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標題: 到底幾多歲俾小朋友出國留學先適合? [打印本頁]

作者: carriechan 時間: 07-11-29 15:02 標題: 到底幾多歲俾小朋友出國留學先適合?

如題......

作者: awah112 時間: 07-11-29 20:20

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作者: 大豬既老婆 時間: 07-11-30 03:13

如果系比距自己去留學
甘我覺得大 D 吾緊要姐﹐ 起碼成熟 D﹐ 識得照顧自己丫嘛。同埋我覺得 "函" 接都好重要 ﹐ 吾好讀到一半就話要去國 ﹐ 甘其實仲浪費時間。

作者: carriechan 時間: 07-11-30 09:43 標題: 回覆 #1 大豬既老婆的文章

大成點, 係咪起碼15.16歲? 但係我驚佢英文會學得唔好....

作者: chubbymami 時間: 07-11-30 11:16

如果錢唔係問題，又想啲英文好啲嘅話，P1 or 2 就可以出國。

如果太早出去，又怕佢啲中文唔得。

作者: carriechan 時間: 07-11-30 11:39 標題: 回覆 #1 chubbymami 的文章

P1.2 定 F1.2 呀, P1得6歲喎, 咁細都得?

作者: 大豬既老婆 時間: 07-12-1 04:37

原文章由 carriechan 於 07-11-30 09:43 發表
大成點, 係咪起碼15.16歲? 但係我驚佢英文會學得唔好....

我覺得讀完中學去仲好
去到直接讀大學
你英文可以比距系香港學架姐
我本身有幫人補習 (系美國)
我見到好多如果系中 2﹐ 3 過黎 ﹐  如果本身英文底吾好
仲衰 ﹐  因為學每一科都吾掂 ﹐  吾止英文。

我情願系香港搞好 D 英文先。因為大學你可以 choose 科目﹐ 但如果黎到讀中學﹐  一定要讀晒距個 D 歷史呀 ﹐ 政治呀呢樣個樣﹐  個 D 科目好容易拖低成績 ﹐  影響入大學。

何況如果得 14﹐ 15 years old, 呢段時間最難搞﹐  如果擺距一個人系外國﹐  學壞左點算!  但到中學畢業 (當 F5)﹐  甘起碼定性 D﹐  同埋如果去外國入大學﹐  距地會知道自己為左咩要出國  law. 太細個好似系被阿媽逼甘。

再者 ﹐  距都要上大學﹐  都吾到你理 ﹐  成吾成材講真就要考距自己 ﹐  如果到大學先黎學壞你都無辦法。

當然 ﹐ 如果你話個細路所有成績都好 ﹐  又一定吾會學壞﹐  甘其實幾時都得拉 ﹐  講真  ﹐ 如果系甘就出國都系去 D 好名校拉﹐  甘我覺得屬於比較少數。。。

作者: 臣媽 時間: 07-12-6 16:56

原文章由 大豬既老婆 於 07-12-1 04:37 發表

我覺得讀完中學去仲好
去到直接讀大學
你英文可以比距系香港學架姐
我本身有幫人補習 (系美國)
我見到好多如果系中 2﹐ 3 過黎 ﹐ 如果本身英文底吾好
仲 ...

完全同意大豬既老婆的意見, 小朋友過咗青春期先離開父母好d, 除非阿媽跟埋一齊過去啫, 正所謂在家千日好,出外半朝難, 出到外面有困難時, 太細個父母又遠, 好慘咖

作者: questioning 時間: 07-12-8 17:29 標題: 回覆 #1 臣媽的文章

我曾經同學校既先生傾過, 佢提議我越遲越好, 因為小朋友係父母身邊成長係最好既....

作者: 3kids媽咪 時間: 07-12-10 15:16

我都覺得唔好太細個(小學階段)過外國讀書,就算係有好親的親戚照顧他/她,我相信無人會比父母睇住o甘好,父母就係父母,人地(親戚)都只不過係照顧孩子的起居飲食,點及自己父母在身邊,我覺得父母的身教係好重要,出國讀書和一定成材是不相等的,我的大仔現讀F.2,待他完成F.3後就會回加拿大讀書(在親戚到住)一年後我已打算帶埋二仔及三女過去讀書,我會在那邊照顧/陪他們數年,待三女升上大學後我就功成身退回來HK啦

作者: awah112 時間: 07-12-10 18:48

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作者: codychan 時間: 07-12-11 11:38

我地計劃中一送呀仔去英國或澳洲

作者: Umi 時間: 07-12-12 10:20

我都有唸過升中時比個囡去英國, 但問左佢個西人阿sir後, 佢話唔好太早比小朋友去, 寧願完左中學才去都未遲, 因為佢喜歡係香港 IS教書多過外國, 因為佢話香港有家長睇住, 小朋友會好些.
所以同老公唸過都係等佢大d先算. 況且現在佢又讀得幾開心.

作者: jesschen 時間: 07-12-15 02:23

我覺得大d好d

原文章由 carriechan 於 07-11-29 15:02 發表
如題......

作者: Yau_Cheung 時間: 07-12-30 17:48

原文章由 Umi 於 07-12-12 10:20 發表
我都有唸過升中時比個囡去英國, 但問左佢個西人阿sir後, 佢話唔好太早比小朋友去, 寧願完左中學才去都未遲, 因為佢喜歡係香港 IS教書多過外國, 因為佢話香港有家長睇住, 小朋友會好些.
所以同老公唸過都係等佢大d先 ...

完左中學才去都未遲 - Agree

作者: mcyu 時間: 08-1-1 22:15

各位媽咪......如果我囡囡將來去英国升中...但現讀本地小學有影响嗎? 是否應該讓她先在英式IS 就讀 ?

作者: DadDad 時間: 08-1-10 11:19

agree.

原文章由臣媽於 07-12-6 16:56 發表

完全同意大豬既老婆的意見, 小朋友過咗青春期先離開父母好d, 除非阿媽跟埋一齊過去啫, 正所謂在家千日好,出外半朝難, 出到外面有困難時, 太細個父母又遠, 好慘咖 ...

作者: wing8pau 時間: 08-1-12 12:50

原文章由 mcyu 於 08-1-1 22:15 發表
各位媽咪......如果我囡囡將來去英国升中...但現讀本地小學有影响嗎? 是否應該讓她先在英式IS 就讀 ?

其實又未必gei
讀IS好貴ga
如果係一般LS讀得好好地
再上埋d升學預備班都ok la
不過你想佢讀咩uk sch呀?

作者: salina0817 時間: 08-1-12 15:29

I think may be F3 is the best time to let kid go aboard

作者: happyannt 時間: 08-1-17 18:54

由於學習語言很講求環境，很多時香港沒有這方便的優勢，如果決定遲早都會送小朋友出國讀書，而小朋友在學習英文方面並不大理想的話，則建議在完成中三便安排出國比較好。小朋友可在高中時期學好些英文，在大學時候便不會有太大的壓力，因上大一的時候，功課會緊迫很多。這些都是我的經驗，當然還有很多事情需要配合的。

作者: sbandliz 時間: 08-1-29 20:28

I agree with the advise for sending the child after he/she finishes high school. I truly believes that nothing compares to being with Mum & dad during the formative years.

Ability to learn and speak English should not be the deciding factor here. You can do that in Hong Kong just as well.

I have observed on trains and buses in Sydney that school age kids tend to group together, so there is no point to send a child overseas if their new friends at the new school are mainly Chinese, speaking Chinese most of the time. If you want to avoid this problem by sending your child to country areas where the Chinese / Asian population are smaller or nil, then you may have to worry about bullying and racism.

作者: sbandliz 時間: 08-1-29 20:30

Plus you should worry that they may be like me - can read but can't type in Chinese (only finished yr 4 in HK).

作者: nottmum 時間: 08-3-28 01:41

原文章由 questioning 於 07-12-8 17:29 發表
我曾經同學校既先生傾過, 佢提議我越遲越好, 因為小朋友係父母身邊成長係最好既....

同意,所以我同埋阿仔過黎...^^

作者: jane9898 時間: 08-4-6 15:17

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作者: awah112 時間: 08-4-7 04:23

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作者: EvelynMom 時間: 08-4-8 17:17 標題: 回覆 #1 awah112 的文章

Agree also.....either very early (before P3) or very late (after finish high school).

No matter what the best is parents can be with them.

作者: iberia 時間: 08-4-8 18:43

原文章由 awah112 於 08-4-7 04:23 發表

同意。

Hi Awah112;

How are you recently.

Hi parents;

Pls note as per my experience, the best time is after F5. Pls note today North America or Europe is not simple at all. Drugs / Sex / Fighting is the major issue. Pls do not think everything ideally. Pls also consider how they can handle the above 3 major issues.

We will send our kids back to states after F4 to F5. Kid can adopt English speaking fluently easily as long as they have a good foundation. On last summer they were joined the summer camp in North Carolina, they can adopted it easily.

Can you imagine Brand one middle school in the state. Some of femal student is pregnancy in 12 years old. They can reach drugs starting from 12 years old.

Do you remember even the Virginia Tech has gun killing student on last year.

Pls note even in Hong Kong, Girls will not 100% follow their parent's instruction starting from P5 to P6. If you have son, it is much better, they do not like to stick with parents starting from F1 to F2. So pls enjoy your time with them, pls do not send them aboard without your parenting.

作者: awah112 時間: 08-4-9 02:30

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作者: iberia 時間: 08-4-9 21:21

原文章由 awah112 於 08-4-9 02:30 發表

iberia

細仔2星期大，真係好忙，好彩大仔已經習慣多咗個細佬，有時仲會同細佬玩。

你講得好啱，Drugs / Sex / Fighting 既問題的確要睇實d，特別係d 乖乖仔，太子爺，有錢又聽話，最容易比人帶壞。 ...

Hi Awah;

有無看過PM您的資料, I wish those parents can see the reality by their own eyes. Not just focus on English. 這世界不是有一口流利英便有通行証, 不要讓孩子感覺不到父母的愛, 上天要父母教好子女, 這樣美國的孩子便很容易找到一份好工作, 因他們都是說英文, 為何現實不是呢??????????????

作者: chansm8 時間: 08-5-25 10:53

I totally agree with Iberia, In fact, the education in Hong Kong is not too bad, At least we can learn reading and writting Chinese, English is easier then Chinese, It is no need to study aboard, As my nephew, He immigrated to Austalia with his family when he was P.3, Now he is 21 already, his English is very good but he can only write his name in Chinese. In fact, The student in Hong Kong is much clever then the other country, We can always get awards in Mathematics contest. The weak in Hong Kong student is less chance to see the real things. If really want to study aboard, I might think to send my son to Singapore.

原文章由 iberia 於 08-4-9 21:21 發表

Hi Awah;

有無看過PM您的資料, I wish those parents can see the reality by their own eyes. Not just focus on English. 這世界不是有一口流利英便有通行証, 不要讓孩子感覺不到父母的愛, 上天要父母教好子女, ...

作者: hellolanlan 時間: 08-6-13 15:37

成績係重要, 品行更更更重要

原文章由 iberia 於 08-4-9 21:21 發表

Hi Awah;

有無看過PM您的資料, I wish those parents can see the reality by their own eyes. Not just focus on English. 這世界不是有一口流利英便有通行証, 不要讓孩子感覺不到父母的愛, 上天要父母教好子女, ...

作者: Hipuppy 時間: 08-6-20 01:17

我小朋友仲細,但我已經好似要唸定佢地ge出路. 去外國讀書係好好ge鍛鍊,但係未過中五我都唔會放佢地走!

作者: Edison媽咪 時間: 08-6-24 18:06

過左high school先,一定要讀完中五先好去,去外國係一件好事,因為我自己都係咁,不過我係讀完中四之後去加拿大,再去澳洲,如果中過中五唔係咁好,因為你地既小朋友未定,不過去過返黎個人都唔同因為見識多,人都唔同!不過記住唔好太細去,因為會有反效果的!

作者: BUNNYLEE 時間: 08-7-8 07:41

原文章由 nottmum 於 08-3-28 01:41 發表

同意,所以我同埋阿仔過黎...^^

作者: lemontrees 時間: 08-7-11 14:45

原文章由 BUNNYLEE 於 08-7-8 07:41 發表

其實英文不是要尖子才可出國，但在文科上的成績較難取好成績，然而一般中國人也是對理科或商科有興趣，故正常英文的程度己足夠。

反而是融入社會的問題較重要。越早出國留學，未來長居國外的機會較大(當然不包括那些每逢大假必然返港的一群)，且其英語表達能力亦較好，能留於國外工作亦有較大機會。

反過來，你有否考慮到這麼長遠的問題？

作者: awah112 時間: 08-7-12 13:55

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作者: zhuang 時間: 08-7-21 12:03

I have been thinking about this problem for a long time. So how to balance it?

作者: YauMum 時間: 08-7-21 19:15 標題: 到底幾多歲俾小朋友出國留學先適合?

Dear all,

The most suitable age for going oversea? It should be read as case by case; including financial issue, family issue, study life, personal characters and self-decision.

Don't force the kids!

His/her own will is the most important issue. It will be a big change- may be good or may be bad; never ending story & arguable on different cases.

YauMum

作者: bleung 時間: 08-8-5 01:10

I agree with YauMum. It really depends on individual child. Until you feel he/she is well prepared for such great change, independent to take care of themselves and their learning, mature enough to fend off temptation, then it's time to let them go. I personally think the right time is at least after F.3 when they have a basic knowledge of Chinese Language and PTH. Meanwhile prepare them well in an English learning environment, otherwise it would be a nightmare in the first year (esp. in boarding schools) for the kid.

原文章由 YauMum 於 08-7-21 19:15 發表
Dear all,

The most suitable age for going oversea? It should be read as case by case; including financial issue, family issue, study life, personal characters and self-decision.

Don't force the kid ...

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