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作者: BCHK    時間: 07-9-12 15:43     標題: 三歲資優點教,請求意見!

小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!
作者: waiwing    時間: 07-9-12 16:15

你是否已幫小朋友做左test証實係資優兒童？？　如果係咁，你要向學校講，睇下佢地點同你配合呀！

原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 硐表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!
作者: eileenycm    時間: 07-9-12 22:27

我囝囝快四歲了,佢係gifted child,我亦有通知學校,不過,我想現時香港嘅幼稚園好似冇咩back up,我諗佢地只係得個知字,唔會幫小朋友做任何野.
作者: babyoush    時間: 07-9-17 13:17

原文章由 eileenycm 於 07-9-12 22:27 硐表
我囝囝快四歲了,佢係gifted child,我亦有通知學校,不過,我想現時香港嘅幼稚園好似冇咩back up,我諗佢地只係得個知字,唔會幫小朋友做任何野.


請問你如何得知小朋友係gifted呀? 係咪有test比咁細個o既小朋友架?? 我女女快3歲唔知可以點同佢test
作者: xeniayuen    時間: 07-10-8 17:54

原文章由 eileenycm 於 07-9-12 22:27 硐表
我囝囝快四歲了,佢係gifted child,我亦有通知學校,不過,我想現時香港嘅幼稚園好似冇咩back up,我諗佢地只係得個知字,唔會幫小朋友做任何野.


我都好想知點test..去邊度test ??
我囡囡3歲半了..test 到嗎 ?
可否pm資料比我..thanks
作者: mamimummy    時間: 07-10-8 23:30

原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 硐表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!


請問讀邊間幼稚園, 如何超越同齡三年以上, 數學,reading,中文及等等到那種具體水平. 他的性格如何呢?!
作者: Lifetime    時間: 07-10-9 15:45

原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 硐表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!


你可以睇吓活動式教學, 以兒童為本的幼稚園, 用project approach. 可以按小朋友自己的程度學習生活.
作者: benlee    時間: 07-10-9 16:20

只有自已靠自已。

我的孩子一歲九個月，未滿一個月已被政府健康院醫生、私人兒科醫生特別留意。因大家都告訴我，我們這群即使被確定為智商、能力高於正常的孩子，政府都沒任何支援，所以我起初拒絕政府健康院醫生的多番建議帶孩子作智力測驗評估。但在他一歲半時，因在各方遊說下加上好奇，他終在健康院由負責智力評估的院長測試後，被證實擁有四、五歲以上智商和兩、三歲以上大、小肌肉活動能力，但仍有部份是歲半嬰兒的行為；那院長也認出他，因他打一個月針時跟她 "請請"和 "拜拜"。直至後來他的玩伴均適齡入幼兒園，他又告訴我他要穿校服、帶書包上學(他一歲兩個月開始懂一句一句的以英語或廣東話說話)，我為他申請入學，可是，從政府資助要打從剛出生已要開始報的至私立國際、每月要付萬多元學費的名校，全都取錄了他，但是在2009-2010年。整整兩年，我和孩子該怎麼辦？

一歲開始上playgroup的兩歲、兩歲半班 (那中心本只讓一歲半以上孩子申請)，全校最少也是全班似乎最叻(人家才學1-9，我教他數字個位、十位意義至1-30，但他失驚無神自己 "隨機" 指着 54. 72. 85...至100讀出，婆婆跟他數手指，他不是1.3.5.7.9的數，便是2.4.6.8.10...；老師教ABC 的F拿錯圖，只得 "Flower"一字，他立即指着說: "Flower"，如是者 "door". "umbrella"...我才忽然知道他會串字。這是他剛一嵗半的事。)，但無論他本身懂什麼、如何努力跟新同學做朋友(一起玩，和在他們不懂回答老師提問時在旁提示、甚至代答)，他眼看着自己的玩伴一批又一批的離開、入學，自己仍是一個人留在playgroup，結果，晚上做惡夢哭醒跟我說要 "返學學"。也曾要求playgroup讓他上年紀較大較穩定的班，但中心又說要顧及其他較大小朋友家長的感受...

及至有三間幼稚園校長分別告訴我，回到政府要求幫肋，因政府一直在每一區各數間的幼稚園、小、中學每年佔有一些學額，這些學額沒年齡限制但只能予政府轉介的學生，稱 "融和服務"；他們都說，希望我的孩子能以此途跨過那莫明其妙的年齡限制入學。

我抱着孩子跟政府健康院院長說起這些，哭得似一隻鬼。那友善的院長告訴我，關卡不在健康院而是智力評估中心。即使負責兩個部門的高級醫生以為政府沒明確文字指引，只是一貫做法以 "比正常低"為服務對象，企圖讓我的孩子通過正常程序排在"融和服務"的隊，但後來在請示不知那個更高政府部門的白痴，開了兩日會便告訴我，政府的服務對象是"比正常低"那類，而教统局有指引 "規管"全港政府資助或私立、國際學校，所以他們對我們愛莫能助。

我將政府答覆一一轉告已報的幼稚園(有一甚至向教统局因我孩子個案由校方申請括免)，大家罵聲四起。有政府健康院醫生、眾學校主任、校長，加上孩子和家長，吵了整整一個月，仍落得如此結果。所以我說，我們這班被政府分類為自生自滅的家長、孩子，不要抱任何希望。"比正常低"的值得政府、各界幫，難道我們這一群被遺棄遺忘的，活該自生自滅？！！！

對不起，走來發了一大堆嚕囌。希望，你會比我幸運。
作者: gitmee    時間: 07-10-9 17:49

在知識層面上，資優小朋友在幼兒階段最好是home-schooling，因為只有在家裏才可以tailor-made適合他們的課程，滿足他們在知識上的追求。

在社交層面上，他們需要學習與同齡的小朋友相處，當然也可以與較年長的孩子做朋友。交友的場所並不限於學校；公園、博物館、興趣班等都是交友的好地方。

在靈性層面上，父母都絕對有責任教導孩子認識真理，使他在正確的道路上成長。我認為資優的小朋友尤其需要學習謙卑的功課。

資優的孩子並不孤單，況且一山還有一山高呢！

原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 硐表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!
作者: mamimummy    時間: 07-10-9 23:59

原文章由gitmee:
我認為資優的小朋友尤其需要學習謙卑的功課。

資優的孩子並不孤單，況且一山還有一山高呢！

[ 本文章最後由 mamimummy 於 07-10-10 00:01 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 07-10-10 00:19

我在家已用百科全書和中學生的字典教孩子，他從上廁除褲穿褲、洗手抹手至刷牙洗臉，都是自己做的。雖然長輩均希望我的孩子將來會接手由我控制的生意，但我沒有望子成龍的包袱，作為一個平凡的母親，只是簡單的希望他會在愛中幸福快樂、健康無憂的成長。可是，沒想到他擁有本是上天給予的禮物，不止要承受比別的小朋友該在成長過程中的更早更多，在某些情况下也比我小時候更差。有沒有人會以這種小朋友的眼去看大人、周遭發生的一切？！

孩子知道playgroup老師教的重複又重複(為遷就大部份同學)，起初不耐煩，在課室走來走去和不答、亂答老師的提問，但我教他不要騷擾別人、要尊重大家和課室跌序，並在孩子身後輕聲的教他別的(如老師在前教三角形，我教他平面三角形、三角柱體、三角錐體、金字塔等)，所以他也一直守規乖巧的安坐着，就像其中一個旁觀的大人；老師也因此更痛錫他，每當缺課的人數多，便一連串的教一大堆新的東西，因為媽媽也不曾提及，孩子便更興奮的搶着回答，我也是那刻才明白他那海綿狀的吸收、學習能力。我沒因此期望學校或任何老師會如此遷就他，我看到的是他跟他的同學、朋友一起上課時快樂的笑。

孩子才剛出生，我是不會考慮在他三歲前由別人教他的。但面對我這孩子，我真的可以以一個剛二十一個月大的嬰孩般教他？近乎乞討的東奔西跑求援，除了因他的朋友都從playgroup、公園逐批因適齡入學而消失，也是因為令他最快樂的玩意是讀書、學習。從他一歲以後，沒有任何東西可令他安坐一小時以上，除了一大堆不同的書。他自少已習慣跟在我身旁與一大班不同膚色、語言的大人一起，但我知道他跟年齡相約的小朋友一起大叫大笑、搗亂才最快樂。可是，原來這是妄想。

資優的孩子並不孤單，況且每人的苦真的一山還有一山高呢！多謝gitmee的安慰，但願孩子們都會健康快樂、無憂的成長！
作者: gitmee    時間: 07-10-10 10:17

benlee,

你認識蘇緋雲博士嗎？她養育了四名在九至十二歲入讀大學的資優子女，最重要的是他們都在愛和真理中健康成長，你可試試閱讀她的著作，從中可能會得到啟發。

原文章由 benlee 於 07-10-10 00:19 硐表
我在家已用百科全書和中學生的字典教孩子，他從上廁除褲穿褲、洗手抹手至刷牙洗臉，都是自己做的。雖然長輩均希望我的孩子將來會接手由我控制的生意，但我沒有望子成龍的包袱，作為一個平凡的母親，只是簡單的希望他會在愛中幸 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 07-10-10 16:18

從朋友轉寄的文章，已在數月前拜讀蘇緋雲博士的文章。看到她如何在冷嘲熱諷、幾近孤立的情況下，仍能用幸福、愛保護、教養大四名擁有不同性格、天賦的孩子，讓他們長大後各自發光發亮，我對這相信一定是全世界最强媽媽的其一，除了折服，還有感歎。

我只有一個魔怪都弄致神經衰弱，如果好像蘇緋雲博士的四個，我一定早已成為青山常客。我不是强者，更從沒想過孩子是這樣，現在也不過是見步行步、瞎子摸象的過。所有事情已不能按正常情序去理解、預測，幸好是第一次做母親，無從比較自己究竟是幸或不幸，總之隨遇而安，反正每個人一生要走的路都不會一樣。心痛，只因孩子要比其他小朋友該承受的多，而他又完全明白...

原文章由 gitmee 於 07-10-10 10:17 硐表
benlee,

你認識蘇緋雲博士嗎？她養育了四名在九至十二歲入讀大學的資優子女，最重要的是他們都在愛和真理中健康成長，你可試試閱讀她的著作，從中可能會得到啟發。

...
作者: gitmee    時間: 07-10-10 16:46

讀過蘇博士的文章，想你必定知道她的育兒秘訣就在於那本人生的手冊。你的孩子固然特別，但其實沒有一個孩子不是特別的，因為上帝在每一個人身上都有祂獨特的計劃，你能照著人生的手冊去做和教養你的孩子，上帝定會賜福給你們。We do the best and God will do the rest!　共勉之！

原文章由 benlee 於 07-10-10 16:18 硐表
從朋友轉寄的文章，已在數月前拜讀蘇緋雲博士的文章。看到她如何在冷嘲熱諷、幾近孤立的情況下，仍能用幸福、愛保護、教養大四名擁有不同性格、天賦的孩子，讓他們長大後各自發光發亮，我對這相信一定是全世界最强媽媽的其一 ...

[ 本文章最後由 gitmee 於 07-11-12 13:31 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 07-10-10 23:55

是的，從孩子一出生，所有媽媽的生命都不再一樣，或者正如我教孩子般，是好是壞自己總要站起來繼續走下去，尤其是我自己的决定、步伐已直接影響着那小東西...  也許，換個角飾、位置，我們只不過是孩子在這人生旅途的支持者，盡力去保護、爭取他們所需的便足夠，其他的留給孩子和天去决定。反正我自己仍未死、上天也沒遺棄過我，雖然我不知道為什麼衪不時跟我開玩笑，令我分不清究竟是禮物還是什麼。看着孩子睡了仍在笑，叫他親親媽媽也會 "夢遊"的雙手勾着我脖子親我說："鍚媽媽..."，即管當是禮物吧。再次，多謝gitmee的安慰，你的孩子一定是幸福快樂的孩子。

原文章由 gitmee 於 07-10-10 16:46 硐表
讀過蘇博士的文章，想你必定知道她的育兒秘訣就在於那本人生的手冊。你的孩子固然特別，但其實沒有一個孩子不是特別的，因為上帝在每一個人身上都有祂獨特的計劃，你能照著人手的手冊去做和教養你的孩子，上帝定會賜福給你們。 ...
作者: gitmee    時間: 07-10-11 13:27

是的，在上帝的懷抱裏，無論順境逆境，都會得著那份平安和喜樂。願你和你孩子都能享受這個福份。

原文章由 benlee 於 07-10-10 23:55 硐表
... 你的孩子一定是幸福快樂的孩子
作者: benlee    時間: 07-10-11 15:39

謝謝大家讓我在這莫名其妙冒出來發了一大輪嚕囌，更加多謝你們一再善意的安慰，在這妖獸都市裡仍能找到擁有美麗的心又處境相近的人，總算沒那麽大的挫敗、孤單感；  或者，在下次氣餒、難過時，想想多年前獲奥立普兹獎名為 "兀鷹與女孩"一相片中，非洲盧安達的八歲小女孩，大家便會不太覺得自己孤單無助...  每個生命體都是天使，我們和我們的孩子並不比別的特別了不起。媽媽們，我們一起努力想辦法就是了，加油吧！

PS：gitmee，我很努力融入大部份人當中做其一，很享受在人群裡的安全、安祥感，本來，我對還沒出生孩子的期望是他可以平平凡凡、無風無浪、安穩健康快樂的過一生，但現在不止是他，甚至是我們的路，已經...  唉！還是努力吧！

原文章由 gitmee 於 07-10-11 13:27 硐表
是的，在上帝的懷抱裏，無論順境逆境，都會得著那份平安和喜樂。願你和你孩子都能享受這個福份。
作者: andyrightma    時間: 07-10-12 11:33

我識朋友的孩子在崇真幼稚園讀, 跟住讀崇真小學, 學校每年學期終會有評估, 老師認為小朋友有能力的話, 會建議你跳班, 亦會分柝好壞!

其實資優小朋友每間學校都有, 不過我見有學校特別收資優的, 就只有崇真的小朋友最崇最可愛最開心!

你小朋友程度已超三, 擔心的不是學識問題, 而是待人處事方便應該要找幫手!

我兒K3被評為資優兒, 我都很擔心, 但佢已有的知識從哪裏得來? 我又無教佢! 所以我用平常心讓他入讀一般學校, 輕鬆地學習!

數學好, 你可以找奧數, 公文數比佢讀, 因為它們都是因應程度升級, 讓小朋友課餘挑戰自己!




原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 硐表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!
作者: LAMTZEKWAN    時間: 07-11-1 17:24

結束D生意用D$到美國移民,我表姐個細仔年年跳班11歲讀大學,MANY CASE LIKE THIS NOTHING SPECIAL.
作者: benlee    時間: 07-11-2 13:13

我們有足夠的經濟能力支撑以後的生活，但公司的其他人呢？在某些層面上，人在人情在，若我或一些人死了，便會對整體造成嚴重、甚至不能收復的傷害。當初我們求別人跟我們同路，今日總不能失驚無神話走就走，我疼我的孩子，但他們每一個家裡也有如珠如寶的孩子，所以我曾說過，我的孩子並不比別人特別矜貴，甚至，他比其他小朋友失去更多，只是當大部份人單看表面，覺得他已擁有一切罷。我希望自己可以一直支撑下去，照顧、看着他每天長大，跟他經歷、分享人生每一個第一次，從出第一隻牙、怎樣坐起、站起、走第一步、駁嘴、做錯事補鑊...，我可以送給他和自己這老媽的禮物，便是從他出生第一日開始寫的日記；可是，我卻多次因工作至沒日沒夜的，犧牲了每日帶他到公園跟小朋友玩的時間，到終可暫停工作帶他出去時，小朋友都回家了。

我們的公司、生意，全部依靠掌舵者的人脈、個人能力支撑整個運作，就是傳統、保守型中國、歐洲類近百年企業那種；已坐上了虎背，不由我說結束便能結束。多謝LAMTZEKWAN的提示、建議，我也想過數年後可以稍停下時，或會帶孩子回英國的家，讓他跟青草地、陽光藍天、馬、山川、古堡...為伴，自己有能力唸那一班、那一學校便只管向前快樂的開步衝，這或是我這媽媽僅能辦到的事...

不過，香港的教育配套、學校，除了 "優才"和國際學校，真的沒有地方容得下我們這種孩子嗎？那其他走不了的資優孩子怎麼辦？！

原文章由 LAMTZEKWAN 於 07-11-1 17:24 硐表
結束D生意用D$到美國移民,我表姐個細仔年年跳班11歲讀大學,MANY CASE LIKE THIS NOTHING SPECIAL.
作者: Ewongmum    時間: 08-2-14 10:01

原文章由 Lifetime 於 07-10-9 15:45 發表


你可以睇吓活動式教學, 以兒童為本的幼稚園, 用project approach. 可以按小朋友自己的程度學習生活.



I have known a teacher specially teach gifted children. He has 3 children all are gifted children. pls call him and have a cheat. Mr. chan tel: 23920478　
作者: Ewongmum    時間: 08-2-14 10:20

原文章由 benlee 於 07-10-10 00:19 發表
我在家已用百科全書和中學生的字典教孩子，他從上廁除褲穿褲、洗手抹手至刷牙洗臉，都是自己做的。雖然長輩均希望我的孩子將來會接手由我控制的生意，但我沒有望子成龍的包袱，作為一個平凡的母親，只是簡單的希望他會在愛中幸 ...



I know a teacher Mr. Chan tel: 23920478　 who is experience teaching and giving advise for gifted children as he has 3 gifted children also.  His centre is at Mong Kok. You can call him and have a cheat.  My baby is studying at his centre also
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-2-16 11:57

Benlee,
I feel so sorry when I read your messages here.. from top to bottom.. as some moms said.. really, Hong Kong is not the right place for your child.. as your child is really a gifted. and ... it is a gift from God.. Forget about to close your business, that is impossible.. as you said.. how about all oyour employees.. and their families.
Home schooling is a good method.. but not really works in HongKong, as not enough support.
Good on you that your understanding is very important.
My daughter also cause a lot of trouble at school, and she only loves books.. (certainly. not the books that you mention.. just 1-2 years advance.... ) I did not think about that she has any problem at school.. as I thought .. she is just a little bit smart.. not really clever.. Until, few weeks ago, we need to enrol to kindergarten (we are in new york).. she can do and read all the home work and exercise from Kindergarten class.. the teacher said that her IQ and talent is 1-2 years above average.. then, we accept to send her to do the (GATE) Gift and talent exam which runs by education department from new york. and now we are waiting for the result.
In fact, I am afraid, I am really afraid.. if she is a gifted, what can I do.. I can't stay calm like you.. I did cry.. when the teacher told me about her condition.. I don't know what else I can do for her, when she was 2, she attended 3 years old class, when she was 3, she attended 4 years old class, when she was 4.. (by NY law, she can't go to 5 years old class{kindergarten} unless she is a gifted), but I did not believe that she is a gifted at all. I thought, she is just a bit bigger, motor skill is better, she can think and learn faster than the same age.. that's it..
on her 10 months old, toilet (poo poo) trained by herself, (pee pee ) trained on her own at 2 years old.. also, go to pee and poo and wash her face and brush her teeth by her own at 2 years old.. shower and dry herself, also help me to wash my back when she was 3 years old (as I was pregnant again, I can't reach my back and my hair, so she washed my back everyday). she dress and undress herself, keep her laundry.. self care..
at her 2.5 years old, she know how to run all the CD-rom to do the 4 years old pre-k class work.. she can tell you the different between white and sliver, and tell you water is clear. she knows what is hexigon.. and all sharps.
now, she is doing all her works on internet (with parent guard).. or those educational DVD for kindergarten. read story by her own..
However, I want Amanda to smile every day.. do silly things with friends everyday, and be a normally happy child.. as she is the youngest child in her class, she was always being teasting around by other classmates.. that is not really healthy.. but.. I couldn't do much about it.. teacher said that even she is the smallest in class, she is the smartest child and she is a teacher pet.. shame on me.. can't find any support beside --just giving her more challenging home work.. (to stop her being annonying and start making trouble to surrounding)
My daughter is just a minor case compare with yours, and I should stay calm and learn it from you..

Dear all,
I am glad to see a forum here.. for me to express my feeling..(fear and upset)
please really believe in.. not every parent will be happy to have a difficult child.. especially ... she is not the only child at home with working parents overseas (with no family supported).

原文章由 benlee 於 07-11-2 12:13 AM 發表
我們有足夠的經濟能力支撑以後的生活，但公司的其他人呢？在某些層面上，人在人情在，若我或一些人死了，便會對整體造成嚴重、甚至不能收復的傷害。當初我們求別人跟我們同路，今日總不能失驚無神話走就走，我疼我的孩子，但他們每一 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-2-21 15:28

Nillie_Mami,

Don't worry.  Just try to keep your beautiful smile with your babies all the times.  Your angels will smile to you, show you what they need and how to go on.  Do you also believe that The God has own mean to do every single thing?  No matter what kind of kids we respectively have and how big our heads become, they are all angels and gifts.

Even though I failed to let him get in any kindergarten now, there are three kindergartens have already admitted my son to K1 class for 08' - 09' academic year starting from August this year at his 2.5 years while he is currently studying with some other average 4 to 5 aged childeren in a special learning centre for maths (addition and subtraction), English (words, pharses, simple sentences and spelling, no picture) and Mandarin (words and pharses).  He becomes happier, I become happier.  I wish he would enjoy playing with same age peer group in normal school life while intend to burn out his extra energy and hunger of advanced knowledge and exploration.  Let him cause less trouble, understand how to get into crowd and follow the rules, and, keep him happy and love the life play.

If you do believe there is a better way ahead, there is better way ahead!  Keep you smile all the times because your angel will copy all what you do.

Take care.



原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-16 11:57 發表
Benlee,
I feel so sorry when I read your messages here.. from top to bottom.. as some moms said.. really, Hong Kong is not the right place for your child.. as your child is really a gifted. and ... it ...
作者: MarcusD    時間: 08-2-21 16:09

Dear Benlee

Deeply touched by your effort to provide the best for your child, Let’s pray {tomorrow will be better}.

The bible said, “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” (Matthew 6:34)


MarcuD


原文章由 benlee 於 08-2-21 15:28 發表
Nillie_Mami,

Don't worry.  Just try to keep your beautiful smile with your babies all the times.  Your angels will smile to you, show you what they need and how to go on.  Do you also believe that Th ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-2-22 04:59

Benlee,
If I don't mess up, HK government doesn't allow home schooling from P.1 to F.3 .. right?
How about attend the regular kindergarten and at the same time, set up the home schooling?
If you need any material from USA, let me know, I will give you a hand..

Beside, I would like to know, where I can get the chinese learning material from hk.. when I go to Ebay, yahoo.. they only show the English material.. which I don't need them at all..
really hard to find good chinese material to teach Amanda.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-2-21 02:28 AM 發表
Nillie_Mami,

Don't worry.  Just try to keep your beautiful smile with your babies all the times.  Your angels will smile to you, show you what they need and how to go on.  Do you also believe that Th ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-2-22 15:07

MarcusD,

Thanks.  We each just try our best to be a not too bad mother.  For the time we cannot drive the way, why not leave all the rest to The God, let he or the way lead us by his / its own.

Although there is not much we can do / change for those unfavourable conditions, we still can change our mood any time and keep our smile along all the way.

The God giving us our super troublesome monkey kids as gifts proves he is still watching and be our side.  I do believe I got the most valuable present (my super monkey and big head), that's why I can go on and smile.  We all are the ones with most blessings even respectively have to face different problems and sometimes depressed.  Wish you all and babies could grow up stronger and stronger with smile.

原文章由 MarcusD 於 08-2-21 16:09 發表
Dear Benlee

Deeply touched by your effort to provide the best for your child, Let’s pray {tomorrow will be better}.

The bible said, “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about it ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-2-22 17:38

Nillie_Mami,
You are right.  HK govt doesn't allow home schooling from P.1 to F.3 AND also restricts only 2 years & 8 months or above kids can go to N1 and 3 years & 8 months or above can go to K1.  That's why I got a problem as I previously mentioned.

The principals finding my kid is amusing and “really a typical case” (according to their exact wordings) admitted him to K1 class at his 2.5 years old, but told there was no guarantee he would be able to get into any primary school as his classmates because of his age.
I don’t worry about that since primary schools and above got instructions from govt that they could manage such cases and make own decisions for those abnormal children.
As I used to know, primary schools especially for the well-known and established ones tend to pick up students based on their performance and ability.
I don’t need my boy jump, jump, jump.
If there will be a problem, then let I sort it out when the time comes.

Thanks for the offer.
I also want to have a look of US materials since I currently use the UK ones.
What do you think about those materials?
For the Chinese materials, I teach my boy by my own made word cards.
I let him start from recognizing single words, then phases, simple sentences and so on at home.
Since his brain grows much faster than muscle, I will teach him how to write when he finds interesting and becomes ready.
And in learning centre, Beijing teachers teach and play with the children in Mandarin while English teachers do in English, both by more and less the same method.
If you have interest to have a look, I can send you some.


原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-22 04:59 發表
Benlee,
If I don't mess up, HK government doesn't allow home schooling from P.1 to F.3 .. right?
How about attend the regular kindergarten and at the same time, set up the home schooling?
If you need ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-2-22 23:18

benlee,
I am glad that, I got someone to talk with.. as friends in US, new york, they all rely on me, as Amanda is the oldest one in our playgroup. So, I don't really able to get any help at all.. also, Amanda is the one who is different from oters, many of her friends need early intervention, which they have difficulty to talk and speak, or even have motor skill delay.. so, I don't have any body to talk with or ask for help.. I have to say thankyou to you.

I saw that they have so many Gifted child web site here, and they have many exercise on Maths, and other subject.
Nowadays, Amanda is doing the exercise online, also we bought the gifted exercise from the book store.
She loves writing, although, her writing is very snappy.. (she starts hand writing from last October).. we wait until she interested in.. just like the way you teach your son
Amanda will ask me all the chinese words from her scrapbook ( the photo album made by myself, I cut all the photo into different shape and write journal all over the place, some times in chinese, some times in English with all decoration), I wish to keep more memories.. for all of us.. and I know.. once she starts interested in language and words, she will ask me what the journal is talking about.. ^o^

about the home schooling before P.1, do we allow to provide to our child in hk?
your son is so lucky.. to have you as his mom..

I will remember what you told me, to smile to Amanda.. to remember that she is a gift for me..
I should remember that we both learn from each other every day..
sometimes, when she said negative word like loser.. I know that someone was hurting her from school..(and said that to her).. I feel so hurt and heart breaking..
Here in US, I tried not to complain to school about it, because they should learn how to deal with the abuse from other classmates.. it is very cruel.. but it is life..
(especially, she is the youngest in the class-- that is too bad)..
原文章由 benlee 於 08-2-22 04:38 AM 發表
Nillie_Mami,
You are right.  HK govt doesn't allow home schooling from P.1 to F.3 AND also restricts only 2 years & 8 months or above kids can go to N1 and 3 years & 8 months or above can go to K1.  T ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-2-24 01:37

Nillie_Mami,

No need to say thanks since it's my luck to meet friends here with same problem.  Therefore, we and our kids are no longer alone on that way.

Honestly, I up to this moment haven't read any book especially for gifted children and their parents (because of lazy and too much crazy work caused by my monkey boy...  Therefore, you can imagine our home is exactly same as rubbish dumping area.).  I just try an error in order to solve all those problems.  Exactly like playing game, I teach my son further more or move to another new area every time when I find he is over the existing level.  My role is only showing him how to get into the place where he find interesting, but he needs to do the rest by his own (such as how to understand, memorize, manage the database he already got for any kind analysis, set up physcial setting in order to achieve something...).

You do it very well since I also agree that the best way to start teaching our babies should be from our daily life.  She wants to understand where and whom she lives with, so she got reason and interest to learn - with fun!  Amanda is one of luckiest angels since she has landed to the best home with the best mom.  

I don't know whether HK govt allows home schooling before P.1, but have once heard "it seems to be not a must to go formal kindergarten".

If you find there may be something wrong in Amanda's school, you can try to tell her what's going on, what you would do if you were her..., and you of course shall be with her all the times.  Your love, concern and support is what Amanda desires the most.



原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-2-22 23:18 發表
benlee,
I am glad that, I got someone to talk with.. as friends in US, new york, they all rely on me, as Amanda is the oldest one in our playgroup. So, I don't really able to get any help at all.. als ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-2-26 02:56

benlee,
so good to see you here..
Yesterday, we had a breast feeding gathering, chatting with moms who all breast feed babies (cantonese moms, dad with different nationality)..
my lovely play group.. for Amanda and Gabriel, to meet some Hong Kong friends.. (we meet each other in BK, and other worldwide blog)
all of them are waiting for the GATE result (Amanda's) from DOE..
Amanda was very behaved yesterday, we asked her to be the teacher to teach all other children.. as we had the teachinf material at home. so, she was pretending she is a teacher. every one was having fun.
all boys and girls running behind Amanda, upstairs and downstairs.. I am glad that.. I found babykingdom, and many hong kong moms live in new york.. so, we can gather together all the times, so Amanda can play with other chinese.. When she is happy, I am happy. I did not find any group outside..because... chinese here in NYC, they don't really care ( all those chinese association only help people to get the government fund only).. we won't get any support from the community.. therefore, I set up my own play group and discuss group, and we all meet at my house at selected weekend.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-2-23 12:37 PM 發表
Nillie_Mami,

No need to say thanks since it's my luck to meet friends here with same problem.  Therefore, we and our kids are no longer alone on that way.

Honestly, I up to this moment haven ...
作者: cadamom    時間: 08-3-4 22:52     標題: US materials

Nellie Mami,

I would like to know the US materials you refer to .  Any web links would be gratefully received.  Thanks.
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-3-5 00:43

cadamom,
please check pm...
when you made up your mind, feel free to pm me..
原文章由 cadamom 於 08-3-4 09:52 AM 發表
Nellie Mami,

I would like to know the US materials you refer to .  Any web links would be gratefully received.  Thanks.
作者: Ching_Mammy    時間: 08-3-5 13:50

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-3-5 00:43 發表
cadamom,
please check pm...
when you made up your mind, feel free to pm me..


Could you please pm the information to me?
作者: talkymum    時間: 08-3-7 16:59

我的兩個孩子初小已經評為資優生．當年佢地係被nominate入一個資優兒童研究．當年全港只有十多間小學加入資優教育計劃．做研究個教授nominate我d細路轉校．我思前想後無接受．唔想佢地做化學豬．資優兒童比較難同同輩相處．我當年好著緊佢地去結交朋友融入社群．細的十多歲時曾同我傾訴說同學覺得佢好怪．我回應佢只要做回自己別人會接受佢．佢預科的時候是社長．大的也是領袖．佢地已經大學畢業．工作ok．朋友一大班．做資優生父母難．資優生行既路更難．如果出人頭地是孤獨的話．我情願佢地做個開心快活人．最近有同佢地講返佢地係資優．所以工作時遇到一些反應比較慢的同事時要忍．和諧至上．
作者: Magret00    時間: 08-3-9 00:27

原文章由 talkymum 於 08-3-7 16:59 發表
我的兩個孩子初小已經評為資優生．當年佢地係被nominate入一個資優兒童研究．當年全港只有十多間小學加入資優教育計劃．做研究個教授nominate我d細路轉校．我思前想後無接受．唔想佢地做化學豬．資優兒童比較難同同輩相處．我當年 ...


Agree
作者: benlee    時間: 08-3-11 16:20

Talkymum,

You did what my mother did on I.  I was found and classified as another adnormal group when I was 3.  My mother had turned down the school's offer, but then I was unhappy blaming her (in heart) since I had found none of my classmates thinking, doing things... or etc like what I did.  I from kindergarten first year to BA degree final year won scholarships which I had chosen, but always kept myself at number 2 no matter who was number 1 in that academic year in that school.  It was the way I raising my voice to complain.  All the teachers knew I had intended to do it and I that lazy bone still won their most care and love even after graduation up to today.  But for other students, I was a monster.  My mother had wished I could make same aged friends and got happy childhood, but the fact turned out was I got no friends until I found another two girls (we are all early thirty now but one has already been procurator while another has been president in Chase at our 27) as same type of monsters.  I understand what my mother wished and blessed.  That's why I haven't say one word throughout those years no matter how terrible I was in peer group.  Fortunately, I won love from very senior people.

I understand further more how a mother feels and wishes after I got my boy.  I only got the earliest memory at my 7 months, but have tried my best to avoid my boy from having the same problems and pains which I had got from his first day born.  Honestly, I shall not do what my mother did on I to my boy.  No one can tell what he desire the most, except his own.  My job as a mother is preparing the most possible ways for him and then telling what the respective consequences.  Since he can understand what I say, I let him choose his own way.  He is happy because he knows his mother let him go his own way while all his baby friends even some are one or couple years older still have to listen adults' instructions. I told he had to bear all the costs for each of his decision.  That's why he is seldom cry.  Every time he falling down, he then standing up and going on again.

I got the best mother.  And your kids also got their best mother.  I just come out to tell what I have passed through, felt and how to grow up as one of those insiders but not as a mother.  

Wish this could be help.

原文章由 talkymum 於 08-3-7 16:59 發表
我的兩個孩子初小已經評為資優生．當年佢地係被nominate入一個資優兒童研究．當年全港只有十多間小學加入資優教育計劃．做研究個教授nominate我d細路轉校．我思前想後無接受．唔想佢地做化學豬．資優兒童比較難同同輩相處．我當年 ...
作者: talkymum    時間: 08-3-14 19:18

benlee,

我既情況唔同．十多廿年前香港完全無資優教育．當年我的孩子參加的只是一項大學研究計劃．全港只有十多間小學參與．佢地無資優班．只是將資優生集中另外加一d trainings（類似課外活動）．我大的孩子小時很孤僻．佢完全唔和其他孩子玩．佢好聰明．五歲已經打game過哂所有關．可以一個人將一套lego火車砌好．不過．佢一定只要自己做唔俾人其他人參與．一個這樣的孩子將來根本無可能容入社會．佢幼稚園同小學都好清楚佢好聰明．好多謝佢小學位訓導老師對佢特別照顧．如果當時同佢轉校係因為佢資優．唔肯定新的學校會否關顧佢性情．當年大家都未知資優生好多時性格比較特別．小的性格ok.不過唔想分開佢地．亦都無接受轉校．佢地留低的學校雖然無資優教育．不過會安排特別聰明的同學組成一些．e.g.數學．小組去discuss一d比正規課程深入的討論．佢地學校無俾壓力佢地．我覺得ok.
作者: benlee    時間: 08-3-15 23:18

We all have to go on our way by own feet no matter wheather and whatever way we can choose.  Sometimes, people want to be alone and refuse to walk into crowd because they only want to find and join same typed people.  I have already spent too much time on searching my companies, even still today and future as long as I am still alive.Fortunately, we all got greatest mothers to love and be with us beside.  See, we look great!  So do all our kids, is it?  We all know we are mothers' most important persons in this world.  Cheers to our mothers and own since they and we haven't die by heart attack or crazy high blood pressure caused by super advanced monkeys is really a tough work!!!

原文章由 talkymum 於 08-3-14 19:18 發表
benlee,

我既情況唔同．十多廿年前香港完全無資優教育．當年我的孩子參加的只是一項大學研究計劃．全港只有十多間小學參與．佢地無資優班．只是將資優生集中另外加一d trainings（類似課外活動）．我大的孩子小時很孤僻．佢完全唔和其 ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-4-25 08:44

benlee,
finally, we have the result from the New york city, department of health for Amanda's gifted and talented student score report.
Amanda's score is 99% and got the youth scholarship. she can go to the top 3 GAT school in manhattan from this september and free. those schools only accept the GAT score over 97%.
Over 47,000 children attend the exam this year and about 1500 student got over 97%.
Now, we can save the money for school as she got the scholarship. I bet, I will not able to sleep tonight.
her total OLSAT is 99% (otis-lennon school ability test), and BSRA (Bracken school readiness assessment) scores is 97% and the combined rank is 99%.
you are right, I should not "over" estimate her ability.
Now, she needs to go to school in Manhattan and we live in staten island.. I work in Brooklyn and my husband works in New Jersey.. we have to start to think about.. how to send Amanda to school..
Thanks for cheers me up the whole period here.. I am so glad to have a friend like you..
原文章由 benlee 於 08-3-15 10:18 AM 發表
We all have to go on our way by own feet no matter wheather and whatever way we can choose.  Sometimes, people want to be alone and refuse to walk into crowd because they only want to find and join sa ...

[ 本文章最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-24 19:45 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 08-4-25 16:23

Nillie_Mami,

Congratulations to your and Amanda's great work! As I previously told, you should know how well your girl in fact is but it is still a very pleasant surprise to receive your message.   

Hay, do you still remember the Chinese learning material you have once mentioned?  I always want to send the stuff to you but not yet move...  Because I live really very crazy busy everyday.  But in order to celerbrate Amanda's great work, how about I bring them to you in NY probably in late May?  I am now in Beijing (I wouldn't show up if not you and Amanda's greatest work!!!) and got some work in Wall St. in late May.  If you have time to have tea together, you choose the place and I see you (I always and will bring my boy beside) over there.  Or I send the materials to you after getting back HK from Mainland?

Don't worry about the job and future arrangement that soon.  Just enjoy the golden time and have fun right now.  Perhaps, it's the right time for you to consider the second angel...


原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-25 08:44 發表
benlee,
finally, we have the result from the New york city, department of health for Amanda's gifted and talented student score report.
Amanda's score is 99% and got the youth scholarship. she can go  ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-4-25 18:49

benlee,
you will come over to NYC.. is that real??
that will be another big surprise for us.. late in May.. no problem if it is weekend.. is that ok for you?? as I have to work on Monday to Friday.
I will bring Amanda and Gabriel (my second angel   15months old) along with me.. so you can meet them.
you can come and stay with us, free B&B if you don't mind our house is old.. haha, we live in staten island.
or we can go and have cup of tea.. as at Wall's street, I can take the express bus back home.. then I don't need to find a parking lot.
Amanda is learning Mandarin right now, she watches the Kailan Ni Hao from disney channel, and our nanny Ying EE teachs her Mandarin as well..
glad that, she finally interests in it.
原文章由 benlee 於 08-4-25 03:23 AM 發表
Nillie_Mami,

Congratulations to your and Amanda's great work! As I previously told, you should know how well your girl in fact is but it is still a very pleasant surprise to receive your message.   : ...

[ 本文章最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-25 05:51 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 08-4-26 01:51

Nillie_Mami,

Please check PM.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-25 18:49 發表
benlee,
you will come over to NYC.. is that real??
that will be another big surprise for us.. late in May.. no problem if it is weekend.. is that ok for you?? as I have to work on Monday to Friday.
I  ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-4-26 22:21

benlee,
checked already, please check pm as well.. ^O^
原文章由 benlee 於 08-4-25 12:51 PM 發表
Nillie_Mami,

Please check PM.
作者: chanbaby    時間: 08-4-30 13:55

我都好想知點test..去邊度test ?
我囡囡3歲可以test 到嗎 ?
可否pm資料比我..thanks
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-1 08:56

benlee,
thanks for offering, and please book it for us, so Edward and Amanda can have some fun together.
I can't use PM.. I don't know why it said that it doesn't accept PM..
whatever, once your schedule confirm, please let me know..
[email protected]
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-4-26 09:21 AM 發表
benlee,
checked already, please check pm as well.. ^O^
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-1 08:59

chanbaby,
where do you live? in Hong Kong or in US??

原文章由 chanbaby 於 08-4-30 12:55 AM 發表
我都好想知點test..去邊度test ?
我囡囡3歲可以test 到嗎 ?
可否pm資料比我..thanks
作者: NLai    時間: 08-5-1 19:49     標題: 回覆 #32 cadamom 的文章

Nillie_Mami
Yes, If possible, please PM the link of US material for me as well. N Lai
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-2 06:23

N Lai,
PM is not working..
1. this is the link for US gifted child association
http://www.aagc.org/

2. a very easy to read information about gifted.
http://www.education.com/reference/gifted/?cid=65000.0031828242&s_kwcid=TC-8665-1344840423-p-36357081

3.material you can buy from
http://www.thinktonight.com/Infant_to_Pre_K_s/37.htm

4. the one which Amanda interested in
http://www.time4learning.com/gifted/free-assessment.htm

Do you live in US? you can ask your state, the department of education to help you with your child.

原文章由 NLai 於 08-5-1 06:49 AM 發表
Nillie_Mami
Yes, If possible, please PM the link of US material for me as well. N Lai
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-10 06:10

各位身心疲累嘅靚媽咪,
母親節快樂..
別累壞呀!..

Benlee,
Happy Mother's day!
作者: benlee    時間: 08-5-13 06:41

Nillie_Mami,

Thanks...ssss!!!

Just came back last night and still working on mountains work at this moment.  See, I am going to die very soon.

I just realized it was Mother's Day when the officer in Beijing Airport dipolmatic way playing with my boy had told him (I holding him), "You have to be a good boy and listen to mammy especailly today since it is Monther's Day!".  Anyway, Happy Mother's Day to you all too!

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-5-10 06:10 發表
各位身心疲累嘅靚媽咪,
母親節快樂..
別累壞呀!..

Benlee,
Happy Mother's day!
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-14 06:27

benlee,
we can't wait to meet you at end of this month!
原文章由 benlee 於 08-5-12 05:41 PM 發表
Nillie_Mami,

Thanks...ssss!!!

Just came back last night and still working on mountains work at this moment.  See, I am going to die very soon.

I just realized it was Mother's Day when the officer i ...
作者: wynma    時間: 08-5-23 16:35

Dear Benlee,

For your reference, 優才及聖方濟各小學都收了很多資優生呢！




原文章由 benlee 於 07-11-2 13:13 發表
我們有足夠的經濟能力支撑以後的生活，但公司的其他人呢？在某些層面上，人在人情在，若我或一些人死了，便會對整體造成嚴重、甚至不能收復的傷害。當初我們求別人跟我們同路，今日總不能失驚無神話走就走，我疼我的孩子，但他們每一 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-5-24 19:57

Dear Wynma,

Thanks for the information.  Do you know how those schools bring up the gifted children?  Any comment...?  Anyway, I will try to find more information for both.  Many thanks.

原文章由 wynma 於 08-5-23 16:35 發表
Dear Benlee,

For your reference, 優才及聖方濟各小學都收了很多資優生呢！
作者: NLai    時間: 08-5-24 23:42     標題: school for talent

Benlee, when you consider the school for your son, I think you also have to think about their public exam result as well. Of course, many gifted they dont do well in public exam, but most of them are doing well. sorry , just friendly reminder..
Nillie_mami,
Thanks so much for your sharing, I live in HK, but my little monkey study in International school, so I need those relative
doc. in english. I also found that US have lots of support for gifted. I even found that they have summer camp special for gift. I will study more and come back to you later.
作者: NLai    時間: 08-5-25 11:54     標題: summer camp

Dear Nillie_mami,
Do you know any web sit talking about the ranking of US summer camp. Too many choices, and I really have no idea where and which one is good. We are planning to go to US for summer camp this year. may be first week of July.day camp or overnight camp is ok, my monkey are 8 and 10 yr now.
Thanks for helping
Joyce. or e mail me at [email protected]
作者: tongyimtong    時間: 08-5-25 23:10     標題: 是禍不是福

原文章由 BCHK 於 07-9-12 15:43 發表
小兒三歲, 數學,reading,中文及等等已超越同齡三年以上,根本找不到合適的學校,課程和朋輩,請有經驗前輩指教!



資優兒和自閉兒有很多地方相似。其實情願他是正常。我有親戚IQ150以上，最後中學都無畢業。只有很小數資優孩子快樂。事實上，社會上99%以上的成功人士都只是IQ正常而已。
作者: NLai    時間: 08-5-26 15:30     標題: 回覆 #1 tongyimtong 的文章

Agree, 是禍是福. 所以要及早發現及加以輔助. 一D 都吾值得哂. 尤其而家, 本地學校考試壓力大, 對資優兒童及家長都係好困難嘅. 外國好興 homeschooling. 就係針對呢方面ge不足做. 每一个資優ge人, 吾可能all round 資優, 一定有一兩樣叻D, 如畢加索在drawing, 蕭邦在music, 李麗珊在sport. 所以mami 一定要及早注意, 因材施教, 避免孩子去到青少年既時候, 引起更大ge 反叛行為, 甘就真浪費了.
我XX个仔, 細時驗出IQ150, 我都覺得佢超高轉數(我自問都係高轉數人), 但佢呀媽吾知点解係都要佢彈琴 (實情佢日日都打3个鐘basketball), 佢可以睇一次本書就識背, 都已經全校第一架啦. 但佢呀媽ヌ叫Ｄ一般智商ge补習老師同佢补, 越补越差, 而家可能升吾上中四, 点解甘, 呀媽吾識因才施教.
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-5-26 23:21

NLai,
please check PM regarding the summer camp
原文章由 NLai 於 08-5-24 10:54 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_mami,
Do you know any web sit talking about the ranking of US summer camp. Too many choices, and I really have no idea where and which one is good. We are planning to go to US for summer c ...
作者: NLai    時間: 08-5-27 19:13     標題: 回覆 #1 Nillie_Mami 的文章

thanks!
作者: 大老虎    時間: 08-6-4 21:39

作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-20 06:12

you're welcome.. NLai..

原文章由 NLai 於 08-5-27 06:13 AM 發表
thanks!
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-20 06:17

benlee,
today, we went to do the registration for Amanda at the gifted and talented school in Manhattan.
Nest+M....
We don't know if Amanda will like it or not, but if she doesn't fit into it, we will pull her out immediately.
Nest +M is the top 29 high school in US.. they starts from kindergarten.
I wish.. we made the right decision.
Amanda is asking us that will she attend new school soon (as teacher starts teaching her about new school --she is the only one who will leave her old school)

how is the situation in china?
Please take care, as you need to take care of your son as well.
greetings from new york
原文章由 benlee 於 08-5-24 06:57 AM 發表
Dear Wynma,

Thanks for the information.  Do you know how those schools bring up the gifted children?  Any comment...?  Anyway, I will try to find more information for both.  Many thanks.
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-20 15:38

Dear Nillie_Mami,

It's nice to hear that little Amanda got such great achievement!  Don't worry.  I think she will like the new school even also miss the old place and old friends.  Just try to explain to her that we all growing up need to move on to many different places.  And, everybody have to move on.  From kindergarten, primary school, secondary school, high school, university and so on.  She being the only one now moving on is because she is the first qualified one, and, the second and rest will keep doing the same thing later.  We still can be with our dearest friends and all the ones we love and miss, even we no longer stay at the same place to study together.  In the new place, we learn new things and make new friends as well.  Tell her this and I definitely think she can understand.

China now is very busy for redevelopment.  Over 50% of temp. housing building fell into Guangdong's hands (every province got own duty from state council, but since Guangdong is the richest one able to take the majority - it pays quite a large number of HK little construction firms for doing 80% of its job).  For the permanent ones especially the infrastructures, all is politics and all state council related departments everyday trying best to show their respectively capacities want to be awarded at least certain part.  But I can tell that they all will fail because even state council cannot control over any in this dimension.

I personally just care of the people.  How they can recover, rebuild their homes (even state will build the physical ones for them), how they can live on after nearly whole region collapsed in such horrible disacter...???  How the little ones losing parents, being handicapped can grow up and then go on...???  Every time I think about this, the heart is bleeding.  Thanks God that I was told no one building those "tofu" rubbish schools could escape from being shot for guilty after I the same day reading news in TV that hundreds parents and foreign reporters were caught because of shouting for fair to their lost children had asked for why in tears.  I wish I could be one of the troops holding gun pointed at those guys and shoot!!  My seniors said they didn't mind I would use more bullets (perhaps worried I might shoot our own people by error...), but not want my hands getting bloody.  Therefore, some professionals are doing that job now.

The most guilty I got is I being such crazy busy for workng on business haven't got sufficient time to teach and play with my little boy even he is always around.  Having such mother like I is in fact a nightmare.

Anyway, how are you?  Everything going fine.  I wish you are.  Thanks for kindest blessings.  You take care too.

Greetings from HK...

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-20 06:17 發表
benlee,
today, we went to do the registration for Amanda at the gifted and talented school in Manhattan.
Nest+M....
We don't know if Amanda will like it or not, but if she doesn't fit into it, we wil ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-21 08:49

Dear Benlee,
still.. in new york, our chinese community donate money everyday. The radio and chinese newspaper are still working on it everyday.

it was Amanda's graduation today. And surprising us.. she is the first honour student of the year . So, at the end of the ceremony, principle invited me to have a speech in front of all parents and guesses. I thanked the school, in these 3 years, they took good care of Amanda, thanks the teachers who taught her how to study, how to play and also taught her to be a multi lingual girl.. with russian, spanish and english... (at that point, everyone started to laugh).
She is the only one who will leave this school. and from this sunday, we will randomly bring her to the new school.. hope she will get familiar with her new school.
we had a very nice reward certificate, and a graduation certificate. I am going to put them into Amanda's scrapbook. keep them neat and nice.
I almost cried today!

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-20 02:38 AM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

It's nice to hear that little Amanda got such great achievement!  Don't worry.  I think she will like the new school even also miss the old place and old friends.  Just try to expla ...

[ 本文章最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-20 19:51 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-21 11:30

Dear Nillie_Mami,

Thanks for kindness to Sichuan.  I promise that the real final power behind has already realized.  Ridiculously, it always shows only common people got the most beautiful hearts.  Have you realize Mainland China has changed quite a lot in many dimensions since 2 years ago?  Ha, ha...  No one outside including central government knows what the real power really thinks.  It finally has been awaked.  The one sending roughly 150,000s people with medicine and rescue weapons from air, marine forces and armies to save common people 2 hours after earthquake was "them".  Don't worry about Mainland since we will recover very soon.

Congratulations to Amanda's graduation!!  Now, she became a big girl.

I also want to cry...  My boy learnt 9x9 times table by himself within couple days when he was 23 months.  And now, playing times and divided games up to 14x14 by his own.  He played with his little PC toy, learnt and finished Phonics level 2 by himself while I was in my battlefield but physically beside.  I haven't got time to play or teach him, always.  It is not too bad if I can have 2 hours to teach him within 2 weeks.  But he can read those Chinese and English words immediately after seeing, which I taught him once 2 or 3 weeks ago.  In order to fully utilize the very limited time, I normally teach him around 40s - 60s new words at one time...

He got a friend (2 years 9 months, 6 months elder than my boy) in playgroup.  His parents let the little boy attend 6 different playgroups 7 days a week.  Even at their home every day and night, they keep playing CDs of 9x9 times table, poems in Manadrin and English, phonics, different typed flash cards when the little one is awake.  I don't want to comment on their way to bring up this little boy.  But the fact is the boy now can read 90% simple sentences of whole children story book while he still remains at "1" of 9x9 times table after half year.

All parents burn out themselves so as to take care their children.  I do take care of thousands people everyday, but who takes care of my boy????!!!!!  I gave born to him, but what then?!!!  I stop all parties whoever they are coming up for anything during day time and only allow being reached after my boy falls into sleep at night, but there are always "top urgent" businesses...  The one who need I take care of the most should be my boy, but I haven't.

That's why yesterday I said to have a mother like I is a terrible nightmare.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-21 08:49 發表
Dear Benlee,
still.. in new york, our chinese community donate money everyday. The radio and chinese newspaper are still working on it everyday.

it was Amanda's graduation today. And surprising us..  ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-21 19:31

dear benlee,
and that's why your lil one is a gifted from God. Because God knows that you have different roles, different duties at the same time.
I did not let Amanda to explore to 9X9 table..
Then time comes, she will ask me.. same here.. I will not push her to do those thing.. whatever anything she is learning now, is "on her wish". I don't do "non-sense" thing.
if the child does not know what is going on, that is wasting their time, and make thing bored.
Glad to know that thing in china is under control.
Amanda asked me about the earthquake, I just told her about the very general idea.. (I did not mention about the death, because she has fear about it, she will have real night mare, cried and sweat thru the night).
Amanda got her very first bank, and now she is saving her money,and she uses her allowance to buy things she wants. like have Happy meal in Mac Donald with 6 pieces Chichen nuggets cost USD$5.15, she has to save for 2 weeks, or she has to do extra work at home, help out with prepare dishes for dinner, take care of Gabriel, do her laundry. clean the garage.. etc..
Amanda's chinese is really worse.. she is good with russian and spanish.. but chinese.. *sigh*.. we do not have any idea.. She only knows her chinese name, she knows that she is a girl in chinese, she knows 2 nursery rhymes in chinese, she knows that she is 4 years old in chinese.. that's it.
when your lil one turns 3, you can apply the online course from standford university. They have online programs for kids who are gifted, and also, he will have something to learn as he uses computer now. He can take some credit online.
原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-20 10:30 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

Thanks for kindness to Sichuan.  I promise that the real final power behind has already realized.  Ridiculously, it always shows only common people got the most beautiful hearts.  H ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-22 03:26

Dear Nillie_Mami,

Thanks so much for all your kindness...  I shouldn't mention any on Amanda's great day, no much how much I wanted to tell you my story.  Sorry... and many thanks.

Honestly, I also think some parents bringing up their children by very terrible ways although it is the fact for majority HK parents.  They all expect / want to train up their children to be super heros.  I just wish my boy could grow up in love, fortune and luck.  But what I in fact have done on him???  I throwing him by side and then setting thousands rules to force him follow so as to well behave and develop certain most important foundation value concept which should be totally disregarded at his current age, after I realized he could understand all what I had told.  I let him know that we must treasure all we can have now from food, water, toys, clothes and etc. since it is never a must, respect and be polite to everybody even including those whom he doesn't agree with their horrible behaviours (he can't copy or complain but must be able to keep himself all the times under any condition well behave), not attract and never being attracted by the others, stand out and able to protect his friends especially the girls and little ones...  Sometimes, I do query whether I am crazy for doing that.  But, I got no choice since I am too closed to power.  I don't him to go on my old way in future, but I must do something first so as to eliminate all estimated possibilities which might turn my little angel to be a monster.

Do you remember I previously have told that all other people think my boy got the whole world but in fact have lost the most.  I am not able to give him many things even including those nearly all children normally have everyday.  Is it fair...???  It's me creating such situation.  No one force or can force me to stay in battlefield, but I choose this way.  I can't leave those people and my seniors but trade off my boy even he was still in my tummy.  Putting the load on shoulders or letting whole collapse...  It's on my shoulders and will still be there at least in coming decades years.

Perhaps I better stop complaining here.  Otherwise, the negative feelings will spread out and infect you.

I introducing 9x9 times table to my boy was because he had asked me what and how when he had found his little friend got such "interesting thing".  I then introducing 14x14 because I wanted to pick him up after he had showed off how well he after couple days could manage 9x9 by singing "2x1=2, 2x3=6, 2x5=10, 2x7=14, 2x9=18...", "3" normal because I had stopped him, but "4x2=8, 4x4=16, 4x6=24, 4x8=32, 4x10=40...".  Our family doctor asked him why.  He said, "4, 8, 12, 16, 20...".  When he had found we both looking at him, he left words before going to play with baby toys in clinic,"5,10,15,20,25,30..."  But I promise I have ever introduce or mention multiplication before even up to today...  At that time, he was just 24 months.  

Just like he suddenly can read "earthquake" two words in Chinese.  I just told him what had happened when he had asked why I was crying in reading news...  I need to tell him that because he being a boy should be able to grow up strong.  For him, just a nightmare perhaps even I think it is not applicable to girls (fortunately, he didn't make any nightmare in dream).  For too many thousands babies, kids and people, it is their real life.  And, I think I need to well explain why his mother has to work so hard, let him keep losing so much and brings him into battlefield everyday.  I guess...  he understands.

My boy is much richer than his parents since he got too many "red pockets" after born.  I wrote down details about from who, the date, for what reason and where on each red pocket, so that someday he can know everything when he opens and is able to read all those words by himself even some of those seniors leaving blessings to him have passed away.

Tell me what your mail address is by PM and I send you some Chinese cards by carrier if you have interest to see whether they can help Amanda.

What is Standford University online course for gifted children?  What report they need for proving if the child is gifted?  Is HK government health clinic's official report acceptable?  When I need to submit application?  Only after 3?  Would you mind tell me more details?

Anyway, really thanks...sss so much for all kindness!!!  As you previously said, I know why you got gifted angels from The God.  The God got own meaning for doing every single thing to we all.

Have a nice weekend.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-21 19:31 發表
dear benlee,
and that's why your lil one is a gifted from God. Because God knows that you have different roles, different duties at the same time.
I did not let Amanda to explore to 9X9 table..
Then  ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-22 11:45

Dear Benlee,
Have a look with that.. some of Amanda's friend takes it..

http://epgy.stanford.edu/overview/index.html

As Amanda will attend Nest+M, so we did not apply it for her..
They required the IQ test result or evaluation from dept of education.. something like OLSAT will be good. some document can prove that your lil one is gifted, then he will have a test before he attends the program.
He is doing much better than many kids in Grade 4.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-21 02:26 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

Thanks so much for all your kindness...  I shouldn't mention any on Amanda's great day, no much how much I wanted to tell you my story.  Sorry... and many thanks.

Honestly, I also  ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-22 12:32

Dear Nillie_Mami,

Many thanks.  It's a good idea and I now understand why many gifted children go to US.  Honestly, HK is nothing and US is much much more and better even comparing with UK.  I haven't take my boy to have any IQ test because I basically do not have much interest in proving whether he is gifted or finding out the score.  But now, I have change my mind...  If the score can help, then we go to find it out.  Anyway, thanks a lot once, once again.

But sorry, what's the children normally age in Grade 4?

And, you still haven't tell me where I can mail stuff to you.  Any post box??  Or you want I bring those along when we meet in NY later?



原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-22 11:45 發表
Dear Benlee,
Have a look with that.. some of Amanda's friend takes it..

http://epgy.stanford.edu/overview/index.html

As Amanda will attend Nest+M, so we did not apply it for her..
They required the ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-22 22:37

Dear Benlee,
For Grade 4 is about 10 years old.. as 10 years old kid here in US, they learn 9X9 table.

when will you come over to NY?? if not too far from now.. just save the postage..

Bring your child to test and get the score, they need to verify the child .. if he is eligible for the program by "score"...

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-21 11:32 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

Many thanks.  It's a good idea and I now understand why many gifted children go to US.  Honestly, HK is nothing and US is much much more and better even comparing with UK.  I haven' ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-23 00:17

Dear Nillie_Mami,

No, he is not that good.  He just finds "times + divided" and Algebra very interesting and loves to play with numbers and letters.

I think it won't be too long... even though I honestly don't know the exact schedule now especially somebody has called for a "top urgent meeting" and I most probably have to fly to Beijing very soon.  But in order to save my time, I will try to let them fly down rather than I going north.

Thanks for kindest advice.  I'm then better let "the score" help him to get into some interesting places having fun.

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-22 22:37 發表
Dear Benlee,
For Grade 4 is about 10 years old.. as 10 years old kid here in US, they learn 9X9 table.

when will you come over to NY?? if not too far from now.. just save the postage..

Bring your ch ...
作者: NichoB    時間: 08-6-23 21:20     標題: spelling games and Brain quest

Age 2 kids
They can read vocabs and spelling vocabs.
They can count one flower, two pigs, three cows (single & pruals).
They speak full sentences "There is an apple, There are two oranges, there are three tress ........ten pencils."
We should speak in full sentance, then they can learn more quick and understand how to present by himself.

My son talks so long with his reason - use because during two and half.....
We talk an hour every morning and discuss what 's happened on the street, school, home, his pet. and teach him how to explain his feeling such as happy, sad, angry, excited, bored......
If they need something, give me 10 reasons first.
I think age 1 to age 7 kids should learn how to present and express themself in difference kinds of words........

As parents, we may read a picture dictationary and teach them full sentances in speaking.

I love to study US teaching methods, they build up their kids' languges first and then they write  passages to express their thinking easily.  

In HK, even a fresh grad. student cannot present well as a kids.  Teachers  always told their student "shut up", Be quite...." Dont move....."  Age 5-10 kdis are the activest and they are full of energy to explore everythings in the world.

So I will let my kids to lead me what they want to know and I try to find the answer in the liabary if I dont know.  Sometimes, we may borrow a chemistry, physics or history kids story books for them.  Let them find the answer by themself.   All extra knowledges he cannot find at school or home.  So I love to go to liabary most.  May be we missed a lot of  knowledges  in school.  
During Primary one, he studys all past tenses, future tenses and reading a long long stories but he isl no interest on them now.
I teach him 13 x 9 , he teach me 11111234 x 9. so funny and change my questions into harder.  Strange boy!

You dont belived that my son ask me what is the Gama radiation.....?
He borrows radiation books and sciences/energy books for study.  Bascially, we really dont know about them.  We have to study with him now.....  

He want to be an scientist so I search on internet web. Please sugguest some science websites for me!

In international school, all students can describ an ant hole by pictures and passages.  Writing a full story of mammals, wild animals or their imaging stories. Creating a lot of comics or cantoons for expressing thir feeling.  I wish my kids can follow this education and we dont need to dead-memory the history, chinese composition, dictation.....

This morning, we made some space shuttles, space engineers with some disposal tissue boxes, bottles, files, made-up containers and some plastics and alluminium papers.  It so funs and we can play together.  

I like Brain Quest :
e.g. 1.find the product of 3x3x3x3?  
2.Is the amount of liquid a container can hold called its capacity, its mass or its velocity?
3. There were 1200 ants in the anthill. An anteater ate 400 of them. How many are left?

You must buy these MATHS QUESTION CARDS for your kids.  It contains 1000 questions.

I like spelling games too, e.g:
plaple = apple
ananab = ?
phantele =?
anpleerao=?
ours=?
eetws=?
lef =?
incepress=?
ohp =?
ppahy=?
I have made 1000 spelling games for my son for dictation use.  It is useful than replete writing.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-23 00:17 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

No, he is not that good.  He just finds "times + divided" and Algebra very interesting and loves to play with numbers and letters.

I think it won't be too long... even though I hon ...
作者: NichoB    時間: 08-6-23 21:30     標題: Read the whole books including the writer's name

Let's study the name of publish company, name of writer, which are belong to  class J(reference books) and which are belong to sciences class.  Details describing is very important for youth kids.  They should know why the earth move around the sun and they should know why the food can go though our stomach and intestine.......then becomes shit........Why do we need drink water?  What is ameba......insects...during age 3-6

Let's go to the e-libary for searching now/.
If you have some good websites, please share..

http://www.abc.net.au/science/
http://www.akc.org/

http://www.aaaspell.com/vocabulary.htm#one
原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-23 00:17 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

No, he is not that good.  He just finds "times + divided" and Algebra very interesting and loves to play with numbers and letters.

I think it won't be too long... even though I hon ...
作者: NichoB    時間: 08-6-23 21:37     標題: kids web learning

In 2008, most of kids are study on websites. no need to bring books, it is so bored on the task books.

Let's go to find more useful web sites for study and learning. Now all kids are study faster then before.  Quick learners and they go so fast.  The HK old sysliblas are not suitable for them.  Dont start from abc in primary. It should start writing strories and create formulars now...Designs new objects on computers......

We should throw away the old methods.  Be smart all the times.  Imaging 30 years later, we all are in space travel or living in a new centrys.

No more polluted air and highest gold / gas/oil  price.




原文章由 gitmee 於 07-10-10 16:46 發表
讀過蘇博士的文章，想你必定知道她的育兒秘訣就在於那本人生的手冊。你的孩子固然特別，但其實沒有一個孩子不是特別的，因為上帝在每一個人身上都有祂獨特的計劃，你能照著人生的手冊去做和教養你的孩子，上帝定會賜福給你們。 ...
作者: NLai    時間: 08-6-23 22:45     標題: 回覆 #1 NichoB 的文章

Because the kids run fast today, so all moms have to hurry up! We also have to learn harder! Cheers!
My daughter schools give them some web to go: educationcity.com, time for learning. I some kind of education web site. Is fun, highly recommand by IS teachers! Let goes and play/study!
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-24 06:19

brain quest is a very common one.
Amanda is 4 with no problem to finish the 5-6years old one.. we may have to get the 6-7years old next week from costco.. very cheap.
spelling game is good..also. we let Amanda to find the letters from puzzle.
hum.. if kids growth up in hk, they certainly should be fluent in Cantonese. English for them is just a second language.
so, I did not expect that Amanda can express herself in complete sentence in Cantonese. I don't wanna scare her and she will lose the interest in our mother tongue.
therefore, benlee may bring us some chinese material from hk when she comes over to NY next time.
Good to know that you are very well known with US educational material, you may even give me some hints to guide Amanda.

原文章由 NichoB 於 08-6-23 08:20 AM 發表
Age 2 kids
They can read vocabs and spelling vocabs.
They can count one flower, two pigs, three cows (single & pruals).
They speak full sentences "There is an apple, There are two oranges, there are t ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-25 04:13

Dear NichoB,

Thanks for sharing.  

Firstly, I wish you could understand that I from start till end got no intention to show off how well my boy and we are.  I think I am just like one of you at early 30s got a lovely but headached little angel(s) and want to find some kindest friends who are willing to share the similar experience / nightmare here.

My boy could read simple single words and vocabs from picture dictionary by his own after I just had introduced once at 10 months.  One year old's conservation was in combination of couple full sentences.  I had taught him about the structure of eyes from an cyclopaedia (for secondary science students), he immediately learnt by himself how to control eyes' muscle to close and open his eyes.  I didn't know how scary he did because he is my only child.  But he at 13 months really did scare both HK government clinic's and our family doctors very much.  And now, is too long description from causes, progress, result and his own "comments" towards whole matter (but telling mom and dad only since he tends to only speak to the ones he loves).

I don't know how to well bring up the little one as the best and qualified mother as you all or know nothing about where I can go to seek for professional assistance.

I never doubt how good of each little life form since all lives are orginally the big big gift from God.  Not just human.  I don't think human lives we meaning more.  Why people or I need to query whether your son had asked about Gama radiation?  They are all the best to the mothers even though we respectively got different expectations and blessings to them.

I don't know where we can find science websites.  I have read one of your previous message about building space and robot university in HK.  With my own very limited knowledge and working position, I can try to give some advices as below.
1. If you do think it is forever impossible to build NASA in HK, why you think HK government will waste money on never valid industry development?  Not saying space matter, but just the highest technology such as aircraft design / manufacturing, and IC design...  Comparing with space and robot, those industries are much more down to the earth.  But we got nothing here in HK.  Do you know why?
2.  If you can send your children go to study in US, then it will be a chance for them to get into NASA, but never Mainland China.  Do you know who controls over whole space matter and development in Mainland?  Even the best people, they can never touch the surrounding if they couldn't have certain element.  In China, they must have something AND being the best.  It is never the dream for common people.  Very sorry to upset you but just want to tell the fact.

I personally think letting children to study freely what they find interesting is parents' job.  Why we need to care about whether our children can earn for living by those studies in future someday?  Why we cannot bring them up to be all rounded people with fruitful life?  Life is too short to expect or calculate too much.  If you find today is a happy day, you already got your bonus for living.  Trust your children and they will find their own best way to well go on.   If your boy someday becoming the best still insists to be astronaut, you can come to I and I perhaps can give him a pair wings if I am still alive.  

Thanks for your kindest suggestions for Brain Quest and spelling games, but my boy is too far away being that smart to play with those games now.  Perhaps someday.

Anyway, thanks so much for kindest advice and sharing again.  Nice to meet you.



原文章由 NichoB 於 08-6-23 21:20 發表
Age 2 kids
They can read vocabs and spelling vocabs.
They can count one flower, two pigs, three cows (single & pruals).
They speak full sentences "There is an apple, There are two oranges, there are t ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-26 19:36

Dear Benlee,
believe that.. if you really love your son, and you feel exhausted and hopeless.. that means.. you really care!
therefore, we have a small spot here.. for us to tell our stories and let us to learn from others.
I am glad that.. beside I read all other moms message.. watching how good they handle their child.. and some moms will also tell that they have the same problem as I am experiencing right now..(I was a child care worker before I become a nurse).. I bet, you can feel how hopeless and sad I am..and I even feel ashame of myself.. that I don't know how to help Amanda at all.. especially in a new country and an education system which I don't familiar with.
I don't believe that you are showing off here. You don't need to..
somehow, in our own position, we can not express our feeling freely.. people are rely on us. for me.. people are asking my advice for caring their family.. how I can tell them that I can't even handle my lil girl..?
there is something call能醫不自醫.
cheers.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-24 03:13 PM 發表
Dear NichoB,

Thanks for sharing.  

Firstly, I wish you could understand that I from start till end got no intention to show off how well my boy and we are.  I think I am just like one of you at earl ...

[ 本文章最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-26 06:38 編輯 ]
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-27 02:36

Dear Nillie_Mami,

At the time I should well take care of my baby as a mother, I was in fact in battlefield instead.  I find I am a very terrible mom.  At the time I find all mothers well take care of their children by all means all the times, I find I am the worset.  It's never your fault to have limitation or sometimes don't know how to solve certain problems since you have already tried all your best to be the best mom and you always are.  But my problem is leaving my boy by side but working / taking care of the others.  I have ever blame why I need to keep working for 23 hours or even more everyday so long but why I cannot be a good mother or choose my own life.  

You don't need to be upset.  We are all human and got own limitation.  Try to think about the whole matter from different angles.  You are now in US, a well developed country with the most well developed education system, professionals and support to help parents and children in nearly all dimensions.  You are breathing in free fresh air everyday and basically not necessary to worry whether whole education system structure will be suddenly "upgraded" by any political move.  You are well educated and professional.  People coming over to seek for your kindest assistance but not you begging around for sympathy.  Your angels are gifted and you need to think about how to run faster than their crazy burning and rapid development in order to guide them way ahead.  Unlike the poor little ones being handicapped inborn, without parents or need to struggle against for physical survivals in generation by generation poorness immediately after born.  

I got terrible crazy life and couldn't go on the way I want to go.  I have realized those so-called liabilities when I was still very very young, fought and resisted once by turning my head over 6 years from my original world, kicked back the ball to my seniors used to be in battlefield already for decades years...  but then, got back and picked those all on my two shoulders.  Because I learning how to say thanks to what I can have and can choose but not to long for what I never can have, finally know we are the ones with luck and fortune.  But how about the others...

If I can help, I will but only for the ones worth of since I only have very limited time.  Just as you, you don't need to keep yourself all the times crazy busy for helping others.  It is not the issue of whether we are selfish, but to be fair for our children and family even you might ever concern your own position.

What's your problem for bringing up Amanda?  She and you both are doing so great!  NY...  If you need assistance to help Amanda's Chinese/ Mandarin or some other areas, I perhaps can help you reach / join certain Chinese associations in NY.  All those Chineses are the best scholars, scientists, professionals, professors and top students in many top US universities such as Princeton, MIT and Stanford.  Those societies are very difficult to get into be the one, but very closed to each others.  Some of them speak in Cantonese while some of course in Mandarin.  It is not my area but I can help you to have the contact if you need.  Wish you won't feel you were alone again.

Let me know what I can help.

Be happy and have a nice weekend with lots of smiles.



原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-26 19:36 發表
Dear Benlee,
believe that.. if you really love your son, and you feel exhausted and hopeless.. that means.. you really care!
therefore, we have a small spot here.. for us to tell our stories and let u ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-27 05:24

Dear benlee..
唔同嘅人一生出嚟就要肩負唔同嘅使命.. 而你嘅責任感好强, so, 冇可奈何下,為工作, 而忽略咗仔仔, 你覺得你仔仔係變成犧牲品. 你有幾"up".. 我心領神會... 你唔好自責..
你仔仔都知Dada, mama 好忙, so, 佢好乖咁, 靜靜留喺你身邊, 你哋飛去邊, 佢都喺你身邊, so當你衝鋒陷陣時, 唔駛分心呢.. 所以佢係一個gifted.. 上天知你嘅難處, 所以賜與你一個gifted child.

待Amanda大一啲.. 我哋可能要請教你呢! 我中文唔好.. 因為根基唔好.. 老公係黃皮白芯.. 但我哋都盡力教佢呢..


原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-26 01:36 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

At the time I should well take care of my baby as a mother, I was in fact in battlefield instead.  I find I am a very terrible mom.  At the time I find all mothers well take care of ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-27 17:21

Dear Nillie_Mami,

不是有責任感，只是盡力而為。對於自己的孩子，只有愈來愈多的內疚。他不是乖，倒是明白我正在做什麼。試想像，六個國務院官員(其中兩個還屬元老級)、兩個歐洲跨國銀行企業全球最高的行政總裁和他的執行官、雙方各一翻譯，再加我們一家三口，一起吃 "政治飯"；但我那淘氣娃兒，在大人們仍在說的時候已經將自己整 "巢"(用芋絲做成巢形盛載)的北京烤鴨幹掉，還要吵着繼續吃。爸爸制止不了他呱呱吵，我只好將身由向左轉右的教仔 - 打他小手手、罰他面壁思過。至於其他人，仍然時運高的繼續 "開會"。若在家，當他一知道自己犯錯惹媽媽發怒，肯定即刻 "扮乖巧"的道歉、撤嬌...  所以，他一定知道自己在哪、媽媽正在做什麼。他不是乖，只是很懂得抓緊時機跟媽媽討價還價。在那種場合，如果我不好好教導他，他將會變成什麼樣子？我不管什麼特權，要教仔的時候我便會去教仔。

唉...

無論如何，多謝你的安慰。如果有什麼是我可幫得上的，可以隨時告訴我。希望，也有我可以幫忙的地方。

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-27 05:24 發表
Dear benlee..
唔同嘅人一生出嚟就要肩負唔同嘅使命.. 而你嘅責任感好强, so, 冇可奈何下,為工作, 而忽略咗仔仔, 你覺得你仔仔係變成犧牲品. 你有幾"up".. 我心領神會... 你唔好自責..
你仔仔都知Dada, mama 好忙, ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-28 08:54

Dear Benlee,
小B: 媽咪, 你記住--討價還價係資優小B嘅強項, 第日我讀banking, business, marketing一定用得着
原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-27 04:21 AM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

不是有責任感，只是盡力而為。對於自己的孩子，只有愈來愈多的內疚。他不是乖，倒是明白我正在做什麼。試想像，六個國務院官員(其中兩個還屬元老級)、兩個歐洲跨國銀行企業全球最高的行政總裁和他的執行 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-28 16:01

Dear Nillie_Mami,

媽豬：B豬，做個開心快活人、可以隨心而行，比得到更多的利益、名譽、地位、權力、甚至全世界要有福氣。你不要做什麼了不起的"成功人士"或"偉人"，只要快快樂樂、精精彩彩的在這數十年旅程上好好玩一場。媽媽可以肯定的告訴你，你最後需要和可帶走的，只有一種叫做"愛"的東西。

Amanda小天使: 媽咪，我不止聰明，還懂得自己解决問題，或者，你告訴我什麼事令你苦惱，我倆一起研究研究，好不？如果還是不足夠，不如再加上爸爸和細佬；一起研究必定很好玩！

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-28 08:54 發表
Dear Benlee,
小B: 媽咪, 你記住--討價還價係資優小B嘅強項, 第日我讀banking, business, marketing一定用得着
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-6-28 19:50

Dear Benlee,

小魔女Amanda : Benlee 姨姨, heehee我更愛3秒1問, 精神abuse 傻媽! 我至愛整古笨頭細佬 .. 我都有"情夫"that is my dad.. 我要同傻媽爭過..yeah!!!
我都唔知乜嘢叫做"憂sau".. 傻媽同情夫爸爸唔會俾我認識呢2個字.. 我知傻媽會保護我.. 我知叔叔, 姑姐, 姑媽, 伯娘.. 個個睇傻媽唔順眼, 我會避開佢哋, 等佢哋hurt 唔到我同笨頭細佬.. 傻媽會開心啲, 呢幾年, 因為我同笨頭細佬, 傻媽被迫留喺美國住.. 佢已經好憂鬱..

小魔女Amanda: B豬.. 記住要開心過每一日, 要活得精彩! 叫daddy, 媬姆姨姨多啲同你影相, 拍video.. 我傻媽個個月都幫我整1-2版scrapbook, 留底我啲腳毛同手掌紋... 第時睇返, 可以得啖笑

傻媽: 媽豬, 你個dream.. 好難achieve 喎! 有冇啲short term goal 呀!!
原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-28 03:01 AM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

媽豬：B豬，做個開心快活人、可以隨心而行，比得到更多的利益、名譽、地位、權力、甚至全世界要有福氣。你不要做什麼了不起的"成功人士"或"偉人"，只要快快樂樂、精精彩彩的在這數十年旅程上好好玩一場。 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-6-30 01:41

Dear Nillie_Mami,

B豬：Amanda姐姐，我也非常喜歡每事不停問九百多遍、再給意見九百多種！Nillie 姨姨，媽豬告訴我，"知足常樂、平凡是福"，可以得到一切物質、權力的高高在上，不一定是個開心快活人，身無長物、兩袖清風，卻可能會是個事事無憂的有福人。每個人心中也有一把尺，量度自己、量度別人，如果太在乎別人，便會失去了自己。我又沒欺負別人，如果別人欺負我，我一定會去反擊再加上"利息"，我知道媽豬每次也在看，我看到她遠遠的望着我微笑、媽媽讚我乖！Amanda姐姐，你知否為何有人不喜歡你的寶貝媽媽？Nillie姨姨有給你和弟弟說過"狐狸和葡萄"的故事嗎？因為姨姨比誰都出色、比誰都强，那些下三流貨式自然心裡不舒服、作出一些滋擾的動作。你說，除了這些滋擾，他們實際上又可以做什麼？如果你和Nillie姨姨會因此而介意、不快樂，那不就是已上當？即使要吃虧、上當，只能在大事大非上、與最優秀的敵人對打時，只能因自己技不如人才在迫不得以下摔一下跤；居高臨下、傲視大地一切的雄鷹，為什麼要在乎那些根本不會飛、吃畢主人擱在盤中飼料後只會不住"咯咯"吵叫的肥雞？Nillie姨姨，我一出生便只由媽豬一人照顧長大，我有很多很多帶着槍站崗的叔叔(有極少數是姨姨)24小時保護我，但B豬沒有任何媬姆姨姨，因為媽媽和我們不能被任何人隨便靠近...  不過，媽豬每天也有為我拍照呢！我知道相片中全是我自己，我真的長大得很快呀。

媽豬：儍媽，你估如果有人知道明天是自己生命的最後一日，那他/她會在剩下的時間做些什麼？那是否只是一個夢，只在乎每一個人的心態；但，我們常常以為自己可以擁有無限的時間而不停將該立刻做的事擱下。如果你們有一日决定要回到中國人的地方，不如搬到我們附近，大家一起玩好不？

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-6-28 19:50 發表
Dear Benlee,

小魔女Amanda : Benlee 姨姨, heehee我更愛3秒1問, 精神abuse 傻媽! 我至愛整古笨頭細佬 .. 我都有"情夫"that is my dad.. 我要同傻媽爭過..yeah!!!
我都唔知乜嘢叫做"憂sau"..  ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-7-1 08:26

B豬&豬媽: 儍媽感受到你哋生活嘅壓力與無奈.. 而傻媽嘅壓力來自為2餐1宿, 為口奔馳.. 真係好唔同呀!
儍媽俾VP, 今日升咗做asian nurse recruiter. 半年至一年左右要來回飛HK, 北京同NEW YORK, 請chinese nurses.
到時都唔知小魔女同笨頭細佬點算, 我仲餵緊人奶呢..咁笨頭細佬會IQ 高啲!但到時可能要介奶咯!
爬上去(MANAGEMENT)原來好累呢..

原文章由 benlee 於 08-6-29 12:41 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

B豬：Amanda姐姐，我也非常喜歡每事不停問九百多遍、再給意見九百多種！Nillie 姨姨，媽豬告訴我，"知足常樂、平凡是福"，可以得到一切物質、權力的高高在上，不一定是個開心快活人，身無長物、兩袖清風，卻可能會 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-2 23:39

Dear Nillie_Mami,

恭喜恭喜，資優B媽果然每個也不簡單！！又一次驗證了優生遺傳學！不過有點不明白，為什麼要到當地親自interview呢？現在video conferencing的技術如此成熟，又不是兩個機構談百億以上的生意，何必要浪費不必要的人力物力和時間？希望，不又是office politics罷。香港的官場我從不理會，但在北京，如果你希望中央政府可以為你輔排重點大學、醫院最優秀的學生、護士好讓你較容易選出適當的人，這個我可以辦到。

小B多大？我也是餵B豬人奶至他16個月，不過當初的理由是多些抗體身體會健康些。不用這麼早便擔心戒奶的事，時間尚早呢，到時一切已改變也說不定，是不？

要爬上頂，當然要付出極大的代價；你會覺得累，似乎，你也在猶疑要付上、犧牲的是否划得來。我只能說，每一個人都有至少一個選擇，在决定最後怎麼走之前，不如反問自己最在乎的到低會是什麼，那麼才可以將自己日後後悔的機會率減至最低。

B豬從來沒有生活的壓力，反正，他一出生便是這樣，因生長環境畸型，早已是變成另類B。所以，他自己和他的父母根本不可能有要他向上爬成什麼 "成功人士"的想法。我只知道，愈是聰明愈是希望早走早着的離開這世界，他比他媽豬幸福，因為我說過，他要自己高飛的時候，我一定會幫他離開、讓他不揹負任何包袱自由自在的飛翔。

我的情况不同，我捨不得扔下我的長輩和他們的希望。於是，我用我的生命和時間，作為他們的延續。他們每一個，都是歷史上已留名的偉人，我常跟他們哭笑不得的說着笑：我就是那隻揹負總和包袱的大海龜，被壓得快死。他們總說風涼話，說大海那麼大，一定死不了。唉，正如我之前說的，我覺得他們和他們的夢比我自己重要，所以又死死地氣的繼續做大烏龜。

你知道嗎，可以為兩餐一宿而忙、可以簡簡單單的生活，本來就是一種天大的福氣，至少，你是為自己而活着。

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-7-1 08:26 發表
B豬&豬媽: 儍媽感受到你哋生活嘅壓力與無奈.. 而傻媽嘅壓力來自為2餐1宿, 為口奔馳.. 真係好唔同呀!
儍媽俾VP, 今日升咗做asian nurse recruiter. 半年至一年左右要來回飛HK, 北京同NEW YORK, 請chinese nurses.
...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-7-3 07:11

Dear Benlee,
我知道, 是時侯要向上爬.. 因為畢竟已經唔再年青..
眼見紐約唐人"種(同音)"多, 但太少唐人護士.. 公司唯有出始下策.
我要請一批流利英語嘅中國護士, 會廣東話, 台山話更佳..但太難..
我地會set up center 喺北京同香港, provide 2年英文training, 幫佢哋温習,考美國RN牌,再攪綠卡..  
又要廣告, job fair.. 我一個頭2個大呢!
護士呢行要見真人, 睇佢指甲長唔長, 頭髮點(saw), 有冇"un"腳.. 好多嘢要in person interview至睇得清楚. 個RN係為green card only, landing 之後會resign or 真係會留喺喥做3年.. 一interview 就知!
anyway, 我哋要build center in peking, 可能要中國批文.. Do we?
HK我知只係駐冊就ok... china.. I got no idea..
笨頭細佬(雞脾--Gabriel) 18months la.. 佢inborn 有好多medical problem-軟喉症, asp. pneumonia 都試過, ferbric seizure 又試過, CPR 又試過.. 佢條命仔好薄但好堅"un". the main reason continue skin to skin 係因為peds 話乳牛媽媽奶保住佢條命.. 話high IQ, 只係傻媽想自己個心好過啲
B豬都會努力呢.. 佢會幫daddy mommy 帶嚟歡樂..
小魔女同笨頭細佬都努力開心哋活著
傻媽想清楚.. as我已行出呢1步, 我會努力..
豬媽: 多謝你叫我諗清楚!更慶幸我哋都活著! 而且有呢個forum 去交流.. 工作累, 但有人支持係好重要!
今日我有2個中國護士interview, pretty well. 我唔會守株待兔, 我鐘意主動揾好質數嘅nurse.
next year 如果我要上北京找人選, 請為我引引路, at least 我唔會處處"pong"壁.

原文章由 benlee 於 08-7-2 10:39 AM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

恭喜恭喜，資優B媽果然每個也不簡單！！又一次驗證了優生遺傳學！不過有點不明白，為什麼要到當地親自interview呢？現在video conferencing的技術如此成熟，又不是兩個機構談百億以上的生意，何必要浪費不必要的 ...
作者: Ewongmum    時間: 08-7-3 15:22

原文章由 benlee 於 07-10-10 00:19 發表
我在家已用百科全書和中學生的字典教孩子，他從上廁除褲穿褲、洗手抹手至刷牙洗臉，都是自己做的。雖然長輩均希望我的孩子將來會接手由我控制的生意，但我沒有望子成龍的包袱，作為一個平凡的母親，只是簡單的希望他會在愛中幸 ...



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作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-3 16:36

Dear Nillie_Mami,

畢竟，我不能否定來自同輩的壓力，何況，偶爾顯示實力令自己感覺良好，也不失為漫漫長人生中的刨冰。想清楚就要努力加油，即使將來遇上什麼苦，也要咬實牙關衝過去，因為這是唯一可直達最終目的地的方法。不過，我也會一邊做一邊叫苦，好等我的長輩疼我多一點...  哈哈，這方法相當有效，你也試試吧。

我不知道在中國 / 北京設護士招聘、訓練中心有什麼手續，但以你目前資料看來，我暫時看不到北京政府會不批准的原因。要懂流利英語，另加廣東話和/或台山話，我想那便需要中央和地方政府的幫忙。坦白說，如果是普通人走入中國要做到這，肯定是開玩笑，他們不是打算做寃大頭花上天文數字的錢，就是白花一大場功夫、時間顧了一些錯誤、幫倒忙又令人生氣的東西。中國，是個在各方面都很複雜的地方，這也是西方各龐大跨國企業直至今日仍無一能在中國成功生存的原因。

因為我們是朋友，而且，我說過會幫忙，所以，我會派人幫你順利完成工作，你只需在之前盡早告知我有關資料，在你抵京後有關單位自然會派人幫你；放心，你不會碰壁的。但你公司的其他同事若也希望有同一網絡的聯系，請恕我無能為力。希望你會明白，能跟我直接聯絡的人從來不多，我也不喜歡跟人打交道。

每個生命，總有各自的意義。如果相信造物主公平，Gabriel只不過是屬於先苦後甜而已。生活最精彩的地方，就是不停變化而無法預計。先別那麼早便氣餒，禮物、驚喜可在後面呢。

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-7-3 07:11 發表
Dear Benlee,
我知道, 是時侯要向上爬.. 因為畢竟已經唔再年青..
眼見紐約唐人"種(同音)"多, 但太少唐人護士.. 公司唯有出始下策.
我要請一批流利英語嘅中國護士, 會廣東話, 台山話更佳..但太難..
我地會set up cent ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-7-4 19:45

Dear Benlee,
我喺屋企係三個孩子,中間嗰個, 上有大哥下有細妹.. 可以想像, 我嘅童年係"被忽略"當中長大... 你亦可以猜到一二.. 何以我係child care worker又係RN.. 因為我唔想小朋友同病人俾其他人忽略..嗰種狐單嘅感覺好淒涼.. 就算我而家呻工作辛苦, 我媽咪只會罵我自討苦吃, 有小奶奶唔做, 硬要分手並嫁去美國, 冇人冇物.
看了你嘅message here.. 我對肥bear 老公說我的shoulder好痛, 晚上好累, 但睡不酣.. 佢睇諒地幫我massage shoulder 和小腿.. 噚晚睡得好一些
首先謝謝你嘅大力支持(我).. 我哋已在做proposal 當中. 我哋有自已嘅immigration team, 同所有人手, 我哋會做好一切, then 會同CEO 開會. 公司嘅partnership 係international recruitment. 但佢吔只可以去到india, 印尼, 菲律賓等地... 中國等地.. 佢哋有如老鼠拉龜, 無從入手. therefore, VP 會俾我上位 (我好珍惜呢)
香港方面, 我會找哥哥幫手...
VP 同recruitment director都估計.. 明年便要去中國一次!
我好疼Gabriel.. 因為有所"規"欠... feel so guilty.. so, 我去邊都會帶佢喺身邊
原文章由 benlee 於 08-7-3 03:36 AM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

畢竟，我不能否定來自同輩的壓力，何況，偶爾顯示實力令自己感覺良好，也不失為漫漫長人生中的刨冰。想清楚就要努力加油，即使將來遇上什麼苦，也要咬實牙關衝過去，因為這是唯一可直達最終目的地的方法。不過， ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-5 01:30

Dear Nillie_Mami,

哈哈，最聰明的女人總會知道什麼時候適宜當弱者、讓其他人心疼你、為你分擔肩上的包袱。

別太在意你不能選擇的人，因他們末必一定會因血緣或甚親戚關係必然在乎你的哭笑，那些無可奈何的關係委實太薄弱。如果能明白，我們仍有選擇伴侶、同伴的權利、機會，珍惜所有也珍惜我們的人，已經是我們活著最大的福氣和幸福。你很幸福呀，選對了一個可以隨時依靠的有力肩膀，另加負責按摩的雙手！幸福的生活，是現在口袋裡有錢？那麼，誰能保證誰會富有一輩子而不變？至少，你在證明那肩膀、那手臂到老到病仍可讓你緊靠，是不？

好呀，帶小Gabriel到中國走走(不如也一併帶上Amanda以方便姐姐"幫忙照顧弟弟")，他(們)一定會覺得很好玩，你也少點擔心、少點內疚。不用謝，我只不過是在我的勢力範圍內，派人去幫你順利完成工作罷。準備好資料再通知我。祝你展翅高飛！

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-7-4 19:45 發表
Dear Benlee,
我喺屋企係三個孩子,中間嗰個, 上有大哥下有細妹.. 可以想像, 我嘅童年係"被忽略"當中長大... 你亦可以猜到一二.. 何以我係child care worker又係RN.. 因為我唔想小朋友同病人俾其他人忽略..嗰種狐單嘅 ...
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-7-7 06:47

Dear Benlee.
儍媽,儍爸,笨頭細佬同小魔女今日去揀到琴喇.. 校長要Amanda買琴, 我哋揀咗2手嘅Kawai 俾Amanda.. 咁又唔見咗儍媽半個月薪水囉.. Amanda一見個琴好開心, 係佢ideal 嘅model, 啡色upright, 音色仲好好.. 佢好乖,從來練琴自己來.. 唔駛人叫,自動自覺.
校長話9月start特訓, 出年spring考1級.. 希望唔會嚇親佢..我叫校長要慢慢嚟..但校長話教得慢小魔女會bored. 同lost interest..
B豬鐘意樂器嗎? 校長話gifted child 最好3歲開始學樂器呢.

Benlee.. 你好厲害啊!.. 作為掌上明珠, 竟然明白我嘅心結,仲識得開解我呢..好感激你..

原文章由 benlee 於 08-7-4 12:30 PM 發表
Dear Nillie_Mami,

哈哈，最聰明的女人總會知道什麼時候適宜當弱者、讓其他人心疼你、為你分擔肩上的包袱。

別太在意你不能選擇的人，因他們末必一定會因血緣或甚親戚關係必然在乎你的哭笑，那些無可奈何的關係委實太薄 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-7 23:35

Dear Nillie_Mami,

在香港，你幾乎不可能找到願意教四歲以下孩子鋼琴的好老師。B豬自一歲會行會走以後，每次經過Tom Lee便自動走進去"彈琴琴"。對才剛一歲的孩子，鋼琴太大了，所以我教他吹口琴，他一學便會，呼氣、吸氣完全不帶口水做得比他爸爸好太多。但他最喜歡的還是鋼琴，後來再加上結他、鼓等。幸好，不久前我有一好朋友告訴我可以到一琴行走走，所以，我會帶B豬到那裡嘗試正式的上鋼琴課，看看他是否真的如此喜歡學琴。如果，他也會喜歡音樂，我想，他應該會長大成溫柔的人。無論是什麼樂器、喜歡音樂的人該會是不錯的人，Amanda一定是個斯文善良的天使。

我不是什麼掌上明珠，只是在惡人谷長大、走出來的人。因為身邊沒一正常人，因為我每次的問題總是會牽涉太多的人，我自小習慣從別人的眼、心去看世界，所以也有一樣的感歎。你要好好加油，生存下去雖不容易，但總有快樂的時候。如果能習慣只在意疼惜我們的人，我們的快樂會多許多。

原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-7-7 06:47 發表
Dear Benlee.
儍媽,儍爸,笨頭細佬同小魔女今日去揀到琴喇.. 校長要Amanda買琴, 我哋揀咗2手嘅Kawai 俾Amanda.. 咁又唔見咗儍媽半個月薪水囉.. Amanda一見個琴好開心, 係佢ideal 嘅model, 啡色upright, 音色仲好好..  ...
作者: Tung_Tung(mama)    時間: 08-7-8 16:52     標題: benlee好像講大话

benlee好像講大话.
作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-8 23:03

隨便你怎樣說。如果我是你，我會很害怕，因為我一句說話便會知道你在哪裡、是什麼人。你不用擔心，在這，我跟你們一樣，只不過是一個平凡的母親，你就當作我"吹牛"好了，反正我又不是跟你說、跟你認識。我只能私人給些多餘的忠告，別再企圖跟中共中央、共產黨開玩笑，沒任何人能划得來。否則後果自負。

會否奇怪為什麼如此普通、不起眼的topic每天都有如此高visit frequency？因為雖然我只在這短暫出現，負責我安全的人都在監視。我永遠的在忙，不過如你有興趣知道真偽，我會在12小時內派人站在你門口邀請你過來開開眼界，放心，那些都是有名有姓駐守香港石崗的軍官，如果你在海外，他們到你面前所花的時間差不多，只是抵我面前稍長罷。

Nillie_Mami, 很高興跟你在這閒聊，你email給我吧。我們世界有我們的法則，我可以肆無忌憚的告訴你任何事，但不可能救每個莫名其妙撞入來說錯了什麼的人，在中國，以言入罪可以是死囚，"是但擘一條罪"就行。他們幹什麼，我不會理會，所以，我最好回到原來的世界。

原文章由 Tung_Tung(mama) 於 08-7-8 16:52 發表
benlee好像講大话.
作者: Nillie_Mami    時間: 08-7-9 07:00

Dear Benlee,
對不起, 給你添太多麻煩, 係我太無知就真.. 我哋還是email each other 算罷..
email -- 他們亦要check 的嗎??
人怎可以冇朋友呢!
原文章由 benlee 於 08-7-8 10:03 AM 發表
隨便你怎樣說。如果我是你，我會很害怕，因為我一句說話便會知道你在哪裡、是什麼人。你不用擔心，在這，我跟你們一樣，只不過是一個平凡的母親，你就當作我"吹牛"好了，反正我又不是跟你說、跟你認識。我只能私人給些多餘的忠告，別 ...
作者: benlee    時間: 08-7-11 00:34

Dear Ewongmum,

Before going, I especially come to say thanks a lot for your kindest information.  I should come earlier...  Sorry but many many thanks.

I will try to make appointment with Mr. Chan so as to seek for professional advice after getting back from business trip.  Anyway, thanks so much for all your kindness once again!

As Nillie_Mami always says, it's so nice to meet so many nice, helpful, friendly and great moms as you here.  Nice to meet you!

Have anice weekend.

原文章由 Ewongmum 於 08-7-3 15:22 發表



Go to this website have a look:

http://geniusout.com.hk/big5/web.php

Call and talk to Mr. Chan who is experienced with gifted children and who has 3 children who are gifted.

It is not as bad as ...




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