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作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-23 11:01 標題: sad mum

Dear all

My son was born 30/11/2002, he is studing K3 in Kln
Tong (to be honest, the school fee really very expensive,
around $5000/month).  and I also let him join the P1
interview training course coz he is shy when talk with
the stranger.  I just want he can study in a good primary school in the future.

He had interviews for Ying Wah, St. Joseph's Anglo-Chinese, Pui Kiu before. Interviews of St. Margaret's Co-edu
and 宣道 are coming. But I knew he failed the interview
of Ying Wah in this morning.  I am very upset.  He is
clever just don't know how to let the teachers know
during the interview.

And I decide let him to join the Gov't lucky draw next
year coz the school area (no.40) is not good and we
will move in coming Feb.

I really hope he can join the Ying Wah or Pui Kiu. But I
think my son cannot la.  coz the competition very great.
May be I will let him try next year.

and I hope every parents can dreams come true.

作者: d2343130 時間: 07-10-23 11:23

HELLO, WING1904:

你又唔好太過失望啦....
見小學係講小朋友個一刻的表現, 佢無可能好社交形的同老師相處和你平日見佢一樣的....其實好難睇真真小朋友, 奈何大人見工同小朋友見學校都係同出一徹, 你果刻係點人地就比咩評價你, 管你平日會飛都好, 你果日飛唔起, 就FAILED....

我覺得如果學校唔接納呢類型的學生, 亦即係小朋友都唔合適呢間學校....所以你都唔好太難過!!

我個仔同你的, 都不相伯仲....都係見老師時成日講佢好驚,仲試過入去課室唔夠3分鐘就走番出黎話要搵我....當然FAILED....

ANYWAY, 平常心D!! 總有一間滿意的會收你小朋友!!

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-23 11:01 硐表
Dear all

My son was born 30/11/2002, he is studing K3 in Kln
Tong (to be honest, the school fee really very expensive,
around $5000/month). and I also let him join the P1
interview training course ...

作者: SandyWu 時間: 07-10-23 11:52

原文章由 d2343130 於 07-10-23 11:23 硐表
HELLO, WING1904:

你又唔好太過失望啦....
見小學係講小朋友個一刻的表現, 佢無可能好社交形的同老師相處和你平日見佢一樣的....其實好難睇真真小朋友, 奈何大人見工同小朋友見學校都係同出一徹, 你果刻係點人地就 ...

我完全同意,interview表現真係好睇客觀既因素,而且interview既野有時係好主觀,我而家都學緊要平常心d,如果阿囡同間學校係夾既,間學校實收佢既,若果唔ok,收到佢,佢都唔開心啦

作者: 紫菜 時間: 07-10-23 14:29

原文章由 SandyWu 於 07-10-23 11:52 硐表

我完全同意,interview表現真係好睇客觀既因素,而且interview既野有時係好主觀,我而家都學緊要平常心d,如果阿囡同間學校係夾既,間學校實收佢既,若果唔ok,收到佢,佢都唔開心啦 ...

唉!考學校真係煩.我都係得個考字.
間間競爭都甘大.d有家低好讀名幼稚園的學生hold住晒d位,
有d幼稚園包埋面試班讀.
我都睇到化晒.
不過千其唔好比d結果影響自己.
身教重要過一切.
咁細個小朋友最僅要身體健康,
發育正常,先至有氣有力去學習.
漫漫長路,要讀20幾年書.
i think the most important is find many many money.
have money ,no afraid.

作者: 棉花糖媽媽 時間: 07-10-23 14:41

係呀.... 我99嗰時帶我老公去考過好多間小學.... 卒之都係失望
但讀書係漫漫長路.... 我老公之後會考仲考得不知幾好
(不過咁又唔代表揾得多$$喎

)

原文章由紫菜於 07-10-23 14:29 硐表

不過千其唔好比d結果影響自己.
身教重要過一切.
咁細個小朋友最僅要身體健康,
發育正常,先至有氣有力去學習.
漫漫長路,要讀20幾年書.

作者: ianmami 時間: 07-10-23 14:54

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-23 11:01 硐表
Dear all

My son was born 30/11/2002, he is studing K3 in Kln
Tong (to be honest, the school fee really very expensive,
around $5000/month). and I also let him join the P1
interview training course ...

wing1904, 我仔仔都係11月2002年出世ka. 英華都無收佢. 其實我係你我唔會太sad. 你考個d 都未考晒, 可能其他才arm 佢呢, "人簡你個仔, 你仔仔亦簡緊學校ka". 可能英華唔arm 佢呢.

總有一間比仔仔讀. 還有我地個年出率低. 仲有依家唔得你可以第3round 再去叩門, "有志者, 事境成" 有信心, ok 啦. 因為o甘多人考其實來來去去都係個千幾人, 人人都係個8-10 間, 最後佢地只可以入一間.

你為仔仔在呢幾個月作好準備, 明年6月佢大個d o甘亦醒d 可以叩門jet. 我係阿Q d 不過真係有好多過來人同例子在第3round 間間中ka. 共勉之

作者: MariaTsui 時間: 07-10-23 15:42

我都是40校網,其實40網也有很多好的官津,而這些官津也與一些好的中學有聯系,因此我也沒有考直資及私校作後備,我只是為我個仔選一間適合他的學校,不要太擔心,漫漫長路,如果現在已經這樣,到上了小學,你和你的小朋友的壓力將會更加重,放鬆些。

作者: PaPa 時間: 07-10-23 16:08

原文章由 d2343130 於 07-10-23 11:23 硐表
HELLO, WING1904:

我覺得如果學校唔接納呢類型的學生, 亦即係小朋友都唔合適呢間學校....所以你都唔好太難過!!

我覺得唔係間學校唔接納呢類型的學生﹐而係在咁短時間內老師只可憑最明顯的小朋友表現去決定人選。
如果一個小朋友能操流利的兩文三語及認識很多生字﹐但在interview裏唔講野﹐老師只會覺得他唔識；反而另一位平時已經很多野講的小朋友﹐佢講少少野及讀幾隻生字就會俾老師一個好印象。
好似我們見工一樣﹐presentation唔好﹐自然就表現唔到長處﹐無人請﹐現實就係咁樣！
:-|

[ 本文章最後由 PaPa 於 07-10-23 16:09 編輯 ]

作者: karismum 時間: 07-10-23 16:33 標題: suggestion

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-23 11:01 硐表
Dear all

My son was born 30/11/2002, he is studing K3 in Kln
Tong (to be honest, the school fee really very expensive,
around $5000/month). and I also let him join the P1
interview training course ...

Hi,

you can have your son repeat K3 since the birth rate next year is lower than this year. I think your son also have benefit if he study P1 in older age. O/wise, he might feel difficult if study in P1, especially compare with those "big son".

作者: d2343130 時間: 07-10-23 17:14

如果己經交咗自行分配小一表, 仲可以repeat k3嗎?
因為你真係下年先再報, 但今年又交過表, 已經唔係"未接受過派位"啦!

原文章由 karismum 於 07-10-23 16:33 硐表

Hi,

you can have your son repeat K3 since the birth rate next year is lower than this year. I think your son also have benefit if he study P1 in older age. O/wise, he might feel difficult if study ...

作者: jujutinma 時間: 07-10-23 17:31 標題: Repeat K3

Yes, you can repeat K3 supposed that you withdraw the 2nd round "Big Lucky Draw" in Jan 2008. That is quite a good idea to repeat K3 for your clever son will be more mature & easily catch up the study in P1. Don't worry & be happy!

原文章由 d2343130 於 07-10-23 17:14 硐表
如果己經交咗自行分配小一表, 仲可以repeat k3嗎?
因為你真係下年先再報, 但今年又交過表, 已經唔係"未接受過派位"啦!

作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-23 18:29 標題: thank you very much

Dear all

Thank you so much!!

I am happy now.

You are right.  I decide to withdraw "Big lucky draw" this
year and will join next year.  and let my son repeat K3.
but also need to find another kindergarten for him for next year lu. :cry:

Another question:
If my son repeat P1 in private school next year.  and my
son can join the "Big lucky draw" next year?

I really hope everyone's sons and daughters will grow up
happily and healthy and can study in a good and suitable
primay school.

作者: WYmom 時間: 07-10-23 18:41

原文章由 jujutinma 於 07-10-23 17:31 硐表
Yes, you can repeat K3 supposed that you withdraw the 2nd round "Big Lucky Draw" in Jan 2008. That is quite a good idea to repeat K3 for your clever son will be more mature & easily catch up the study ...

I think this is not true.

作者: acoggo 時間: 07-10-23 21:14

In fact it is a really difficult "GAME" for both child and parents, right??

作者: eastchan 時間: 07-10-23 21:41

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-23 11:01 硐表
Dear all

My son was born 30/11/2002, he is studing K3 in Kln
Tong (to be honest, the school fee really very expensive,
around $5000/month). and I also let him join the P1
interview training course ...

Hi Wing 1904,
I seldom participate the coversation, but I saw you have plan to move out from net 40 to somewhere else in coming Feb, if you plan to facilitate for your 2nd round allocation, pls make sure you are aware of the change address cut off, as I called to the education dept months ago, I was told that the cut off date should not be late as Feb, hope you have not moved too late if you plan to make use of your address. Hope it helps.

作者: d2343130 時間: 07-10-23 22:58

如果你打算為小朋友REPEAT K3, 你要考慮的:
1) 呢個係唔係教統局接受你於08/09年申請咗自行,只係最後沒有接受任何學校的學位;
2) 你小朋友的感受, 你有無話過比佢知下年大個啦, 要讀小學. 如果突然去另一間幼稚園, 佢會點樣, 點解會去幼稚園讀小學????? 你有無諗點同佢解釋呢?? 會唔會令佢有反感??
3) 點樣同佢報另一間幼稚園 REPEAT呢? 到時佢的PROFILE點呢? 好唔好睇呢? A 幼稚園 K1-3, B幼稚園K3-PRESENT???!!!
4) 係未留到09-10年度真係增大好多機會入你想入的學校呢??

你係好為小朋友, 但係你作呢個行動前, 請向有關當局查明先好!!

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-23 18:29 硐表
Dear all

Thank you so much!!

I am happy now.

You are right. I decide to withdraw "Big lucky draw" this
year and will join next year. and let my son repeat K3.
but also need to find another ...

作者: jujutinma 時間: 07-10-23 23:17

原文章由 WYmom 於 07-10-23 18:41 硐表

I think this is not true.

Please go to this site to find the eligibility of joining POA.
http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/EN/Content_1511/poa-lfte.pdf

作者: Roroma 時間: 07-10-23 23:26

Wing 1904
Hi, my daughter born in Sep 2002, also interviewed St Margaret Co-edu and failed, she is very shy and never talk to stranger, so I guess she must have lower marks. Although this is my favourite school but she (and us) already tried, should be no regret.

Some friend also suggest us to give her repeat K3, but I think it is easier to repeat K1 rather than K3, in K3, she already understand she is a big girl and ready to go primary schoo, you may think twice before the move. And at the end, who knows the result of lucky draw.

作者: vic6 時間: 07-10-23 23:52

Hi,

I think it is really a hard decision that you need to make.

I am not sure if you have submitted the P.1 form (1st stage to (the appr. school) /education dept., they will still allow you to submit 2nd time in next year?? because the guide book stated that they would only allow to allocate the place to the children who join this allocation in the 1st time.

Anyway, you must get more information from education dept. & explain the case to your son clearly, and let him know all changes in the coming month, year & years.... He needs more preparation mentally & physically for sure. Keep going, Good Luck to your family!

作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-24 09:13

Dear all

Thanks for your suggestion.

I did not join the 1st round 自行.  Because I decide to join the "Big Lucky Draw" next year if no private or 直資 school
make an offer to my son.

You know, it is very diffcult for me to make such decision.
I also know that I must express to my son why need to
repeat K3.  On the other hand, the study content of P1
is more diffcult than K3.

My son is "small boy" in the class, he also asked me that
why his classmates can finish the classwork earily and faster.  He can finish but sometimes need classmates or
teachers help him.  Besides, teacher told me that he is
clever boy and can learn faster, but always no
confidence.  My son is the only child in my family.
Thus, he can study happily if he go to P1 when he more
mature.

作者: Stockinette 時間: 07-10-24 10:36

Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful. My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Ying Wa interview, but I am more than satisfy of his performance for he enjoyed the whole process.

I have not applied any other DSS or private schools, our next target is lucky draw. I truly believe a child success largely contribute by the love and care from the family. Speak with him and you'd be surprise what's makes him/her happy. For me I change to part time recently with full acknowledgement from my son, he has no hesistation to accept I would buy less things for him, as he realize I will be able to send him to school and pick him up afterwards to go library :)

Be happy, enjoy every moment with your love ones :)

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-24 09:13 硐表
Dear all

Thanks for your suggestion.

I did not join the 1st round 自行. Because I decide to join the "Big Lucky Draw" next year if no private or 直資 school
make an offer to my son.

You know, it i ...

作者: SandyWu 時間: 07-10-24 10:54

原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 10:36 硐表
Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful. My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Yin ...

說得真好,我地做媽咪既大家要努力,照顧仔女真係一生一世既事業

作者: KB22 時間: 07-10-24 13:03

原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 10:36 硐表
Stay optimistic, remember what principal Lam said, you are the one who can influence/help your child to be successful. My son is a "young" boy (dec/02), though he did not get into second round in Yin ...

I usually just read the threads .... but I was really moved by what you said, and can't help writing here that I wish I could be like you.... as a working mum, it's always hard to decide to work less, or quit and spend more time with kids, having to consider the issue of "resources", though every mum knows that what kids need most are love, care and accompaniment.

And I recently discovered that what my son wanted most after interview everytime is not any kind of gift, but is my big hug and encouragement!

Add oil, to all parents!

作者: Chingyumm 時間: 07-10-24 13:56

唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才confirm收生,請問是否真確?因為阿女不是下年度入小學,所以我並未完全掌握小一收生程序,請問有沒有高人指点吓?
如果我於1st round register咗, 請問可否轉入直資及取消
1st round 派位?

作者: ChiFungMom 時間: 07-10-24 17:05

Hi, wing1904

I am not trying to stop you for letting your son repeat K3 but please have thoughtful consideration.

My son also failed in Ying Wa and most likely failed in St Margaret but I will never let him repeat K3 because you will never know ........
1. whether your son is school's cup of tea. It depends on a lot of factors, only Ms Lam knows what is happening as the insider. Of course, she will never let you know the truth as her marketing skill is excellent as seen in the school talk. The encouragement programme (i.e. request the student to study hard for the sake of saving her son )actually happened 3 to 4 years ago as told by student there and no similar programme has been launched in recently years. (in fact, after that school talk, i become her fan as she made me believe that she is a real educationist. I already gained so much from that talk as I know the way to increase the impetus of my son).

2. whether you can help your son overcome himeself to be confident in expressing well in front of people. My case is actually very similar to yours but I think that different kids will have different character and personality. My son is shy and, I believe, is inborn as I have tried very bid of my best to change him but in vain. If you are really sure he can change 180 degree, then you may let him repeat but by that time, he might lose confidence as he might think he is inferior to his fellows as he is the only one who needs to repeat.

I believe that kid's development all depends on how you nurture him instead of entering a good school. As read from newspaper, it is quite crystal clear that most of the real genius are come from infamous school. They have one commonality that their family support them and nurture them.

I will let my son join the lucky draw if no private or direct sidized school accept him as he and his parents (ie. me and my beloved wife) have endeavoured to do our best.

Let's believe in fate. Let's work hard and never step back.

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-24 09:13 硐表
Dear all

Thanks for your suggestion.

I did not join the 1st round 自行. Because I decide to join the "Big Lucky Draw" next year if no private or 直資 school
make an offer to my son.

You know, it i ...

作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-24 17:36 標題: Chingyumm

原文章由 Chingyumm 於 07-10-24 13:56 硐表
唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才 ...

once you accept the govn't school, I think you cannot
accept the 直資小學.  but if you have 20 marks, I suggest you can choose anyother good govn't school.  But at that
time, you must think which school you like 直資小學 or the
govn't school.

I suggest you must phone to ask the staff of govn't
education dept.  You can tell them your case, they will
answer you.  Tel: 2832-7700 or 2832-7740

Good Luck!

作者: Stockinette 時間: 07-10-24 17:54

I can't help to share my experience again.....

Just like most parents, when my son was born, i made plan for his future kinder/schools, lots of one way knowledge feeding (flash cards, english time....) At age of 3 he was diagnose as borderline development delay and austistic feature, it was a bomb into the family. Though I doubted the diagnosis but I must admit my son was not the same as his mates. I also realize I don't realize 'know' him as well as I should. I trashed my old approach, simply play and laugh with him, lots of hugs and kisses, it really streghten our relationship he started listen to me. I was then able to guide him to learn, read and express himself. Also this neighborhood kinder after knowing my son's challenge love and cares for him even more (honestly is rare in HK, schools tend to turn kids away after if they don't perform), I never heard complaints from the school, instead just endless encouragement and praises on his progress, his teacher even done extra research/reading on how to assist him. After two years, my son has become quite a different boy, happy, love reading, perform well at school and not afraid to try new things. Educational physcologist recently diagnose him as having high IQ (hence not development delay) and not autistic. Of course there are tonnes of things we need to improve on, but I have his full cooperation to work thru these. Also my boy used to be very shy, avoid talking to ppl he does not know and scare if I asked him to buy things in a store. He is a lot better now that I spend more time with him after school, I take him to eat in different restaurants and encourage to order food by himself and pay for the bill, takes him to park to play with different kids, etc, throughout these tiny successes, he has build up his confidence and can initiate conversations with ppl he does not quite know :)

Cheers to all parents, you are the guiding angels for your kids.

原文章由 ChiFungMom 於 07-10-24 17:05 硐表
Hi, wing1904

I am not trying to stop you for letting your son repeat K3 but please have thoughtful consideration.

My son also failed in Ying Wa and most likely failed in St Margaret but I will never ...

作者: TWMa 時間: 07-10-24 18:10

唔好意思我有1個間題想請教一下:
我本身是某教會中文女小學校友,所以阿女於第一楷段有20分,相信好大機會入到該小學,但我本身又多心想阿女入其他較出名的英文直資小學,以我所知DGS及很多直資小學會在第1round計分後才confirm收生,請問是否真確?因為阿女不是下年度入小學,所以我並未完全掌握小一收生程序,請問有沒有高人指点吓?
如果我於1st round register咗, 請問可否轉入直資及取消
1st round 派位?

為了搶收生, 很多直資小學會在第1 round 派位前公布錄取結果, 並要求簽署放棄第一round 的派位. SPCC 的收生結果則約與官津自行差不多時間公布, 可到時才取捨.
DGJS 是私校, 不需放棄官津自行派位.
最後, 即使簽了直資, 如後悔, 都可於統一派位截止前向教局取消註冊, 重新參加派位.

作者: lui 時間: 07-10-24 20:57

I was also moved by all you touching words here. TOday when i read the eductional pages of Sing Tao, I intentionally read the topic for "how to pick up a good kinder". To choose one that can offer your child the most important thing at the pre-school age and not choose those deemed as "elite school" or "english kinder". I recalled why I have chosen the existing kinder for my girl and I assure myself for more importantly, I should choose one primary school that fits her, not those so-called elite school. Child needs encouragment. We can see, the ppl around us, they all have different background. coming from different primary and secondary school. And we may end up meeting in the same university, local or oversea, and in the same company. So as long as we parent are undoubtfly willing to make our life time contribution to them, there makes not much difference if they could not enter into a reputable primary school. Parents, don;t give up.

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作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-25 00:04

原文章由 Stockinette 於 07-10-24 17:54 硐表
I can't help to share my experience again.....

Just like most parents, when my son was born, i made plan for his future kinder/schools, lots of one way knowledge feeding (flash cards, english time... ...

Thanks for your share! I must remember that.
We are the guiding angels for our kids.

作者: Sammichloema 時間: 07-10-25 09:43

原文章由 wing1904 於 07-10-25 00:04 硐表

Thanks for your share! I must remember that.
We are the guiding angels for our kids.

Yeah... We are the guiding angels, try our best and let God do the rest la... Be happy to face with all kinds of
difficulties. We are by your sides.

作者: 曲曲 時間: 07-10-25 10:47

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作者: t421316 時間: 07-10-25 13:44

Agree. Repeat is not an option to me. My kid's born in 12/02, no school admits him so far, not Ying Wa, HKUGA, EC, ...

But if it turns out only a disaappointing school admit him, I would still let him study there and accept the reality. And I'll pay more effort to educate my kid myself at home (or by tutors), like Stockinette. Many well performed kids, including the recent talent girl in HK, are not educated by famous schools. Moreover, kids still have chances at F1, university to enter good schools. My ex-colleague once studied in a unknown school, but performed well, and hence could enter SPCC (a dream school for many parents) at F3.

And to me, time is too valuable, losing a year repeating is a pity for the kid.

This is just my personal immature view, not necessarily correct, or fitting wing1904's situation.

原文章由曲曲於 07-10-25 10:47 硐表
誰人保證下一年必能入到心儀學校?
重讀一年k3，就必定可以入到?

作者: wing1904 時間: 07-10-25 21:23

Dear all

Thanks for all.  and I know I make a wrong decision.
I plan let my son study P1, I will let him try to apply P2 of
the good school if he can get the good result in P1.
But if he told me feel very tough and may be discuss with
his teacher and let him repeat P1.

But I also will ask his willing, if he don't want have any
change later.  I must repect him.  I hope he can grow up
with my love.

作者: Fisherhall 時間: 07-10-27 02:03

Children are very sensative. I do agree with others that it is discourging to let the child repeat K3. Why not try the "lucky draw" and may be you have some luck. Let him study there for 1 year. Who knows if there is any surprise there waiting for you. If your child doesn't fit in that school, try in mid-term or at the end of P1 to apply for others. There are always some vacancy, you never know now.

Like all mothers, I did think about letting my son repeat last year in order to get it the school I want. After deep thinking, I ask myself several questions. Is that the school my son wants to go? Can he catch up with the others there? Does it mean that he will have a bright future after admitting to that school? All these questions made me puzzle. My answer was either no or I don't know. See this is only the adult's mind. What if failed? god knows.

作者: jeremyma 時間: 07-10-27 14:07

我看了你的first post後, 心裡說, 咦, 你跟我一模一樣啊, 我仔也是02年11月生, 也是在40區住, 也是讀很貴的幼稚園, 不過沒有上小一面試班, 不過也是在私校和直資面試中全軍覆沒的人! 初初覺得好慘, 但我都跟自己說, 人生很漫長, 只是小學而已, 沒必要讓它打跨自己啊! 你還有中學呢!!! 大學又點算呢??? 到亞仔結婚娶老婆, 若他選了一個很兇, 沒錢又貪錢,只是樣靚的, 跟你對抗到死的又點呢??? 再返來想一想, 人生是他自己的, 雖然在很無奈的要適應香港的奇怪教育制度, 但沒有事情是十全十美的, 樂觀地面對世界, 是我們可以做到的!! 不過, 我也是一個跟你一樣的sad mum, but, I ask myself to be stronger and happier, I need to walk along with my son far far away long!!! I need to teach him to enjoy his life!!

作者: KaWo 時間: 07-10-29 16:16

囝囝也是生在11/2002,但現在我不覺他比大仔差.
我有朋友的兒子是生在11月,現在己讀小四,不覺他有問題,所以不用擔心,船到橋頭自然直.

作者: martse 時間: 07-10-29 17:09

原文章由 jeremyma 於 07-10-27 14:07 硐表
我看了你的first post後, 心裡說, 咦, 你跟我一模一樣啊, 我仔也是02年11月生, 也是在40區住, 也是讀很貴的幼稚園, 不過沒有上小一面試班, 不過也是在私校和直資面試中全軍覆沒的人! 初初覺得好慘, 但我都跟自己說, ...

"I need to teach him to enjoy his life!!" 說得好, 讀再好的學校, 做再好的工, 有再多的錢~ 不能 enjoy 等同行C走肉, 枉然 !

martse

作者: ts07an 時間: 07-10-29 17:40

我個仔係01年12月出生.
你而家既經歷係我上一年既路.
我個仔怕醜, 又內向, 又怕事, 又細細粒, 功課又唔係太好.
上年帶佢面試三間學校, 有二次喊咗出嚟, 最後無一間取錄.
最後同老公商量, 如果比佢上小學, 只會比人蝦, 成績又可能係中下, 同人地d學生比, 點都爭d. 所以我比個仔repeat k3, 初時佢都有問點解唔係升小一, 我話因為小一d功課好多, 所以遲一年先讀.
今年又報考小一, 我報考咗8間, 又帶佢返小一面試班, 過咗一年, 仔仔大個咗又成熟咗, 同上一年好唔同, 面試巳經無喊, 好過上一年好多.
不過可能係性格問題, 面試班上堂表現好好, 到真正面試時只得兩成表現, 我真係覺得好無奈, 想發火鬧佢, 又好似唔忍心, 5歲小朋友可以做d mud, 我地見工都會緊張啦, 所以唔怪得佢地既.
我到而家為止, 浸會係waitlist, 英華reject咗, 其他, 隨緣啦 !
不過我上年揾咗間可以直升小一既幼稚園, 所以如果8間小學全軍覆沒, 都有後著.
如果你真係要repeat k3, 最好揾d課程深過而家讀緊果間, 千祈唔好repeat同一間學校, 否則佢會失去學習興趣.

作者: sally.cc 時間: 07-10-29 18:46

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作者: KaWo 時間: 07-10-30 11:53

原文章由 ts07an 於 07-10-29 17:40 硐表
我個仔係01年12月出生.
你而家既經歷係我上一年既路.
我個仔怕醜, 又內向, 又怕事, 又細細粒, 功課又唔係太好.
上年帶佢面試三間學校, 有二次喊咗出嚟, 最後無一間取錄.
最後同老公商量, 如果比佢上小學, 只會比人 ...

如果你真係要repeat k3, 最好揾d課程深過而家讀緊果間, 千祈唔好repeat同一間學校, 否則佢會失去學習興趣. 我同意.

作者: MariaTsui 時間: 07-10-30 15:34

Jeremy,

我都是40網,我個仔比較慢熱,如果要interview, 結果都不會好,所以我沒有替他報直資或私校,反正40網都有很多好學校,我報了荔天,因為是教徒多5分,希望first round成功,你報了那一間?其實只要有一間不是太差校風好而又近家的學校,我都會接受,我只希望小朋友有一個愉快小學生活,如果他每天不開心上學,我都會很難受,畢是小朋友,太大壓力未必承受到。各位媽媽不要太悲觀,兒孫自有兒孫福。

作者: KaWo 時間: 07-10-30 15:46

原文章由 MariaTsui 於 07-10-30 15:34 硐表
Jeremy,

我都是40網,我個仔比較慢熱,如果要interview, 結果都不會好,所以我沒有替他報直資或私校,反正40網都有很多好學校,我報了荔天,因為是教徒多5分,希望first round成功,你報了那一間?其實只要有一間不是太差校 ...

MariaTsui ,

養兒一百,長憂九十九(久久)=永遠
明知

: 兒孫自有兒孫褔

也會擔心.

作者: jeremyma 時間: 07-10-30 20:57

原文章由 MariaTsui 於 07-10-30 15:34 硐表
Jeremy,

我都是40網,我個仔比較慢熱,如果要interview, 結果都不會好,所以我沒有替他報直資或私校,反正40網都有很多好學校,我報了荔天,因為是教徒多5分,希望first round成功,你報了那一間?其實只要有一間不是太差校 ...

Maria Tsui,

我是基督徒, 所以沒有報荔天, 希望你一take 中. 我報了基福 (但有點後悔, 因為不喜歡聖公會), 我也讓亞仔考了崇真, 是後備生, 希望明年有機會入到, 因為我和亞仔鐘意. 我今天跟同事傾談, 討論中發現, 英華不收我的兒子, 也有一定的道理. 我仔不是天資聰敏型, 只能靠後天努力, 但從去年開始, 英華已開始採取摧谷制, 我同事的小孩, 小一有十樣功課, 寫字要寫4版, 我覺得我同事好辛苦, 晚晚同個仔搏鬥至十一時, 親子關係變差, 個仔唔鐘意返學, 我同事問老師, 如果亞仔讀唔掂, 會唔會留班, 但留班已是直資, 那怎麼解決, 老師答話一定不會留班, 點都會讀到畢業為止, 同事聽完後, 覺得唔可以咁樣落去, 佢打算比個仔轉去播道那兒讀, 當然, 佢講就咁講, 但一定會谷落去, 如果係我, 我都要死谷佢, 因為點都有質素保證, 但將來無人知, 我有好多朋友, 會考和高考成績都很好, 但現在的事業或將來目標也很模糊, 我覺得人生不應該這樣, 讀書成績好, 但其他都差的話, 就太差了. 我同事話英華其實也是很慘的, 因為政府派位派給它的小朋友很差, 有數個極端小朋友, 要三個老師夾佢一個, 老師也很辛苦. 很無耐. 我聽完後, 覺得點解香港d教育會咁??? 現在我未煩完個仔, 個女又要搵幼稚園, 所以好忙, 都好煩, 但大家都要努力, cos this is a part of life!!! Without it, we will lost many many things!!!

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作者: jeremyma 時間: 07-10-30 22:54

原文章由 KaWo 於 07-10-30 15:46 硐表

MariaTsui ,

養兒一百,長憂九十九(久久)=永遠
明知: 兒孫自有兒孫褔也會擔心.

KaWo,

我同意養兒一百歲, 長憂九十九, 擔心一點是應當的, 太過就不太好了, 要小心身子!! 雖然我們已貴為人母, 但也可以有自己的人生, 你仍能發光發熱啊!!!

作者: MariaTsui 時間: 07-10-31 14:29

Jeremyma,

不要太擔心,雖然基福不是聖公會,但是一所好學校,我個仔讀的那一班,就有超過10位同學選擇基福,我也有去參觀過,而且我個仔暑假也有參加基福所舉辦的SmartKid課程,可以看見校長和老師都很用心,有時學校的硬件間間差不多,師資反而是最重要的一環,如果他們有心辦好學校,小朋友是最大得益者,只要保持中上成績,入英中都應該沒有問題,我都有一個女,今年讀K1,同個仔讀同一間幼稚園,其實我對幼稚園沒有太大的要求,只要培養她有學習精神,有德育培訓,提高自理能力就可以,學術成績中上就OK,反正都會同哥哥一間小學,所以我個仔要讀男女校,方便個女將來入讀,不要太擔心,有空上來傾傾。

Maria

作者: jeremyma 時間: 07-10-31 18:47

原文章由 MariaTsui 於 07-10-31 14:29 硐表
Jeremyma,

不要太擔心,雖然基福不是聖公會,但是一所好學校,我個仔讀的那一班,就有超過10位同學選擇基福,我也有去參觀過,而且我個仔暑假也有參加基福所舉辦的SmartKid課程,可以看見校長和老師都很用心,有時學校的硬 ...

基福是聖公會的, 但我不喜歡聖公會, 因為宗派有別, 在此不作詳述. 希望大家都能找到合心水的學校.

作者: beca 時間: 07-10-31 21:05

I don't usually reply, but I feel obligated to reply on this.

My daughter is the typical introvert type, we spent lot of resources on her hoping that she might change one day. Well, she did, become more open, but still couldn't compete with the really 'initiative' kids. I am quite sure she's already been kicked out by those 'highly competitive' schools. Then I start asking myself, do we really need the same type of kids, talkative, presentable, speak like a little adult. Come on, get real, we are not talking about factory products with quality assurance, we are talking about little human beings, with thier unique characters, with their own likes and dislikes, and why can't they just be a little bit individaul or self-centered.

And I want to tell you what I think. Our kids are not perfect, and they will never be. But we should love them for whom they are. I believe children are the gifts from God, they are not here to please us, to make our lives happy, we are here to take care of them.

Besides, studying is a life long process. I was a rebellious kid in high school, but then realized I couldn't continue to live like this. I worked hard and got into local university. I don't believe our children failed, never let someone tells us this.:tongue: It is too early to say what they are and what they are not. I do not need those 'competitve schools' to tell my her potential and limit, I will give my best to her. No regret, and no sadness. Kids are gifted with different things, and it takes our own life to find that out. So please don't be beat up by this kind of competition.

作者: 奀豬媽媽 時間: 07-10-31 22:29

學校對小朋友當然有影響，但其實家教影響仲大。在學校裡，孩子除了造學問外，還有學懂合作、分享和朋輩尊重等，而父母應該在學校以外給孩子一個正面的影響，父母才是孩子最好的教科書，有快樂的家庭才有快樂的孩子。學校好唔好，適唔合適合都不是最重要，反而是家長的態度；讀到名校但長大後唔識謙虛，任你點叻唔得人心都冇用。孩子唔應係學校出品（＝商品？）係家長出品，；不要為競爭、考試、名次去打生打死，沒什意思。自己都做不到點要求小朋友去做呢？得五歲人仔就要爭長競短，好可怕！
我相信你教識佢一套有系統嘅求學問方法，小朋友自然會叻。沒有教不懂的孩子，只有不懂教的父母！

作者: Siubaba 時間: 07-10-31 23:49

這個星期心情很沉重, 因為已經知道有2間心儀的學校不接受自己的女兒, 每一次由期待至失望的心情實在很難接受, 終於明白在電視上為何父母會因為自己的子女入到一間心儀的學校已流淚, 我相信除了是一種喜悅外, 也是一種解脫.

親愛的女兒, 雖然媽咪現在的心情很失落, 不過我很驕傲有一個你這樣的女兒, 縱然結果是落敗了, 不過我們共同的參與及努力在媽咪的心目已是成功的, 我也知道每一次的面試妳已經盡力做到最好, 日後仍有很多事情須要我們去面對及承受, 我們一起繼續努力吧!

我們最大的成就就是擁有了對方, BB...I love u!

作者: kkdkkj 時間: 07-11-1 00:32

原文章由 Siubaba 於 07-10-31 23:49 硐表
這個星期心情很沉重, 因為已經知道有2間心儀的學校不接受自己的女兒, 每一次由期待至失望的心情實在很難接受, 終於明白在電視上為何父母會因為自己的子女入到一間心儀的學校已流淚, 我相信除了是一種喜悅外, 也是一 ...

Sibubaba,
十分明白你的感受! 可是當我發覺兒子經過面試後,開心及長,失敗結果唔好受但好快又康復過來,老師--我們就是他們終生老師,記得兒子4歲学Phonic,最初唔識好怕羞,兩公婆每晚同佢玩老師遊戲学Phonic,突然撻着火,現在閱讀能力達小二, 每日起身要睇書,常常問我們點解佢咁鍾意睇書,點答!?
学校生活好長,一時失敗不打緊,最重要一起經歷学習,讓兒子感覺到愛,我兒子常常問我們點解我們咁愛佢,每次我聽後都很開心,我們有一口說話常對他說:無論你乖或唔乖我們都很愛你,不過你唔乖時,我哋會有少少唔開心,最後祝各位家裏充滿受

作者: KaWo 時間: 07-11-1 15:34

愛-----能包容一齊.

作者: vic6 時間: 07-11-1 18:41

看校長及老師的態度是很重要,等同老師看家長的表現一樣.但以家長方面,我們比小朋友入讀學校都是希望小朋友學好,無論成績/品行都好重要,但我對小朋友的品德比重會高d.因成績好都唔代表個人是好人,但人品好對人際關係都有幫助.起碼不是個壞心長的人.學懂謙虛,忠孝,有禮貌是好緊要.
若是什麼什麼名校,但校長.老師其身不正,咁你都不會考慮la !! 並不是名校便要追....

原文章由 MariaTsui 於 07-10-31 14:29 硐表
Jeremyma,

不要太擔心,雖然基福不是聖公會,但是一所好學校,我個仔讀的那一班,就有超過10位同學選擇基福,我也有去參觀過,而且我個仔暑假也有參加基福所舉辦的SmartKid課程,可以看見校長和老師都很用心,有時學校的硬 ...

作者: kerrie0201 時間: 07-11-1 22:55

其實名校不名校並不緊要 ,最重要的是小朋友的品德和自信. 名校亦有壞學生, 普通學校亦能培養出十優狀元. 千萬不要對小朋友沒信心. 很多小朋友都是慢熱的,甚至有些人到中學階段才顯出潛能.

作者: jeremyma 時間: 07-11-2 07:00

Dear all lovely moms,

"基福是聖公會的, 但我不喜歡聖公會, 因為宗派有別, 在此不作詳述. 希望大家都能找到合心水的學校. "

容我詳述少許為何我後悔我的選擇, 是因為聖公會的派系, 我是基督徒, 所以希望小孩能在基督教的環境下成長, 奈何附近的基督教小學全是聖公會的, 但聖公會並不基督教, 眼見今年萬聖節, 那些聖公會學校打正旗號來攪怪一番, 我心裡便覺得, 真的是商業年代, 商品掛帥, 只要可以用來吸引人的, 哪管是非黑白由他去. 這並不是一間屬神的學校所應作的事, 所以, 不是因為學校好不好(我承認這也是一個可以吸引小朋友去接觸及認識新事物的方法), 而是因為憤怒它為何不能堅持為神的國去盡忠, 去緊守我們基督徒的崗位.

所以, 這只是本人的立場和選擇, 不代表其他的, 也在此記念你們和你們的小朋友, 擁有健康快樂的人生. 悲傷一陣子是難免的, 但一定要積極面對, 再努力, 再加油, 因為成功不過是至大毅力.

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