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作者: 木馬 時間: 08-8-11 16:41 標題: Puppy Love

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作者: LLMUMMY 時間: 08-8-12 13:25

好快就 " 散"

原文章由木馬於 08-8-11 16:41 發表
點睇初中生的puppy love~

作者: 木馬 時間: 08-8-12 13:51

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作者: daphneho28 時間: 08-10-15 03:57

my daughter (she is still quite childish) is 13 years old studying F.2, I just discovered she started her puppy love for 2 weeks. what should I do.

very very worry!

作者: 小咖哩 時間: 08-10-15 17:11

are they classmates?
I guess you know nothing about this boy or his parents, right?
You can't stop your daughter likes someone but it is more worth to listen to your daughter about her view and about this boy. You may find them break-up soon or even turn to a new target, but don't worry if you always listen to your daughter and give a bit opinion to her view points.

作者: daphneho28 時間: 08-10-16 11:26

Hi curry,

Thank you for your advice. Actually my daughter didn't tell me (我曾經試探過佢,不過佢唔認, 所以我都唔知點同佢開聲, 我又唔想比佢知 I found out by my own through MSN and SMS). 個男仔同佢一班, 不過我對個男仔無好感, 正經男仔係唔會一開始追求就問我個女 "你肯唔肯做我條女" I really want to stop them but I don't know what should I do. Should I report it to the school? 真係好擔心,估唔到辛辛苦苦幫佢入到間Band 1學校, 都有呢啲情況出現, 有啲後悔當初無幫佢入女校

各位有經驗嘅BK媽咪,可唔可以啲意見呀?謝謝!

作者: kaan 時間: 08-10-16 12:02

女校都有好多機會識到男仔, 只要個女想拍拖.

唔知你同個女感情點樣, 如果大家感情好, 平時常傾計, 可以在閒談中問下佢對同年紀學生拍拖睇法, 從而講出你既睇法, 切記態度要中肯, 只分析利與弊。俾時間佢自己思考。

作者: happytse 時間: 08-10-16 12:07

我無呢方面既經驗, 不過如果你直接去同學校或者你囡囡講要"Stop" , 我擔心弄得不好時, 會連囡囡與妳的關係都有影響, 我曾經聽朋友講過類似既情況, 結果媽媽送個囡返學, 接個囡放學, 做"跟"得媽媽, 再帶囡囡去Church, 等囡囡無時間與那男孩單獨相處!

作者: 小咖哩 時間: 08-10-16 14:18

如果換了是我，一様唔認。因為好清楚家庭同學校都唔會接受，學特首來一招「三部曲」行動
1. 不時旁敲側擊咁詢問一下阿女同朋友們之間嘅關係（要個個都問吓，唔好令佢覺得你講嚟講去都同個男仔有關。）
２．她會好鍾意聽媽咪嘅puppy love story，借題發揮咁講多啲男仔識女仔心態及進一步跟囡囡探討自己想拍拖的目的，跟她傾吓拍拖給她帶來的是優越感還是感覺已經大個女（或會有其他原因，不要緊，都可以加入探討）。
３．心理關口打開咗的話，你想講耶穌時就容易好多啦，要記住講得客觀啲，我試過同阿女一齊聽電台啲聽眾來電（少年拍拖果啲），然後佢自己開腔講佢對來電者嘅睇法，好正，我覺得佢果時忘記咗我係佢阿媽lor :)

我時不時同佢講中學時拍拖可以導致嘅問題，等佢自己去思考同選擇。　但我會保持高度警覺，儘量俾啲advice過佢，關心比管制受落嗎！

原帖由 daphneho28 於 08-10-16 11:26 發表
Hi curry,

Thank you for your advice. Actually my daughter didn't tell me (我曾經試探過佢,不過佢唔認, 所以我都唔知點同佢開聲, 我又唔想比佢知 I found out by my own through MSN and SMS). 個男仔同佢一 ...

作者: daphneho28 時間: 08-10-16 14:28

thanks all of you, I will keep on observe before doing anything

作者: johnmon 時間: 09-6-30 00:17

原帖由 daphneho28 於 08-10-16 11:26 發表 [quote] 真係好擔心,估唔到辛辛苦苦幫佢入到間Band 1學校, 都有呢啲情況出現, 有啲後悔當初無幫佢入女校

其實無論什麼男女校/女校都有puppy love,不過男女校的多數是男女拍拖(較為正常)，而女校則一定是女和女拍拖，不要以為我說笑。協X和真X也不少。

[ 本帖最後由 johnmon 於 09-6-30 00:19 編輯 ]

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