00:23

給小朋友一點時間，也給老師一點時間。相信小朋友的能力，也相信老師的專業(切記因為孩子哭而拉拉扯扯，依依不捨)，各位家長不用太擔心呢！

作者: rpang001 時間: 09-9-27 22:07

我相信我的個案算係幾經典：

仔仔3歲半入讀K1全日制，開學前有十多日適應班，放學時間慢慢由上午11時半到中午，直到開學後延長到午睡後。但仔仔同我根本分離唔倒，唔好話起學校，起屋企都唔得，我連落街10分鐘買野都唔得：佢知我將會落街會Lock住大門，定時看看我是否在家，有時什致企起門邊封住門口，工人同其他屋企人都唔跟。所有幼兒活動我必在場，連睡覺也要在他旁才可睡着，結果連工都返唔倒。

返學早上打大戰，幫佢穿校服佢除走，出門大叫大哭不返校，到校門前像樹熊夾住我，要2~3個老師拉走他才可分離。抬佢搭的士原的士抬返屋企，學校校長都怕咗佢比我多2星期陪佢返校至中午，及後又准返半日，適應了2~3個月才分離。當中用盡一切方法鼓勵，包括安排老師比贈券佢(自制贈卷)，可去麥當勞吃雪糕，去冒險樂園。

總之千方百計，從中嘗試找出他喜愛的東西，在接放學獎給他。希望帮到你

作者: popokit 時間: 09-10-1 10:20

同老師傾傾, 可否搵機會讚讚佢, 等佢同老師建立信心, 愛護.

作者: JassChow 時間: 09-10-7 12:22

我個女又比我想像中好好多, 佢無喊bor~~

作者: beansan 時間: 09-10-14 18:26

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原帖由 JassChow 於 7-10-2009 12:22 發表
我個女又比我想像中好好多, 佢無喊bor~~

作者: Hitachi 時間: 09-10-18 10:14

千祈唔好心軟，比佢知你心痛會喊多D架！同部當然係同老師保持聯絡，我覺得讚會有效！

作者: GraceMatt 時間: 09-10-20 12:13

I think it is quite normal. Try to read some book that related this issue. He may understand from time to time. and promise them you will pick him up when he finish the class and let him see you waiting outside the classroom. Make sure you don't be late to pick him up. Otherwise, he may think you lie to him and he will cry even more.

作者: irenepyy 時間: 09-10-30 23:54

我想問吓, 你地話返學會喊好奈的小朋友平時係咪會比較易喊架 ? 我個囝平時好少喊的, 跌到扭計都係喊一陣(唔會多過五六聲, 當然我要叫佢收聲話比我知唔開心乜事), 但都有擔心佢返學會勁喊我會頂唔順.

作者: Whitepine 時間: 09-11-30 11:52

You have to make up your decision not thinking and worrying too much. It is a part of journey the kid need to be go through. They cried, but they will learn it quickly that he/she is just away their parents a while and will see them again after school.

原帖由 irenepyy 於 09-10-30 23:54 發表
我想問吓, 你地話返學會喊好奈的小朋友平時係咪會比較易喊架 ? 我個囝平時好少喊的, 跌到扭計都係喊一陣(唔會多過五六聲, 當然我要叫佢收聲話比我知唔開心乜事), 但都有擔心佢返學會勁喊我會頂唔順. ...

作者: racoy 時間: 09-12-10 10:59

返足一年都喊就話擔心姐, 返第一日喊都要問怎麼辦? 會唔會過於神經緊張同太呵護小朋友? 如果樣樣事都以樣既處理方式處理小朋友既問題, 我唔認為係妥當

作者: kunfungmama 時間: 11-2-23 00:13

啊，看到这些，我都害怕了，虽然我的仔还未返幼稚园，他也是好钟意黏住我，一步都走不开，我正在想有什么方法可以使他不那么害羞。那么粘住我。

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